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So sad

Such a cool headed guy, Why is it the good ones that have to go so soon?

Correct Odeshi! Badt guy!

mikolo80:
say no towalking talking toothpicks

A healthy toothpick is better than an over weight cholesterol and cellulite filled mass who's at risk of a heart attack and other diseases associated with being FAT.

ISpiksDaTroof:
I basically said everything you just regurgitated here in previous posts.

You are quick to imply she is eating too much and so, she must have bad eating habits and this is not true.

I don't have time to go through your numerous posts whatsoever but from the little I have seen I can deduce you don't believe people have different metabolisms. Well, that's your business and your belief , doesn't mean it isn't true.

I hope it's only APC states that are providing the money they will use to build their useless houses?


Sai CHAINS!!

ISpiksDaTroof:
Being overweight can actually be seen as a character flaw. It shows that one is weak, and can't control their actions so much so that they can't control what they put in their mouth. It also shows a lackadaisical attitude in the person carrying the weight; basically someone that can't be trusted with responsibility.

Five years is a long time, yes, but in that time what has she done to make sure she's a healthy weight or appealing in the eyes if her man or is this the first time he has ever expressed his displeasure at her increasing body mass?

being overweight doesn't necessarily mean one eats too much. Some times a slow body metabolism is to blame.

If you talk about lackadaisical, then I am one. I am the type that wolfs down anything in any amount and even after three kids,I'm barely 55kg at 5ft8. I just don't gain weight. Whereas there are people who can starve themselves and shed barely nothing.

I know many curvy ladies who are very disciplined in everything they do, from diet to extra hygeine because of their weight. Some live on fruits but can only manage to shed little. It's just the way they are. They envy my own physique which I don't do a single thing to maintain.

Its the OPs choice if she wants to do this, it should be for her and not for him. She should do this because she wants to and understands she needs to do this for herself and not because she is under pressure from someone who doesn't appreciate her the way she is.

If she does this just to keep her relationship, it might end up being too much and she might end up even resenting him.

This is the way she was created, she was created curvy, she can manage it and be healthy which will be good for her but she will have to work really hard and even then, she won't be a size 8 or 10. Hope he will appreciate all the work she puts herself through instead of continuously nagging her on how she is barely shedding any weight.

She should know her real reasons for shedding the weight but it should be for her and not for someone else because no matter how hard you try,you can never satisfy human beings anyway.

Something tells me he might be looking for an excuse to break up with you.

Sas91

If after 5 years of dating, he's ready to break up the relationship because of your physique and not because you have some character flaws, that's not a good sign.

Well, it's up to you, I don't know your age and you have come really far with him but know that marriage is a lifetime commitment and if you are ready to work on your weight for the rest of your life then go ahead and do this for him.

As for me I believe, you are more than your body type and if he doesn't recognise this, he should fvck the hell off.

Woooow! Just Wooow!

APC, the Kwarruption fighters. Lol

Lmao! The mumu dey bow for her beauty!

Fresia01:
I'm Igbo buh ma boo is a Yoruba guy... d guy stingy die.. Had to bad mouth him before he got me a new phone not like d cash is not there... But he is cute...buh stingy even though d papa na ACG of.....let me stop here abeg before he will c it now and sack me...he visits nairaland at times

He is stingy but you still dey dere....count your blessings jare. There are some that won't even send your bad mouth, talk from now till Whenever.

....just passing through...nothing consign me for here.

Modified:

Soon the word 'fat' would be replaced by 'Curvy' in the dictionary.

I understand there is a craze for curvilicious women right now but instead of slimming a little and being healthy, these yokozunas are forcing their fats into spanks and body shapers. They will injure themselves one of these days.

OPOP,just to be double sure, you should also go on anti retrovirals for a month and then confirm at the end of three months if you are indeed safe.

As for her, it's good that you have decided to stand by her. Don't chicken out. HIV isn't the end of her existence. It doesn't change her life, she can still marry and have children and be anything she wants to be.

Mix all of them together and you gat my boo.

Babe!

[quote author=Ginius95 post=44029188][/quote]thanks, will download.

Actually been searching for inspiration myself.... I think I'm guilty of two things:

Fear (fear of not being good enough) although I'm working on that, but the other one is Procrastination, I still haven't sorted that one out yet and wonder if I ever will.

Lol! Hypocrisy, people are dying everywhere and everyday in Nigeria and there is nothing to say.

Boooooohari, the OYIBO KISS ASS, no wonder he will go and be condemning his country and its people to them. No single common sense, dullardino!

Zankli hospital.

That's what happens when you put your child in a school like Eva Adelaja. Everyone is frustrated there and will take their frustration out on your children.

hilaomo:
we both know that you'd so love to feel that sweet sensation while squirting...but I'd let this slide under the heading called PRETENCE!!!

lmao! And I label yours under DESPERATION! Na only you dey make person squirt for Nigeria? Free me na.

Ratello:
Stop playing games with me you know what I am talking about.....
Stop playing games with me you know what I am talking about.....**offers her wads of something pleasant** oya come to "Daddy"

tempting but I'll pass.

All these politricktians sef, I can't believe a word from their mouth.

Na so e go talk now, when he becomes governor, im go quiet like sey rain beat am.

They are all the same jare!

hilaomo:
same here... but guess whatWe could both place bet on it aside the no mutual attachment!!!You name your bet and we'd fix a date for us to meet...We could both decide to make a video just so no1 feels cheated after the excapade.

lmao! Who go do dat one with you?

Anyway don't worry, thanks but I'll pass on your offer.

hilaomo:
G.N.S wasn't a perquisite to this course and you know it...Taught or Thought!!!Dear sqiurt all you can,with a single touch from me!

when something sounds too good to be true, it probably is.

TRADELYN:
This lady is seriously doing different stuffs for attention these days.
Wetin she dey find sef?

market.

hilaomo:
Darling,I'm a self thought sexologist myself... If you are down,I could offer my services for free,no feeling attached!!!if you are in lag,send me a mail let's chitchat.aint muffin to be shy about this.

Self thought in deed!

That's a very important lesson to learn. but many people will be hypocritical about it.

Was it worth it?

Is this supposed to be funny?

Na wa o, this is serious.

Lol! Be like sey me sef go need to reduce my age o. Seems that's what's in vogue now.

Me sef can claim 19 na.