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she belongs to the streets... don't save her, she doesn't want to be saved..

Unclebayo:
lol, but we still run after them everyday, isn't that weird?

it's nature, men will always be attracted to the opposite sex, but this attraction needs to be controlled unless you want to risk being entrapped in her grasp.. and believe me, getting out of a woman's trap is more difficult than breaking out of prison... always tread carefully else you'll fall as the other men unfortunate enough to get into her traps...

Moniya4Real:
If Karma was real, why is the white man still reaping the benefits of slavery and not experiencing the repercussions of treating their fellow human beigns in the cruelest of manner the way they did.

the people that did it are all dead by now... it's left for the black people to open up their brain and act instead of acting like a victim most of the time... it's time to stop being pawns in white people's game instead of waiting on "karma" to act on their behalf.

even if they recommend a woman to you, do some research about the woman yourself... her background, her family, her past, her qualities... as long as the woman is good, whether recommended or not, you're good to go... if you marry wrong, you'll experience hell on earth.

Sprinklepee:
my dad always say "he sleep with my daughter is hearable but he sleep with my wife unacceptable" if you bang person wife just know say dem go scatter your wife kpekus.

karma doesn't work that way my brother... life is not a nollywood movie... do karma exist, I would say probably, and yes if you believe in life after death... karma doesn't mean because you didn't fvck someone's girlfriend, they won't fvck yours... it's you that shouldn't be stupid enough to marry a foolish girlfriend or a hoe... even if you abstained from sex and married as a virgin, getting married to a hoe will clear that illusion outta your face! karma means you'll reap what you sow, it might not be in the same way, but in a different way...

someone's who's addicted to fornication or other stuffs might get his "karma" differently in other ways not even related to sex.. his own version of karma might be him contracting a deadly disease, being killed in the act by some jealous lover, being a victim of poisoning, thunderbolt or dying in active cervix... for example, what if the person banging someone else's wife knowingly doesn't even plan to get married or stay in a commitment with a woman? what if he only plans to go the baby mama way? you mean karma won't work for him? what you sow, your kids might be the one reaping the rewards even many years after your death, while you face your own reckoning with your Creator... good men die, bad men live long and vice versa... do not be stupid enough to let someone rip you off because you believe karma will deal with the person... he might even up living a better life than you... if you don't also believe in life after death, then your version of karma is flawed...

genius43:
4G Versions are really nothing to phone home about in terms of SOC.
Third party are sellers like Noobody, Macbeyland and the likes

thank you.

genius43:
Redmi Note 13 and Redmi Note 13 Pro each have two variants 4G and 5G only 4G is officially available in Nigeria.

You will have to go through 3rd party to get the 5G Global Versions

okay thank you boss, how's the 4G versions..? and what are the 3rd party options? thanks...

is redmi note 13 or note 13 pro a good buy? those using it, how's your experience? how's the 5G network?

I want to get it for someone..

nifemi25:
Definitely this is not help.... Something you did while expecting thanks is not an help... Either he wore the cloth or not shouldn't be your problem.... You have done your best for him and why not wait for God to reward you.... You never can tell the guy might cherish the cloth to the extent of keeping it as one of his best cloth that need to be wear while going to an important occasion...simply because you haven't seen the guy put on the cloth doesn't means he didn't appreciate...

exactly... op, when you help someone genuinely, do not expect anything in return from them... you might get disappointed.. although, as humans, we love to be appreciated, I understand, but when you truly want to help, let that be the least thing on your mind, whether they appreciated you or not shouldn't be a problem, you've done your part... only expect your reward from your Creator.

Ajheboy:
We all know some of us unexpectedly got into relationships with the opposite sex which we never planned at our struggling state (not financially buoyant etc) then in the end this said woman left us.

To be honest, we all know when we ain't doing better for ourselves no girl is going to stay ,yes of course maybe in Nollywood movies.

So is ladies action for leaving a guy when struggling financially justifiable especially when you know she truly loves you but can't cope with your being financially incapacitated, and can you accept such a woman back when you eventually make money?

if she leaves me because I'm not financially buoyant, I don't have a problem with it because I've learnt to expect nothing and also expect everything especially from that gender.. after all, it's her life and her choice...

if I leave her when I'm financially buoyant or to marry multiple wives, I hope she also understands.... it's my life and my choices... and besides, who says making money is only for men? if she's with me when I'm broke and she's also broke, why the emotional manipulation that she was with me when things was bad? we were both struggling not that she helped me financially or helped me secure a million dollar contract..

and btw, why was she waiting for me to get rich? you sure say that one na still love or na because she nor get better option? when most girls stay with men they were both struggling, it's mostly not out of loyalty but lack of options... women don't give a fvck about your feelings.... her survival is the most important to her irrespective of how her decision might hurt you, she doesn't care... so my guy, always do what's best for you... you'll never regret it..

