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ebner70:
Been dia before, but trust me you will gradually get tired of her, all passes are d same, stick to that your wife or else get ready to marry even more

Your case was different you did it to enter a space, OP is trying to close a space.

Big difference

BluStreak:
It seems everybody forgot that this man said he has urged his wife on many occasions to come over to his base so they can live as a family unit but the woman wouldn't. Is he going to drag her like a goat? If he applies force now, the same people berating him will be the 1st to seek for his head.

Can any of you guarantee that the woman in question isn't having an affair already? It is not easy for a man to want to up and leave his marriage and allow his children call another man daddy. Some women are just difficult by default that the best a man can do to save himself is walk away.

Finally someone who can reason beyond mere sentiments!
God bless you real good and may next week be your best yet, for the uncommon gift of common sense which you posses!

Kai im so impressed, with you i now believe theres still hope for this country

bookkeepers:
Young man do you really know the meaning of love, love is when you like and tolerate your husband or your wife because of her bad side and not because of the good side. As for your sex mate she is only interested in making you unhappy. And mind you if you are sack today her love for you will evaporate like,steam so be warned.

Theres somewhere here on NL where a lady bath her bobo with acid, does this remark of yours on tolorence still come in to play?

Enifloxy:
d only reason i see here is u enjoy sex wit d other lady dan ur wife, which happens to b a silly reason. If u dare marry dat lady, d trouble u will get will b worse dan d effect of a boko haram bomb. U knw wat to do, search ur hrt.

yimu

people have done more than this in the past and the heavens did not fall.
he has highlighted the source of the problem but people will not take time to comprehend.

MrsChima:
You will reap what you sow.

If you truly do not want to be with your wife then leave her. Children do not thrive well in broken and unhappy homes. You can't possibly look your son in the eye and say treat your women like I treat your mother. You can't look in your daughter in the eye and say pick a man like your daddy.

You do not respect your wife nor the vows you have made to her. If there were issues..you should sat down with her and try to communicate. If that didn't work you should have seek professional help.

Every marriage has issues and no marriage is perfect. I promise you that your next marriage will have issues as well. You need to develop some problem solving skills so that you don't leave every woman that "makes" you unhappy. No one can make you happy but Allah. You will always be disappointed as long as you live because humans make mistakes and aren't perfect. Everyone has flaws and some serious than others.

If this lady can cheat with you while you married what make you think she will be loyal when you married her? A self respecting lady will not lower herself even for some konji. I am sure she is aware that you are married or has a mate.

If you truly do not want to be with your wife....leave her. You can still care for your kids and do right by your kids.

Babe you need to calm down with the 'threats' regarding this issue. A few weeks back we heard about a celeb whos husband got his girlfriend pregnant and the whole social media went gaga.

This is no different.

No different in fact from when you see a man with a seemingly perfect wife leave home and starts to live with another lady who might be termed uglier than his wife or even below his standard.

Ask why this happens and dig deeper rather than resorting to all this blackmail.

ill tell you one thing though men are like kings and kids together in one, he needs all the attention he can get (the kid in him) and needs to be made to feel like the most important person in your life as a woman (the king).

With women claiming they have equal rights today and whats that supid word that would end most marriages yeah 'feminism' i always laugh.

Seriously as a woman you cant say youre providing the man with the type of things expected of him in a relationship which he sometimes breaks his back to provide.

You on the contrary as a woman...feminist and all that, try to show him that you are independent and all that kind thing that God did not send you in the house. Before he says one youve talked twenty, ok o. He then meets another woman who listens to him, provides comfort and shows him theres a life without pressure and even if there is both of them can deal with it together, meanwhile you youre there forming 'i will give him drama all the time' as a confirmed drama queen. well done. ma.
Its only natural to find a place of comfort and stay there. Thing is he would have spoken to the wife in subtle tones about his displeasure on some of the things but women being who they are never hear or see the signs after all shes the woman and hes the man and so should be able to bear more stress (feminism always hides when shes thinking like this)

Then silifa comes in and takes over next thing the wife is asking how could you do this to me?
story

Please ehn cos if you ask now, the women will say is he not a man (which i guess in their minds is good cause to kill the poor chap)

Im not trying to justify his having affairs but seriously i think its only fair we identify the true cause as to why he would take such a step.
Ive seen married women who believe its not right for them to apologize, when theres a problem. Meanwhile silifa is ready to apologize even kneel down just to ensure her 'king' is always happy.

Its supposed to be a marriage between two people non greater than the other except where you place your partner and your partner likewise places you. You put pride in the mix, prepare for whatever comes in.

Or what do you think the colleague he loves now is doing that is making him turn head?

Using the kids to blackmail him just wont cut it.

Ezenwammadu:

funniest meme in a while almost choked on the teem i was drinking. nice one

MsBliss:
Nope,sex is two way and is best in marriage.

