₦airaland Forum

babs01:
I've done dat with 3 gals b4 @ different tym

tunery004:
Once again thank you for ur well taught of response, u are right 3yrs is just down the line, and one may not even make enough to own a truck in that period, and also one could make more than that also.

Personally, I av a plan and a truck thing is not it, I have wot I do with which am satisfied to an extent. Bro getting a truck is good but just understand that 3yrs of ur life will be devouted to the project, am currently studying for my post graduate degree and I plan to have more degrees, u can't do that following a truck all through war torn places.

The risk outweighs the benefit, the life span of the truck on Nigerian road is less than 3 yrs, its actually 3yrs for developed economies, the conditions, paying for damages cos there would definitely be one case, what of robbery at night, what of the mischievousness of the drivers, they been there b4 u and would definitely outsmart u, cos dey would be wit the truck at all times,while u may decide to rest in a hotel. Oga so much to consider, finally how do u explain to your woman that you don't know how many times u would be able to be home in 3 yrs and u don't know which state you will be the next day.

I can go on and on

londongal03:
Depends on the salary.
100k below- Slap back
500k above- turn ur left ear

tunery004:
Thank you for your observations, u made some valid point. Point of correction sir, u r not to be the driver, u r just to follow the truck where ever it goes. Sir please am happily married, you don't just judge that way from afar. My first job in Lagos was also 15k, I understand hustling cause that is still what I do. Owning a truck in 3 years is a very attractive prospect, but just put ur mind to how u would live for the 3 years. Its easier said than done that when life gives u lemon u make lemonade out of it, bros u don't make lemonade from every lemon cos some lemon are spoilt, rotten and outrightly bad. If u make lemonade from them, the damage the lemonade will cause u may never be rectified.

misreal:
please don't quote me again,since you think wearing a ring has nothing to do with wedding/marriage..

ramdris:
I am a devoted and proud Muslim and I am in total support of this action. Desperate time calls for desperate measures. Instead of hijab, they can use small scarf and wound it round there neck, that way, nothing much will be revealed. We Muslims must support the government cause am pained to see this beautiful religion being degraded by those bastards.

And for those that might want to start spilling rubbish here about other people's faith, you are no better off than the Boko haram their selves cause the same spirit of intolerance and respect towards other people's believe is common, the only difference is the killings.

May Allah(swt) guide our path in this life and may He restore victory to our land while protecting our gallant armed forces who are getting killed for us to live peacefully.

Cc: Seun, lalasticlala

misreal:
mtchwwww..u don't have an arguement sir..do you even know that marriage was created by God, and therefore every activity in marriage should be prescribed by God.if you still don't have a verse from the holy Scriptures.please don't quote me......do me a favour...like my comment and move on...

tunery004:
Sir, my degree helps me to be able to decipher things and helps in making the right decisions. It shows me that there are better and more convenient ways of making it to the top, it doesn't guarantee me getting that dream job,but it helps me in creating my own brand. That the world economy is in shambles doesn't mean I should endanger my life for a purpose that is just out to benefit the business owner. What do you think the life expectancy of a truck driver on Nigerian road is? At the training we were told that a person dies every 11 seconds in motor related accidents, add that to what's happening up north, and that's where ur market is. Now this was the question I asked Mr Carlos, if after travelling with the truck for about 350,000km one was unfortunately involved in a ghastly accident and terrible damage was incurred on the person, what then happens, since there is no insurance or medical package and one won't be able to fulfill the terms of the contract. U can guess his answer............. Its a contract and the terms are biding, if the terms are not honoured then the contract is off, irrespective of the reasons.

misreal:
please show me a verse in the bible that says a person must wear a ring on his hand before he can be termed as married.this is an example of Christians adopting pagan customs into her circle..if what you wrote is the true history of wedding rings,then I don't advice any sane person to wear it..if u can't show me a verse in the bible,please don't quote me..

Geesarki:
That's down South or to the Christians. As for us Muslims in the North, it's a fashion that even kids wear. How can be marriage centered on ring .

IdiAmin1:
I won't comment until I see their replacements.