"women are lesbian by default", I've never seen a more stupid notion.. "what about men are gay by default"??

the westerners are trying everything hard to make homosexuality a normal thing in y'll eyes, and you guys are taking everything in with the hook, line and sinker... it's disgusting... if you guys don't normalise nonsense attitude, you won't be here posting that women are lesbian by default... so disgusting! when lies are continuously being repeated, it becomes the truth....

you better tell am to confess... or what instrument did he use to shave? anyway, a professional doctor would provide you with the solution you seek..

you were even nice enough to ask when she was gonna pay back, it shows you were ready to help... some guys nor go even send her... you con talk say she block you.. lmao, shey you send her papa before nii? abi na she dey pay your own bills?

the funny thing about those kind of girls is that, they know the kind of men they famz, the kind of men they put on their status, but the ones they can be billing freely as per mugu, dem nor send them... my brother, be happy one leech is out of your life... why do you need female friendship sef? wetin you wan gain from having friendship with women... it's either you're benefiting from each other either in cash or kind, if not, it's a total waste of time... mostly, friendship with women don't benefit men, only women... they would rather use you as their resource bank, boredom killer or their emotional tampon... the real gees they give a fvck about don't give a fvck about them...

e be like say una nor get news to report again, na to make this glorious simp trend abi?

poshestmina:
Wow!
Your new Psychiatrist or Therapist is doing a good job !!!
I'm proud of this only sensible comment you've ever made and I hereby sheld my sword.

However ,Women work because they want to make use of their brains, certificates ,experiences and to "bring something to the table ,aside giving birth and raising good kids".

you this "woman", I need to put my dīck in your mouth so you can shut the fvck up!

wait, you mean the only comment you small brain was only able to comprehend? wait, sheathe your sword kè? draw your sword baby girl let's fight...

this thread also further proves the fact that accountability is not a woman thing, lmao

instead of them to think deep into the message passed across, admit their mistakes and change their ways, they would rather question the credibility of the message... see them saying the posts wasn't made by real foreign women lmfao , even if it wasn't said by them? does this make what was said to be false? when Timaya was saying that Nigerian ladies are the worst set of people you can ever date because of this disgusting habit, these same people are the first to call him out... lmao...

the fact still stands, most modern girls line of reasoning is demented!

Namaster:
The heart of the average Nigerian is full of UNDISTILLED evil. It brims with evil so PURE the devil is envious.

Imagine the wickedness. Customers are already buying the petrol at an INFLATED price YET the wicked attendants want them to buy USELESS meatpies. Further investigation will probably reveal that the price of the meatpies bave been JACKED UP too.

Yet the attendants will return home and bitch about corrupt politicians.

Fact is the average Nigerian is MORE corrupt and wicked than the average Nigerian politician. Only difference is in scale and scrutiny.

NEVER put yourself in a position where you are desperate for something from a Nigerian. It's a TERRIBLE position to be in.

this has also been evident in their attitudes displayed with market prices... "Dollar oo dollar ooo", dollar rise, product prices became expensive, dollar fall, still the same.. at the time of no cash, pos people used the opportunity to contribute to the hardship already faced... same with fuel attendants now, I ask, is the government truly the problem or we are our own problem...? are the leaders truly corrupt or the corruption is an innate ability? as we are, so will our leaders be... most of the people complaining about bad governance or corruption will do much worse when in that position...

we are our own problem... until we change ourselves, this country will never do good... when we go other country, we go dey treat theirs with respect, afraid to go against the rules, but for here, we dey do anyhow, like animals in the wild... smh

I doubt your "story" is true... but na wetin dey happen for modern offices today sha... well, with all these rubbish wey una dey do for office so, you sure say una primary duty for there, una dey do am so?? abi na fornication and adultery be the main focus for there? how una take dey do am to dey sex work mates sef? you wan dey shit where you dey chop? you wan put yourself for trouble ba?

with all una rubbish, I pray the company doesn't fold...

Bongadu:
Women’s education is the most tightly corrected factor to the birth rate of a country. It’s an inverse relationship, by a lot.

Women should be educated to do nothing more advanced than multivariate algebra so they can calculate flower and sauce amounts better in the kitchen. They really don’t need anything more complex than that.

How does it benefit society to educate women to have careers? It doesnt. They should be mothers and homemakers.

this might sound misogynistic but it's not...the real idea why the lawmakers approved feminism and supported women workers is because of the fact that they can slave as their male counterparts in generating revenue for the powerful.. more workers, more profits, more tax and bills to be paid...

another reason was that, it gives the government control over the homes... by making the parent social workers (slaves), the children are in care of the government...this enables them imprint mentally unstable ideas in the children minds... children are taught LGBTQs, racism and all other bigotries... now it has gotten to the extent that parents aren't allowed to discipline their child, else they risk ending up in jail or their children taken away from them... so chains enable the powerful and the real owners of the states to maintain control and carry out their aims... they encourage and support anything that destroys the family, like single parenting, single motherhood, homosexuality, incest and the likes...

