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Re: A Special Message For Unmarried Women by lekpalicious(f): 1:44pm On Oct 07, 2013 |
eddiebruk:what is your problem sef? It seems this topic is really getting to you. I am sure you are the type of man the op was warning us about. Why do you care so much about all the women not married? Will you marry them. Dont take panadol for someone elses headache. 5 Likes |
Re: A Special Message For Unmarried Women by ghettodreamz(m): 1:44pm On Oct 07, 2013 |
caramelll: Madam OP "Mz vox",saw dis write-up on FB a month ago,it wont hurt 2give credit 2d original writer•#jst sayin# Seriously? Why you no kon post am here for your fellow ladies? 1 Like |
Re: A Special Message For Unmarried Women by Ralphlauren(m): 1:46pm On Oct 07, 2013 |
Okija_juju: A STANDING OVATION FOR THIS GENTLEMAN PLEASE. 5 Likes |
Re: A Special Message For Unmarried Women by Ikoniko(f): 1:47pm On Oct 07, 2013 |
Nice post @op. |
Re: A Special Message For Unmarried Women by crackhaus: 1:47pm On Oct 07, 2013 |
What am I even doing here really... Am I supposed to see a woman that will disagree with what the OP wrote... Should I make a more sensible contribution that won't be misinterpreted... Will it even be worth it... Abeg make I go siddon for back dey watch wetin dey appen here. |
Re: A Special Message For Unmarried Women by MrsChima(f): 1:47pm On Oct 07, 2013 |
ogugua88: Lovely post! Unfortunately, common sense is not common. Tell us how you really feel girl. 1 Like |
Re: A Special Message For Unmarried Women by demelza: 1:47pm On Oct 07, 2013 |
lekpalicious: what is your problem sef? It seems this topic is really getting to you. I am sure you are the type of man the op was warning us about. Why do you care so much about all the women not married? Will you marry them. Dont take panadol for someone elses headache.I thought I was the only one who noticed. Thank you jare |
Re: A Special Message For Unmarried Women by Nobody: 1:48pm On Oct 07, 2013 |
ariseandshine: With this kind of advise your listeners will end up in T.B Joshua's Church at the age of 40 looking for a husband.Nope. I disagree. With this kind of advice, the lives of many ladies will be saved from domestic violence. Many children will be saved from broken home. Many ladies will be saved from modern slavery, eg, nyere84, ur gf, ur sis, ur female colleques etc. If we listen to d above advice. And there will be love, respect and mutual understanding in marriage. 5 Likes |
Re: A Special Message For Unmarried Women by eagleeye2: 1:49pm On Oct 07, 2013 |
eddiebruk: Orisirisi topic, now you will see all the Ada beke's and Olosho popping up to commend the OP, like someone said, so many women are single today because of their pride to be submissive to their husbands, Marriage is not a competition of who owns the best things, some are not married but they are happy, and only their Pillows knows how much pains they feel each night. Nobody should quote me shaGbamest. |
Re: A Special Message For Unmarried Women by MrsChima(f): 1:50pm On Oct 07, 2013 |
crackhaus: What am I even doing here really... It bashes dumb women and those with no commom sense...at least the women that agreed with OP isn't fake and phony when it comes to the trurh. Can you say that about the men on this site? 1 Like |
Re: A Special Message For Unmarried Women by MrsChima(f): 1:52pm On Oct 07, 2013 |
Catch_fire: Your fada. |
Re: A Special Message For Unmarried Women by bukatyne(f): 1:52pm On Oct 07, 2013 |
@tjololade: What are you referring to? |
Re: A Special Message For Unmarried Women by Nobody: 1:53pm On Oct 07, 2013 |
lekpalicious: what is your problem sef? It seems this topic is really getting to you. I am sure you are the type of man the op was warning us about. Why do you care so much about all the women not married? Will you marry them. Dont take panadol for someone elses headache. The fact that you cannot keep a man doesn't mean that all men are bad, what have you been doing since your youth, Or you thought PhD go land you automatic husband...? Pride and over sabi is the main reason so many of you are still hunting for Mr right, dey there dey deceive yourself, na for night we go know how it feels to be cuddled in the warm arms of a loving husband. 4 Likes |
Re: A Special Message For Unmarried Women by Okijajuju1(m): 1:53pm On Oct 07, 2013 |
eddiebruk: Orisirisi topic, now you will see all the Ada beke's and Olosho popping up to commend the OP, like someone said, so many women are single today because of their pride to be submissive to their husbands, Marriage is not a competition of who owns the best things, some are not married but they are happy, and only their Pillows knows how much pains they feel each night. Nobody should quote me sha [b]Bros.. Please, accept this glass of Scotch.. .. 8 Likes |
Re: A Special Message For Unmarried Women by lekpalicious(f): 1:54pm On Oct 07, 2013 |
It seems a lot of men have misunderstood this topic. Its not about preference as every one has a different preference and what works for one will not work for the other. This topic is about unmarried women being so desperate that they settle for someone(who they would not normally have) just for the sake of getting married. When a woman is very desperate, a man can see that and will treat her anyhow as he knows she wont go anywhere. Whether it be cheating, abuse etc. What op is trying to say is women should avoid this. Its not then end of the world if you are not married. Your friends may have gotten married at 23, perhaps your time is 30. This is not about being too picky and refusing good guys. This is about not just settling with a bad guy because of desperation. 3 Likes |
Re: A Special Message For Unmarried Women by UjSizzle(f): 1:55pm On Oct 07, 2013 |
