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Wordson:Don't shout it too loud bro.... Village people are listening ![]() |
lecturer50:I don't want to read meanings into @ bold because it won't be in your favor buddy.... But the bottom line is do the best that you can for your mother if you have... because you don't have another mother... As for family members who felt that they have struck gold , Hit the ignore button... but your parents should not be neglected no matter what... |
I think the baby should be taken to an orphanage so that due process could be followed..... I mean it will be so unfair for the family of MR X to train a baby only for Madam C to come and lay claim when the child must have grown...because of oral adoption... I believe that every individual on this planet would like to know who their biological parents were, adopted or not...To avoid the stories that touches, orphanage will be a better place to go. There, you can state the kind of adoption process that you want... if it's the one that gives the adopted parent total control with undisclosed address or the one that will give the biological parent a little hope of seeing the child again or have a little access...I don't know much about adoption but I believe they will guide u there...whatever you decide, the interest of the child should be of paramount important please...wishing u and your friend the best.. |
In my Opinion I think he should take it... If he got family, he should not relocate with them.... some times, this world is about risk... He should keep on pressing the redeployment button... who knows, an inhouse opening might come up in another branch outside the state.... |
Cutie09:To say that I am speechless @ bold will be an understatement.... You mean that since an average Nigerian answers call in a rude manner, It makes it Ok and acceptable because it like a culture?... It's like saying since we have a corrupt system of Government.. Corruption is almost like a brand Name in Nigeria, then it is acceptable and cool... If she can be rude to you, what made you think that your customers will be exonerated from her rude behavior? What about the company's foreign clients? have you thought about how messed up that could be for a deal worth millions?...Anyways, you will hire her because it was not your establishment as long as you got paid, no big deal...Even if the organization looses important clients, NO skin pain...(In Managerial Finance, what you said you will do is referred to as Agency Problem) The likelihood that managers(in this case hiring manager) may place personal goals ahead of corporate goal Anyways, Have a good holidays ![]() |
ivolt:I want to ask you some questions and I will like you to humor me with some answers ![]() <<<@ Bold, Why did you think that the HR's ego was bruised?... <<< Based on what you have written about bruised ego and so on, who was the looser here, The HR or the Jobseeker? <<<You said I know nothing about the Jobseeker... That is 100% correct....Now If you were a hiring manager, how would you know the right candidate for a job within the space of 45mins interview? Does his or her actions counts?..or just her qualifications? <<< The job in question was a customer service job (Bank)...She will be the face of that organization.... She will be dealing with various kinds of people...Logically, based on the story that you read from OP, If you were to judge this professionally, do you think the lady in question have a Customer service management skills?....Do you think she will be wonderful with customers? I will be happy to see your response... all questions carries equal mark.... N.B: It's about time Nigerian HRs stop all pretense and start giving out customer based jobs on people that were capable in all ramifications not only on certificate.. Most of Nigerians were angry over the video making around about the Chairman of Code of Conduct who is obviously qualified but lack basic things his office represents... which was conducts, comportment etc.. I still maintain that that Experienced HR averted a big problem for his company and the customers... |
Cutie09:Please, I want you to read this interview conversations between 2 job seekers and their HRs and answer the following questions Below ![]() <<<<FIRST JOBSSEEKER WITH HR HR: Good day! Am I Speaking with XYZ Job Seeker: Speaking HR: Hello XYZ, My name is EFG from Abc Bank how are you doing to day? Job seeker: I'm fine. HR: You recently had an interview with us 2 weeks ago...I just want to formally congratulate you because you were among the candidate that was successful bla bla bla... <<<<<SECOND JOBSEEK SCENE HR : Good day!! can I speak with XYZ? Job seeker: Who is this? What do you want? how did you even get my number? HR: Can I confirm if I'm speaking with XYZ Jobseeker: If you don't want to tell me who you are just get off my phone ****Cut the call*** Now I have to ask you and I want you to be honest with your answers <<<<In the first scenario interview, was all professional protocol followed by the HR? <<<< what did you make out of the two job seekers? <<<<< Assuming the second job seeker had manners, do you think it would have been effortless like the first? N.B: I want to let you know that professionally asking first if one can speak to XYZ before introduction is not a wrong move because a lot of job seekers have children, relative etc that might be in possession of the job seeker's phones at that moment...professionals in advanced countries know that..It's like an unwritten rules... You can research it if you like.. Besides, Introducing yourself one million times when you are speaking with the wrong individual could be tiring and exhausting. By the way, I was not doubting your membership of cipd... Being a member of CIPD stops no professional from knowing phone manners/ professional conversation ethics.. |
Oh!! I thought it was a Nigerian institution because the name sound extremely strange...Uganda |
Was it #70,000 or $70,000..the currency is conflicting.... ![]() According to the write up, The inspectors were known for that kind of heinous crime, I mean they got a history....and they were still putting on police uniform...OK
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Sorry dear... It's stuffs that happens when someone is trained by a community or extended family raised to power 4.. ![]() there will be so much expectation...You are like a community property.. But One of the better side of it is that when you starts doing well, They will make sure u approve and indorse any thing that goes around the family....Anyone that wants to marry must seek for your approval..You will be like an uncle for all.. I have watched it on Nigerian movies wayback .. |
Some people are just making a mockrey of Christianity I swear... I'm just desperately trying to imagine what the prayer point of the pastor was ![]()
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TheSupleemLeada:I was shocked too.... His boldness was nerve-wracking...that was a sinful statement...almost a blasphemy... |
