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CelebritiesRe: Jim Iyke And Nadia Buari Wedding To Hold In December? by RedCard1(m): 10:31pm On Oct 07, 2013
Beync: I thought nadia was hooked up with one footballer like that.
Marriage would fit them sha
thats Michael Essien. Nadia left the dude after she had gotten enough money from him. I don't still believe this marriage rumour though
CelebritiesRe: Jim Iyke And Nadia Buari Wedding To Hold In December? by RedCard1(m): 10:23pm On Oct 07, 2013
Beauty and the beast. Hope Jim won't get hypnotized by TB Joshua and his team again on that wedding day.
RomanceRe: Ladies Which Comes First When Choosing A Guy Personality Or Looks? by RedCard1(m): 4:06pm On Oct 07, 2013
100% looks
RomanceRe: A Special Message For Unmarried Women by RedCard1(m): 2:01pm On Oct 07, 2013
ogugua88: Lovely post! Unfortunately, common sense is not common.

It's easy to say these things and hope that unmarried women heed, but the truth is that societal/cultural and family pressures are partly to blame, if not entirely. Also, a lot of women lack the mental and emotional strength required to stand for themselves, or have become complacent with mediocrity and sacrificed self-respect for a husband. It's from a Nigerian woman's mouth that you will hear things like "cheating is the norm; there's nothing you can do about it". Some unluckily marry the wrong man and will still quote the Bible and tell you that under no circumstances, adultery and domestic violence inclusive, can a woman file for divorce. That's disheartening and is setting a very wrong trend for our daughters to follow. I don't know from where the "a woman's pride is her husband/marriage" came, and I don't know how or why it's unofficially compulsory for a woman to marry before a certain age, hence making some women rush and settle for sub-par males, but it's part of the reason why some men see themselves as gods and do as they wish to them.

Nothing could be truer than the last part of your post. Society, culture, tradition, and even family won't change, not fast enough anyway. The change that's so greatly needed as per this topic can only come from women changing their mindsets and loving themselves to the point that they will not settle for less, even if it means waiting a little longer.

A woman should gain more than a man and ring in marriage. She should gain a partner, a teammate, a companion... someone who appreciates her in totality. And guess what? Such men don't come easily, so be patient.
you only show up on spinsterhood related topics. Don't tell me my guess is right. I hope say you get pikin sha
RomanceRe: A Special Message For Unmarried Women by RedCard1(m): 1:57pm On Oct 07, 2013
Mrs.Chima:
Damn I was in a mood to fight! angry

