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MrBrownJay1:
stop talking about what you dont know.... a man CAN/MUST resist and simply have evidence that he didnt do anything wrong. what you wrote is not only foolish, but blasphemy for US men. abeg travel a little!!! you actually believe that a woman can do what she pleases and anyone will listen to her, lol?!?!? you watch too many US series...while in the real world it doesnt work this way... if a woman lays a hand on you and/or attacks you, you have all the rights to defend yourself against her (whether you are a man or a woman).... THATS THE LAW! just make sure you do that in front of witnesses and/or cameras so that you have proof.

the problem here is that African men think they can control women abroad (like they do inAfrica), while THEY CANT! the law abroad will send
them straight to jail!

Dude you're talking rubbish. You sound like a bitch. There's one captain on a ship shekina. How come the Latinos and other families still understand this principle in marriage. How come their men still run their families EVEN AS FACTORY WORKERS AND ILLEGAL IMMIGRANTS. Is their culture backwards too or ? Ofcos we all know their marriage rates and nuclear family are still miles ahead of blacks. The truth is our girls go abroad and decide to emulate the ratched black community. They wanna ve like black America.

This partnership bs doesn't work ANYWHERE. sadly if the woman becomes the leader she still throws you out.
Your self defense approach is only practical in comics as the man would have to get every video evidence during a scuffle. If he deals her a fatal blow when she rushes to pick up a knife( as that's the number one blackmail weapon they use) he goes to jail.
The truth is .... that message of doing what makes you happy by feminists ... is the most toxic destructive message. Marriage isn't happiness ... its duty to family. Look at where our community is... there is a reason why the nigerians that go abroad succeed.. then when they have kids... the kids become exactly like the black Americans. You know why ? Cos most of their mothers have kicked their husband's out and raised them as single mothers like their role model black American queens. We know how that ends

Natbrowny:
Women in the West have powers and protection.
Our women may not know that BUT upon reaching that place, some agents are waiting in disguise to school her on everything to protect her future incase she's tired of the man or the man misbehaves or even if she wants to explore and marriage is holding her captive.

Exactly ... thats why these days it's smart not to marry as a man.

Bvlgari:
The man is a smart man because all that including the attempt to hit him was captured on video. It will favor him in the end if he tenders this video as evidence of domestic violence

those wey know.... know. I frown at guys that get into their feelings in the west. Let the woman do herself the damage. Be smart. ALWAYS RECORD. Then respond like you're pleading or a victim on camera. Not because you will win the case but so you have safer landing when you exit.

Tmex:
Why e no dey happen between couple then?

It does. Educate yasef

There's actually a science to it.. penis captivius and vaginismus. At the same time. Very rare though.

All these fats looking girls... abeggy... these ones are overweight

That's what happens when you liberate women....as they claim ... SOCIETY DIES. Notice they're all women. There's a reason why ..

Osibanjo all the way

Nostring:
lol only if u not a paedophile, but if u are... It's just a matter of time

Madam get out of your feelings... I gave you a fact

You notice when it comes to their science and tech... the U.S doesn't do all these rubbish gender equality b.s. That's where they don't play games and merit still thrives.

hopman98:
Lol. If no be say pdp dey ment, abeg which political post she don hold before? No political sagacity, two failed marriages, abusive towards domestic staffs. Abi no be dis Funke that was forced to do community service for breaching covid-19 rules during lockdown? Nigerians, wake up pls

the covid that was finally discovered to be a scam.. she showed she's not a dumb sheep like most of una

MufasaLion:
Men like you will always try to justify pedophilia.

Men/women like are the fake betas trying to cater to old females just to get some pussy. Say the truth my sis/broda.. men don't Luke 9ld cargoes. There's biological reasons for that. Ability to procreate better, plus less baggage.

Nostring:
nawa o.. I hope to read your own baba Ijesha saga too on front page soon

You will keep hoping lol...

MufasaLion:
Men like you will always try to justify pedophilia.

Women like you will always shame men like me for preferring younger fresher girls... AFTER WE HAVE DONE THE WORK.? Abeg old cargo.... no be my fault say you waste your youth.

Old cargoes dey complain looolll..... young blood always be first choice for men.

KingofAnambra:
In the Southeast, there has never been any
- Muslim Governor *NEVER
- Muslim deputy Governor *NEVER
- Muslim Speaker of house of Reps *NEVER
- Muslim Deputy Speaker *NEVER
- Muslim Attorney General *NEVER
- Muslim Commissioner *NEVER
- Muslim Local government chairman *NEVER

since 1999 when democracy started till today.

Yet we Igbos are the ones championing all kinds of hate and propaganda against Muslim/Muslim ticket of Tinubu/Shettima but in our own region, we only vote Christian/Christian ticket, even when there are Igbo Muslims among us. We hate hate and ostracize them completely. Then you have the guts to say nobody should vote for Muslim/Muslim ticket?

Even Kaduna that is a core Muslim state has had Christian Governor and Christian deputy governor before since 1999, and Christians holding several major political posts across the North.

