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Saskay44:
I'm I the only one?

if I was the one, I would download softwares I need, or update the necessary softwares... HD tutorial videos, games, movies... but that's after I've done the important stuffs first...

there are important softwares you can get online and quality books... do not let it go to waste... download what you can before it disappears..

lol whoever thinks the debt was cleared is simply joking.. something that can't take them less than a day or at most a week to fix and the people owing will get back to default settings...

people jubilating that they are lucky not to pay the money they owe will still be the ones shouting corruption on leaders... oh no, how hypocritical can the humans be? smh... as the people is, so will their government also be..

as a man thinks, so is he...

$250 million dollars on women? smh.. most people are simply foolish... I'm sure even the little you have now are spent on frivolities.. people like you are the type that spend their entire savings on brothels, gambling and alcohol...

how would I describe such a man?

a foolish and finished man... a slave to the system... a feminised and a brainwashed man...

I don't hate women... why would I hate women... Mr man, you need help if you hate women... if you got played or betrayed by a woman due to how dump or naive you are back then, it's left for you to sharpen your senses...

I don't hate women, I only detest foolish women... women with low IQ...

saintopus:
If your Boss finds out about the relationship between you and the girl, you may lose your job

So you've got to choose between the job and the girl

exactly and again, even if they want to continue the relationship low key, he has to put up with the fact that his boss will also be sampling the girl and if they are to get married, he should be prepared to raise the boss's kid...

Mr man, your boss go don dey sample the girl and it won't stop anytime soon, so it's your choice to make... all the talk wey she dey talk say she doesn't want him, na story.. she doesn't want him but she dey collect the money abi? dey play...

rules are for the poor.

confidently living off a man without planning to marry him, to them it's cruise because that's how they were trained to become... like mother like children.. you see why I don't pity these modern girls when they get served hot? they are nothing but parasites... they date the yahoo guys because of what he has so they can leech off him not because they love him, I don't pity them one bit when they have their head cut off for rituals... so he was older than you and you didn't tell him straight yet, you kept leading him on and eating his stuffs with your mother? I don't even know who's to blame whether it's the simp or the greedy fools..

I know the simp man would have moved heaven and earth for them not believing that he was just a fool in the game of the mother and daughter...someone who has been in the relationship game for long would have known that he's just getting played all this while but a simp and his resources are soon parted..

now if the daughter ends up with someone that doesn't give a fvck later in life or doesn't find a partner, they blame it on spirits not blaming it on how they played good men in the past...

she has learnt her lesson... girls with no fvcking sense... reading through the chats, the guy said he sent money for Uber to come to his base, she didn't respond and she didn't even send his money back... I'm sure she even told him she will be there... hungry throat... but when the call for food came, she was the first to get there and ate like it's her last day on earth... low IQ idiot..

at first the simp got played, and he changed the game and played the player...

Kemistri3:
So you're a lady using men's product? 😂

this is to show you that women are never satisfied and you can never satisfy them... despite all the millions of creams and products for women, they still go for men's product...

for example, the agbada wey be say na men dey sew, dem too sew am turn am to trend... men are the ones mostly wearing joggers and sneakers, they turned it around into a trend and this made them increase price of joggers... and the likes...

they are never satisfied with their own self... God gave them eyelashes, dem cut am draw their own, use different foundation and makeup, fake boobs, fake asses after that dem go still use filters... and one mumu man will think he can satisfy them...

congratulations man.. but keep your family life away from social media... you don't need the fake validation...

Quality20:
But they can hardly kill u with raw sexual strength during intimacy unlike those very young 18 to 25 u quoted. Also ladies 30 to 45 are more compassionate and independent, so u won't have too much probs with them

you have low IQ.

