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Most of you who are sharing your stories here have your loopholes. I have taught in many schools with spoilt children but with no accusation. I have anchored after-school couchings with female children, lived in homes with spoilt children and attend churches with corrupt women and children still no false accusations. You see one thing about life is knowing your boundaries and what an action can result into. Excessive play with toddlers, giving too much gifts or showing too much kindness to opposite sex or under privileged or aged or allowing over familiarities causes of these troubles you guys find yourselves in. Read people and try to know what the relationship between you people is likely to result and avoid them on time. I aborted many attempts to soil my reputation by evil people.

Your narration really make me laugh to stupor. Just let it slide. It's not necessary again. [ quote author=Nikkganc08 post=112217004]Mine was a sad tale but a bit different

My parents had 5 kids ( four boys and a girl)

The sad tale happened around when I was in primary 1.


My Grandma heard a story of how a child put his fingers in her sisters genital. The first thing that came to her mind was to rush down to my mums house to break d news. She just believed that we've been doing same.

Somehow, she came and convinced my mum that we all ( the four of us) have been putting our finger in our sisters anus.

As at then, our eldest brother was still in either primary 4 or 5 (I'm the third child).

My Grandma and mum brought us all out in d parlour and gave us all serious flogging without telling us what was wrong.

After d first batch of torture, we were all crying already. That was when she announced that we have been putting our fingers in her anus.

Pls before u judge me, note that at such age, I had ZERO IDEA of what putting hands in someone's anus meant.

My sister was called to confess.
She shouldn't be more than 2 years then.

They asked her...

Did xxxx put his hand in ur bum bum?
She'll Nod her head in affirmation.

Did yyyy put his hand in ur bum bum?
She'll Nod again.

Will u eat human head? She'll nod
Will u drink urine? She'll Nod

Anything u say, She'll nod.

Mum didn't care about her foolish nodding. They just wanted her to confirm that we all put fingers there.

Well..., after several hours or torture , the eldest two insisted that they've never done such before (because they were a bit matured and knowledgeable then). They were spared.

I tried same but more beating was added.

Mum stripped me and d last son naked and flogged us more .

She said, 'tell me d truth, I'll leave u'

We both said we r innocent.

More slaps, flogging and hours of kneeling down where served to us.

Frog jumping and 'no food' threats were added.
Followed by no more school fees.
And finally, that they'd come to our school and make sure we'll be called out and flogged in front of everyone during morning assembly.

She kept on saying " tell me d truth and I'd leave u".

Finally , we had to admit to d story so that mum would spare us.

Lol....!!!


That was when d real beating started. Its a long story though.

She told all our relatives about how we've been putting our fingers in our little sisters anus.

She won't let our sister play or stay with us.
She'd just shout 'remove her from there before xxxx and yyyy (name withheld) would start fingering her.

She bought more pants for her (the BIG ones) plus some stuffs that is blackish and looks like boxers (don't know d name but women wear it alot). She must were pant, that black boxers, and a hose at same time before putting on her blouse.

Followed by tutorials for her to shout and report us to mum any day we touch her pant again. Lol...!!!

Whenever mum is bored, she'll just call d both of us, strip us naked, kneel us down , then flog us as much as she wanted.

Followed by questions like, "when was d last time u put fingers in ur sisters bum bum? ".
"Is it yesterday? Last week? today? "

If u don't pick anyone, She'll pick one for u.
Maybe, she'd say d last time u did it was yesterday.

Whenever grandma feels bored , she'd come to our house, strip us naked and start her own flogging.


I'm almost 30 years now.
I'm a non-virgin.
I might have done stuffs with my female friends.

But d truth remains this...
As kids, we were tortured for what we knew nothing about.

Something I had no idea of what it meant.

Someday, maybe this week, I'd call my sister and mum together, she has to confess whether she was fingered or not.

And mum MUST apologize for d unnecessary torture.
Grandma is dead. So, let's allow her to rest in peace


If my sister decides to accuse me , then we MUST get a native doctor to fish out d truth.

I won't let such heavy accusation slide again without repercussions[/quote]

efe21:
A chronic Gaybriel spotted ����.

. Whatever. You can even add Gaybriel Gayanet Gaydar and the likes. I care less sir.

Biko, senu, ejo OP, in the name of Jah, I dey beg you with my two kneels on ground, can you give me the number of that your boss. This is the second time I'm begging for it should you still have it. Note, I don't mean harm in any way. I want to make the best use of it.

You seem not to really have problem with homosexuality but you are just not smart enough to know what you wanted. You thought the scene was gonna be forever but lo and behold it came much earlier than you thought and you were kicked. How can your bestie be a latent bi-sextual and you seem not to make the best from your gay boss kind gesture?
You thought everyone will read just the words of your story and cow-in but thank Jah for we that read beyond the physical letters. Please up your authorship skills. You might make a living from that.
Finally, I beg you in the name of Jah can you give me the contact if that your boss if you still have it? I want to meet him and I don't mean any harm, thanks.

