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KingEarnest:
It's too early to be dumb.
You put cheating and paternity fraud in the same category?

Has any man from his "cheating spree" given a woman a child that is not her's to raise?

you would be surprised that most people are actually foolish like the moniker you replied to..

a man cheats, a woman also cheats.. paternity fraud is a completely different scenario and it's applicable to only women... a woman can cheat but still carry your child... men don't bear children...

at 24, you have no direction in life yet, no stability, and you're worried about if a girl would leave you...? you still have a lot to learn in life... but I will tell you one thing, women are not going anywhere!... focus on yourself first.. you think there's no one like her? that's how emotional investment, oneitis and scarcity mentality begins... the next thing you know, you're trying so hard to impress her, trying so hard to convince her while losing yourself slowly... and when the time comes, she will tell you what you will never be able to recover from... you think because she's 21, she's still young abi? lol don't worry, let an established man or a man who see beyond the facade handle her first, your eyes go clear...

all these things you're feeling now is just an infatuation, a temporary feeling, an illusion... women are not going anywhere!

who introduced wedding in the first place? the most important aspect when it comes to marriage is the introduction between families followed by the dowry which is a unique gift for the virgin bride... any other thing is self-imposed costs and exaggeration...

why stress yourself or why would you be foolish to overburden yourself to take a loan in other to impress people who don't care about you? how does he doing the wedding or the "reception" guarantee the quality of that marriage? na because of una long throat and greed na why una dey impose all these shit on too couple's head not because you guys care for the couples... money wey he suppose invest, he go waste am on top wedding finish? marriage wey fit nor last... smh.. talk about misplaced priorities...

we nor dey compare technological advancement, we nor dey boast of stable economy, na penis length we dey boast with.. smh.. Blacks with black mentality....

most women are poor in bed as well... but do you know why they left it to you guys to keep doing all the work? because they know that most of you are weak and easy to manipulate and will do anything to satisfy them!

who patronises drugs assumed to increase sexual libido? men!

who consumes different various substances just to satisfy a hoe? men!

who goes extra mile just to have sex? men!

who does the most stupid things in the name of sex or love? still men!

so tell me why they should bother worry about their sexual performance when men have already sworn to be a slave for them?

just a simple statement like "your dick is small" or "you're a two minutes man" will send these weak men into a state of depression because they know if they can hurt your ego this way, you would seek to redeem yourself by proving to be what you're not... in summary, most men are foolish and naive when it comes to dealing with the opposite sex...

What I noticed about this generation females, baddies or hoes as they chose to call themselves, is that they are extremely lazy.. Even without childbirth, they don't even want to do anything in the first place... all they know is just to sit down, cross leg, relax, watch kdrama shit and then wait for man to slave his entire life working for them... no productivity, no value just set of liabilities... instead of them to lower the man's blood pressure and reduce his stress, they will rather increase and frustrate the hell out of his life and y'll wonder why women live longer...

when our mothers gave birth, they didn't even put all these dramas and bullshits these "modern" women are putting up now... all these pregnancy cravings bullshit that's making these women do and ask for stupid things didn't even exist and they were industrious, strong and also a source of peace for their husbands... in fact, childbirth then was as easy as a goat giving birth... go to some part of the villages, you would still see some of what I said happening... but you see now, mehn, I can't help but shake my head... the man in love AKA the slave, will work to satisfy all these cravings, make sure even a pin doesn't touch her, coupled with the fact the slave will even provide a maid for her, but just to do the basic things at home will still be a 5-unit course for her...

it's true, weak men create hard times.. if not the foolish men that encourages these behaviours in women, the women would have sit tight but in a world where the men are weak, the women are the superior... what's bad in cooking for your husband? she didn't even seem force? I also blame social media, if not, I don't know why people can't live their lives privately anymore, using every opportunity to seek validation online... it's a pandemic... if not because of the bullshit we consume these days, the artificial drugs we take, the chemicals we ingest daily, giving birth would never require being in a hospital... all those our local herbs and fruit would have done a great job in keeping us much healthier.. but the knowledge of these is slowing waning off since we adopted the modern way of treatment which is invariably damaging our health.

just because she's a moderator doesn't mean she will have sense.

Your Uncle ended up that way not because he married a fair in complexion woman... your Uncle ended up that way because he chose to be a simp and a slave to a woman. He ended up that way because he chose to be foolish when it comes to dealing with women! Period!

Yes, I agree with you. As long as the woman is a verified virgin, has all the characteristics that makes up a good woman/wife, then why not?

Never take a good and kindhearted woman for granted. Don't be foolish.. Women are everywhere, a valuable woman is not.

I don't support this, but indirectly, you guys are paying for the times you give people crazy bills without power supply or justification..

nairalanda1:
I guess you would let a person that is a doctor that cheated his way to pass treat you.

Or a teacher that cheated his way to pass teach your kids

Or a lawyer that cheated his way to pass to handle your important case

Ok.o.

now you're mixing two things up... exam is not a test of intelligence, especially Nigerian exams, it only deals with your ability to memorize... it doesn't even determine if you understand it. when Albert Einstein was in school, his teachers looked down on him, some even cursed him. He had low grades, so they judged him by his grades... One thing about exam is that, you might have A1 all through the courses but you might not understand them, just know to how to cram... and it has been proved that, intelligent people or geniuses mostly lack the general ability to cram, they prefer to understand the subject being taught and the thing is most lecturers don't even understand the subjects they take... they just go online, download pdfs and send to the students...

take the same test you give the students to the lecturers, now change the question and let it come in different ways from the ones the teachers are familiar with, most will fail woefully... la cram la pour.. you would be surprised most cheated their way also to get their degrees.