So you gree hear even with all the non tested stories flying all around NL?

How do I do this now? To imagine the OP could be anyone someone meets on the streets of Nigeria with stupidity level of such pristine quality?

I swear I'm never talking to strangers again. if I even need directions let me miss the way eventually I'll get it

Tufia.
God forbid and someone somewhere is bragging "I have a son"

*spits all over thread*

Neduzze5:
Hehehe...

Someone once said GEJ's government was the worst criticized government since the history of Nigeria.

I may beg to disagree with that opinion.


Less than one month and they are already crying

#babaOneChance!

meanwhile na toss we still dey play, game never even start


Dullardinus & friends

shitshappen:
bros eh! no be small thing, i dey manage 08 camry now. But i will soon port to where my passion is. I don dey save small small for mercedes 4matic.

Don't worry the first step is to believe.
God will see you through my brother

shitshappen:
I GUESS YOU ARE RIGHT BRO, I WAS USING A BMW X3 SHORTLY BEFORE THE EOD AND AUDI A4 BEFORE THE BMW. I GUESS I WAS BRINGING A KNIFE TO A GUN FIGHT. YOU SAID IT ALL. MY BAD

see better pikin lol
Guy come back to Germany were waiting for you abeg.
leave Japan for econonmists

shitshappen:
Used mine for 20 months before i sold it at a very good price (over 1m) and moved on to another car.
However i noticed something which nobody had mentioned here, makes me wonder if the problems were peculiar to my car alone.
1: Increased body noise from within the dashboard and doormats after about a year. P.S. i got my car in a pristine condition, it took me more than three days and series of test drive to decide. it was a sound tokunbo, and yes i know about salvage cars. it was not my first ride so i am not a novice.
2: After the first servicing of the entire front leg, the drive was no longer the same. You know that 'kitim' sound you hear when you enter bad road with a sound car? it lost it, i tried and tried but cudnt. i changed the low arm , linkedge, etc
so i sold the car and my friends cud not believe i was selling the sweet ride.
pls dont come bashing about negligence or what. I am married to my cars and i pamper them, i even go for respray after every six months or after any serious dent But on the overrall its a very nice ride with a sweet interior, and mine had a very sexy rim.

from the way you observe I'm inclined to believe your destiny is for you to drive German cars.

That said.

On your observations

1. Na Japanese cars get declarations like 'full option' 'leather seat' blah blah blah and it's for good cause. That cause my friend is what created your observation in this point.
Things such as these don't arise in German cars.

2. If you like go and buy 'follow come' another hybrid word that came into existence because of these Japanese cars the suspension will still act up over time.
it's not a curse...it's the destiny of those cars.

I'll give you an example I had the linkage of my merc replaced at about the same time someone replaced that of his car Japanese but I won't call names for obvious reasons.
seriously when I saw both parts supposedly meant to do the same function for both cars, I couldn't help but feel sorry for the other guys car.

quality is a somerging that can't be compromised.

you can go to the market and compare these parts I spoke of.
insane.

I've even decided to now get another merc with airmatic suspension, how would you then expect me to understand these things you speak of after one month of driving?

long and short, you got that car cos it was economical, how do you now begin to expect premium from it. seriously, is it fair?

This epistle just to tell us plenty people dey toast hairy lady?

OP you try.

Any guy wey dey like woman wey get hair for face like dis, I dey worry for you gan o.

wildchild1:
Short and and straight to the point,and i totally support your view.But wait oo,you mean you successful passed all the stages but still didnt get the job?

In other news 30pairs of TOMS available for sale
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You go fear na. think sey md no get candidate? most of the time these processes na for so it doesn't look as if they don't recruit people.

someone told me of an interview he went for regarding a job, as stages were going people started knowing each other like big brother africa housemates.
Final stage na so 3 other people just appear for big brother house.
long & short guess who got recruited?

Read somewhere that your degree can only get you thus far, but your relationships (what the unaware call connections make things happen)

when you see people sending their kids to schools with obscene school fees you think it's cos they like the color of the uniform?

send the mail I promise you 2 things amongst others

1. like someone said earlier it won't get to the decision makers.

2. this too shall pass.

For me I'll advice you get back on your feet say odeshi and get to understand how to play the game...& play hard.

people are still working with the 1960s rules of get a good grade get a good job.
there were plenty jobs in the 60s

these days jobs are even reducing.
do the math.

timawoku:
Nice! All the governors want na their ECA allocation! Aregbe na the leader of the salivating crew...

ewww the thing pouring on his goatee.

timawoku:
Nice! All the governors want na their ECA allocation! Aregbe na the leader of the salivating crew...

timawoku:
Nice! All the governors want na their ECA allocation! Aregbe na the leader of the salivating crew...

timawoku:
Nice! All the governors want na their ECA allocation! Aregbe na the leader of the salivating crew...

ewww at bolded the thing pouring on his goatee.

