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olafisoyeibukun:
When will our female folks stoo depending on we men, when will they start depending only on God?

Its sad that you are still backward. For your infor, most ladies of this present time have woken up & working hard to be independent. There are also some men who depend on ladies this days & some even go after sugar mummys. Wake up to reality.

Most times the men that complian a lot are the one's that don't have anything for a woman to depend on.

There is nothing shameful or desperate about prayer & fasting for a life partner.

obiak4:
fat lie can't speak for anyone but my self
I WILL NEVER EVER EVER SLEEP WITH ANOTHER WOMAN WHO IS NOT MY WIFE TILL I DIE IF AM MARRIED
INFIDELITY AFTER MY MARRIAGE IS A BIG NO NO

who is lying? U can't speak for anyone yet you are calling me a lier show some respect. I have seen a lot of men who just cheat on there wife for no reason.

6fit:
Some ladies can be clueless...if yur man seek sex outside den chek yurself. It means u need to do yur Homework well. Ekaete is servicing yur husband more dan u do outside

its not in all case. Most men will still go out for sex no matter how good there wife is on bed & every other thing.

sambas:
A woman posted her husband's
mistress phone number on a
page and asked people to call and
warn her to stay off her
husband,Lol
To me, she acted childishly and
she is still suffering from
immaturity
That page have made me
believe,judging from comments I
read,that some women are not
from this planet
Two comments annoyed me
most,one read:""Men are
polygamous in nature""why didn't
she say no?",and I replied her
,why did the man approach her in
the first place?must he cheat?
Another one read:All these home
breakers,may God punish
them",and I replied, may he
punish the man first
Is a crime to be faithful?
Others were calling on thunder to
strike the lady, some were calling
on God to punish her, some
adviced the woman to engage in
midnight prayers in the nude,
that it works wonders
Am not sorry to say, praying for
your husband's side chic is a total
waste of time because it takes
two to tango, if you want to pray
or do anything, please start with
your husband
Why do we keep blaming the
other woman for a man's
unfaithfulness?
Why do we keep blaming the
other woman for what a man
opened his two eyes to do?
Its funny to me
Men will keep cheating because
they know their wives got their
back
They will keep cheating because
they know their wives will never
stop blaming the other women
for their sins
When Prince Okojie walked out on
his wife ,people blamed Mercy
When Tchidi Chikere walked out
on his wife, people blamed Nuella
I don't get it
Why do we keep handling
unfaithfulness with kid gloves?
Why do we keep giving men a Pat
on the back and shift the blames
to someone else?
Why?Why?Why?
Don't give me that crap about
men been polygamous in nature,
there are still faithful men
Have you ever asked yourself
what would be your husband's
reaction if he catches you
cheating?do you think he will
blame your boyfriend and give
you a Pat on the back? Hell no!!
He won't , you will be
disgraced,beaten and sent
packing!
Going to fight your husband's side
chic doesn't make any sense, it
makes you worthless
Giving her number to people to
help you call and warn doesn't
make any sense, it makes you
look helpless,truth is, you have
no business with your husband's
side chic
Deal with the man that
disrespected your marital vows
Deal with the man that couldn't
control the thing between his legs
Stop disgracing yourself
Stop reducing your worth
Face the culprit(your husband)
THE END.

As much as I am not in surpport of ladies dating married men, I would have advice the woman to seat down & think of her single days if she dated a married man b4 going unclud to pray for her husband's mistress

bluebutton:
Let me begin this way...
I am a comfortable man with a comfortable job. I can carry my own weight. Before all that, I was just seen as a prospective pauper. To this end, I knew a few ladies I was attached to (sexually). The intention was to pick one that rocked my boat.It is note worthy to state that none of these ladies considered that I would get to where I am today now they claim that they cant live without me.

Girl 1. - She is a mummy's girl. Does everything her mum dictates. Mum says that I must be of the catholic denomination before she even gives it a thought. I eavesdropped on a conversation and overheard her mum advising her to end the relationship. She lives above her means and lies a lot. She told me to buy UK sanitary pads for her that she is allergic to Nigerian products. we fell out when I asked her if she has been using cocoyam and plantain leaves before we met.

Girl 2: Sister owned a company I worked in. We were lonely in the office one night and the rest is history. 2days before travelling out to the UK, I feigned my voice to be a strange caller... called her with my friend's phone. When I travelled out, my friend sent me a nude picture of her. Minutes after calling her. So she dropped her call to me and sent my friend a nude picture. Not been able to shake that off my head.

Girl 3: Know her for years, she is stingy. I think if we get married she will count the peices of meat my visitors will have. She has the ideology that her man must produce everything and spend while she hoards her finances for personal use. She is in-tempered and can poison someone with a smile. I feel uneasy when she gets angry. Again, she is very stubborn and territorial but very faithful.

Girl 4: I dont know how to put this that will sound right. She is my late ex - girlfriend's friend. She is very troubled due to her childhood experience with her uncle. At least that is what she told me. I have not been with her long enough to trust her but I feel she wants to get married for the sheer sake being under a man's roof. Beyond that, nothing else interests her in all our discussion.

