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chatinent:
It's a difficult situation...

1. You can't let her alone suffer in this condition with your baby.

2. It's quite difficult and almost impossible to feed four extra mouths, yourself, your wife-to-be, and her unborn baby.

Anyways, needless to judge you, let's do the positive.

I think she loves her sisters so much and don't want anyone to exploit or abuse them. But of course, she shouldn't make it look like your responsibility.

That aside. If you can, can you discuss renting a place for the other two clearly stating the degree of inconvenience it will be for all four to be with you both? Maybe, starting sth like a small-scale business they can manage and sell? Even if two of the eldest manage the business and the other little two stay with you? If you can?

Is it sth you can afford?

There are no rules in love.

Don't get me wrong. I know it's not your responsibility...but like you said, she's an orphan. Maybe she feeds her siblings..and of course, this condition will prevent that. I don't see any wrong in helping people if I have the means either.

Also attempt to erase the thought of you doing her a favor, maybe by sending her money for upkeep. Yeah, I know it's common for folks to advise you to stop sending the money since it looks like a favor...but man, remember it's your life that happens not theirs. It's your baby.

I see you only have a problem with their staying with you..but haven't a problem helping them. Whilst it may look impossible, if you are in a situation to help them from your heart, you can do so without inconveniencing yourself too.


Nice of you to take responsibility!
Ignore the irritants!
Be the man.

I wish you success.


Lalasticlala, mynd44 come help this OP

Uprightness100:
Unions in Germany demand a 10.5% wage increase for public sector employees due to high inflation.

Psoul:
All of them will come for your wedding and make u feel so uncomfortable there when the pastor will ask, "Is there anyone here that has anything against this union. You should say it now or remain quiet forever."

Alamkir:
If they had militarised in 1992 Russia would have attacked in 1992....... Russians dnt trust Ukraine anough to allow them gather much military power

timay1:
Don't be naive. That was part of the condition for their independence.

If anything, their present predicament was caused by not remaining neutral and allowing the USA to deceive them into picking a side by joining NATO. , which by the way , I doubt will happen. USA is only using them as cannon fodde4s to provoke Russia, which is working perfectly as we speak

Globetrot:
Ukraine deliberately made itself a puppet to the west, they overestimated the help the west would render to them and forgot that the only goal of the west is to weaken Russia and that the west don't care about who is at the receiving end of the repercussions.
And the funny thing here is that Russia is not running out of weapons anytime soon and they don't need contractors like the west to run their defense industry , the only lacking equipment in the Russian military is the drones aspect.

paafin:
They have to protect their national interest and Sovereignty by stopping NATO expansion and Ukraine getting nuclear weapons..

What was US reason for Invading Afghanistan that is thousand miles away from American borders??

paafin:
Russia should please tamper justice with mercy

oldienavie:
Imagine what a Nigerian youth is typing ?
No hope for that country with lunatics like this roaming around.

iamyemiakins:
Make person just gift me 20k lasan like this, na to go buy land

gambojimeta:
It is highly likely that it is going to continue.

Viraltrends123:
Government ehnnnn, the jobs and investment, they won't do, people that are ready to do it, they will still be disturbing them. If Dangote leave the site for them can they handle it, the imo government palm kernel and coconut farm, where is it today. What message are they trying to pass to other investors.

Dangote keep investing in the country despite it's Downfall, this is unlike most billionaires, even Nigerians don't appreciate, some hate to see billionaires succeeding from other tribes, all they have is fake social media billionaires that 90% of them cannot say how they made their money, and still they are naira billionaire that have never enter Forbes list. Let's try and appreciate good people investing in the country, we always ignore our governors that few days after leaving the office, they are already out of the country, years later, you will see them enter Pandora's paper of having secret investment abroad, and we the followers will say nothing is wrong with it.

if I'm the one, with my temper, I will even stop building the refinery, the government should keep importing fuel and cement,

Teazer4:
Moscow is not threatening anyone, but if it’s pushed into using nukes, Washington can’t hide behind an ocean, Anatoly Antonov says bla bla bla
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