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amarachi06:
I have been married for 6years without a child. it has been the worst time of My life to be married without a child.

Anytime we argue, he will shout at me with scorn and hateful words but he can never speak to his family members that way.

lf l try to talk with him over some issues or advice which will benefit us, he will shot me down, only for us to suffer later.

l have tried to Know my wrong to him but he doesn't wanna tell me. l am in deep pains cos he has told me "that anytime l want to leave, that am free to do so".

On Monday, he came back around 12am, and l was worried till that time. He came back without explaination and l asked him, whether l am that invisible to him, and his reply was "if l am tired, that l should leave". l now replied, "if l have a child, will you send us out?" he didn't say anything but l know that his attitude is cos of that.

The day l had my Last miscarriage was in 2016, and the tears l had in My eyes was not about my baby but knowing that l will Not be loved again by my husband.

l am tired! l almost went Into depression, and sucide, cos of his attitude to me. l don't Know how to handle him, cos my presence irritates him.

Please Sound advice.

nwamabo247:
please I need your help

Godyke:
The title of this thread should have been, 'Man disguised as an evangelist to steal phones'. No real evangelist can do such

LillyVal:
DON'T KILL YOURSELF!

​​MAXIMUM EXTREME RANGE OF SEX IS 13 MINUTES..​ for married men and women only. Stay away from Tramadol...

Men Please, stop killing yourselves with aphrodisiacs (Sex Enhancing drugs).

Depending on what side of the sex duration spectrum men fall on, an average of five minutes is good.

But, according to a 2008 study of United States and Canadian sex therapists, sex that is “too short” lasts one to two minutes, “adequate” lasts three to five minutes, and some extreme condition is seven to 13 minutes.

It seems that anything longer than ten minutes is unusual.

So, why then has the issue of sex in marriages become a hard nut to crack.

Today all medications on the market has it written on their labels: sexual weakness.

This is giving ladies the impression that the maximum Five minutes of sex isn't enough making them pressure the men to seek for supporting aids (aphrodisiac).

The youth are dying early because of the usage of these drugs.

Knowing therefore that the maximum range for sex is 3 to 5 minutes, our women are to be content with what their husbands offer them.

Men are also to remember that the pistle damages earlier than the mortar. Be wise and stay healthy and strong.

Men! Men!! Men!!! How many times have I called you? Take note and beware.���

Please send this to the men/women in your lives to prevent early death.

I don talk my own. If you like hear & if you like no hear.

Nah you sabi.

blingxx:
Did you take your medicine this morning

zoba88:
A woman stripped unclad in a church while pastor was praying for her.In the trending video,the woman stripped her bra and pant as the pastor prayed.Church members were pictured looking at her in shock.See more photos below


Source: http://www.trezzyhelm.com/2019/08/lady-strips-unclad-in-church-while.html

dotunbidemi:
FCT after 4 years na wa for all those previous FCT's it's as if they are breathing Nairaland. I dedicate this to everyone that want to FCT one day, never give Up

nelsonoba:
Proverbs says that when a man VOID of understanding speaks, his words stink like his ignorance (paraphrased).

WHY DON'T YOU ALSO ASK THE NATIONAL ASSEMBLY TO BAN PAYING OF TAXES TO THE GOVERNMENT BECAUSE MOST PEOPLE IN GOVERNMENT ARE CORRUPT

titiloyeblog:
news @ titiloyeblog.com

A 35-year old man, Mr, Paul Nosakhare, has told an Oredo Magistrate Court of how he caught his newly married wife, Stella Maris Alegbe, with his Pastor, Joseph Igwemoh, Head of the Global Influence Ministry.

Pastor Igwemoh was last year arraigned on two count charges bothering on abduction and act likely to cause breach of peace was accused of sleeping with Stella inside his church.

At the resumed hearing of the case, Paul, during cross examination told the court he served as an Assistant Pastor to the suspect before the sexual scandal broke out.

Paul said he met Stella through Pastor Igwemoh and they courted for four years before they got married on March 24, 2018.

He said marriage lasted only three months as his wife moved out in July after the Pastor rented an apartment for her.