Hopefully this time, the dullard one won't send near-dead-only-fvlani-speaking-senile Daura men as ambassadors to Western countries.

Until then

stam101:
If u are d same person on ur dp then I'll recommend u for d next miss nigeria and hopefully miss world.

Iwotago?

craziebone:
i disagree with you completely! It is not only in court i can make my marriage to her 'binding'. What about the one we do in the presence of our parents and guardians? You people seem to be fixated on the guy's 'commitment' what about the lady? What kind of commitment is she doing? What exactly is she bringing to the table? Remember, we live in a world where if your wife or girlfriend gets pregnant for you, she can decide not to keep the child and THERE IS ABSOLUTELY NOTHING YOU, A GUY, CAN DO! It is then they would tell you "its my body!" they tell you this like you are dragging ownership of their body with them. All of these are backed up by the law!

This is the reason I WILL NEVER GET MARRIED!!! For them, it is about marriage and nothing else. When you come here, you will find ladies who will break up a meaningful and beautiful relationship with a very good guy just because a stranger came around and proposed to her. And i am like, what...? What exactly is marriage going to give to you that you don't already have with your boyfriend? Personally for me, if there is a thing i am not already getting from my relationship with a lady, then i will never get it in marriage, as simple as that! Is it fulfilment, satisfaction, commitment or love? If we are not already having any of the above while we are still being boyfriends and girlfriends, then we will not be able to get it when we get married. Build a meaningful relationship, first! It is absolutely unreasonable to break up a relationship that is already going on well just because another person came to propose to you. Why wreck a ship that is already sailing smoothly?

0lushola:
Its like u dn't get me, am nt saying couples should run away fr0m their marriage, infact i won't advice it.. you'v promise 4beta 4worst, So endure till tw0 finally become 1.. buh a worst situation involving life and death either fr0m the lady angle or the man angle.. even the court or religious people will advice you to gently work out, for the betterment of both of you.. Like seriously. some things are n0t meant to be buh are done out of Adversity.

bashydemy:
Like i said as a man i have the say over anything that happen in marriage and my pocket will suffer the pain not her's, About loosing at the end you mean for Amaka to go and start another 5years courtship afresh? I guess she will end up in redeem praying for hubby at the end of the day..

Any day any time the guy will always have an upper hand exept if he is broke, Don't be surprise the best friend of Amaka might say yes to prince even without him proposing to her... No be this world wey we dey?

Precious91:
chisos.*runs out without commenting*

0lushola:
And I will tell you that when THE DESIRED is not AVAILABLE, the AVAILABLE becomes the DESIRED.. the worst thing that can happen to a MAN is to get into a bad marriage, I pray you dn't see a situation whereby divorce w0uld be the only option u have..

craziebone:
what do you mean by "bargaining power" especially in this case?

bashydemy:
They should part way and let see who the biggest looser will be..

Joel3:
I don't understand does it used memory card itself to play music? and does it use a battery and if yes what is the battery like? how many hours can it play...

2Mekus:
This is not fair. Make una teach us how we can get unlimited data so we too can enjoy it. This my twinkle twinkle little data cant carry it. I use etisalat. Na the only network wey dey stream 4g for my side.

ephemm:
I wish lots of Nigerians know this man as much as I do; I worked with him, and like every human he may have his shortcomings, but in general he has a good heart for Nigeria, Nigerians and humanity.

God bless U baba

bashydemy:
The last time i check the man is the head of the house, So if prince say he did not believe in court marriage will he be forced to do it? Amaka Should becareful or else she is about to loose 5yrs of her life.

Demmzy15:
Iyá Bàbá é ni òmó àlé!

Demmzy15:
So that's why you quoted it like that, so as I can't reply you. For your mind you be boss abi?!


I'm not justifying their actions rather I'm condemning them and also distancing their actions from Islam. You refuse to admit the groups I mentioned as Christians despite the fact they get their inspiration from the Bible but you're quick to proclaim boko-are-rams as Muslims! Isn't this hyprocisy?!


Yes KKK religious group òmó àlé jati jati!