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this is one of the reasons why simps should be sentenced to death... they are not only dangerous to themselves but to the society... their mentality is even more myopic than that of feminists... it's a disorder...

wow! a record would soon be broken by the time she reaches 20! keep it on bro! don't give up just yet! she will soon be given her own plaque like Hilda Baci...

she's a 5000 yard wife material... I love industrious women like that...

I can feel her pain behind the laughing emojis... nor be new thing...

I thought they said they don't need men..

you would be surprised what people do to acquire power or status at any cost... you were warned not to eat, you would have asked the person the reason why, and if he failed to reply you, you would have monitored him and see how he feels or if he later consumes the food... he would know something you don't...

all what you're recieving for free comes at a cost... nothing is free in this life, you're always paying with something, unless you don't know what that is.

you said you dress decently, you don't expose your endowments, and you don't give the off the "she's just for fvcks vibes"? if so then, it might be something to do with your personality or character... believe me, when you respect yourself, men will also respect you...

if the men approaching you are only in for the fvcks, then you're better off single, or else, you'll just end up being passed around.. until a man does the needful, always like talking about marriage and taking it further, then just keep an open mind that you're still single.. or maybe the people that are attracted to you, ain't your 'type'? or you have created the imagination of what an ideal man should be in your mind and the people you're meeting ain't up to that standards? are you looking at the wrong place? or you're prioritising what's not really necessary when looking for your ideal man? just know that reality is often not what we expect it to be... if your character is good, and you're of good marriageable quality, and also comfortably feminine, just keep doing what you do best... your time will come...

mind your business young man, her husband should be the one carrying the matter for head not you... unless you sef gan don dey like am...

person wey won marry for this generation suppose know wetin e wan enter...

Jeon:
Provision shop to turn your personal super market.

so because he's looking for someone selling provisions means he's looking for someone to turn to his personal super market, but if a lady is looking for a rich man, you won't say she's looking for a personal ATM... women can talk freely about what they want, but when men does same, it's misogynistic or toxic right? lol talk about double standards once again...

and have you looked at another perspective if he's actually well-to-do and looking for someone who's industrious, business minded, and someone who really have something to offer and not just a liability?

that's what turns her on.. why are you sounding like a novice?? If you don't like it, tell her na.. I don't know how you're built but if you are well built with all the chest muscles and biceps, they love pressing and nibbling them..

we all know...

she's either trying to eat it or the cucumber is trying to eat her

women are perverts too, but they do it covertly... this is why those who are naive in the game take them as saints or angels lol... bad mind, damaged body, innocent face.. it is what it is...

someone referred to herself as Gen Z olosho and you're still asking why she's exposing her breast...?? what do they have to offer other than their body?? sense? dem nor get... quality? dem nor get.. let them freely showcase what they are selling na...

death doesn't have a stipulated time... the cause of the death is only thing that differs... and no man on earth can predict where death will end him up... if you're a Nigerian, and it was destined for you to die in Canada, something will happen that will make you travel to Canada and you'll die there... you'll never see it coming...

always do good...

he might be communicating to you indirectly that he likes you, and not the perf...so he doesn't want to come direct, so in case you accuse him, he can easily exonerate himself... in order words, he wants to have a taste of you... I guess you're a lady, he fit use perf level take enter you, and before you know, you're a married man's side chic...

he might just like the perf you're wearing and nothing attached but if that's really the case, he would have given you the money to buy it for him if he's really serious about the "perf" and not you... Lol abi e wan talk say e nor know where dem dey sell perf? Op nor lie, you sef like am abi? No be why you volunteer to give am the money or buy him the perf? Lol, you should have asked for the money to get it for him as well..

what research did you carry out to come up with this claim? this question is actually a brainwashing tactic to make more women engage in promiscuity while giving them false hope that men don't value virgins, that men value damaged products... smh.. other men may value used cars and leftovers, but I would rather go for the new ones untouched...

only men without standards, men with scarcity mindset, men with low self-esteem, men who are afraid to go for what they want, men who are naive in the relationship game will go for damaged products over new ones...

when a man don't give a fvck about a particular woman, he doesn't care if she's a virgin or not, he doesn't care if she drinks or smokes, he doesn't even care about her past or if she just finished having a gangbäng... but when it comes to a woman he's considering something serious with, he looks into all those...

Confirmedzombie:
Cut the long epistle. What you don't know won't kill you.

Close eyes, take the money, buy a bottle of coke

Sit at a corner, enjoy the yam and Akara.

Nothing to form. It's a Manna from Above.

Miracle no dey tire Jesus

because I haven't drank coke before? or because I'm hungry for coke?

lol incase you don't know, what you don't know can lead to your death... ignorance have led most to their grave...

dhiqson:
It's as if what we preach here don't get enough audience
A grown ass made man is saying "people aren't forth coming"!!
A man desperate to be used
Scarcity mindset at the very peak
Prolly the sex they've had, has blocked his rationale mind
Like what's happening



I wish you well sir
God bless and give you your heart desire

Cc Reminders

some men can't be saved, even if you tell them from today till infinity, they will still prefer to experience it themselves the hard way... advising such men is a waste of time and energy... let the people who refuse to learn perish!

1, 3, 4 and 5 is of utmost importance! fail to do that and see the consequences!

in front of the gate?

broke people will go for it..
the ones that are doing well for themselves will overlook it and throw it in the bin..

sometimes poverty can make the wrong decision looks like the right decision for you... even if you don't believe in all these, you have to ask yourself the intention of the person that dropped this in front of your gate, you should know he doesn't really mean well...

