Invictum:
I am interested in meeting a decent Abuja-based lady of between 28 and 32 years for a serious, fulfilling, and long-term relationship.

She should be intelligent, ambitious, career-minded, working class and Christian (not Catholic). Must be a graduate, should be slim, 5.5 ft. – 5.8 ft. tall. Must be Abuja-based. Not a babymama and preferably Yoruba.

I am 6' ft. tall, Athletic, circa 85 kg, dark complexion, Christian, AA, University graduate and qualified accountant. I’m gainfully employed, good looking and Yoruba. I’m in my early 40s and Abuja-based.

If you are interested, my BBM is D1A6568C.

so how about those who are not on bbm

MrAce:
Why is it so hard to find a girl without nothing more but sex to offer these days. As a single guy all the girls I meet are always have nothing in them. Empty people with no future ambition. Imagine I asked one what's are goal for the next ten years. She say she no know. It seems girls these days are lost but they are not aware of it. Since man shall not live by YANSH alone. Why is it hard to find a decent girl?

your write up says it all. From the topic to the body.

ultimatehammer:


It is inappropriate to approach ladies as you cant tell who is hooked up or even married. In the camp Environ, it is not normal.

So its better to let those who fall into the category contact discreetly

it can only be "inappropriate" if your intentions are evil. If you see a lady, you can start by being friends them simply ask her if she is married or hooked up.

ultimatehammer:
Any single lady who wishes to mingle in redeemed camp?

Lets meet. SMS:09073949560

I don,t understand you. As in you are in the same camp and you see ladies everyday yet you come here to ask for the ones you have not seen. Hmmm

I taught AIDS takes more than 4years before the person dies.

Its not just women even men are becoming like devil by the day.

Tony90:
pls anyone with useful information on the process/requirements of applying for admission into NDA as a graduate.

graduate of what? And which do you want to join army, navy or airforce. As a graduate you go for commissioning. Navy forms are on sale right now.

What she is proposing will determine if it's wrong or not. Is she proposing friendship, affair or marriage?

VolT0xic:
My Mum married at the Age of 21-22. She was majoring in nursing at then. Well, 25 years later and counting, she is very, very happy and blessed in the union. And that's cos she loved my Dad. What I'm trying to say is maturity isn't the precursor to a happy marriage. Love is. So I ask is your sister in love with the man? Or is this just a case of arranged marriage? At that age 20, she's physically ready. But socially, mentally & emotionally, I don't know.

Are you really comparing 25years ago with today? Besides what worked for one may not work for another.

Passy089:




Good women re very hard to find bro...i saw my cousin marry an amazing girl as a wife,but within 2 yrs she turned into something else and wrecked his life and businesses .

The same way good men are very hard to fine. It could be that she is a good woman but because your cousin was not a good man & hurt her feelings she turned bad.

Some many good woman turn bad when a bad man treats her bad.

TrapQueen77:



And I really zoom in the photo.. What are they doing in the open field?

They are tilling the soil for planting.

whogoscam:


With all due respect. It's guys like you that frustrate innocent people on nairaland. I came seeking advise on this issue and how I can handle it you are here crucify in me. Nigerians sha

You are yet to see frustration. What advise do you want us to give you, that you divorce your wife & marry the prostitute or what. If you are old enough to get married then you should be old enough to handle this issue. Don't get me angry this morning.

adewumiopeyemi:
GOD bless there union .. but have the bride to be gotten a GOOD JOB TO CATer for the family

is it the bride's responsibility to cater for the family?

Gflat:


U are practically on every thread. No offense but that is pretty lame for a man

How did you get to know that he is practically on every thread?

Ricovendetta:
Thanks guys for your contributions.
but I just wanna know, is anything wrong in going for an MBA then later going for an Msc then Phd?
I am asking because I don't intend to lecture yet I just need the degrees to help me gain promotion at my place of work and also increase my options in life.

if that is the case then go for MBA.