women should work.. but which type of work? works that don't distract them away from their primary duty — the home... women should engage in works that makes them revel in their femininity... the logic of competing with men and being in the same line of duty as men is a logic devoid of reason, because men and women both have their part to play, and these parts are also backed by the natural instincts of both sexes... works like teacher, midwifery, fashion, cook, nursery, and other similar profession are what women would naturally thrive in.. a woman's work should not be engaging or vigorous for her not to be able to perform her main, which is managing the home and taking care of the kids... her work should only act as a support for the family, not as the foundation itself... this also enables the children learn what needs to be learnt and ensure they get raised properly..

well this is coming late, but for anyone that might be in the same situation in the future...
don't send your account number, source the money elsewhere and ensure you visit, and when you do, don't go there and start acting like a pvssy... act like the man you are and own up to your consequences...

your dick was working, but your finances wasn't... this is your karma, face it head-on... you won't be the first and definitely won't be the last...

RevenuesBoost:
Thanks ❣️

Please I want to know
In what way will it affect the baby?

Will it cause a miscarriage, that is, kill the baby?

Or will it affect the formation of the baby?

it might not affect the baby, but it might affect you... stuffs like acid reflux are common when pregnant... fruits or drinks that are acidic might make it worse... and if stuffs like that can affect you, it might affect the child as well, and you wouldn't want something bad to happen to the child before you can confirm if it's all myth, lies or truth.. it's better to be safe than sorry...

a woman I'm familiar with was nursing a child... unknown to her, she was not supposed to take a particular drug as the child was still breastfeeding... the drug affected the formation of the child's teeth..

btw, an experienced professional doctor will shine more light on the answer you seek...

lol my brother nor let oppression kill you...

but that aside, most of the things you see is just an illusion... a mask to cover up what really goes on behind doors.. if most rich people told you what they did to get riches or fame, you would doubt yourself if you would ever get rich... not everything you see is what they truly are... just stay on your grind and tread carefully...

it's not that eating pineapple is totally unsafe when pregnant but to be on the safe side, it's recommended not to eat it because you might be tempted to eat more than usual which can increase the amount of acid present in your system which can affect the baby... pineapple has some percentage of acid in them...

you can eat fruit like banana but consume more vegetables and avoid junks and sodas totally... light exercise too helps greatly... I wish you safe delivery...

their entitlement mentality is out of this world... so disgusting.. for their fellow women to call them out shows how demented their sense of reasoning is and how they are being perceived by others... but would I blame them? simps are mostly the enablers of this disgusting habits followed by the mentality impacted on them by their parents..

all these things just to ensure a wife doesn't leave lmao, monkey dey work, bamboo dey chop.. the real slave worker... list all the things that will ensure women keep their man...

1000Capacity:
You don't have to report them at the moment. Talk to the head pastor and sort the issue amicably.
God didn't send anyone to be a noise maker and disturb other people's health.

I agree with this... if the issue doesn't get solved after this, then involve the authorities...

this is a good development, away from the shackles of the West, the way una take penetrate Libya to kill Gaddafi nor fit work again...

oh boy, if I say you're dense, it would be an understatement...

pansophist:
A lot of Nigerians romanticize the west. The west has its type of hardship. It's punishing to dependent people. Those who expect someone else to help them apply for something, or to borrow something, assist them, etc.

The development of the West is not achieved by people sitting and expecting other people to do it for them. I am impressed when I look out the window at midnight in the dead of winter at -35 degrees, men are busy with tractors clearing snow.

most people are deluded... I laugh especially at those who see these western countries as paradise... in fact, apart from the bad governance or whatsoever, Nigeria provides lot of benefits, opportunities and freedom... most people's businesses wouldn't thrive here if it was like the West, but since most people are deluded into seeing beauty pictures of the country they romanticise, they are misled into thinking that's all there is...

you'll work, work, work and most of them will go into laying your bills and rent... work your ass out while giving it all back to the system... their system works right, you have to pay for it... why it looks cool in their eyes is that, the exchange rate of the currency, so small change there looks big to them... and we don't even have to count how many shifts before you can keep up... my brother, if you have a working business and a home in Nigeria or other African counties, it will be so foolish of you to sell your property in order to go "start life" abroad... you are simply just an advanced slave to the system, someone who's dependent on the Matrix...

tochez24:
Even dangote himself is banging foreign bannies with luxury lifestyles⚠️


All these broke people sef😅🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣

when I see posts like yours, I laugh... it's just like saying Elon Musk is getting himself drunk with alcohol daily... lol, you know the difference between both? Elon Musk and similar rich people you mentioned are already established and can stay for years doing nothing and their money source would never be dry... those people you mentioned are already established, so they can afford to do anything they like... a man who's hoping to put himself out there in the world and be useful shouldn't be doing all of what the op listed or distracting himself with pleasures... all these and more are what hinders men into becoming a better version of themselves...

if a man lacks purpose, he's going to distract himself with temporary pleasures and would forever remain average, poor and depressed...