Girl 5: Was introduced to me by a senator's daughter. She is humble. Met her a virgin. I just have the issue of our interactions. She has this nossy bff that dictates when and how we live out our relationship. If I try to communicate calmly about the fact that I am uncomfortable with the intrusive nature of her friend... she doesnt want to see reason.

Girl 6: She is young and naive. I know her mum and the marital history isn't a bright beacon. Survey reveals that she was queer at some point in her life. Call me homophobic but I could react badly if I discover that I married a lesbian.

Girl 7: She's a British citizen of RSA decent. she helps when she can I cant stand how she distrusts Nigerians. I have walked out of the door cos of her comment. She is very jealous and extremely territorial. Sneaks out of my bedroom to go through my phone in the living room.

I know having 7 ladies can be bad but guys (we all have options) and ladies (following your reasoning-you like to keep your options open).
Call it love or lust... the fact is I know these girls. Picking one is like choosing between the devil and the deep blue sea. Both kill. All I ask is for you to help me pick the lesser devil.

did you call them devil? Devil are found in hell so for you to meet these devils like you called them it means you actually took a trip to hell.

They are not devils. Meanwhile, if you that have related with them & know them better don't not no which among them to pick then I don't think anyone here can help you pick. My advice is pick the one that makes you happy which you no you can spent the rest of your life with.

icedbeatz:
do you know what i like about ya post? I like how you dropped your opinion without garnishing it with insults, see yeah the world have deviated from most of God's plan but not every soul in the world did, some people still follow that path dear. With that said we know God never wanted premarital sex and all that but people do it and dating is everywhere so let's hit it from this bench mark now, I'm not saying guys don't appreciate what the girls do ok cos I do in enormous ways and can bet most guys do also but here's the million dollar question

can you now tell us what a lady has to offer in a relationship apart from sex no matter how small dear ?

if a lady cook for you its something, appreciate her. If she helps in keeping you house clean , its something appreciate her. She can also help you to run some errand. You could be busy & needed to do something else at that moment, in such case you can call the lady to help you out. There are some ladies that can help you financially sometimes when u need such help, it could even be advice on a particular thing.

So you can see that outside sex ladies still have a lot to offer, just that some men see dose thing I just memtioned as nothing. So my point is men should aappreciate this little things. Thou some men do appreciate.

dinosmiles:
I like dis @op,

got ur point buh ur tone in d post ehhh.....who got u infuriated?

what tone? You imagine things. Its just a simple word.

Homguy:
crap!

yea, just like your face.

jayedu108:
U re getting old gradually old u beta get married cos u are almost close to menopause jst a piece of advice.

You are not God. What matters most is not getting married but getting married & being happy & much in love with the person u married oh. There are lots of ppl looking for a way to leave their marriages oh. Don't make yourself God its a piece of advice.

richy5:
This is just a simple massage that men should appricate women just as must women appreciate men. u must be joking with dat statement...speak 4 urself bitch

Haba guy I have not said anything that warrant you calling me a bitch nah.

richy5:
This is just a simple massage that men should appricate women just as must women appreciate men. u must be joking with dat statement...speak 4 urself bitch

Haba guy I have not said anything that warrant you calling me a bitch now.

ernieboy:
LIE. Men discuss but women gossip.

well you can say its a lie that's your biz but its what I have seen am not just assuming.

Olami90:
Selfish beings dat wana eat dia cake and have it

This is just a simple massage that men should appricate women just as must women appreciate men. So what is the selfish beings there?

Olami90:
Ur response speaks volume abt who u are for real. Can't u make points intelligently? U av demonstrated dis saucy nd mayweather attitude to not less dan 3 members here. I av a very strong blief dat u are a cronic hypocrite, a wolf in sheep clothing whom is yet to get wot she wanted. I only feel for d myopic man dat wunt see d traces in u.

Guys, na so most of dem b(alwys smart to cover who dey are by being all over u). U av to b on ur toes nd b sensitive.

Dis lady is "F" material I swear.

hahahahahaha. You don't no me so nothing you say moves me. I don't see any reason for this your comment.

diamondcrownltd:
You are already overripe for marriage by seeing your picture

My dear you are not God so be careful of the things you say. not everyone in marriage are happy with their marriages.

Besides you don't know how old I am & you don't no if i am already preparing for my marriage.

ginawest:
so u min to say women don't go to fast food or women don't gossip....gossiping z a female tin..girls n women do it...

gossiping is not just a female thin even boys & men do gossip. Visit a public office or govt offices then you will no that men gossip more than women.

dollarlander:
Dear Nairalander, this is a personal issue I need you peoples help. It is not happening to my friend or someone else but me.

I need views from everyone, especially married families.
I earn, as an average income of almost 500k per month, even when I was earning 300k plus I've been fighting this issue. My wife demands for 100k monthly to manage a home of four people, myself, she and 2 kids less than 8yrs hold.

I'm the one working she is not. Telling her to find a way to stop spends on fuel for generator but each time I raise this there will be terrible fight.

I have an opinion that we need to reduce our spends on grocery items so that we can build up enough savings for better things. She talks about savings but she finds it difficult to deny herself some pleasure.