Ricovendetta:
Good Morning Ladies & Gents
I am a bit confused on which option to opt for between an Msc and MBA.

I feel like an MBA is being regarded lesser compared to an Msc, that is just the way I feel, I might be wrong or not but truth is I dont really know the difference or merit and demerits which either of the two has against the other.

I need a bit of an enlightenment on the above subject matter to aid me reach a decision on which to opt for.

Thanks in anticipation of your various helpful contributions.

Happy Sunday. ..

How can you be confuse? It all depends on your plan for the future. If you have plans to be a lecturer in future then go for M.Sc but if your plans is to work in the administrative section then go for MBA.

Obviously you like 19 years old girls.

ekemit:
can you marry a police officer?

NO! For the same reason I gave.

Midex88:
The Federal Government has declared Wednesday, July 5, and Thursday, July 7, as public holiday to mark the Eid el-Fitr celebration following the non-sighting of
the moon on Monday.
The Minister of Interior, retired Lt.-Gen. Abdulrahman Dambazau, made the declaration on Tuesday in a statement signed by the Permanent Secretary in the
ministry, Mr Bassey Akpanyung.
He said the declaration became necessary following the directive by the President General, Nigerian Supreme Council for Islamic Affairs, Alhaji Sa’ad
Abubakar III to the effect that the Ramadan fast would continue on Tuesday as a result of the non-sighting of the moon.
The minister urged Nigerians to use the period for sober reflections and ensure harmony, unity and peaceful co-existence.
He also called for full support to the administration of President Muhammadu Buhari in his sustained effort to pursue socio-economic and political growth of the
nation.
He wished Nigerians a peaceful celebration.
The Federal Government had earlier declare Tuesday and Wednesday as public holiday.

Have they sighted the moon?

ekemit:
but all police officer are not corrupt we have born again police officer

I didn't say they are corrupt but ppl associate them with corruption.

ekemit:
Am just wondering why most ladies don't like to marry a police officer,I have had discussion with so many ladies and they said they can't get married to police officer, the reason most of them gave was police officer are promiscuous, is there any other reason you ladies have why you can't marry a police officer,let outline them.

Because they are associated with corruption.

rosieluv:

ooooh God bless you sister

And bless you too dear.

I want to say a very big thank you to Nairaland forum team for the birthday wishes. God bless you all.

HerexG:
Just recently I observed something that might interest you; it was what led me to the writing of this post. Now here is it friend of mine has this girlfriend who works in a bank, when you see this couple from afar you would think they are head over heels in love with each other. But recently I observed the lady and my friend don’t hang out as they used to anymore, so ask my friend about his babe and he dropped the bombshell to me. He broke up with the lady and I asked why.....why he would break up with such a sweet girl. And he started complaining about the lady, he said the lady wouldn’t touch anything in his house, there was a day he was prompted to ask her to cook but guess what the lady said; she said her pastor told her not to cook for any man who is not yet husband, clean the house she wouldn’t, all she does is eat the guys food, pass the night at his house and leave. The small home menial works a lady should do on her free-will without anybody telling them, is what this lady would say her pastor told her not to do until my friend comes to pay her bride prize. My friend kept bearing this until he was pushed to try out another lady, this new lady is not as beautiful and sophisticated as the former but she’s very homely, she does virtually everything a lady should do in the home without being told, this was what led to my friend breaking up with his former heartthrob. And now my friend told me how happy he is now with the new lady, he is right now planning to propose to the new lady.

Ladies please don’t fall for that old crap” My pastor said this, my pastor said that” use your intuition, be a matured woman upstairs, a woman of yourself, who makes and takes her own decisions, bearing all risk and consequences of the decisions made. For those still following their religious leader’s teachings, know that these old religious practices you hold in a high esteem might not stand the present test of time; no religious book has got a new revised standard. So don’t lose that man because of any religion, like my pops will always say “play your own part, there the true owner lies”

Source: http://liteworld..com.ng/2016/06/should-single-lady-cook-for-her.html

she’s very homely, she does virtually everything a lady should do in the home without being told. Really? I thought you guys said ladies have nothing to offer a man other than sex. You boys & men are as confuse as president Buhari & former president Jonathan.