eddiebruk:This is funny. Why should a man need to be reminded that he took a vow of loyalty when he got married? You're trying to tell me he's free to roam after every hot thing in skirts the moment he decides his wife isn't good enough for him? Where does communication in a relationship come in then? If you think she's losing what attracted you to her, then discuss it! Don't make that an excuse to cheat please. It's bad enough some men are incapable of loyalty, and much worse when he blames his wife for it. 7 Likes |
Re: A Special Message For Unmarried Women by Nobody: 1:56pm On Oct 07, 2013 |
Okija_juju: You for add Kolanut join na bros |
Re: A Special Message For Unmarried Women by Reachyrich(f): 1:57pm On Oct 07, 2013 |
wow this is lovely. |
Re: A Special Message For Unmarried Women by RedCard1(m): 1:57pm On Oct 07, 2013 |
Mrs.Chima:I have come to realize one thing. You are sooo fake. Which man even ready to drop you for him house? Mrs my hairy yansh 3 Likes |
Re: A Special Message For Unmarried Women by Idowuogbo(f): 1:58pm On Oct 07, 2013 |
Okija_juju:Abeg serve dis guy odeku Biko! Gbammest! 2 Likes |
Re: A Special Message For Unmarried Women by lekpalicious(f): 1:58pm On Oct 07, 2013 |
eddiebruk:Lmao. When did i say that all men are bad. Secondly keeping a man is no problem. I have a good man who loves and respects me and he is type of guy i always wanted and its not out of desperation. The only reason i am unmarried yet is because we are not there financially yet. So dont worry your lil head about me. I am fine. But why you so bitter though lmao. Dont worry no matter what there will always be stupid girls who will be desperate enough for the likes of you. 2 Likes |
Re: A Special Message For Unmarried Women by Nobody: 1:58pm On Oct 07, 2013 |
eddiebruk:Hey love, Life is not about hw fast..., rather, hw well. I will rather marry late, or even stay single and be happy. Than, marry early and lose my sanity, or seek for divorce the nxt day. |
Re: A Special Message For Unmarried Women by Okijajuju1(m): 1:59pm On Oct 07, 2013 |
eddiebruk: Shooo.. You wan pour libation with scotch?! |
Re: A Special Message For Unmarried Women by Okijajuju1(m): 2:00pm On Oct 07, 2013 |
Idowuogbo: Idowu!! You mean say you buy Odeku for me?! Thats it!! I can now die a happy man.. 1 Like |
Re: A Special Message For Unmarried Women by Idowuogbo(f): 2:00pm On Oct 07, 2013 |
ghettodreamz:Garage dey o! |
Re: A Special Message For Unmarried Women by bukatyne(f): 2:00pm On Oct 07, 2013 |
A female poster opens a thread to advice ladies to avoid abusive and substandard men. Male posters are ranting and talking about submission, competitiveness, reasons men cheat etc. If your sister brings a man you know is a potential abuser or cheat home, will you advice her to carry on so that she will not hug her pillow at night or walk on menopause street? Will you tell her to be patient and pray or run for her dear life? The quality of some men is really pathetic. Just as some women are not wife materials, some men are not husband materials. 5 Likes |
Re: A Special Message For Unmarried Women by RedCard1(m): 2:01pm On Oct 07, 2013 |
ogugua88: Lovely post! Unfortunately, common sense is not common.you only show up on spinsterhood related topics. Don't tell me my guess is right. I hope say you get pikin sha |
Re: A Special Message For Unmarried Women by Nobody: 2:01pm On Oct 07, 2013 |
uj_sizzle: First of all when it comes to Discussions that will better a Union, the woman is supposed to be in charge, i.e if the topic is about how their relationship is going to move forward the wife is supposed to be in charge, because as a man these things actually dont come into our head that much because we already have pretty much too many things to handle, so a wife in this sense becomes both a mother, a sister and a friend, she should be able to raise topics when she sees things not going fine in her relationship, let me tell you this, Men get scared when the woman they love call them on the phone as says "I need to talk to you" this phrase alone sends cold down the spine of the husband, because first he would be forced to think that his wife is in danger and feels insecure, and for this reasons he gives more attention, if you are a woman that knows how to get your man always interested in your conversation rather than constant Nagging, then you are on top notch of your game as a wife 2 Likes |
Re: A Special Message For Unmarried Women by bukatyne(f): 2:01pm On Oct 07, 2013 |
lekpalicious: Lmao. When did i say that all men are bad. Secondly keeping a man is no problem. I have a good man who loves and respects me and he is type of guy i always wanted and its not out of desperation. The only reason i am unmarried yet is because we are not there financially yet. So dont worry your lil head about me. I am fine. But why you so bitter though lmao. Dont worry no matter what there will always be stupid girls who will be desperate enough for the likes of you. Lol! Now, this is funny! My sister, there will always be 2 Likes |
Re: A Special Message For Unmarried Women by dabrake(m): 2:01pm On Oct 07, 2013 |
LMAO. Who is even looking for a wife? Money over everything oh. All I need from a woman is to sign a contract with her. She will bear me 2 kids, train them till they are 5 and then I pay her off. I am happy, she is happy, everybody are happy. 2 Likes |
Re: A Special Message For Unmarried Women by UjSizzle(f): 2:02pm On Oct 07, 2013 |
eddiebruk:You misunderstand the topic. Well either that or you believe the woman is the cause of domestic violence. |
Re: A Special Message For Unmarried Women by trolling(m): 2:02pm On Oct 07, 2013 |
nyere84: Its useful...!!!And I can authoritatively tell you that without a head(man), no woman and I mean no woman would make it into the kingdom or why do you think scriptures say in that day seven women will hold on to a man,mind you its not going to be happening in Nigeria, go figure out where the kingdom is then you can talk , don't allow pride and feminism to deceive you also, at the end of the day its all about salvation and eternal life |
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