He stated that Pastor Igwemoh warned them not to have sexual intercourse until proper marriage is done while they were courting.

Paul said his wife denied him sex on the first and second night of their wedding which was conducted by Igwemoh.

According to his statement on oath before the court: ”I reported my wife refusal for me to have sex with her to my pastor who invited us to his office and advised both of us to be using condom for the period of three months.

“I was puzzled but I did not say anything because he is my pastor.

“There was a day I returned Pastor’s car to him in the church. I met one Pastor Comfort who told me Pastor was inside the office. After knocking severally, the Pastor refused to open the door but he switched off the light.

“After five minutes, I saw my wife coming out of Pastor’s office ruffled and sweating profusely. Pastor came out of the office and was wearing boxers and singlet.

“On June 17th, I went to the Pastor’s office and met my wife. The pastor was lying down in the bed while my wife was sitting on the floor very close to the Pastor.

“I asked my wife to follow me home but she to say saying she has not finished with the pastor. She returned home at 7pm.”

Paul said all efforts for him to make the marriage work failed as his wife moved out on July 6th, 2018.

Presiding Magistrate, I.U. Iyioha adjourned further hearing to March 21, 2019.


source: https://www.titiloyeblog.com/2019/03/how-i-caught-my-wife-with-my-pastor.html

titiloyeblog:
news @ titiloyeblog.com

A 35-year old man, Mr, Paul Nosakhare, has told an Oredo Magistrate Court of how he caught his newly married wife, Stella Maris Alegbe, with his Pastor, Joseph Igwemoh, Head of the Global Influence Ministry.

Pastor Igwemoh was last year arraigned on two count charges bothering on abduction and act likely to cause breach of peace was accused of sleeping with Stella inside his church.

At the resumed hearing of the case, Paul, during cross examination told the court he served as an Assistant Pastor to the suspect before the sexual scandal broke out.

Paul said he met Stella through Pastor Igwemoh and they courted for four years before they got married on March 24, 2018.

He said marriage lasted only three months as his wife moved out in July after the Pastor rented an apartment for her.

He stated that Pastor Igwemoh warned them not to have sexual intercourse until proper marriage is done while they were courting.

Paul said his wife denied him sex on the first and second night of their wedding which was conducted by Igwemoh.

According to his statement on oath before the court: ”I reported my wife refusal for me to have sex with her to my pastor who invited us to his office and advised both of us to be using condom for the period of three months.

“I was puzzled but I did not say anything because he is my pastor.

“There was a day I returned Pastor’s car to him in the church. I met one Pastor Comfort who told me Pastor was inside the office. After knocking severally, the Pastor refused to open the door but he switched off the light.

“After five minutes, I saw my wife coming out of Pastor’s office ruffled and sweating profusely. Pastor came out of the office and was wearing boxers and singlet.

“On June 17th, I went to the Pastor’s office and met my wife. The pastor was lying down in the bed while my wife was sitting on the floor very close to the Pastor.

“I asked my wife to follow me home but she to say saying she has not finished with the pastor. She returned home at 7pm.”

Paul said all efforts for him to make the marriage work failed as his wife moved out on July 6th, 2018.

Presiding Magistrate, I.U. Iyioha adjourned further hearing to March 21, 2019.


source: https://www.titiloyeblog.com/2019/03/how-i-caught-my-wife-with-my-pastor.html FAKE STORY

gypsey:
Maybe she lost the first 2 children because she couldn't care for then Financially and Emotionally. Now, She have Another 3 children, How is she going to care for these 3 finanacially? Poor people having Too many children they can not take care of Financially and otherwise.

Maybe it was a Good thing the first 2 were kidnapped. If she looked After them Very well they wouldn't have been kidnapped. The kidnappers will probarbly come back to kidnapp these 3 Again.

And some Goons are here thanking A noneexistence Useless God. why did this God not save the other 2 children from the kidnappers? And will this Bloody God provide her with Food and money to care for these 3 children?