Nohope:
Sis. It seem you dont understand me.
How do you feel if a lecturer is stopping you from graduating just because you refuse to yield to his selfish interests?

It has happend to me in my university days & also in my post gradute too. I was pained but all I could do or say is let God be the judge & then I prayed about it & my case was a delibrate act while in your case they didn't do it delibrate. Even if you are so angry & pained you shouldn't have involved their family & relatives. What if one of your relative in also among them.

Nohope:
[b]I just can't seem to understand life again. Why is life so unfair to me? Why? Just why?.

I passed out of secondary school in the year 2014 at a young age. I applied to Obafemi Awolowo University seeking admission to study English language, i had 231 in Jamb and 288 in the post utme. I felt elated scoring such mark, thinking that i would gain admission easily. My friend also applied to the school, he had 201 in Jamb and 221 in their post utme. I was rejected, my friend was accepted. I felt dejected, languished and worried.


I applied to University of Ibadan again in the year 2015 to study Law scoring 263 in Jamb. I took UI post utme and scored 65. The cut-off marks was 74, i did the change of course to Religious studies that accept 50 as their cut off mark. Again, I was not given the admission. I braced up and move on.

I sat for this year Jamb and Jamb came up with their non-challant and negligence attitude towards our life and future. I ended up scoring 193. So gross!. Everyone that had their hands in the mass failure this year just because of their negligence. May God destroy them, their children, their wives or husbands and their relatives life.(Amen).

Later on this year, i saw the form of the Nigerian Navy recruitment exercise. I applied and was told to write the examination on May14,2016 and to come along with the original credentials. My venue was HQ2, MECH DIV, NIGERIAN ARMY, IBADAN. www.joinnigeriannavy.com
My mother had to borrowed the money i use as my transport fare. However, on getting their. I was not allowed to enter into the venue just because i did not have a white vest, blue short, white shoe and white socks. Other candidates were sent back as well without proper information and warning. The traders selling the white and blue short raised the goods up at an exhorbitant price. I had no choice than to go back to home. I hail from Oyo.



Is this life? Why is life unfair to me?.[/b]

Just like you said God should destroy those who had their hands in the mass failure & their relatives, maybe He is also destroying you for what one of your relative did in the past.

YorubaPresident:
Hello Nairalanders, so I have an issue I would like to share with you all...
It may sound silly but it's really important to me..

I don't live to drink factory made juice extracts ( F*ve alive, fum*n fruit juice, chiv*ta) etc

So my wife decided to use regular blenders to blend fruits to make juice for me, I don't enjoy it because the shaft from the fruit remains in my drink.


She also tried the regular juice extractor, this didn't help either because I still get shaft in my juice.

I need fresh homemade juice without shaft in it...

Help me save my marriage...

I love my wife and I love freshly prepared homemade juice...Please what can i do?

you don't love your wife & its obvious you don't know.

marshborn:
abi

Funny?

paulGrundy:
By Don Boys, Ph.D.
Published Nov 17, 2004


al-Taqiyya:
deception; the islamic word for concealing or disguising one’s beliefs, convictions, ideas, feelings, opinions, and/or strategies.

It is impossible to understand Islam and Muslims by listening to their protestations against terror and their proclamations of patriotism for America. Usually, it is wise and fair to give people the benefit of the doubt but when it comes to national safety and the future of America, we had better look twice, even thrice at Muslim patriotism. Why? Because Islam permits lying! It is called “Al-taqiyya.” One Muslim said that Al-taqiyya means dissimulation then he expanded it to diplomacy but he should have gone further to deception. Now some Muslims who do not follow the Koran are as faithful Americans as any of us, but the problem is, we cannot know.

