mysaviouralive:
Hello Admin pls move this to the front page and I will be in the comment section reading.

Pls I want to take a boldness step and I will not mind where it can lead to. I have to open an account now to post this. My wife is also a guest of nairaland and she will be seeing this post.

It happen that I got married to my wife over Nine yrs ago and we only have a Kid. I was working in a big company then before the new management came in and change the policy of the company and I was laid off. I was idle like 3yrs before I got another job. she is working in one of the biggest bank in Nigeria. Like 5yrs ago I noticed she will be smiling whenever she is chatting with one of her male colleague. I ask what are they normally discussing, but she told me that it was their office issue that they are discussing. I know the guy and his family and the guy has came to my house not more than four times.

It happen one day that I demanded to give her phone to browse because I was having problem with my phone. she gave me the phone around 10:30pm and I noticed she has has cleared all their chat. This make it look suspicious and I asked her immediately that why did you deleted the chat, but she told me it was a mistake. I think over it for sometime because I trust her then, but on the other hand my mind was telling me to find out more. As an IT expert I connected her phone to my system and do some forensic research on the phone, alas what I discovered was bad. My wife and the guy have been having an affair and chatting and sending their nude to themselves. I called her immediately and demanded to explain the pixture but she denial it and was telling me another story that she snap the pixture and to show me how she was Hot so that we can have sex that night.

she said I should show her where I got the nude pixs and before she came back from the office she has wipe all the pixs that I showed her thinking that I cannot recovered it anymore and I asked her why should you do that but was just begging me. I recovered all the pixs back and the chat she believe she has deleted and I have more proof that she has been cheating on me.

So I asked her to tell me the truth what is going on with the guy and her but she was just begging me. But I told him I dont want her to do or have anything with the guy again that if I catch her again she will not like what I will do for her, with the hope that she will change. Recently I noticed she stil chatting with the guy again and I rake on her to stop it but she told me that she was just explaining office issue she has when he (the guy) not around because she is the one that relief him on work.

This week they are still chatting late in the nite cos I always seen the chat, though she will delete it as soon as they chat finish but I always have the chat and also today they have chat alot to the extend that my wife was crying when she expecting good reply from the guy but the guy fail him and I noticed she has intimate with the guy rather than me her husband.

My wife can lie and so Promiscuous. I have called her severally to change but she did not, recently I heard she was talking with one of her online friend from Abuja when the guy told her he will be coming to visit her this coming week, and I expect my wife to tell me but uptill now she has not saying anything on it. This make me not to have much trust in her again because if she tell me something I will still think over it like five times again before I accepted.

So my plan now is to call the wife of her colleague and explain everything to the wife and I also planing of arresting her colleague because I still have the proof and dont mind what can come out of this, because I tired and cant continue like this anymore, ever since I have caught her I did not enjoy my home anylonger and I tried to erase it from my memory but not get it wright.

Pls save me and save my marriage if possible.

Thank you.

Turks:
What’s This Animal Called? It Was Found On The Farm Today

What’s this animal called please? I know I’ve seen it a number of times on NatGeo Wild. Don’t recall what it’s called. Very cheerful and easy going animal and no, we didn’t kill it. It’s still very much alive. be careful oo.. That koala might have escaped from Congo.. U be touching anything you see.. [size=8pt][/size]




https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=cZ5VGv2K9uA

ayodele123:
I attended a burial ceremony recently and was amazed at the manner money was wasted on a lifeless corpse going to rot away under the ground!. The coffin alone cost N150k.The grave was adorned with tiles but the dead man's residence had no tiles when he was alive.His children even painted their father's house after his death few days to the burial! The house was not painted when he was alive.

The corpse was lifted in a limousine he did not ride in when he was alive though he had a car anyway,  Four cows were slaughtered to entertain guests. And many other money sucking and guzzling events on display that day.The dead man was kept in the mortuary for about 4 months before his burial while the children were mobilizing resources for a display. The burial cost N3m and that is a very modest sum compared to others elsewhere.