I would rather avoid even if I'm broke than consume problems that will add to my problems... how much be the money wey you wan kill yourself? or shey na Akara dey hungry you reach like that? greediness kills...

op, thief nor dey ask thief money, e expect to steal am...

broke people don't ask other broke people for money...

their life depends on men... even when she has her own money, she still looks for ways to rip off men... in summary, they can't do without men...

women hate themselves and they know that...their manipulative tricks can't work amongst themselves... this is why their main target is the simp or the weak man.. even the one forming independent boss bitch are being funded by these men... men are their oxygen...

Samantha124:
I once asked two of my then female friends and they all started giving me excuses even before they could ask how much I needed... They even cut ties with me just because I asked for a small financial assistance that was only going to cost R200...

Instead of telling me they couldn't help, they decided to ghost me...

and these same women will be out there setting unrealistic standards and expectations for men, well I blame the simps they relate with sha...

hmm 25 years old with a 6 years old kid? just make the wrong decision, and you'll remember the day you were born...

the breakfast wey the girl serve really touch you na why, it's an important phase you have to go through as a man to really understand what relationship is all about and not to invest irrationally... it will open your inner eyes and make you sharpen your senses next time... once bitten, twice shy...

you're a man, you're not supposed to let emotions cloud your sense of reasoning... guard your heart ruthlessly and only give your commitment to the woman who has proved herself to you and have tangible thing to offer you, or else, she will serve you another breakfast and that will shatter you completely...

she wants you to push higher so she can have more to gain from you bro... so when you marry, ready to spend your life savings to fund her lifestyle and also to keep the marriage going... if you're not ready for this, then leave...

and in other perspective, she might want you to be well established first... there's no way you'll run away from billing when you're thinking of marriage, whether directly or indirectly... her being vocal about it doesn't change anything but it seems she might just be after what she stands to gain and not necessarily for your own wellbeing or for the marriage itself meaning she's only in for the good, when it turns sour, she runs or starts frolicking with other men... it's your choice to make... it also depends on the way she mentions it to you...

alex8724:
Why is it that early marriage isn't really supported nowadays?
Going through his profile (if true), I don't think he's doing that bad for a starting youngster. If he wants to get entangled, I don't see how it's your problem.

el oh el.

You have 2 things disturbing you that have destroyed most men... fornication and gambling...

you're just not engaging in fornication, but with hookers... the devil doesn't even need to be with you because these two things will automatically do what needs to done... this will lead to your end if you don't desist...

Mindlog:
How will that stop women from becoming mothers?

The reality is that what defines family in today's world is fast evolving as there is a subtle and deliberate increase of families without husbands and fathers in the family pictures.

and do you know the after effects of that? do you even know how most child who were raised fatherless ended up to be? lol, you don't expect me to point out that to you... a little research from your end will do justice to that...

and again, when I said women will mostly be the ones bearing the brunt if men decides not to get married is not because it will stop women from becoming mothers or not... it's because the benefits women see in marriage and the security it provides favours them more than men... they invests less, they risks less while enjoying the most benefits... even the children that's the product of the marriage mostly ends up catering to their mothers more... so tell me, what does men really have to lose when there's an easy way for them? if not because of religion or our innate sense of morality, most men would rather remain unmarried... even the ones that married, some of them are crying out seeking help, week in week out...

men can perform independently... in fact, they make wonders when they do that, women need men more than men need women and there's nothing that can change this fact...

Cooolme:
Lol not everyone within my age limit is broke.
At my level I know my priorities.

When a man can afford 3 square meals, the next thing he thinks of is marriage, he feels he has become a man.. don't worry, I see the love still dey shack you...

I will stop here...

Cooolme:
We're not so old like you think she's 20, I'm 22 and we only started seeing frequently for the past 2 years. She only visits twice a month mainly on weekends, we've never co-habited for a whole week.

wow you guys are even still young and you don dey think of marriage?? young man, you have a long way to go that making women your sole purpose... shey you think say na love love be marriage abi? you're obviously still under your parents and you still haven't gotten any clue where your life is headed yet.. get your life together first, elevate yourself, make money, for now what you guys are still doing is child's play..

don't be even surprised when she clocked 21 or so, she starts seeing someone else and dump you... for now, you should be more focused on yourself...

she doesn't want to continue doing wife things for you only to end up being dumped by you... you should only be worried if she can't cook or she's generally lazy... then that's something to worry about... but as long as you're doing husband things for her which you're not supposed to do for a girlfriend, the she's expected to do wife things for you which she's also not expected to do for a boyfriend... if she spends time with you in your apartment, she's expected to do some certain things which cooking is also one of them unless na outside food una dey waste money on... just know that, the habit she adopts while dating is what she will continue when you marry her... and shey you guys don do blood test to see if you are compatible, nor be say after una don waste each other time una go dey talk say"had I know"??

but come to think of it, you guys have been fornicating for 4 years, you guys should better marry each other because I don't know why it took you this long to know if she won't cook or can't cook..

one thing I've stopped doing is advising women, especially women at their prime, and my peace of mind have magnified... I advice you do that and see for yourself...

stop wasting your time, life will surely teach everyone...

yeah, the thing is most people set unrealistic standards from themselves... but the fact still remain, more men are realising they have much to lose and little to gain when it comes to that commitment, so very few are willing to take that risk... all things being equal, it's a known fact that women benefits from marriage more... many are also not of marriageable quality but we mostly look at the financial aspect of it..

but let it be known that, if men decides to stop getting married, women mostly will be the ones bearing the brunt...

guobe:
I know it's not new but married women should desist from this act as it has alot of repercussions.

wetin concern olosho with repercussions?

I'm just wondering why you're acting surprised like this kind of thing is just happening for the first time... what's the surprise here? this is nothing new...