Muslims lie not because they are liars by nature but by choice. Systematic lying as a religious policy is deadly, and if our politicians do not understand this, thousands could die.
It seems our President [obama] and his advisors are clueless as to the desires, doctrines, and distinctives of Islam. While I feel a little audacious in giving advice to national leaders, it is necessary since no one else is doing it.

Muslims lie when it is in their interest to do so and “Allah” will not hold them accountable for lying when it is beneficial to the cause of Islam. They can lie without any guilt or fear of accountability or retribution. A lie in the defense of Islam is approved even applauded in their “holy” books.

Muslims are permitted to lie: (1) to save their lives, (2) to reconcile a husband and wife, (3) to persuade a woman into a bedroom and (4) to facilitate one on his journey. Muslims are even permitted to disavow Islam and Mohammed if it is not a genuine heart-felt rejection. Muslims will tell you that concealment of a truth is not an abandonment of that truth if it benefits Islam.

Mohammed gave permission for a follower to lie in order to kill a Jewish poet who had offended Mohammed. I could provide many examples of permissible lying from the Koran and Hadith and will do so when my critics accuse me of hatred and bigotry because of this column. My motives are not important but the truth is. However, many unprincipled people do not consider truth important. It is political correctness that sits on the throne to be worshiped.

Muslims may appear very sincere; in fact, they are sincere, when they lie for their own protection or in the cause of Islam. They have permission to lie. Yes, Christians have also lied but never are they given permission to lie. However, a Muslim has no guilt since the Koran and Hadith permit his deception.

Muslims have no hope for eternal salvation without their good works, so they must keep working to advance Islam. If a few lies will accomplish that goal, then lying is not bad but good. If they can get good publicity for Islam by lying, then lying is acceptable, even desirable.

They will lie to make Islam more attractive to potential converts as they speak of “no compulsion in religion” while all of them know that verse was abrogated by later verses. They will quote verses that speak of tolerance and kindness knowing that those verses were written when Mohammed was desirous of “tolerance and kindness,” but when he climbed into the catbird seat, everything changed and he became a terrorist.

Muslims have no hope for eternal salvation without their good works, so they must keep working to advance Islam. If a few lies will accomplish that goal, then lying is not bad but good. If they can get good publicity for Islam by lying, then lying is acceptable, even desirable. The Muslim is earning his way to heaven by lying to a non-Muslim.

Unlike Christians who are saved once for all by the grace of God through faith in Christ’s propitiatory death, no Muslim knows for sure if his works are good enough for Heaven. The only Muslim who knows for sure that his eternal destiny is secure and he will drop into a delightful garden filled with 72 virgins on soft green cushions is the one who dies while “taking out” unbelievers in Islam.

Most Muslims will not have the “opportunity” to become a martyr in this war between Islam and the rest of the world and make no mistake every true Muslim must be involved in making America (or the nation where he lives) a Muslim nation. Since Muslims are limited in their ability to die for the cause, they can help the cause by supporting terrorists with money, succor, and cover. Sure, they are aiding terror against the U.S. but since they believe they are doing Allah’s will, then any deception is acceptable.

How should this affect America’s war on terror? Officials must look closely at every Muslim chaplain in the military and in our prisons; also look at those involved in the CIA, FBI, and other sensitive areas; look at all Arabic translators, military or civilian; look at all Muslim employees at the Pentagon, White House, atomic power plants, and in Congress; look at all civilian Muslim pilots; look at Muslim clerics in all U.S. mosques. In other words, get serious about this war before our cities are rubble.

Our President [obama] must stop playing the game of “Let’s Stop the Terrorists” and get serious by going to the heart of the matter. This war on terror is a religious matter and could become a Hundred Years’ War. To resurrect an old slogan: You can trust the Muslims to be Muslims. They are lying their way to world domination!

http://www.muslimfact.com/bm/terror-in-the-name-of-islam/islam-permits-lying-to-deceive-unbelievers-and-bri.shtml

Obviously! I didn't read your post but going by the heading,it is so true. Most of them will still swear even when they know they are lying the funny part is that they also know that the person they are lying to knows that they are lying.