Nigerian Muslims wake up now and vote for Tinubu /Shettima for presidency 2023. Don't let Muslim haters blackmail you with lies. Defend your religion. Being a Muslim is not a crime.

Sincerely,
Igbo Christian man from Nnewi, Anambra!

I know the 1st mayor of enugu was a Muslim. Pls Google

I'll go ask why the person dey do skit for night ... abi the person no dey fear for him life...

There's that sweet beautiful thing women have inbtw their legs plus lovely aesthetics. As men we don't have those. Women also agree to work for less and are less likely to revolt. If not for the fact that tech jobs are difficult. Women would have dominated there too.

Shows the quality of man she married. Once you see a man that does more than the bride on the wedding day ...lol.... know that's a very low quality man. Most likely isn't the breadwinner. If you know you know.

Munzy14:
You sabi this format?

Ofcos naw

Once she requires proof....lol.....its finished.

Mrscarter:
Lol most women don't date men for their dick. Well i don't know any who do. Most ppl i know date/marry for love. Ofcourse thered be the few who do marry for other reasons but i don't know any like that. White or black.
I know a couple ppl in interacial marraiges and they was married near 30 plus years til he got sick n died in old age and the othet ones are still happily married. I don't believe in all those statistics etc. The ppl who do those dont know of or rate every single marraige or relationship on this earth. It's impossible.
There's lotsa bad relationships but there's plenty of good ones too (interacial) everyone has different preferences so generalizing doesnt make it true. So the guy ur replying hes wrong. Women dont want men for their dick. Maybe the odd one or two here n there are like that or who marry for money etc but most women want a man who loves them treats them good. All the ppl i know male or female black or white they love who they love because of who they are n how they make them feel n cos theyre happy around that person.

Once someone debates statistics then that person is doomed and a qualified gold medalist in delusion Olympics. Ofcos you used the exceptions/ few anecdotal experiences to buttress your poibt...no wonder. .....delusion...

Datboredberri:
You're extremely ignorant...

Do a little reseach...

Overall, blacks are considered unattractive...

Black- white relationships as at 2018 in the US made up less than 9% of all interracial relationships...

Most of you in Africa watch Hollywood movies and let your imaginations run wild, assuming women of other races find you desirable...

White men are the most preferred... If not for Asian men being considered the least masculine, black men would have carried last... According to dating sites...

Most black men are with black women...

I think it's obnoxious how you black men stupidly celebrate white women who are obviously using you... One retàrd above even said "white ladies love black pricks"...

Black men have low self-esteem... They prove it over and over again...

The whole 'a black men has a huge penis' thing is a racist stereotype.... From the Jim Crow era... Meant to class black men as hypersexual beasts from the jungles of Africa who are obsessed with women women and would rape them unless they were segregated or lynched...

White women want you strictly for sex and you don't find it offensive? You think that's something worth bragging about? Do you know the millions of black women who have been fetishized by men of other races? Recieved demeaning messages... Called "Chocolate"... "Brown sugar"... Etc...

Imagine if they used them to validate their desirability? Wouldn't that be stupid? That what you do...

White women don't see beyond your joysticks and you think it's a compliment... Lol... They don't care about your stuggles nor about racism... Just sex...

Black men - white women mariages are 40% more likely to end in a divorce... As a result of abuse... While black women - white men relationships are 40% more likely to succeed... Who's are the idiots? Yeah... Insecure Negro men...

You folks are the bad ones... You can't date black or white women... But when we date outside our race, it's paradise...

I guess cause I have a South American boyfriend who absolutely loves black women, it means black women- latino men relationships is a global thing?

Bill gates daughter would still marry a white man... She's just scratching an itch...

I think you made some salient points here. The Blackman is a sex object for white chics. The black woman also. What you forgot is.... men and women aren't the same.

Women want commitment men want sex. In essence ... the Blackman is getting the sex ( that's male primal desire to spread his seed). The black women isn't getting the commitment. ( female primal desire is to get under the protection and commitment of a competent male for her and her kids). My only worry is that these Blackmen that celebrate BBC aka big black cock are really stupid. I don't see and hve nvr heard where big cock conquers science technology, builds civilizations and wins wars. This is where I faults these foolish blacks. Now I'm igbo .. so we don't fall into this category cos we arleast have a history of ingenuity.

Weapons testing
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I'm not obedient but honestly .... these anti obi false claims are mentally deranged. The news is as stupid as the op.

Which kind lil kids be dis.... abeg naija boys na no 1 for africa.

Quota system pilots. ....nychwee

Nice development .... its progressive

Stanleyq:
I hate having husband who leaves me to travel

First get husband naw loooll

Women and accountability .... she said jes a one time affair lol... see how she gave long story before saying what She did. If u ask other parties involved ..you may find out all wete lies. They cam play victim. I've never seen a woman on earth that was caught cheating g... that took accountability for it. They always blame someone else or the gods

Run from these types. If a girl doesn't respect or value her father SHE WILL NEVER VALUE OR RESPECT YOU as a man. Infact she would be a core misandrist.