Family › Re: [Updated]Legal Way To Deal With A Family Member Who Plans To Disrupt A Burial? by Richy4(m): 5:03pm On Mar 28, 2021*. Modified: 5:53pm On Mar 28, 2021 |
jmoore: The cousin that visited is a member of the vigilante group in our village. He is aware of the threats.
We will arrive few days before the burial date. Ok then.. wish you guys the best... Just take it easy on that day... advice your siblings to hit the ignore button as many times as possible if he tries to provoke you guys...It's not about who can overpower one another, it's about letting peace reign and not entertaining family members who will be expecting you people to entertain them with a fight.. ... Once again please accept my condolence.. |
Family › Re: [Updated]Legal Way To Deal With A Family Member Who Plans To Disrupt A Burial? by Richy4(m): 4:48pm On Mar 28, 2021 |
jmoore: My stepbrother came to Aba on Friday. I don't know his whereabouts now.
One of Uncles called him, he has always been supporting him since the day his rebellion started. This same uncle who lives in the village in Anambra didn't visit when my father was sick since 2019.
We live in Aba. A cousin of mine that lives in the village visited us In Aba after hearing the news of our father's death, while the uncle supporting my stepbrother has not visited us.
Only few of my siblings are around. We don't want to plans to disrupt their schedules. We meet in the village when the burial date comes closer. Our sisters are still in school. We communicate on phone to pass info.
The village union in Aba has been informed of the date of the burial, including the church here in Aba and our hometown in Anambra. @ Bold were the most important.. Now the next step is police Presence... To make sure there was peace and your dad rests/ interred in peace on that day...Do you have a trusted person in Anambra state... especially from your maternal side that can handle security issues... You guys will be really busy on that day shuttling interstate.. I thought it will be a thing of within locals/ state.... The most unimaginable will be arriving in your state only to meet resistance and embarrassment on that day.. Armed Police will be a necessity ... |
Family › Re: [Updated]Legal Way To Deal With A Family Member Who Plans To Disrupt A Burial? by Richy4(m): 3:27pm On Mar 28, 2021 |
jmoore: Travel wetin? If I list the evil things he did, this nairaland won't contain it. For a father to disown his son shows something. B ut where is he@ the moment?... Who communicated to you that he has a plan of disrupting the burial?... During the meeting when you called your kindred to let them know about your father's demise and the planned date for the interment, Was the rest of the family members there including your half brothers and sisters? |
Family › Re: [Updated]Legal Way To Deal With A Family Member Who Plans To Disrupt A Burial? by Richy4(m): 3:15pm On Mar 28, 2021 |
On the burial day, 5 or 6 policemen's physical presence brandishing their weapons will do the magic... The thing is, can you afford them? or know someone that knows someone... Army will add more spices or will I say an icing on the cake....
just ignore anyone that tells you to invite him on the burial date... did he travel abroad that he doesn't know that his father is no more? I am sorry for your lose dear |
Sports › Re: Benin Vs Nigeria: AFCON Qualifier - 0 - 1 (Full Time) by Richy4(m): 8:05pm On Mar 27, 2021 |
EmekaBlue: Stop hailing dem Abeg...Poor game
Since when a populated country like Nigeria Will be dragging with squirrels.
This country has gone to d dogs Give them some credit man.... they might have been exhausted using the boat to travel.. still got the point needed... Body no be wood |
Autos › Re: . by Richy4(m): 7:53pm On Mar 27, 2021 |
47" |
Politics › Re: The Nine Top Oil Producing States In Nigeria by Richy4(m): 7:46pm On Mar 27, 2021 |
So Imo is an oil producing state... No wonder their road network was SO FINE... the evidence is glaring  |
Education › Re: Stop Causing Trouble, Take Your Children To Muslim School - Islamic Cleric by Richy4(m): 5:36pm On Mar 27, 2021*. Modified: 6:16pm On Mar 27, 2021 |
Did the cleric really say all that I read.... Gezzz!!!!! This sounds like R Kelly's music to the ears... The truth is so glaring... That man must be a born again Islamic Cleric  ... |
Foreign Affairs › Re: Man Ordered To Leave Mall In South Africa For Wearing 'Indecent' African Attire by Richy4(m): 11:42am On Mar 27, 2021 |
TMKsouth: The assumption is that's the bottoms he was wearing under/through the blanket. Why else would he be expelled from the mall?