the students in questions might have done what society would frown upon, but until the basis of the problem is tackled by hiring competent instructors or lecturers, the problem will persist because not all are good in cramming... when you're good in something, in 50 years time, you would still be able to do that thing...

if this was true, athletico Madrid would have won the champions League cup from real Madrid and Argentina would have beaten Chile. when it comes to football, all this doesn't mean anything... even if Ivory coast wins, it's not due to the fact of what you stated here...

yes...

most people only go to school due to pressure or societal norms... not due to what they want to do or plan to do... this is also why most people waste significant years studying useless courses just to show that they are graduate... graduates with nothingness... schooling is only meant to enlighten you, it's not a platform for success... to succeed, you have to do more than just schooling or else you're going to join the rat race and end up working as a slave till you die..

before you enroll yourself in school, ask yourself, "why are you enrolling and what do you plan to achieve?" if your mindset is to go to school so that you can wear a suit to work in a nice office, then you're in for a long ride...

1) most women don't have shame or care about their reputation... as long as it gives them attention, they will willingly do or say anything even though 95% of them is based on lies.. Attention is their Oxygen.. lack of it kills them..

2) most of them have low IQs

3) most of the stories they tell on this influential figures is based on lies... but why do they do it? because they have something to gain and nothing to lose...

not recommended... find out the reason why they are no longer in terms with their biological parents... you would find out most of them have stupid reasons and unreasonable excuses...

and besides, you would want to marry into a stable and loved family... not scattered ones... unless the person is truly an orphan, then you have nothing to worry about...

G00dharddick:
In their prime time they run after bad boys who will scatter their kpekpus and drive them crazy, and when reality starts dawning on them they start looking for the good guys to marry them, even though they don't love the Mr. nice guy. They just want to get married because they know those bad guys won't Marry and time isn't on their side anymore.

Moral lesson: don't be the Mr. nice guy!

I guess the op is probably a female because of the way she immediately shifted it to the families of the lady saying they arranged the marriage for her and neglecting the fact that the said lady actually spent her youth like a prostitute, forming boss b!tch, ignoring and manipulating the good men, while wasting her youth with the bad ones.. then later when reality has started dawning on her, she starts looking for the mugu man who will save her and accept her whorish life as she is....

it's just the typical story of the modern woman...

if it happens to you every evening, then when evening comes, sleep... then use the rest of the day to be productive...

because relationship this days is based on lies, illusions and unreasonable expectations mostly gotten from the social media, the West and the general decadence of the society... not by genuine interest or commitment.

only foolish men "drag" baybe...

your guy has met a gem, he shouldn't let her go... when she's finally married she will change... she's his soulmate by letting him have access to her phone... one of a kind...

This is a post devoid of reason... You didn't even state some reason why we should leave fresh untouched oranges over old, rumpled, touched ones...

Tell me the reason why I should go for fairly used when I can get new ones then we can have a discussion...

If women truly discover the powers of their nature, they will never try to be men... But it's just that most women are foolish and don't think for themselves... They will dive towards those they follow no matter how miserable the person they follow is... what advice do you think degenerative women and oloshos will give to other women?

blood will flow no matter how small... don't let any lady deceive you with shit... if she tells you herself that it's not necessary for blood to show, she's probably not a virgin... a true virgin won't really act worked up or anxious when it comes to her virginity status... watch her actions when virginity is being discussed then you'll find your answer...

if you're still confused after going through what you went through that you even find it difficult to make a decision, then you're a mumu man...

sometimes when I see some men trying to justify their addiction to patronising sex workers by saying even oloshos are better than some known girls pretending to be good, I immediately know the category of men such person belong; men without foresight... men who only think with their dick...

it's just like saying the people doing fraud or Yahoo is better than those hustling legally... you made your choice OP, if your girl is unfaithful to you, then that's you and your girls problem... you don't have to justify your addiction and display your stupidity by trying to make the wrong thing seem right... it makes you look silly... you and the sex workers you're patronising made your choice, leave virtuous people out of it... people like you deceive other naive souls into thinking that's what everyone is already into in order to lead them towards the misery line... misery loves company... it's just like olosho saying virginity doesn't matter...

I think this generation ladies have exaggerated the issue of "cravings" when it comes to pregnancy... it now seems like they are the first set of women to get pregnant... the men are now even the promoters of these stupid trends all in the name of stupid love... these low IQ lots using "pregnancy" as a means to ask for crazy stuff and do stupid things... if she asks for stupid stuff at 1am, she will be the one to get it herself... nonsense... women have been getting pregnant and giving birth since centuries, I don't even know what started this shit... and I guess social media is also one of the factors leading to the continuation of this "trend".

these generation females is nothing to write home about...

because it's more convenient for them to use their pvssy than stress their brains... their pvssy will get the 10× more than what their brains will get them.. thanks to simps, weak men and the general decadence of the society...

gabbrri:
a mystery to me because I have been a provider and have been satisfying her in za other room too

a hoe will always be a hoe... if she belongs to the streets, she will always find her way there.. thank your stars... by now, you would have privatised a public toilet...

"I am so fortunate to have her in my life."

hope she felt the same way about you?

then humans will go extinct and only animals will thrive.

that guy is a mangina... someone that seeks female validation and to look like the nice guy in front of other girls... avoid guys like that, they can do nothing for pvssy... pvssy they will never get..

and back to the topic, if she doesn't wash it, then who will? as long as she's living under your roof and provisions, she's entitled to take care of you... as long as she ensures you wear clean clothes, eat good food and have an empty balls...

he's probably hiding something, trying to play his cards well, in a relationship or still being careful about the said girl... he might not want to rush things, but if that's the case, why would he be communicating with the girl's family... something is definitely fishy... the lady should tread carefully...