I want to take some decisions but I think I need to seek popular opinions if I'm wrong and I'm not seeing reasons with her or my perception is wrong about what to be spent to keep the home monthly.

I need some monthly home expenditure break down, with this size of family, to help me make the right judgement because the marriage is looking to me like a fundamental mistake exists somewhere.

Please nairalanders I need your opinion, from especially mothers who are in marriage and understand what I'm talking about, because I'm the one paying all the bills. I also pay for all the TV dishes in my her for her to watch telemundo with generator.

Please what do I do. Thank you.

Pls moderators, I'll be glad if this hits the front page I need candid opinions before I run into irreparable mistakes. Thanks.

I think you should discuss with your wife because the money you give her for up keep depends on a lot of things. Seeking for advice here is not really the best in this your case because must ppl here don't earn as much as you do & there advice will be based on what they earn & not what you earn.

Seat with your wife & you both should come up with a list on what you are to spend in a month also make her to understand that you have your own personal needs and you also have to save & invest part of your earning.

A man who earns 80k monthly & gives his wife 30k monthly with just one child or maybe no child yet will still advice you to give your wife 30k like he is giving his wife. If you must seek for advice then go to someone who earn like you do & has the same number of kids like you have.

I can not compare myself when I was earning 20k to when am earning 160k to 180k. As your income increases, you taste also increases.

agarawu23:


why say yes to his dating proposal when you know your heart isn't beating for him? Why make him look like a fool when he remember how you treated him so badly?

Must you maga-zone him just because he his trying to be nice and caring? you think he is dumb for buying you iPhone 6 without seeing your panties? He is just trying to satisfy you and make u feel big among your friends. If maga is what you call him, nemesis will catch up with u soon .

The poor guy u broke his heart of recent for no reason is now wise and ready to revenge on any lady he comes across. if you are lucky your sister or your female relatives will not fall victim.

You broke your virginity at the age of 16 and you are deceiving that guy who has put all his trust and hope on you that you are still a Virgin. You don't need him in your life, but you need is cash?

Keep on introducing your fiancee to him as your uncle so that both of you can scam him and push him away when you are done draining him. karma awaits you soon.

What was your response to the yahoo guy who asked you out last night? "yes" as usual right? when you already had 5 boyfriends plus 1 making 6. Tell me where on earth you have seen a lady wedding 2 guys at the same time, oh! you are not done with your screening and game playing?

Did you know that the guy who sponsored your education later committed suicide after you dumped him?


He is not educated, and you know you can't marry him, why waste his time? he is paying your house rent and providing for your needs despite working in a factory as a labourer



let your conscience judge you........

Not just the ladies some men are wicked too we all should just pray for the good one to come our way.

wristwatch:
The need for financial stability is one of the main key if not the main key to win a lady's heart.

Therefore in a society like ours and perhaps others, the competition to marry rich dudes is increasing day by day due to the current harsh economy.

For instance, guys have u ever wonder why a monkey looking man is married to or dating a beautiful lady while fine boy is being rejected or dumped by ladies? The answer is Money.

However, ladies at the hearing of where some guys work can make them quickly initiate green-light mode for love leading to relationship/marriage because of their earning and these companies are;

Oil and Gas

A guy working with shell, exxonmobile, chevron, schlumberger, etc is a big boy. Guys in this category attract ladies like ant to a sugar source because they know their worries for financial help is over.

Blue Chip

FMCG guys especially the sales force team are well paid and looking even much better than those working in AC environment. This category of guys do not only have money but also their mouth is so sweet tongue that ladies find it hard to resist their proposal.

Aviation

If a guy approach a lady and say "My name is Michael, I am a pilot in Etihad airways". Even if the lady is not in the mood to entertain stranger, hearing "Pilot" alone will raise her eyebrow.

Telecommunication

Telecom guys have swags and confidence that can make ladies easily fall for them. Due to the fame in the industry as they sponsor many shows and pay celebrity massive money, the brand name speaks for them and gets ladies attention quickly.

Medical field

Doctors don't look for jobs and are well paid. As a result of this, Ladies accept doctor's proposal and wish to settle on time with them.

Military

Ladies are fun of fronting their boyfriends specially if he is working with Air force and Navy. Ladies love guys on uniform with richly en downed pocket.

Bank

Gradually this is falling out of the favourites but still pay well for employees. Ladies are attracted to guys who walk in banks like GTB, 1st bank, Zenith and few among others. Their good looking and charming smile coupled with their stable financial income is a green light for ladies.

Remove bank, military & telecommunication.

vislabraye:
It's hard to find a Naija woman to give money to a man she has not yet met when it's even difficult to give to a man she knows.
This story could be true but it's rare.

That u have not seen dose not mean there are no such women & that a lady did not give u dose not mean she can't give someone else.

ronald4lif:
The OP is saying something like a friend of hers sent a supposedly abroad based guy a 150K after he claimed to love her. Can't make sense out of it though.

1st, she is not my friend she is just someone I know.

2nd, i didn't say 150k I said 160k.

Lastly, why comment when u can't make sence out of what I said.