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Ifesinachi22:
What's the matter with you?

Shoot me an email, you say you can't find any

You don't know the meaning of Nairaland signature

An average of 5 hours.

This married guy hiding under female moniker deceiving people with sports threads & feminine posts.

cococandy:
but you’re the one bringing unrelated analogies and now you’re projecting it on me? There’s no absolute freedom because of people like you, Who won’t let others be. It’s not a divine unshakable phenomenon. It’s just a result of bigotry

No, it's because nature makes it impossible, because the action of one can have ricochet effect on his neighbors or the public.
Forcing people to sleep with the opposite gender to “cure” them is rape. But let’s say you don’t support that. Noted. Psychological counseling and prayers? I want to say this is your belief and you’re free to believe that prayers can change it. But again you’re the one who believes it so it won’t work on them since it may not be their belief. And you can’t force any homosexual to participate in it. Especially if they are not religious.

I mean unless you pray for them on your own time, what good does your own belief do for them?
Remember, no one has to share your belief. Right?

Why does the government force people into drug rehab? Why shouldn't the govt leave them to their belief?

This is one of those statements where people speak for others and refuse to listen to them. Gay people have been saying for ages that they are born that way. But you want your opinion , not their experience to be regarded as the truth. Them who are living that life are telling you how it is for them. Why is your opinion the truth? Why can’t you let them speak for themselves?

Why should the govt not leave people who say they were born with natural sexual attraction to animals and allow them marry in court? Why should the govt disbelieve them if they say the animal already consented?

cococandy:
It is actually. Not just abuse, it’s even cruel. But tell me you’re trying to use eating animals as justification for raping animals too?

Looks like you're trying to turn this conversation upside down. I made reference to that to tell you that there's no absolute freedom anywhere - just the same way you'd most likely not look the other way around and let your child have sexual relations with animals, under the guise that he may have been born that way.

There’s no evidence anywhere that sex therapy “cures” homosexuality. What does that even look like? Rape? Is that what you consider therapy? I mean it would be rape because a homosexual wouldn’t normally choose to have sex with a heterosexual. Maybe ask actual homosexuals if this is true before you say it is.

Why would I consider rape a therapy? Therapy is multi faceted, and entails psychological counsellings and even prayers!

Also I’m going to need you to stop drawing false equivalences with things that are not the same with homosexuality. First theft, second rape, third drug addiction. All things of those are things that people can choose to do and can change their actions if they want to. A homosexual didn’t chose that life.

Fallacy. A lot of gays chose that life, intentionally. Just the same way a straight person might choose to have sex before marriage and some others would not.[/quote]

cococandy:
1) a pig or a goat can’t give consent. Y’all miss the consensual part of it. A sexual relationship can only be called that if both parties give informed consent.

If animals can't give consent, don't you think it's also animal abuse to use them as food?

2) Again equating homosexuals with something criminal and lesser animals. There’s something your analyses says about you. It says you’re a prejudiced person who doesn’t understand why the only examples he can come up with to compare the sex love of other people is something criminal like rape. Having sex with animals is actually rape. You rape a dog or pig because those animals can’t have sexual feelings for you. You can only rape them against their wish. So using animals as an analogy for two consenting adults says more about you than the people you’re trying to say they are bad.

3) a heady (stubborn) child can only be managed. Again not an equivalent of homosexuality. But just like homosexuality, you can’t fix a stubborn personality. It’s a personality trait. You help the kid manage it so they don’t get in serious trouble until they are old enough to regulate their own emotions and actions.

4) if therapy works for homosexuals, most of them would have done it to save themselves from bigots.
Nobody likes to live a hard life with people full of hate breathing down on them and demanding that they stop existing. If therapy was a solution, it’s likely no homosexuals would exist.

Sexual therapy works, and it has made thousands of gays make a 180-degree turn, just as drug rehabilitation work. Or are you also against drug rehabilitation?

And don't forget that at the heart of this issue is the subject of morality. Without it, the world would be in utter chaos.

Gokoyer0:
Don't mind him. He is an old fool languishing in one of the ghettos in Lagos. Best thing to do is to avoid him but I understand how annoying this fool-at-40 Yoruba muslim can be.

Stop this tomfoolery and stark tribalism. That guy is neither a Yoruba nor a Muslim.

cococandy:
Why are you equating criminal behavior to people's sexuality?
If your child is born heterosexual, would you think of thieves when you think of your child? Why do you think of crime when you think of someone else’s sexuality? How are you justifying this equivalency? Walk me through your thought process please. Thanks

Let's leave out the stealing; how about the being heady? Or what if s/he says their own sexuality is towards a goat, pig or cow? You'd leave them or walk them through therapy?

cococandy:
You can do all you think is “right” and the kid will still turn out how they were born. It’s not something you can change.

But....you can teach them to hide. To mask. To stay safe from bigots who would want to harm or kill them for being who they are born to be. Sad world.