My question is this: Why do people delay burials for one to six months in these parts especially among the Christian community and Southern Nigerians? What is the basis for costly burial ceremonies for a lifeless  body that will rot away under the ground in a matter of days and weeks? Immediately a man dies, his spirit departs the body and returns to God while the soul faces judgement (Hebrews 9:27). The body goes to dust.

Now if the dead man goes to hell, what is the point conducting an expensive burial for his lifeless body here on earth while the soul is burning away in Hell? Even if he goes to heaven, what is the basis for such waste of resources for a body that is going nowhere, that will rot away?

Is it really necessary to conduct burials this way? Why cant a corpse be buried within 7 days without the noisy oestantatious display of wealth by the relations? Is there any religious backing for this rubbish? Though i am a xtian by faith, I love the muslim way of burial within 24 hours in very simple fashion.

A corpse should just be buried in a quiet, simple manner even if he was a billionaire while alive. Afterall in the grave, all are equal there.

Imustreturn:
Wtf is this?

Wait oo, so nah only black people dem dey treat like this?

We done finish oo

smileing:
@vululadilolo

thank you so much. I have not reported to anyone yet
hurt, pains and disdain on myself have left me discouraged.

all these while, I have been offering him all I could (companionship, encouragement, emotional support, friendship, spiritual assistance ,inspiration ) except for my body. and he made me love him so much little did I know he would come for my body .

my worth is not based on the hymen but yet I value my chasity.
I'm broken cos I encouraged people to be chaste. who do I talk to. the therapist I tried talking to tried molesting me too

I'm deformed now as I am feeling suicidal
what I built in years just crashed within a twinkling of an eye

CowHard:
Did the goat complain

What's wrong with Africa for goodness sake

LazyNairalander:
The Labour of our heroes past.........


check my SIGNATURE

hhenrikki:

So someone can not masturbate in peace again..

Lirqur:


What are you saying ? Football was more difficult in the Times of pele and Maradona? The times of maradona maybe but the Times of Pele never. How can someone say football was difficult in the Times when there weren't so many rules, where the number of people dreaming to be footballers where low. As a matter of fuckin fact. Pele and Maradona especially Pele were lucky to have been playing when there where mostly dummies in football. Take a look at some old clips of Pele, and you'll see the nigga was lucky to be around a lot of dummies playing at the time. Why wouldn't he shine? Even Maradona had it harder than Pele did. History most likely told you Pele was great not like you watched most of his games. Football is very much difficult in these times than it was back then. Who was competing with Pele when he shone? Who was competing with Maradona back in the Times ? Now there's a hot debate between Messi and Ronaldo. Even after them the upcoming youngings already have competitors they would be compared with. So football was never difficult then than it is now!

DabLord:
Please which match is penaldo missing

ROSYL:


He doesn’t cry, even when he loses. He’s not a sore loser like the other short man.

CR7 remains the best!

oshe11:
Ronaldo is just a goalscorer

Kingsley1000:
I wouldn't have given the first one if I were the ref

ChiefAzubuike:
The ref did a good job. He gave you a first penalty and out of greed and selfishness you demanded a second. How many PK you wan chop in a game? If you can't score from open play then you deserve to come back home.

KINGwax007:
Na ighalo we supposed kill

samkleen:
Martins would have been better in front of goal than the useless Ighalo

xtervaganza:
The man is right.



Anyone who disagree with him is also stupid

Thursday11:
He should not be criticized, there's freedom of speech

labusinessguide:
So basically what some of you are saying is that he did wrong by trying to rescue a lady being abused by two men?
So it is now a taboo to stand up against crime and criminality in Nigeria?
So it is safer for people to mind their business while crime and criminality decimate the lives of vulnerable individuals in Nigeria?
Woow, it's actually true, we have lost our humanity.

Even animals weep for us... Sad indeed!

Gozzzy:

Onye ara

ChiefAzubuike1:
This is what happens when you poke your fu*king nose into other peoples business.

Uchihaitaci:
Happy birthday to a former great player

Ronaldo has surpassed you in every way imaginable but yet I still wish you all the best in your coming retirement from football

Emekus92:

that is their number 1 objective.

This is their 1st goal in a world cup appearance