Wasn't being mischievous at all  initially, the picture of the Zulu guy on swim suit was the first with no pic of what actually happened at the mall. so most of the people that comment on front page did not watch the video.. they thought the guy wore the swim suit like that and went inside the mall.. that was why I made the comment... Though I do not see why someone wearing a blanket should be sent out of the mall. it's rude.. |
Sports › Re: Ryan Crowley Tears Chest Muscle From Bone During Exercise (Disturbing Video) by Richy4(m): 10:49am On Mar 27, 2021 |
Mild suicide..  |
Family › Re: I'm In Love With An 'ada' by Richy4(m): 6:45am On Mar 27, 2021*. Modified: 10:42am On Mar 27, 2021 |
OP sorry for asking you this question... What were you doing with your mouth when you were with her? You reserved the question you should have asked her just to ask us?. Ask her, she will be in a better position to tell you.. 
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Foreign Affairs › Re: Man Ordered To Leave Mall In South Africa For Wearing 'Indecent' African Attire by Richy4(m): 4:58am On Mar 27, 2021*. Modified: 5:19am On Mar 27, 2021 |
The OP was simply mischievous by putting/ adding the first picture that has nothing to do with the incident knowing that a lot of people will comment without watching the video...... Why didn't he/ her present the image/ information the way it was instead of misleading the people by putting a picture of a man on a traditional swimsuit
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Family › Re: Why Is It That Some Married Couples Hardly Wear Their Rings Nowadays? by Richy4(m): 3:18am On Mar 27, 2021 |
Some, It depends on their career paths.. A lot of couple may have lost their wedding rings due to the nature of their jobs.... There are some production factories that does not permit any kind of bands to avoid mistakes example some food factories.. finding a ring in a cocacola bottle, bottle of beer, sardine cans etc by mistake kills a company's reputation ... the constant putting it on and removing during shift could be annoying... so I guess that's one angle to look at it...besides, marriage is a thing of the heart...there are also the super religious ones that doesn't use wedding band as symbol of union. they use the bible. |
Family › Re: What I Did To The Cultist That Slapped My Sister by Richy4(m): 6:05pm On Mar 26, 2021 |
OP I like what you did.. but your sister is still not safe... when is her rent expiring at her present location? let her relocate to another suburb... Some of them does not value their lives, So tell your sister to leave that area.. |
Family › Re: I'm Depressed, Thoughts Of Suicide Is Getting Strong.pls.advise. by Richy4(m): 5:20pm On Mar 26, 2021 |
dan761: . Well ,No matter the Situation one is I definitely know there are worst situations than one ,It will always be ,The Landed Property I was able to buy with my Hard-earned money while I was working ,Paid instalmentally .Depression does not reminds one of anything .My brother ,When Depression comes it blindfolds Ones entirety ,ears to other People's Predicaments as more than yours .It Voids a normal sense of Reasoning ,It does not even makes you think if any Enemy would eat at a funeral or not .Thanks for your Input . OK.. Maybe you can try and fight it man. It is possible that you might overcome it by thinking about better things yet to come.. Something you can remember and you smile no matter what... give it a go Bro and I wish you the very best.. |
Family › Re: I'm Depressed, Thoughts Of Suicide Is Getting Strong.pls.advise. by Richy4(m): 2:10pm On Mar 26, 2021 |
Bro, U even have landed property with hope of getting a buyer? Have you pause for awhile and ask, how about those that doesn't have what you have? U are blessed Bro.. The world is on famine because of the pandemic. But it will recover soon and everyone will start eating in plenty more than before... but meanwhile, be patient.. or your enemies will eat at your funeral.. |
Education › Re: American School Headmaster Vs African American Family Vs Nigerian Culture by Richy4(m): 10:21am On Mar 25, 2021*. Modified: 10:39am On Mar 25, 2021 |
McSquishi: You seem to be projecting, don’t confuse me for your deep seated issues.
“Every move” hmm seems you know me very well to know what I label people’s every move. Is it “every move” or was it a white teacher admitting to making a Black American child kneel before him based on the fact that the child is Black? Pathetic
Unlike you, I am proud of my heritage, my complexion, and African descent. Unlike you, I acknowledge and abhor racism and those we call c00ns who worship white people and look down on their own. Ya know, those types who see a story where a Black child was victimized and rushes to defend the white person. Sickening people, truly..