CreepyBlackpool:
When the white men invaded our lands, they destroyed our shrines and killed our priests. Because nothing happened to them, it was seen as superiority of their god over those of our ancestors and thus, our ancestors deserted their gods and worshipped the god of the white men.


The destruction of churches and killing of men of God by muslims should also be seen as superiority of Allah over Jehovah.
So every christian should abandon christianity and join Islam

Evince:
the major issue here is that religion is a scam and they are using it to scam u guys. una too dey find solution for ur misfortunes, dont u know that misfortune co-exist in this life. Thats how all of u guys will believe that something is up in the sky that u pray to and it answers ur prayer. nigeria should wake up. no god exist anywhere

Olutola88:
I'm not a Christian but I saw her movies back then. Beautiful woman, beautiful family. Happy birthday to her

Kingsleydr:
What a shame !

Kingsleydr:
What a shame !

nanizle:
Good write-up, but the "Put God first" part is completely irrelevant and unnecessary. Stop feeding people's delusions.

I don't think there's an exact formula to finding the right partner but there are strategies you can adopt like the other points OP made.

SolutionMee:


I can't blame the innocent thugs that barged into his apartment unknowingly. I'll rather blame the man who failed to live in modern house in this 21st century. He's man enough to confront those thugs, overpower them and surrender them to the police. A brave man will never get overpowered even in his own abode. Unless he is unprepared. He died out of negligence. Poverty killed him.

What's amusing here is the fact that even at the point of death, he's still faking his own death.

What manner of man is this?

shachris02:
Go for another test. Could be a mistake. It happens all the time.

Alpha001:
Sir, i don't believe I will get better with age. It's even getting worse. It's not just with opposite sex but with everybody including my family.
I can be with my family for days and the only words they hear from me is greetings. This is killing me inside.

Genniez:
Looking so young at 91 with the cutie beard so neat and sexy.. Wonder why I never met with you but waiting for your sons..Rip high chief

BiafraBushBoy:
Every year, one thing is common amongst several folks all around the world and that is the “New Year New Me” line.

New Year resolutions are great, but I think it has lost its value among some people. The aim of this post is to show you some New Year resolution examples that will change your life for the better.

The key to achieving some of these New Year resolutions I will show you is to have a total change of mindset and work towards achieving excellence. Some of these New Year resolution examples helped my life about a year ago, and I believe it would also help you.

Some New Year Resolution Ideas To Make Your Life Better

https://topwritersden.com/wp-content/uploads/2018/12/new-yr-resolution.jpg

Prepare your First Quarter Plan

“First Quarter” might sound pretty new to some people but it is very important. The “First Quarter” comprises of the first 3-months of any year. The 3-months are very imperative to how the rest of the months would be.

If you make specific progress in the first 3 months, it will propel momentum for the other months.

So your first New Year resolution might be to create a tangible plan of lists of things you need to achieve in the first 3 months. It is one of the New Year resolution examples that many people don’t realize how important it is to their new year.

Once you’ve sorted out your plans for the first quarter, it helps you know other things that you need to achieve for the rest of the year.

Learning to plan your year quarter by quarter is part of the New Year resolution examples that can change your life for good.

Learn a New Skill

So right now I assume that we all already have skills that can fetch us good money. If you don’t have yet, sorry you’ve been left behind.

Like I stated when I wrote about how to increase your streams of income learning a skill is key. Right now I have three powerful skills that fetch me good money, and I am looking towards acquiring more.

Skills like; [visit the blog to see the links to the skills and how to learn them]

Software Development
Mobile Application Development
Fashion Designing
Furniture Designing
Barbecue making
Sharwama production

Any skill that can help put money into your bank account is a welcome development.

The world is going digital, so I am hell-bent on gaining Information Technology skills.  My next skill is the Mobile Application Development and I think you should join me on it. I will be showing you where I will be learning it, so you can decide to join and learn it too.

Learning a new skill is also part of the New Year resolution examples that are very powerful for 2019.

Stop Procrastinating

"I will do it later" has destroyed more people than bullets have ever done. Procrastination is a dream killer, and getting rid of it should be among your New Year resolution ideas.

