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;Dshe never crase enter market by the way who is dona diva sef

person wey get kidney problem dey shak Fanta..OJB...baba get well....

Approaching a man at a bar, Seyi Kolade had only one thing on her mind as she chatted with the stranger - sex. Within hours the pair were in bed together and she was delighted at how her evening had panned out.



And this was not a chance encounter, for Seyi was a sex addict and it was what she did almost every day for 13 years. Last night she said: “Sex addiction took hold of my life.”

Seyi, 35, was just 17 when she became dependent on sleeping with men. By 19 she'd had 40 partners and she says she has bedded a shocking total of 370 men.

Her dangerous addiction led her to a life of destruction - catching sexually transmitted infections, being evicted from her home and having two terminations.

By the age of 30, Seyi had hit rock bottom and needed help. Today, after attending numerous sex addiction meetings and 12-step programmes, Seyi has been celibate for four years and is helping others like her.

She explains says: “Sex addiction is something people associate with men, but it took hold of my life for more than 13 years.
“It was a craving and a fear of how I’d feel if I couldn’t get it.

“Once I did, it was a huge relief, like a weight was lifted. It’s like any addiction. It made me selfish, self-destructive and depressed but it was a cycle I couldn’t escape.”

She adds: “I lost my virginity when I was 13 with my first boyfriend. I was shocked when I fell pregnant. I gave birth when I was 14. It was a very difficult time.”

Social services arranged a nanny to look after her daughter, Sarah, from six weeks old.

Being a young mum scarred Seyi’s childhood. She says: “I moved out of home when I was 16 with Sarah and lived in a mother and baby unit. I felt terribly lonely. I craved affection, I was miserable.”

Moving into a housing association home at 17, Seyi met then-boyfriend Paul, 31. It was now that she began to use sex to replace her feelings of loneliness.

She says: “When I started having sex with my boyfriend I thought it was the answer and would stop me feeling so lonely. But it wasn’t enough.”

Going to bars, Seyi, from Birmingham, cheated on Paul at least once a week with strangers or men she would meet regularly.

She says: “I needed sex and afterwards it was a relief. When I couldn’t have sex my confidence would plummet, I felt ugly and went into a spiral of upset and frustration, feeling unworthy and needing another fix as soon as possible.”

Seyi fell pregnant at 17 with son, Andrew. She says: “I told Paul it was his although there was some doubt in my mind. After I gave birth I tried to stay faithful. I wanted sex with him four to five times a day, but the attention from him wasn’t enough.

“When the pent-up sexual frustration became too much, I’d go elsewhere and get validation through sex.

“I cheated on him three times in six months, then fell pregnant again.”

Devastated and unable to look after another child, Seyi made the decision to have her baby terminated.
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Na by force to dance...what is news here now...this happens to almost every artist....stupid post

The Federal govt of Nigeria..is to be blamed not Lagos state govt...Fashola..team..ok this is a FG..project..with the way they mismanage things in this rich but stewpid nation wit no sense of organization...wasting oil funds.....looting..

look Festac is a prototype of what all housing project should look like in Lagos....at least all the local govt in Lagos and the rest of naija...if this nation is a real nation that cares about its citizens...FESTAC..is a nice place..well planned but lack maintainance....thats the problem and BLAME IT ON THE FEDERAL GOVT for the bad roads...and mind you not all roads are bad ok....just few...

pumpingmachine: listen to yourself. You didn't go yet you are saying it couldn't have gone well. Well for your info, I watched it online and I enjoyed it. And he didn't even sing Oliver cos he now has many songs. Ms Bad Belle go find someone else to beef or belittle cos Eja Nla is a legend

whih legend...pls define legendary.for us...Dbanj is just an artist ..he may be Made...but i dont see any legedary..insight in him.....now wey Don don leave am..e get as matter be oo he mingles with B-list Artist now...lol

Mr 2Chainz 4 Bracelets..haha welometo naija.....omo dem no turn you to 1 chain..wackest rapper

“I enjoy sex only when I’m pregnant. If I’m not in this state, I only do it for the money but when I’m pregnant, I gain on both sides because you will pay me for my service and I will also get high when you touch me. There are men who look for our type and it suits us that way. As for my baby, what is your business about that? Well, if you must know, this is the third pregnancy and I sold the previous two for N80, 000 and N120, 000 respectively. Prospective buyers are already waiting for this one (touching her belly) and na so e go be”, she said.