This early Sunday morning OP you sealed your conscience and propagate falsehood for peanut knowing fully well that what you are doing is wrong. Though you're looking for your daily meal too but to the detriment of your fellow human for that reason nature is angry with you and you shall suffer soon for falsehood, Amem.

So long they are not under 18, it's a good to go. Stop taking drugs on another man's headache.

Bob's ministry will never have been completed without this meeting. Perfect transfer of mantle.

From the structure of the grammar I can vividly tell it's a GNLD looking for who to scam.

During my University days around 2012, I went to visit a male friend outside campus so I met him and his wife discussing and as a family friend I followed the matter and discover they were talking about a female friend of his wife whose husband was impotent due to long years of pile. The concerned woman should be in her early 40s and childless so she needs a youngster that will service her and even if it leads to pregnancy no problem. Broke niggar that I was then offer to accept the deal and my friend's wife called her there and informed her and she accepted to see me. I was happy thinking my financial crisis will reduce so I collected her number and called and after introduction she asked she call back which I accepted. After few minutes she called and told me where to meet her. On getting there it was a church service and they were just finishing when I got there. She played hard to get until she saw me from her hiding before revealing herself.
Long story short, I was playing the role of a good would be husband that night and did everything possible to win her love, sha! All for the money sha. Last last, we schedule a day for the doable, lo and behold in the dark room, my gbola refused to awake, babe don strip nude, me don strip nude too, for hours, nothing oh. She did everything possible, nothing. At last numerous thoughts ran through my mind and like she read my mind and she began to give me sermon of how she had married for year without enjoying her traveling, alcoholic, busy and pile troubled husband who gave her permission to do whatever sexually to get pregnant but not with a particular tribe and close friends or near by people. She gave me food she brought and I lost appetite. In the long run, nothing eventually happened. She zip up, did her make up and me too put sleeping gbola inside boxer feeling defeated. We parted with a kiss. I could see how hurt she was but I couldn't do otherwise. She later sneaked out and I saw her off. She promised to call and after sometime I called if she arrived successfully which said yes. I hear the husband's voice softly at the background and after that day she never picked my calls again.
She narrated her ordeals to my friend's wife and when I reached their side they laughed the hell out of me. When I asked how she was doing now, my friend's wife told me she gave her baddest younger brother to her and that one has being drilling her weller. Na so I forget my would be sugar mama. So some men can actually consent to their wife's outside pregnancy because my friend's wife confirmed that it was true.

When the life-style doesn't equates de income the outcome is living the shadow of yourself. The bill is getting higher, boys are graduating into men. Thanks to his Ozomba Mbadigwe though.

okorosblog:
Are you one

If being one will make my life better then count me in. So what else busy body?

okorosblog:
Bloody gay

. If being a gay is moving his life forward why don't you try at least to do something that will better your broke ass? Get a life because you don't have one with this your hate speech, thanks.

I had sex around 26/27 Dec 2021 and started seeing signs of gonorrhea on the 29th. I visited a chemist and bought antibiotics I used once but it didn't work. New year Eve I went to that same chemist and explained to the guy there and he assured me of drugs that would cure me but after three days, I was still seeing the signs of not getting better so I visited a hospital in my area, my urine sample was taken and I was placed on 5 days injection and 4 days tablets and now I okay. So, it's good you came here for advise but your case seems to be chronic than mild gonorrhea. My advice is that you visit a hospital. Untreated STIs can pose for damaged to both male and female gender.

I see genuineness. Your bf grew up in that area. The apartment belongs to his late parents who warned against sexual immorality in the building. He is not ready to settle now.

I once had similar challenge. There are some ladies that my john thomas will never get hard. I though, it was a problem and I went to hospitals. Doctors examined me severally, check me in the office, tested my semen, urine etc. But, all to no avail. I also took some herbal remedies, some fairly work for daily purpose but not for long. I also used some man power drugs, like manix, which was actually wonderful and others. After several years, and one day while I was managing in a school and an health personal come to deworm the school children and I part took in the deworming. The next day when I was urinating the experience was different from others. So, I tested myself out with a hand job and the erection was enormous and gigantic. When I noticed that I also bought one antibiotic, I can't spell it out correctly but, it starts with Leicheme. That was the end of that challenge. Now, I'm man again. Twice as man. Mine was a combination of psychological and antibiotic problem.

Congrats OP, but that you met your helper here does not mean all will meet their helpers here. I have severally posted here how I needed jobs but of all the people that contacted me, 90% of them were out for scamming, 5% wanted to take advantage of my situation, 3% were directing me to something that requires money when I had no dine, 1% suggested job sites and the last 1% which was a lady called severally and helped with job site and still helping with that. There are the good, bad and ugly on Nairaland. My advise to job seekers is never to give up. Keep pressing on. One day the door will just open when you least expect. And don't mind starting small.