Procrastination never allows you to achieve anything. It only sucks up your time and keeps you engaged on non-important issues. It is also an example of New Year resolution ideas that are worth considering.

The key to eliminating procrastination is discipline. You punish yourself for not completing tasks and reward yourself for completing them.

Learn to Save

I wrote about how to save and grow rich, and the impact it made on the life of people was superb. Saving for the sake of saving is creating room for poverty. With the tactics I showed in the post I mentioned above, you would always beat poverty hands-down.

Learning how to save the right way is part of the New Year resolution ideas you should try and include in your list. I bet after reading the post, you would have a holistic view as to how you can save and still grow rich.

Learn to Invest

I have discovered that many young people have no idea what investing means. I wouldn’t blame them though since it is a kinda complex topic.

If you have no idea what to invest in, I suggest you keep saving that money till an opportunity springs up. There are several good investments that you can consider, so feel free to read up on it. It is also one of the best New Year resolution examples to consider in 2019.

Set up a side business/hustle

Whether you earn a token or you just earn a paycheck that helps you survive till the next month, setting up a side hustle is also part of the New Year resolution examples you can consider. That is what will finally liberate you from poverty.

Start your own business, no matter how small – just start!

But you need to have the skill to accomplish that effectively. Most Start-ups were formed by just one or two people who have so much to offer. After setting up, they started to expand.

If you have the skill (what to offer), you can start-up something. If you don’t have, then you can put learning as part of your New Year resolutions.

Have a Network of Professional Friends

The more professional friends you have in your circle, the more chances of being successful you have.

If you roll with those who are success oriented, then the same mindset rubs off on you.

This should be part of your grand plans in 2019. It is also one of the New Year resolution examples I decided to drop. You can most likely decide to copy and use it for yourself.

Know the friends you have and how they can affect your life.

I have given you a list of New Year resolution examples you can work with, but it depends on you to make it work for you.

Remember! It takes a great deal of hard work to make sure that New Year resolutions like these can actually become reality.

If you work hard for it, then you stand a chance to make 2019 a better year for yourself.

2018 was great for me, and I am not slowing down in 2019. It all boils down to mindset.

Are you ready for 2019?

Remember to share this post on the blog and subscribe for more posts like this. Happy New Year Guys!!!

Source Link: https://topwritersden.com/new-year-resolution-examples/

WaffenSS:
Wait

Your god wrestled with 4 MEN and you still came out bruised, battered and bashed?

Your god sounds impotent

Also, did you bother to ask your impotent god why he allowed 4 men to jump you in the first place?

This is classic delusion of christianity: a man would be robbed of all his possession, beaten, stabbed, and pissed upon...and he'll still thank his "god" for miraculous escape, and hold thanksgiving in crutches and slings.

Right.

If your god was merciful and potent, he won't allow you to get attacked in the first place.

Fools

WaffenSS:
Wait

Your god wrestled with 4 MEN and you still came out bruised, battered and bashed?

Your god sounds impotent

Also, did you bother to ask your impotent god why he allowed 4 men to jump you in the first place?

This is classic delusion of christianity: a man would be robbed of all his possession, beaten, stabbed, and pissed upon...and he'll still thank his "god" for miraculous escape, and hold thanksgiving in crutches and slings.

Right.

If your god was merciful and potent, he won't allow you to get attacked in the first place.
GIVE YOUR LIFE TO JESUS TODAY, TOMORROW MAY BE TOO LATE. JESUS WILL SAVE YOU AND DELIVER YOU FROM DEMONIC POSESSION.
THANK YOU.
Fools

Boboye4slim:
I wanna ask a question. My intentions are not to insult you in anyway, just curious.

I’ve learnt first hand that most of these pastors you talk about don't coerce or force the people to pay. They always out of generosity propel themselves to give to these pastors. Now, If you ask the churches or pastors not to receive supports or tithes from the congregation, how do you expect the church to grow and expand the teaching of Gods word?? Or are you saying the churches need not to be run at all?? Even if this big men of God suddenly run down, are the churches going to run down too??