Iseekforpeace:
I have been trying to quit this habit since 2018. I keep going back. I’m drained

that's because you've programmed your brain to always see it as a quick getaway or the shortcut to riches... so your brain won't think of other things you can do to make money, you are even killing your brain because all it thinks about is gambling and nothing else ...

do your best to leave it as soon as possible or else, it will destroy you... if you mingle with friends who see gambling as a hobby, dump them... don't be found in betting shops... engage yourself in productive things instead, learn some new skills, read new books... think outside the box..

she used intimacy or let me say the illusion of intimacy to manipulate you... since she see say you don fall for the scope, na to use am against you... next thing billing or making you do the unthinkable... you were now begging her? for what? as per wetin? are you that weak? you con dey chase her? you wey you suppose don throway eye the time she begin to show attitude, that will put her in her place... now you've put her on a pedestal and allowed her to look down on you... she will see you as a weak man from now on...

you were not wrong for asking or going for sex as per the man you are... if she didn't wanna do such, she wouldn't have visited you... but my advice is Mr man, stay away from fornication...

lol most parents don't even care how their kids make dough, as long as it reaches them, they will even pray for him... for modern parents, the one who makes more money even though illegally is a responsible and a good kid, the one who's struggling and doing legit work is lazy and doesn't take his work or life seriously...

most parents led their children into the life they are living now... I've heard a mother told his daughter that, I'm not saying you shouldn't fvck around, but make sure the dick you are fvcking have cash... the man she later married is a known yahoo boy and which the mother is also aware of it... if dem use that one do ritual tomorrow, who dem go blame?

oz4real83:
You knew she was public property and still went in raw with her and you now claim you are wise and smart, forming redpill

because at the sight of pvssy, most men lose their sense of reasoning...

jackmrandy:
You go dey follow woman go saloon? How e be you for that one? You were moving around with her like handy bag. Mind you she did not just met that guy there first time as you are presuming. They have known for long. Dey play

simps will always learn the hard way...

BlackhatMentor:
What an idiot

Ur mom should be celibate for life or what?

You think it's easy?

Goto school first and try being celibate for life

learn to read... he didn't say his mom should be celibate... he's just against his mom bringing a man in his father's house... is it that difficult to understand? doesn't the man have his own space?

Shedrack777:
maybe your mother told your step dad that she built the house. but apart from that, i don't think any man will because of lack of shelter move in to a woman's late husband's house except he wants to milk her

this is because most of them are truly fish brains...

CloudTrees:
The properties belong to your mother since your father didn't leave a will.
Mind you, if your mother love that man so much, you are playing with your life.
Its better you pick your bag and go to school.
Struggle to build your own wealth too instead of fighting

what law and in what section this was written?

Nataliace:
You are a student? Just focus on your studies and forget the things that will distract you. Your mother has the right to bring in a man so don't do what will implicate you. Moreseo, if she curse you it will follow you.

did you type this with your brain active? if yes, I wonder what you would have typed if your brain wasn't active...

sholikay:
you talkedbased on your own perception of life..my morals and religion do not permit me to have pre marital sex,or harbor a woman without doing the necessary..

That I don't have money to carter for a decent wedding I want to do,doesn't rule me off as being unfortunate in life or not being able to provide for me and my wife..I always believe that its a lazy man that has no business with marriage..
I am being encouraged by people whom were with nothing when they married their wife and things turned around for them in the long run...
...

Oga truth is bitter, no condition is permanent... and besides, don't you know anything apart from the introduction and dowry is just cost imposed on yourself... don't forget, you're asking for funds for wedding... most people don't actually care about what happens in your marriage, but now you are looking for funds to solicit your wedding... not business or anything? don't you know wedding is totally unnecessary in the first place... anything you spent there is nothing but waste of resources take it or not... what matters most is the marriage and how you plan it... you are even asking for loans for wedding... don't do it.. I know there might be some people encouraging you to do that, but trust me, when wahala start, they will be no where to be found... you don't have to impress anyone...

if you don't have money for the wedding now that you can handle comfortably, you better leave it for now and face what's important or better still leave it for another time... it's not a must to do wedding Mr man... you'd rather invest in your marriage and not wedding..