You said you are in the racism capitol of the world, right? so I’m sorry your skin is likewise despised... nothing you can do about that one either lol How do I start explaining the difference between Capital and Capitol Now? Like I said, Comprehension is your major issues. You can't pick sarcasm, You don't know rhetorical Questions... Since you don't know all these, How then did you manage to comprehend American history that you claimed to know? the question disturbed me and I decided to click your name to know whom I was dealing with.. I am so disappointed with myself at the moment...Let them fire the Head master, He has done the worst thing no man has ever done.. in fact he should be killed.. I am sorry ok.. bye |
Education › Re: American School Headmaster Vs African American Family Vs Nigerian Culture by Richy4(m): 6:57pm On Mar 24, 2021 |
McSquishi: You couldn’t help me to begin with. Especially considering you’re the one in need of help.
Good luck Hopefully your inferiority complex gets you far! Racists love people like you, so you’re well placed to succeed in your “capitol of racism”.
Take care someone that dictates every move people make and calls it racism... Someone who is sad and not confident about her skin color in the mixed of adversaries is talking about inferiority complex.. That's why I said I can't help you dear.. However, I feel so bad that you were trapped in America and they particularly don't like your skin....Sorry there's nothing I can do about that.... |
Education › Re: American School Headmaster Vs African American Family Vs Nigerian Culture by Richy4(m): 6:19pm On Mar 24, 2021 |
McSquishi: [s]You don’t know the mother but have determined without evidence that she is after money. And despite the headmaster himself admitting that the student’s race is why he had him kneel (because of his African descent) some less intelligent people will say it’s not about race and I’m playing the race card. The headmaster said it was about race, genius! Smh. The only thing the headmaster disagrees with is that it was “racist” and wrong to have a child kneel to him based on the child’s race. Do you get it now?
You called white supremacy a “theory” and now using the term “race card” but balk at the idea you’ve internalized white supremacy? Denial is a hell of a drug.
Wasn’t it you who said that you can’t focus on America’s history or white supremacy because you are in the racism capital of the world. So then it was you who inferred racism is different in different places, initially, remember? Also, not all school systems are the same, are you kidding? One place you have to pay fees to attend school, one place education is free. One place teachers can beat children, another system it is illegal. If you don’t know what is normal behavior in American school systems don’t speak on what you don’t know. It’s not a lot to ask.
The difference between you volunteering to kneel is that I am not a person of authority over you who has required you kneel before me in subjection. Another huge difference is that you’re typing on a laptop and know that it’s impossible to kneel before me and so you never have to live up to your words. Talk is cheap, come here and kneel before me if you’re really ‘bout it. [/s] Comprehension issues... I can't help you have a good day
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Christianity Etc › Re: Apostle Suleman Forgives Offenders To Mark 50th Birthday by Richy4(m): 5:43pm On Mar 24, 2021 |
Hmmm!!!!! The way the OP systematically carve out the heading... It sounds so arrogant.. but when u read, it was a different ballgame.  |
Education › Re: American School Headmaster Vs African American Family Vs Nigerian Culture by Richy4(m): 5:24pm On Mar 24, 2021 |
McSquishi: So you don’t understand racism in America and therefore should stop speaking on things which you have no knowledge about. If you don’t care to learn about the “theory” of white supremacy and the realities of racism in places being discussed then don’t weigh in on the topic as though you have some insight. Stick to your racism capital of the world and the dynamics there.
I’ll educate you how schools work here. Teachers are expected to mold and protect students. They are not tasked with disciplining them, putting them in their place, or humbling/humiliating them. A student being told to apologize on his knees is an anomaly here, it is abhorrent.
I don’t care how much you love white people and think they have the best of intentions, it is strange behavior regardless of race to ask a child to kneel before their teacher to apologize. That the teacher admitted to doing so solely because of the student’s race makes the humiliating behavior racist. This isn’t even difficult to understand.
And it’s interesting how you assume a mom can’t genuinely love her child to the extent she would want to vindicate him and protect him and other kids from ever being exposed to such a thing again, you assume the Black mom must have bad intentions and just want money, right? She doesn’t really care that much for her son... But the white teacher despite the strange actions related to race by his own admission, you assume he has the best of intentions. You even ascribed more fault and bad behavior to the Black child than the teacher.