I think what you should be agitating for is that pastors need to be accountable and properly use this money to help the needy. You fighting a full blown war against the church, I said this because of the way you attacked the experience program which isn’t a platform to extort tithe or funds from the people. At this rate, you come against anything that pertains to churches. There are tons of intelligent people in the USA, Canada, China, developed countries like that, still, their churches pay tithes and support the ministry.

The Catholic Church receives tithes and offerings, there’s no church in the world that doesn’t receive tithe and support from her congregation, if they don’t, how else will the gospel progress. If your fight is against the accountability of Nigerian pastors, that’d be so understandable and logical, but this spilled over outbursts against anything church in Nigeria is in my opinion needless.

I have never in my 16 years of existence heard where congregations are coerced to pay tithe or support the church. In winners chapel, there’s even a platform where money are lend to borrowers with no interest, There’s a platform where after every service, food , clothes etc are shared among people that need them. In the cell fellowship centers in Winners Chapel, you can talk to your cell ministers when you are in need and those needs would be met ranging from paying school fees to paying rents and so on, you can’t tell me that’s a lie cuz I am living testimony to that. The buses to and fro Canaanland used to be free until running them became hard, now it’s only free for new converts.

So this things aren’t run on leaves but money. And this congregation are always happy to give to the church. After all when people spend huge amount in clubs on liquor, on gamble, or on the needy, on relatives, for friends, on habits, on hubbies.....when people spend on these factors no one complains. So why is that you see giving to church as a waste?

You blame the church for our country being the world poverty capital of the world. Do you want winners chapel or redeemed or MFM to start running Nigeria with the contributions of its congregations? Contributions that you still bash them about? Imagine what Bishop Oyedepo has done with covenant University of 10 years, now imagine if he has access to a vast national resources that UI or OAU enjoys. Why are you blaming the church for the nations poverty?? Was Jesus in charge of the nation’s economy in his time? Was he in charge of military? In charge of public hospitals? If you want the church to take over the affairs of Nigeria, why don’t you implore the government to handover to the church?? There’s the government and there’s the church. Both have their functions. The church can only voice out and advise the government on what to do, it’s left for the government to do something about it.

I know of course that freeze would spin and spin and grammar everyone against his opinion down but I think at the end of the day he knows the truth.

NwaAmaikpe:




This is very humiliating. It takes a man with a heart of gold to forgive this.
The pastor was wise to divorce such an endtime wife.
I do not condone his first wife's actions; it is unpardonable, unjustifiable and highly juvenile.

Why claim ownership of a belonging that has rejected you?
Why will she be heartless enough to ruin her fellow woman's best day?

Feminism has totally ruined our African ideals.
Women should learn from Ahmed Musa's first wife and drop their sense of entitlement.
A man is at liberty to acquire as many wives as he desires as long as he can pay their bride-price and he is accepted by their family.

Religion is just our source of confusion.
We are Africans.
We are males.
God made the male specie polygamous.
You can't take it away from us.

The pastor should look for another church or better still just have a traditional marriage because it is more binding and also more recognized by God for Africans.

GoTV:
Even though I'm a born again Christian, I'm ashamed that the fraud called Oyedepo has finally gone mad to the extent of peddling falsehood on the pulpit just to discredit the president. Oyedepo has always been an arrogant, irresponsible con artist hiding under Christianity to perpetuate his fraud. This useless man is not the only pastor in Nigeria and his constant attacks on the president means the anti corruption crusade is biting him hard unlike previous regimes that gave him and his likes import waivers and other soft landing. Oyedepo is a disgrace to Christianity and he's way of life is not even Christ like to begin with. The federal government should give him the Elzaky-zaky treatment should Buhari win in 2019. Such a terrible personality should not be walking free as his utterances are a threat to national security. In saner climes, people like Oyedepo will be terminated to the underworld by the FEDS to avoid impending doom. While Muslim leaders all over the country remain mute and non partisan in the political atmosphere, our useless Christian leaders like Mbaka and Oyedepo are bringing shame to the church. I only pity the Gullible members of winners chapel whose brain is pocketed by the fraudulent vermin called Oyedepo