Nonexisting1:
I keep wondering why some people insist on being foolish. You are begging for money to do wedding, not to improve a business or even eat food. What stops you from doing a wedding based on the amount you currently have. Everyone wants to do society wedding and please their inlaws only to crawl back and soak garri after that. If your inlaws insist on doing it the way "everyone else" does it, why not support you or marry her out to the "everyone else" then. You will borrow money for wedding today and maybe tomorrow, you will borrow to buy matress according to your inlaws specifications. Mtchew. People should start prioritizing their needs in this country. I'll rather throw my money inside river Niger than give it to someone to marry wife. Nonsense

that's because most people are foolish... they let others direct the affairs of their life... when I saw the title of the thread, I thought it was something serious, never knew it was even for a wedding lol... you never even put wife for house oo... if you never stable, you better remain single and enjoy your life, you want to put yourself into unnecessary pressure because of the wedding... I pity you... that love go soon clear for your eyes when the real work starts...

Most people are sheep...

he can, with a very good lawyer... I'm just wondering why it's now that the parents died that he realises he needs his child.. mtchhw nonsense... man don die, una still wan cause his family another grieving moment by saying his child he catered for ain't his... why now? why fight after all these years?? another disadvantage of marrying an unfaithful woman; raising another man's seed and causing unnecessary drama...

does the dead man know she was pregnant or she decided to keep it a secret? this is why it's required for the woman to spend 3 months in the husband's house after a divorce to clarify if she's pregnant before she can finally leave in Islam... well they were never married anyways, just fornication...

don't date a woman out of pity, if you don't like her, just maintain the level of friendship you guys have... don't start what you'll regret later... and the thing is that, if you advice her now to hit the gym because she's fat, she will likely take it as something else...

just close your mouth and know the kind of things you share with her... if you go deceive am say you love her and you con leave her, anything wey your eye see, take am oo...

if to say she get all those figure and beautiful face now, na you go dey disturb am and her shakara go too much...

they call you guys fish brain and everyday you guys are going hard to justify why y'll are truly fish brains... Not even an effort to change the narrative...

martinsoreoluwa:
I have same experience before she is a CAC Member.
Her Pastor told her we are not perfect Match. So I break up with her. Was 30years then. So I can't fight for love at all.

you're a wise man... let the pastor find the perfect match for her lol...

money stops nonsense...

Dump her... I'm not against her being churchy, but she's gullible and also dogmatic, someone that isn't capable of thinking for herself...

and besides you said because she's "churchy", you guys haven't been intimate, hope she's not giving someone for free out there while selling you the celibacy scam? abi she talk say she be virgin? she might have seen how much in love you are and decide to manipulate you with it because at that moment, thinking logically will be like a myth to you...

and all these my pastor say, I just laugh, the pastor eyes sef fit dey there, he fit dey chop am sef or make e wan give her to his son... lol if to say you be rich niqqa now, dem nor dey see prophesy for that one.. you would be automatically God sent.. lol we know...

this is why we tell men not to invest more than the woman they are in relationship with unless she's proved herself that she really wants to be with him... now you're emotionally invested and you've probably moved mountains for her while she might have not even done half of that for you, it would be hard for you to move on as she don dey prepare to serve you hot breakfast... that's if she never even serve you sef and that's if you haven't been dating yourself all these while she has other plans... your eyes don finally clear...

stanliwise:
Well what I am saying is a bit contrary to what you said.
I mean women act differently based on the her phase of life, situation, the man involves and some other things.
e.g When a girl meet a man in a club, she is more loose towards same man than when she meets him in a church etc
also young women like 21 - 25 are more likely to act loosely towards men. older ones and the ones ready for marriage try to act socially correct.
So there are grey areas. if you don't add the specifics, you're likely to give OP the wrong advice. and perhaps OP didn't say much about this lady in question.

sure, but right now, the topic is about sex on a first date in general... and btw, a girl who you met at the club should tell you that she's just there to have fun... you'll be taking yourself for a fool if you think she's there for nothing more than just that... one night stands are common in such places.. let's just stay on the topic...

I would rather stay at home than go that kind of outing... unless your own girl will be present as well, it's nonsense... na if you nor get work you'll go that kind outing... wetin you wan dey do there sef...?