When the Revd. Father asked you for sex why not report him to the police? Or you didn't know then it was a crime under Nigerian law? Why take law into your hand? Because you have lived with them and know their weak points. Guy you have mental problem and a criminal. Enjoy your jail term in peace and continue in your crime if ever you get freed and see if that will be an excuse before God when you die. Hypocrite, blaming other for his faulty.

For those of you who don't believe there are spirits in this world just continue. I once saw one many years ago. I grew up in the army barrack. The place that army barrack was built originally was occupied by native Yoruba people. So army chased them away and build offices and barracks. One of our relatives was unfortunate so his apartment was close to the grave of an old woman who was buried by the original occupants of that land. When army were bull dozing the place her spirit was stubborn and gave them hard time according to news from the earliest people that lived in that barrack.
Fast forward to my story, on this day my mom and I went to get okra from this our relative wife's farm. On reaching their house she told us that there was no much okra again that the little one on the farm she wants to use it to cook. So, later she sent her two small boys to go and get okra from the farm which was close by where the said grave was. I opted to go with them. My mom gave me permission too to go. On reaching there, the boys were in hurry harvesting okra but I mange to harvest one and gave it to the one who is the oldest of our three. The other boy started laughing at me that since it's only one I harvested so I felt bad.
When they were about to leave the one laughing at me pick race and the oldest of our three was calling me to come let's go but I refused to move because I was still feeling bad. So they disappeared from sight and I was left alone.
All of a sudden I felt breeze and felt the present of someone. At this time I was looking at the ground so I lifted my face up and use my corner eyes to look to the direction of the wind, honestly, I saw a fleshless old woman in traditional Yoruba attire, standing in the air, above the ground looking at me. She zoomed around me causing a chill around me. As a child the fear was not much. Perhaps she felt I was not scared so she disappeared and I started leaving to meet my mom. When I got there my mom and the other woman were getting ready to come for me. It was the woman that asked me first if I saw anything because I was moody and my mom pressurized me to talk but I kept mute. But alone the way as we were going home I told her what I saw. People around that area don't come out unless when much people are around. That same spirit has caused my step-sister to go inactive for several years and they took her to several prayer centers before she got save. And several other people. The spirit style is to cause fear and chill and then the person will go abnormal. We later pack from that barrack and a friend told me later that they called a charmer to come and cage her spirit in a bottle. So she'll not disturb again. There are spirits, witches, wizard, occult, demon and many other ungodly spirits in this world.

I registered last year and up till now no email. I tried forgot password but nothing. What can I do to get prequalify. I tried re-registering but I see you have not being trained. Please any advise for me?

That future notorious criminal was let free without attempting to rehabilitate him or an attempt to track his boss. He actually has a boss and that #200 was what he actually got. A lot of them are at Oshodi, Ijora, Mushin etc. Broad day light yesterday, one nearly stole from me if not that I out smart him and his colleagues. What you did is fairly okay. Him and his likes are products of broken homes, teenage parenting, ghetto life etc.

I'm not getting the email for the prequalification. How do I go about it?

Can I still join your company? I'm available.

Frip:
It's the same everywhere o. Everywhere


When I tell youths to come join my establishment to build a company, get respectable treatment and good Remuneration they refuse to hear word. How much would one say from let's say 60k a month doing all of this

Monthly expense alone 30k

Are you real? Or just catching out? Someone also said give away earlier and did nothing.

Nextleve89:
]I feel so sorry for people living in Nigeria. Not only are there no jobs/opportunities, social safety net is non-existent.

Just so draining. I feel compelled to do a little giveaway now. Just a little token to tide by, as I pray God heals my ancestral land of terrible, terrible leaders/ people




I'm with you...Please remember me
0119851158 GTB

Please, do you buy faulty phone? Or if you know who buys?

Maybe we should say what we have the power to do. By opting to help and not measuring up, you create a problem for the expectant and yourself.God help us all.

Speaktruth88:
The sense of entitlement with which some of you come at somebody it’s like you don’t know we have real human beings even in our families that are unemployed. Charity begins at home.

You invited one person and don't you know the name of that person? I was the first person you mailed and I replied immediately. Well, thank you
for at least offering to help. Maybe you are not my helper to be. Forward match. I go.

Speaktruth88:
My brother it is not by force o. I invited one person my inbox is now inundated please feel free to expound on the job section here. I have no obligation or capacity to assist all even if the heart is willing.

What should I do if it kept telling me I've not being trained?

What was the condition you use to ascertain those you gave your giveaway to? I didn't hear from you.

rontolo:
I feel so sorry for people living in Nigeria. Not only are there no jobs/opportunities, social safety net is non-existent.

Just so draining. I feel compelled to do a little giveaway now. Just a little token to tide by, as I pray God heals my ancestral land of terrible, terrible leaders/ people