You are a classic case of internalized white supremacy. How funny. Hmmm!!! Ok, I got you but the difference between me and you is that I do not play race card on any slight opportunity. I like myself too much to do that…. In as much as there are racists in this world, there are rooms for benefit of the doubt which people like you can’t possibly see apart from the usual race poem you knew how to chant.. It’s about time you stop playing the race card on everything and learn to love whom you are. You owe yourselves that at least... you don’t have to look like the god of vengeance and doom all the time.
Please stop acting as if American system of education/ discipline is unique and extremely different from the rest of the world because that was nauseating. I felt like smashing my laptop reading your tiny crèche course on American Education system… Stop feeling as if American kind of racism/ racist is different from any other in the world, There’s nothing, absolute nothing special about American kind of racism.. Racism is racism anywhere.. Asking if I don’t understand American racism is just Childish.
It so interesting how you tried to make it look like I said there’s no caring mom who can go way out to protect their kids… Yes a mom can genuinely love her child but that woman in question is after money. Take it or leave it…I can even kneel and tell you that I stand by my words.. and I won’t go on a therapy over that.
I’m done talking about this silly racism talk but I have to give it to you. You analyzed me so well as a classic case of internalized white supremacy. How did you know me so well? I don’t even know myself the way you do. You can even predict what I’m wearing right now .. Anyways I got to go have a great day .
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Education › Re: American School Headmaster Vs African American Family Vs Nigerian Culture by Richy4(m): 7:16am On Mar 24, 2021*. Modified: 7:55am On Mar 24, 2021 |
McSquishi: Maybe the idea of racism in America is difficult for you to understand since you are not a Black American and obviously not well versed in American history.
A mother not wanting her son to be humiliated and degraded has nothing to do with cashing out. The most common consequences here would be a public apology and the teacher being fired, not cashing out. The mother wants her son to be vindicated and to be able to walk around with his head held high, that’s why she’s fighting for him.
Again, if you don’t understand racism, white supremacy, and American history, maybe don’t speak on subjects you don’t understand fully. Just maybe you don't know the meaning of vindication or you have a very good selective reading skills.... A kid committed and Offence in the class and was asked to apologize and you were talking about vindication?
Yesterday, Somewhere in South Africa, there was a video making around where a black female teacher called out students in the Assembly and was combing their hair in front of other students for constantly refusing to comb while coming to school or be sent home for not combing.... A lot of people like you said it was humiliation... she should have invited the students privately and comb their hair...or even sent them home for not combing.... Now imagine that female teacher being a white woman... You would have also brought the case of white supremacy and racism because it is obvious you are vast with the knowledge.... And South Africa also have that kind of history......
While dishing out your American history and white supremacy theory, You forgot one simple fact.... the fact that they were in a school environment dealing with students.... and some students doesn't listen.. Most of the teachers are tired of repeating the same school/ classroom management theory everyday.. And most of you screaming humiliations cannot even stay with your kids sisters or brothers for 6mins not to talk of other people's children without removing your wigs in frustration.... You also forgot that the world is sitting on the edge at the moment... everything good or bad annoys some people nowadays
Speaking of racisms, I choose not to talk about it with you because I am currently in the racist capital of the world... But in this present case, You can bring all American history book and white supremacy encyclopedia to back it up ... I refused to buy it that that head master was being racist... he was misunderstood by a drama queen parent that wants to trend and also cash out... Yes cash out because the therapy is not free and the trauma she claimed her kid was suffering might be paid for by the school with a good lawyer... Fortunately for her, she was singing the song using the language everyone understands over there... and people were dancing to it including you... All I saw was a head master innocently trying a new thing that has a backlash |
Education › Re: American School Headmaster Vs African American Family Vs Nigerian Culture by Richy4(m): 9:09pm On Mar 23, 2021 |
padi94: The guys above me saying nonsense... Y'all dumb as mess.
The issue here is far bigger than your comprehension, if you are not sophisticated enough to contribute to this thread why not stick to your SNAKE thread where you can unleash your primitive thoughts with reckless abandon.
Back to the topic, I think these white people get triggers of joy or it hits a sweet spot in their brain when they do things like this. It's like cocaine to them to subject a black to a racist or slavish condition. Imagine this sh.it What do you even know about white people in the first place?,, How many white people do u know?.. And how many have given you a cold shoulder because of the color of your skin?.. Don't you know what the woman was trying to do? If you don't then, I'm sorry I can't help you... But I have to let you know that everyone is utilizing every slightest opportunity they got nowadays to cash out ....