robosky02:I don't understand, Are u saying the ones you mentioned are not good enough? can you explain more please |
firstworld:I beg to differ with you sir.... The HR is not at fault.... The fact that you started by introducing yourself does not mean it only work that way... It goes both ways.. If you call me for example and I don't know your number, What will it take me to say Hello richy4 speaking.. it's just like a default setting for me.... Then U will say hi to me by calling my name, then introduce yourself to me.... If due to certain reasons you forget to introduce yourself, thinking I know you and might recognize your voice... I will say may I know who is speaking please.... It's just common etiquette and manners.. she is mannerless. when u said she should have been cautious as a job seeker, were you indirectly implying that she should pretend to be nice while speaking to You as a HR then later unleash the stuff she was made of while working with customers?...No wonder mannerless people occupy customer service positions if U as someone working with HR couldn't see what the other HR saw.... I'm glad that the experienced HR dictated it early.. there were lot of mannerless people in the bank those days especially in First Bank.. Imagine adding this one to their statistics... though I don't know if they were still like that.. . |
Without anyone jumping to Conclusions... OP, What is giving your friend a sleepless night? what was his concern that was causing the Emaciation? |
O'Boy!! Let me just stay very very far and observe this.....The thread got some Gomorrah flavor ![]()
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What about saving for at least 3-5 months, than relocate someplace cheaper and closer to your work place and still make use of house help.. with that, it won't be much of a distance to cover.... |
I like the write up and I'm glad u shared it... though emotional but thank you for sharing ![]() |
So up till now, he doesn't have a name but yahoo boy....? So what about CCTV, possibly credit/ debit card numbers that can link to a bank so that his true ID can be investigated... |
Apart from the fact that he was wearing a police uniform, he is human right?... If beaten so hard, there will be blood flowing through his veins correct? He doesn't enjoy any immunity right?.. he can sue and be sued too right?, in a democratic setting, Equality before the law right? ..So that is it. .. |
Is your advice only for Nigerian Citizens or everyone in the world?....How many observations have you made..? How did you get your statistical data before you arrived at your conclusion?...just asking because as you said this is 21st century, People can't just take anything thrown at them without inquiry.. |
Injustice system in 9Ja... First to file a complaint gets justice.... the security man has already been arrested.... So assuming there was no camera, he would have been in jail..... one can now wonder how many innocent ones have passed through this kinda injustice before the inception of technology.... Imagine code of conduct... what an irony of an office/position he was occupying...
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I feel sorry that he has gone to one of the Covid-19 headquarters in the world in the name of checkup.. At his age, They should have advised him to minimize going to the hospital because that's where the aged contacts this deadly virus... I have heard cases of people that went to the hospital for something else and ended up having Corona...His age bracket are the most vulnerable .. I just hope his case is different .... |
Was that a pit toilet or what?....... in this 21 century ![]() |
But I guess you were born and raised in Nigeria, and u turned out the way u are... or don't u like the personality/ whom you have become?..... Please explain it to me in 25 words |
It would have been cheaper assuming there are Hospitals in Nigeria... But since there was no single hospital in Nigeria, And there are no land to build any, he can go.. I wish him safe trip ![]() |
The head line/ content and the sign on the picture were two conflicting things... Dude was jailed for issuing a worthless cheque over a Business transaction.. so why was it written internet fraud or was it two to three counts charges.. |
The story line would be nice for an Adult movie especially when a black man is involved.... Embellish it here and there and boom!!! A True live Adult 18+ movie is born |
And she allowed them to lower the groom to the ground on their wedding day..How could she do a thing like that?..... |
Did she study Theatre Art?... Assuming this was a movie, I would have loved to see how she was performing this great 'Wayo" on you...I can just imagine her laughing and telling her friends as a single lady her acting skills while the famous courtship was going on .. I will not be surprised if you guys met on dating site.... where u mentioned your likes and dislike and she capitalized on it...Did she also said she like bush walking as a hobby too .. |
There are so many loopholes on this story <<<How did she get your number since you were not working with her but your Boss? <<< How did she get to trust you so much to the extent of throwing Dollars at you to hide? <<<when she called you, what was the conversation? did she tell you where she got the money from? did you even asked? Now, Speaking of Running away, Are you seriously thinking/ considering running away with money you knew next to nothing about?.. Do it dear and she will do to you Jezebel's style of judgement or Potiphar’s Wife style of Judgement...Your integrity is questionable at the moment because you have already started dipping your hands on the cookie jar by siphoning what was not yours....If 8 people tells you to run, u will definitely run..U just wanted confirmation... But incase you don't want to run, Then do not tell your boss..,. Give her back her money... It might even be a test to know if you can be trusted around the house/ with businesses... |
Honestly the only thing I see on your write up that affects you directly was # 1.............. Which you have forgiven and I have to applaud you for that. The others, I have no idea what you were talking about in terms of forgiveness... If you think #2 and 3 were owing you any thing sir, to the extend of entertaining forgiveness on your head, I beg to differ...They were not owing u anything... what would you even say that they owing you exactly?.....that they refused to help you in time of need was that it?...They were not your parent.. They have the right to help you or not to.. I see it as lessons learnt as one grows old that you don't bank on/ trust/ depend on anyone...Putting much expectation on someone that is not your immediate family member (father/mother) is the easiest way to have HBP... I could qualify your 2 and 3 as someone that needed a job desperately, went for an interview, showcased his best and was not taken... and he said I have forgiven u guys for not hiring me in your company.....Now how many people do you think has done that?.. |
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