So if your child has a proclivity to stealing or being heady, you'll simply look away, believing that that was how they were born to be?

JidennaJason:
13. A NOTORIOUS COCAINE LOVER AND BULLION VAN AMBASSADOR WANTS TO BECOME PRESIDENT..

Prior to the 2019 general elections, a certain Bola Ahmed Tinubu, popularly known to many as "Bobo Chicago" was seen directing bullion vans filled with cash into his Bourdillion residence like a road safety marshall. The Iragbiji born thief during his tenure as governor of Lagos State looted the Center of Excellence dry by awarding contracts to his cronies and diverting funds to his personal bank account.

Really unbelievable that a notorious thief have the impetus to contest for the post of President.

You cannot be 'worshipping' Delta State looter general, James Ibori, through your signature, whilst at the same time throwing invectives at his Lagos counterpart, at every opportunity.

That's a shameless hypocrisy.

Rossikki:
But there ARE many who do say precisely THAT, ie that ''China developed Nigeria'', or more often, that ''China developed Africa'', based on the large number of Chinese-related projects here.

So don't try to get all cute when it is OUR turn to say ''we built that place''.

People who say that are wrong. It is the leaders of a country who develop the country not ordinary workers or engineers.

aremuforlife:
No place is safe on earth, America is more dangerous than Nigeria, but you will never see their media or social media blacklisting their country, it's unusual of them.

Complete lie. It's obvious you're not following American TV social media pages or even their ordinary citizens' SM accounts. Go to Twitter and see drama.

Toks2008:
What are you ranting about?

America is a thousand times more dangerous than Nigeria.

I was referring to the part of his post that American media & their citizens don't talk about its security problems or ills on international scene. Next time, read properly before commenting.

The UAE politicians who conceived the idea are the ones to be praised, not the engineers who were only contracted to carry out the idea. It's like saying China developed Nigeria, just because they were given the contract of building our roads and railways.

Fayemi said Ekiti will host govt-sponsored ranches, because he believes Fulanis own Nigeria who can hand him the presidency on a platter.

This country's division is as sure as tomorrow's daylight. The center can no longer hold.

The holiday comes by default. Nothing to declare

I think this is still the same guy who creates thousands of automated accounts to cancel people's comments especially on Politics section, posing as female in many cases. His signature even reads "the devil incarnate". Interesting.

Another reason why this couuntry need to break up for good. I can bet it that 30 percent of "northerners" are actually citizens of Chad and Niger Republics who came into Nigeria illegally and are constituting the major security risks.

Tinubu knows that it's not possible for two Muslims to be president and VP, in Nigeria. He's playing a strategic game. When it is close to primary elections, he will present a candidate.

Almost all your threads are about Tinubu. I'm not a fan of his, but this is to tell you that you're indirectly making him more popular in the eyes of his supporters. We all know Tinubu's chokehold over Lagos will expire sooner than later, but grow up please.

Self explanatory

Oshigun:
Umahi would be a disaster. Another GEJ-type Fulani slave with no pre-existing political base to allow him use a Southern slot as it should be used. That was why GEJ failed monumentally.

He was like a homeless man with nothing to wear who had to borrow clothing from others he then fears may demand their apparels back to leave him naked and exposed. He therefore has to always attempt to please those people so they dont strip him naked.

That would not be the case if the clothing he is wearing belongs to him and he can thus tell them to fck off.

This is why the North is scared of Tinubu or anyone in his camp like Osinbajo or Fashola. Those people would have their own clothing they own and will not need to borrow nothing from anyone.

Most Nigerians are too tribalistic and myopic to appreciate that the battle in the background a Nigerian President will face, to be able to deliver, may mean their own kinsmen cannot do the job.

We saw GEJ fail spectacularly due to that reality. Only men with the support system and power base can deliver for Nigeria. Get triple PHD holder and world conquering technocrat to come and lead us and he/she would still fail because a partisan yet powerful Northerner can still defy him/her with ease due to the reality of Nigeria.

We saw Dambazau do this to 'powerless' GEJ yet we never learn in Nigeria.

Succinctly said.

Unarguably, everybody around him is tricking him in one way or the other.

I would have said Dave Umahi, but his subservience and slavery to the Fulani autocrats would be deafening.

Hello guys, I know it is quite late...
Does anybody know what it means when it says "The BVN xxxxxxxxxxxxx already exist"? Does it mean it has earlier submitted?

Three weeks and you're already giving gifts? That's plainly silly.

Ondo and Benue governors have written their names on the sand of time as the govs who stood against herdsmen's murderous campaign, through words backed up with practical actions.

Train is the only good thing Buhari will be remembered for. But actually, 90% of the praise should go to Rotimi.

butterfly777:
The enemies of Oodua Republic have all failed even before they attempt any evil.

Butterflylion? What a 180 degree turn.

missdivineprove:
Wao. pls do you have access to their line?

No, but it's on their website.