Besides, I believe you are a Nigerian, and you went to a Nigerian school... How many times were u punished while in primary/secondary school and you went for therapy?...If you did not go for therapy why didn't you? ... Or don't you think at that time, whoever was punishing u was putting u into slavish condition?
You are talking about white being racist and disrespectful yet you were disrespecting people that doesn't share the same view as yours...calling them dumb..
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Education › Re: American School Headmaster Vs African American Family Vs Nigerian Culture by Richy4(m): 8:59pm On Mar 23, 2021*. Modified: 10:01pm On Mar 23, 2021 |
padi94: The guys above me saying nonsense... Y'all dumb as mess.
The issue here is far bigger than your comprehension, if you are not sophisticated enough to contribute to this thread why not stick to your SNAKE thread where you can unleash your primitive thoughts with reckless abandon.
Back to the topic, I think these white people get triggers of joy or it hits a sweet spot in their brain when they do things like this. It's like cocaine to them to subject a black to a racist or slavish condition. Imagine this sh.it  |
Politics › Re: Why Aisha Buhari Returned To Nigeria After Months In Dubai by Richy4(m): 8:29pm On Mar 23, 2021 |
I don't know why the phrase "kitchen cabinet" sounds funny each time I see it...... It's like all their meetings were converged right inside the kitchen  |
Education › Re: How A Teacher Flogged & Injured My Cousin At Nsude Seminary School (Graphic) by Richy4(m): 6:05pm On Mar 23, 2021 |
oladele00: Even the Bible says that a stubborn child should be thoroughly caned for him or her to regain his or her lost senses It was not in my own Bible trust me... U twisted it nicely..... My bible doesn't condone child abuse... Imagine speeding past a traffic light... A police officer stopped u, instead of giving you a ticket, He used cane on you...Flogged you the way they did to that boy... would you accept that?.. If perhaps you won't, why do you then think it's ok to do this to a kid? |
Education › Re: How A Teacher Flogged & Injured My Cousin At Nsude Seminary School (Graphic) by Richy4(m): 5:50pm On Mar 23, 2021 |
That man is heartless .. was that the best way to discipline the student... |
Education › Re: American School Headmaster Vs African American Family Vs Nigerian Culture by Richy4(m): 5:19pm On Mar 23, 2021 |
The son has been traumatized and on a therapy? just because he knelt down without stone raised high .....
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Science/Technology › Re: Fisherman Captures 'Sea Monster' With Terrifying Razor-sharp Teeth (Photos) by Richy4(m): 9:57am On Mar 23, 2021 |
Sijo01: Nate Iszac caught the enormous wolf eel off the coast of Alaska earlier this month and posed with it for a few photographs for Facebook before throwing it back in the water
He threw it back in the water This guy and his crew need to come learn work from my naija brothers/sisters   The summary/ lesson could be "I can't eat what I don't know" even though he is a fisher man, he has limits to what he can capture/ Consume.. |
Celebrities › Re: Kim kardashian thought filing divorce would shock kanye west but it backfired by Richy4(m): 9:50am On Mar 23, 2021 |
dangotesmummy: Na their type go dey say "yes ma" 60 times in a sentence
Social Media seem to give some people a sense of confidence  hahhaha... I was particularly worried the way he used the "B" word without as much as a remorse...that was why I asked... If fear won't allow one to disrespect someone offline, why would you do so online.. |
Celebrities › Re: Kim kardashian thought filing divorce would shock kanye west but it backfired by Richy4(m): 8:08pm On Mar 22, 2021 |
AbujaCitiBlog: Since the news broke that Kanye has added some serious billions to his worth, the bitch is now having a change of mind. The best revenge is success! If she appear before you, face to face, eyeball to eyeball, will you be able to call her a bitch? just asking  |
Politics › Re: Lifestyle Audit: Nigerians Flaunting Lifestyles They Can’t Afford To Be Probed by Richy4(m): 6:52pm On Mar 22, 2021 |
Pierocash: That is a good one. People like Williams Uchemba,E money,Cubana priest,Dino Melaye etc should be properly investigated Bitter-leave Producers Association Member.. I salute Buddy ...The names u mentioned, is it really necessary?.. |