Ganiyyah:
If una no hear anything, una go complain. Now Baba is trying to keep us posted on what's happening, yet na to complain sure pass for you

keep us posted with what? the man has spent so much time out of the country in beginning to wonder if his fight for presidency is any different from someone who's been denied visa so many times & just needed a way to get things done.

The job he has is that of the presidency his function is to preside over the affairs of the country and make things better according to their change mantra.

Not to be a journalist reporting still on everything about the previous administration, we already have Sahara reporters for that.

Let him sir his mallam butt down & start to do his primary job function

skoagmola:
Passat nissan 2.0 Factory fitted a/c Leather seat at cheap price Call 08023090093

which one be passat Nissan again kwanu?

CR77:
Mumu

Azzin ehn of the purest kind!

kendrick9:
when are we going to feel the impact of the so called Change

inactivity if you think about it, could also be described as change abi how you check am?

so someone, a president in a democracy can come out to say this type of nonsense?

it's getting to a stage where abusing this man is actually safe to be seen as giving him credence I tell you.
olodo oshi.

Edwardhead:
[size=25pt]These the reasons
suya takes a long process
they buy the raw meat in the morning
they boil / warm or make sure its liquid is reduced
then they gather all the ingredient
by the time they are done with the fire stuff, it's already evening


another reasons

suya is meant to be eaten in a leisure time which is night or evening
and our mentality willnot let's buy suya in broad daylight


make I continue?[/size]


in other news, airtel dey...

or maybe it's just because they know the people who will really buy go don go office.

chamboy:
d girl is British abeg... her OT is not like a biafran

if na Yoruba name you go still talk am like dis?

dealslip:
i havent seen any ndigbo making Nigeria proud since 1914 coments.

We are tired na, the thing has now become routine to us so at the risk of sounding like a scratched CD we just smile and ask within ourselves "who's next?"

Olanireti:
Churches started this first, have heard winners in lagere helping workers some weeks ago, other churches are doing it. Moreover, most churches have welfarrism unit on a normal day that takes care of situations like this

Guy you get time o, so you think the guy no see the post for NL last week? hes only allowing himself be blind sided by religious bigotry. Best part? The winners chapel guys opened up to everyone without using religion to segregate.

Uthmanloay:
PLS SOMEONE GIV ME ONE
STARTIME BUT IT HAV DISH AND I
DONT KNOW D FREQ AND SYMBOL
RATE WIT D PLACE IT FACIN PLS
SOMEONE HELP BROTHER

Dont you think itll make more sense to contact one of their installers who know these things to come and do it? How much are you trying to 'save' here oga? Really

Oyefoods:
Obasanjo, Saraki and other PDPs re wolves in sheep's clothing............... They want money, publicity infact dey will be happy if Nigeria is sold to dem, dey got no feelings for the common man, dey re selfish and greedy and re not contented wit wht God has given dem!






Why secret meeting! Whatever meeting held among u all dat will not favor Nigeria and d common man, INSHA ALLAH, ALLAH will destroy u!

Amin, Amin Amin kun fayakun.

mekstaniac:
So he won't eat or brush his teeth for the whole fasting period? Odeh Oshi

Fasting period is the period when the sun is up na oga, take it easy

Cutehector:
Wats d need? When after ramadan he will still go bak to smoking... God cannot be mocked

At least appreciate his effort na you that is without sin!

ajbabs:
O ma to kaa loju ee bi carnival.
Nothing lasts forever.

In line with what you said guess amaechi deserves this then. Wike is his Karma

Dont go to church then as it seems not to work well with you. if dem go para for house go your boyfriend house go sleep abeg, have you noticed todays weather? The thing go make sense wella, and your BF go appreciate am die!
You sef go get productive week, how you see am?

asdfjklhaha:
But our lives are at stake if we sleep in church, we can end up in hell don't u think hell shuld be more scary dan ur CGPA?

Seriously? And you say youre in school? so going to church is what makes you go to heaven? Even worse still sleeping in church you could end up in hell?

Na wa!

phlemzy:
That man can father u. If u had read that report,u would know that he need not shut up. He needs to give u the report of how your Fedora hat wearing 'prispal' has bastardized the offices kept under his care.

Point taken, but heres the thing i believe, please correct me if im wrong, the reason he was put in that position was to rectify the situation the Fedora hat wearing prispal bastardized the offices kept in his care abi? Assuming of course it was in the Fedora hat wearing prispals tenure the issues in this country began.

Or was he just put there to escalate issues and make noise screaming that the sky is falling?

Come off it now oga, he should get to work and get the job done, see all these antecedences and stuff are wearing thin.

Imagine you own a company, hire a staff to run a post of moving the company forward, provide him with all he needs to get the job done and all he does is coming to tell you about what happened from the past would you still keep such a person?

Be honest.