Lord have mercy.....an u beat that.....omo na wa oooo see wetin women dey do....

so what is the legendary Tubaba waiting for

Omotola...husband go don tire..for her.....omo dat man heart go dey beat .like dis bos somebody fit chance am..oo as for tools...she is not as beautiful...naturally..its onl when she makes up and wears her high heels..she looks good....

IDJA...See better bros...he no dye hard to give money out ...not all these.....wikid davido..dem...i am waiting for Eja nla..dbanj to do d same ooo...

wait dem say Nomoreloss say Tuface never credit the money oo..but he wil do so

What is the need of a remix...now Dbanj dey find attention..h messed up the remix..i prefer the original...jare....

American.....of italian ancestry..died in italy...RIP

Ok now na males dey do fake six pack..what of females with fake buttoms..pads..nkor..well omo i need those packs..ooo kai..where dem dey sell em

so the B...itch Yvonne self no dey lie....abeg make she go sidon for gutter for ghana

n wa oo money still dey for Lion mouth.....infact these days sef na Lion stomach e dey ..oya put hand go collect am...na s life be get rich or die trying.....which do you wanna rep

Policewoman: Wizzkid that is spending 50m to buy a car, and Iyanya that just landed a 60m deal with MTN, ALL SHOULD COME OUT AND HELP THIS DUDE.

Oga i beg suffry dey lie..wizkid spend which 50million abi he dey lift crude oil..or he papa remai oil well for am..na lie and big hype wash be all these their cars price.sometimes these artist buy these cars and pay instalmentally...some are just gifts...ok...

OJB ...well he is a legend..i dont know what all these our A list acts are waiting...for Tubaba...to banky to Don baba J..Ejanla...Dbanj.....make una helep una broda oo

No. 5 - If you are not from his home-town.
Weird but true and such does exist. Some men will not marry any lady not in their state or from their home-town. The earlier you know, the better for you.

in this days of civilization some fools are still being tribalistic....abi no be naija person dey g marry white folks...and they live happily.....useless and ethniity hatred amngst us will never lets us see the true light

na shwan micheal moves he use abi na austin power or the rock moves...hahaha

born2fuckpussy: I agree with you bros, every area in Lagos have nothing less than 3 prostitutes industry (ashawo joint) alone except maryland lagos, I have testify to 3 ashawo joint in agege, 5 in ikeja, 3 in ojota, 5 in ikotun, 2 in Egbeda and 1 in Iyana paja, 3 in Ketu, 1 in mile12, all these I have visited for drinks or sighting and they operated free for years, with exclusion of Clubs. Why not legalise then rather than leaving them operate for free. Even if houses are demolished, they consider leaving ashawo houses ...

All these ashawo joints are the one I visited and I can give description of where they are, and I believe there are more available I might have not seen. We even discussed the list of ashawo joints in lag on sexuality. Forums, let them legalised this and let those ladies also pay tax, they now charge 1000 for short term on customer.

If you think my idea of legalisation is wrong, why government can't destroy them, they pay double fees to the local government on operation and they even pay police for protection, fight one ashawo, you will lock up in cell.

Chariman is here....omo e even pass three for some areas oo..come my area na hotel yapa...every where i can count 20 joints...ok..u aint seen anytin yet bro....ebuka...omo that dude go dey carry the ones wey dey Ikeja GRA...o well well

Delta state just wasted another milions of money when the ordinary citizen is suffering there...they are there booking koko master Dbanj.. and grooving....na wa o

i pity dem oo they aint disable to go carry some ashis...even if they try ...they will be turned down..what next...sodomy...

haa wow i DEY PITY EVANDER....OO.THE DUDE IS BROKE..NOW..even Tubaba fit get bar pass am like dis....

wasting of Money is Nigeria priority..i just dont know why

Omo dem don win us dem don win us which one come be player ratings again

WE DON JABO.........CAN U IMAGINE D PHCN BASTARDS ..WHEN I HAVE WASTED FUEL ON MY GENERATOR AND THE ATCH HAS FINISHED ...THAT IS WHEN THEY BROUGHT THE GAR DAMM LIGHT....WELL NA DEM SABI WE DON JABO

oga ..i beg make u join oo..but ready to enter battle field.oo...anything wey you see take am oo na sara...its a Kill or be killed situation..ok..

Nigeria wins ..or looses..how does that make the price of Garri reduces...i beg ..i wan sleep jare

this is wat i call true video concept........

well boys must chop na..the streets is starving