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Gudbadguy:You're very smart. I support this plan |
Wow |
This is a great lesson to arrogant bosses that love to maltreat their workers like slaves. Nobody knows tomorrow. A servant today can be your master tomorrow. Treat people well even if they are beneath you. Big congrats to Wizkid |
Introvert + introvert is not a good combination. Both of you will be comfortable hiding inside your shells. Find an extrovert that both can mutually complement your weak areas |
So sad. Just look at how an anaesthesiologist mistake ruined a man's life with a promising future |
The kind of hot temper some people have on this thread can boil yam oh it's just a discussion, no be fight. If you are looking for someone to fight, go meet Anthony Joshua, not me ![]() |
But there's no money to pay doctors. God please help me escape this evil country before 2023, please I'm begging you. |
That python is a student of the University, studying Squeezing and Constriction Engineering. Please let it go to classroom ![]() |
No government light in my area on Lagos Mainland now for 5 consecutive days and counting. Normally they take and bring it on intervals but now no light again, as in 24 hours NEPA darkness. I'm getting fed up. Do you have still have government electricity?
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whatever, but I'm not taking any Covid vaccine. |
BKsoul:She said she will give him his kids, so that is not in dispute. Doesn't mean he can't still help out the mother of his kids in whatever little way he can that's convenient for him. She doesn't deserve it, she's totally guilty. But sometimes you repay evil with good, not because the person deserves it but because you have left judgment to God. |
mystery22: why you so mean, lol |
Nyamiri:You just cursed yourself, not me |
You better stay put with your marriage and just count it as your husband has a 2nd wife for now. The fact that he was honest about it upfront and you didn't have to find out 40 years later, or he just moved on and cut off from you permanently (after all, he had nothing to lose since you guys don't have children yet), shows me that it was truly a mistake and he was really sorry and remorseful. But keeping that baby is the right thing for him to do and for that lady insisting your husband must marry her first, shows she sees prospects in him and he's a great loving guy. Because no woman forces a nonsense man to marry her. Just endure, accept your new reality, forgive and love your husband. Abraham had 2 wives, Jacob did too, both due to unplanned circumstances, that's life. I know it's hard on you but another man would have easily dumped you and moved on, especially since you guys are not even in the same country. It's painful I know. May God heal your heart. Sorry! It was probably fear of childlessness that pushed him to it. Every man is usually anxious to have their baby soon after marriage. Not every man has the courage and faith to stay childless for 8 years without panicking or looking for alternative. He might have been secretly getting afraid that he was the problem, that he was impotent and the fear pushed him to try with someone else. Shit happens. |
Quote me when they evict Pere the Dictator ![]() |
Millimann:I'm a man, and they are already divorced. I didn't say he should accept her back or continue marrying her. I said he should help her financially for the sake of their children, not all his children from her are illegitimate, it was only the 1st child. So they still have real kids together. Matters like this understanding and forgiveness is necessary, not every fight among ex's someone will throw petrol inside fire. |
donbachi:Not true, even without Nedu coming out with proof to prove his innocence, I still won't have automatically believed his ex-wife because I know firsthand how vindictive women can be. And Nedu deserves a lot of commendation for handling the matter with a lot of maturity and not letting her provoke him to repay her evil for evil. But what I'm saying is people will always be people and forgiveness is necessary if we are to cope with women. I'm not saying he should marry her or accept her back. I'm saying he should assist her financially for the sake of their children. God forbid if she goes into prostitution or other negative social vices, and her image is ruined, it will affect her children too, people will say their mother is a this or that. She will always be their mother. Nobody can change that. He doesn't have to give her huge money, but like bailout support to help her out of her financial predicament. It's an honorable thing to do, even though she messed up very bad and was wicked, he should do it for the children's sake. When the eyes go blind, it will affect the whole body, so the hands cannot say it is not my business to protect the eyes. |
EzegeNdiigbo:Good idea, but unless it goes viral on IG, he won't see it. Too many comments to notice mine. But Nairaland has the reach. |
BREYZ: ![]() |
Pere and White money about to go too . The money belongs to me ![]() |
yuping:Yep, when women need money, they can throw tantrum like hot oil that water poured inside. She's broke and frustrated. He should try help her with whatever he can afford to dash out for the sake of their children. Women can do a lot of unbelievably stupid things when vulnerable. He should cover her shame small for the sake of his children. |
Mrkumareze:Just look at how you twist the matter. You must be a Nigerian politician ![]() |
Pere and White money should start packing their bags ![]() |
I'm one of your fans and your comedy gladdens my heart every time I watch on Instagram. Didn't even know you were divorced until today when I read your story here and it's quite sad. I know you feel hurt, I know your ex wife did you wrong but please for whatever love you once felt in your heart for her, and for the kindhearted person that you are, please don't treat her the way she is bad, but treat her the way you are good. She might not be the mother of all your children but she is the mother of some and at some point she made you happy and her children for you make you happy. She's obviously in a bad place financially and throwing these reckless emotional outburst was just her own way, howbeit flawed and dumb, but nonetheless it was her live or die last resort of trying to beg for your help. Please I beg you, I know you come on Nairaland, I feel you do, please give your ex-wife some money to help her stand on her two feet with dignity again, she is and will always be the mother of your lovely children. Nobody can take that away from her, and no matter how terrible what she did to you is, she has also put a smile on your face before, even if just for one day. For the sake of God, for the sake of your lovely children, for the sake of your kindhearted nature, please help her out with some of her financial requests like her house rent, and other stuff, as you are able to afford. God has really blessed you and will bless you more if you follow the path of forgiveness. Nobody is perfect, definitely not our women. Whether or not our relationship work out, we can still help out our ex-wives who gave us the children we love, who gave us the next generation. Thank you! Sincerely, Your IG fan! |
"Punabrity" Nairaland has taught me another new something today ![]()
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JAWBONE:Actually, USD was around N210 - 220 when Buhari came in |
These lies can kill somebody
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Romanoff:Check the conversation in the pictures, they already went to court and Chinedu has been given custody but the children are still with their mother because he has been lenient with her and not requested the court to enforce the child custody court judgment that was in his favor. She replied him that she can give him the kids without needing to get the court to enforce it, but stylishly asking him for financial support using their children as leverage. She just messed herself up trying to ruin his reputation with lies and bring him down in the public eyes. Now she's claiming she did it to get his attention when the whole thing has backfired on her and Nedu has told his side of the story which he didn't do before out of maturity. She really messed up. He would have given her money if she had been more sensible and remorseful in her approach to him, not all this social media initial gra gra. If Nedu enforces the court child custody order, that's the end of the game for her because he doesn't owe her financial spousal support or any properties. This is not America, and they were married in Nigeria |
If anyone wants to learn how to demolish high rise buildings perfectly, they should go to the Israeli army. They are the ones that will bomb a building to dust and it won't collapse on the buildings beside it Those guys are too good |
Ammishaddai:Prior to what? Prior Is that a joke or what? He was already in sexual relationships with these ones before Annie. Annie is just the lucky baby mama he chose to marry officially. |
Kajaard:All of them na photocopy of 2Face ![]() |
2Baba our legend, no Annie fashioned against you shall prosper. Nigerians will continue to love you. |
it's just a discussion, no be fight. If you are looking for someone to fight, go meet Anthony Joshua, not me
whatever, but I'm not taking any Covid vaccine.
Is that a joke or what? He was already in sexual relationships with these ones before Annie. Annie is just the lucky baby mama he chose to marry officially.