Bravo! kiss
I have come to realize one thing. You are sooo fake. Which man even ready to drop you for him house? Mrs my hairy yansh
RomanceRe: A Special Message For Unmarried Women by RedCard1(m): 1:28pm On Oct 07, 2013
kennygee: Some men are not looking for wives, they are looking for baby popping machines, laundry women, cooks and nannies. Once you are married to this type of man, he takes pleasure in younger women, beware of men like this too.
men even dey scarce for market. Majority sef na gay so there's no much hope for the single ladies out there.
RomanceRe: A Special Message For Unmarried Women by RedCard1(m): 1:24pm On Oct 07, 2013
And Rita Dominic will be feeling proud after reading this write up. I hope Madam Ogugua88 has read it as well. Marriage is a matter of choice......getting a child is all that matters. Now all the old single ladies.......start consoling yourselves and hustle for children.
PoliticsRe: How Feyi & Femi Akinsanya Survived The Plane Crash by RedCard1(m): 9:03pm On Oct 06, 2013
He didn't see his died-twice father's ghost manipulating the plane? He should better say the truth that we all know
PoliticsRe: I Have No Regret Over My Stewardship – Obasanjo by RedCard1(m): 9:00pm On Oct 06, 2013
OBJ is not sitting on the seat but he's ruling. It's well
PoliticsRe: Should Our Country Cease To Exist After 2015, What Would You Miss About Nigeria? by RedCard1(m): 8:58pm On Oct 06, 2013
I will miss Madam GEJ's grammatical blunders
PoliticsRe: Pictures Of President Jonathan Playing Guiter At The Aso Chapel by RedCard1(m): 8:55pm On Oct 06, 2013
Mr President annoyingly hunting for relevance. Abeg your time don pass
PoliticsRe: Breaking: Taraba Deputy Governor Survives Accident by RedCard1(m): 8:44pm On Oct 06, 2013
Mtchewwwwwww!
Christianity EtcRe: Why Are Most Christians Stingy When It Comes To Church Offerings? by RedCard1(m): 1:06pm On Oct 06, 2013
Corona99: Most christians spend thousands of naira n even more @ the end of each week or day, just for recharge cards n alcohols,,some guys even give dia gurlfriendz 50,000,,,100,000 for brazilian hair weavons n blackberry phones,, yet went it comes to church offerings,,all u can offer is 10,20,50naira,,which ar most times dirty n worn out,, only few surmon courage to offer 100,, brethren IS THIS FAIR??Where is ur conscience,,??TO WHOM MUCH IS GIVING MUCH IS EXPECTED,,
so do you give out a huge sum like 5k as offering? Would you love going to church in jetta while your pastor flies in a private jet? Mine is nothing more than #100 o. Those yeye people doesn't even deserve to be given #100. Don't tell me it's God's money o
Christianity EtcRe: Lack Of Manners In Churches These Days by RedCard1(m): 12:57pm On Oct 06, 2013
simon gonner: Some go to church cos others are going..
like me. I go to church because my sister won't let me stay back @home. So I just play with my phone
Christianity EtcRe: Lack Of Manners In Churches These Days by RedCard1(m): 12:55pm On Oct 06, 2013
tpacalipse: If you had paid attention at church, you would not have noticed all these junks.
oh oh. The OP sef is guilty.
Christianity EtcRe: Lack Of Manners In Churches These Days by RedCard1(m): 12:53pm On Oct 06, 2013
Preaching is always boring no matter the pastor. Once the pastor starts preaching, everyone starts sleeping. All I do is play with my phone. Right now, I'm in church. No lele.
CelebritiesRe: Mike Ezeruonye Gets 3 Plots Of Land For Being Nice To A Total Stranger by RedCard1(m): 9:16am On Oct 06, 2013
If Mike Ezuruonye is 31 years old then Joseph Benjamin is 24
CelebritiesRe: Genevieve's Alleged Lover Rukky Sanda Poses In Red Hot Bikini, Enjoy! by RedCard1(m): 9:04am On Oct 06, 2013
Take Genevieve's name off that heading
CelebritiesRe: Aki And Pawpaw, Pls Pray For Them. by RedCard1(m): 9:03am On Oct 06, 2013
EmperorAugustus: Please make us believe this your rumour by quoting your source.
yeah. Hope it isn't true though
CelebritiesRe: Photo: Alex Ekubo Childhood Photo by RedCard1(m): 9:00am On Oct 06, 2013
I was hoping to see Uti by his side. Anyway, Alex is handsome
CelebritiesRe: Atiku Abubakar & Daughter Amina Share Some Daddy-daughter Love On Twitter by RedCard1(m): 8:39am On Oct 06, 2013
sкчscrαρεr™:
funny indeed¡ they should take the love-sharinq to the bed instead| huh
hehehe. Una go kill me with laugh one day o. But come oh, e be like say that Atiku man get big meat o. Lol
EntertainmentRe: Nairalander Won The Skelewu Dance (video) by RedCard1(m): 8:35am On Oct 06, 2013
tellwisdom: Are you sure this guy is not epileptic??.. This one wey he dey jump like frog, dey bring tongue out like this sad
my thoughts exactly.
CelebritiesRe: Former Beauty Queen Nike Oshinowo Welcomes Twins At 47 by RedCard1(m): 8:34am On Oct 06, 2013
Nike has infertility issues which is why she did the surrogate. I say congrats to her. She's one of the most beautiful Naija women around. Ageless beauty.
CelebritiesRe: Juliet Ibrahim Releases New Photos by RedCard1(m): 10:05pm On Oct 05, 2013
Where are her k legs? Why is she trying so hard to make us think her legs are straight? Rubbish. Let her take some acting classes or better still, let her quit acting. Worst actress ever. Even worse than pretty Lilian Bach
FamilyRe: Five Reasons Why Most Educated Modern Nigerian Girls Are Not Married by RedCard1(m): 7:58pm On Oct 05, 2013
Where did you get the above listed points from? From Rita Dominic's camp I guess
FamilyRe: Five Reasons Why Most Educated Modern Nigerian Girls Are Not Married by RedCard1(m): 7:51pm On Oct 05, 2013
Where did you get the listed points from? From Rita Dominic's camp I guess
Nairaland GeneralRe: If You Are To Meet 5 Nairalanders by RedCard1(m): 6:58pm On Oct 05, 2013
I want to meet Hezron Lorraine, BobbyStanley, Orikinla, Ikekings and Afam4eva
Art, Graphics & VideoRe: Nairalander Artiste Needs Your Votes by RedCard1(m): 6:45pm On Oct 05, 2013
Rejoice5000: when we vote what's our gainhuhhuhhuh when u will become a star will u know any of us.
I wonder o. If he wins with our votes now, he will handle his money alone. He won't even hail nairalanders that helped him.

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