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European Football (EPL, UEFA, La Liga) › Re: Arsenal Vs Liverpool (0 - 3) On 3rd April 2021 by Richy4(m): 9:46pm On Apr 03, 2021
Wordson:
Another goal... 2-0 .. sure we're coming back to winning ways..
Days of giveaways are over
Don't shout it too loud bro.... Village people are listening grin grin
Family › Re: How Do I Stop My Relatives From Disturbing Me? by Richy4(m): 7:19pm On Apr 03, 2021
lecturer50:
What surprises me is that immediately I got the job, my mom started having health challenges.

I have observed it several times in different people.

When they are able to make a breakthrough in life (like getting a good job, graduation, financial breakthroughs),

something bad (like sickness or death) would affect their relatives, either the mom,dad,son, daughter or any close relative.

Please who else has noticed this, and why must it be so?
I don't want to read meanings into @ bold because it won't be in your favor buddy.... But the bottom line is do the best that you can for your mother if you have... because you don't have another mother... As for family members who felt that they have struck gold , Hit the ignore button... but your parents should not be neglected no matter what...
Family › Re: She Wants Someone That Will Adopt Her Baby by Richy4(m): 7:00pm On Apr 03, 2021
I think the baby should be taken to an orphanage so that due process could be followed.....

I mean it will be so unfair for the family of MR X to train a baby only for Madam C to come and lay claim when the child must have grown...because of oral adoption...

I believe that every individual on this planet would like to know who their biological parents were, adopted or not...To avoid the stories that touches, orphanage will be a better place to go. There, you can state the kind of adoption process that you want... if it's the one that gives the adopted parent total control with undisclosed address or the one that will give the biological parent a little hope of seeing the child again or have a little access...I don't know much about adoption but I believe they will guide u there...whatever you decide, the interest of the child should be of paramount important please...wishing u and your friend the best..
Family › Re: Should He Accept The Job Offer Or Not? by Richy4(m):
In my Opinion I think he should take it... If he got family, he should not relocate with them.... some times, this world is about risk... He should keep on pressing the redeployment button... who knows, an inhouse opening might come up in another branch outside the state....
Jobs/Vacancies › Re: Lady Loses Job Opportunity Due To Her Response To HR's Phonecall by Richy4(m): 11:17am On Apr 03, 2021
Cutie09:
Have you heard of work culture? Society culture? Do you know average Nigerians answer or pick calls by being rude. (If they don't have the number in their contact)

What she did is what every average nigerians would do. I will go ahead and employ the one with bad phone manners because that's how average Nigerians answer phones. Also she knows she was rude to me i still give her the job that will make her be on best behaviour.

How about if your boss thats your superior said employ call miss xyz to resume next week and she was rude to you are you going to say cuz she was rude you won't recruit or employ her.

You seem like someone that like HR, one quality of HR personnel is to keep calm remember you hold all the cards to hiring and firing and best mood is when potential talents start saying sorry etc and you still offer them the job

Have a goid day sir.
To say that I am speechless @ bold will be an understatement.... You mean that since an average Nigerian answers call in a rude manner, It makes it Ok and acceptable because it like a culture?... It's like saying since we have a corrupt system of Government.. Corruption is almost like a brand Name in Nigeria, then it is acceptable and cool...

If she can be rude to you, what made you think that your customers will be exonerated from her rude behavior? What about the company's foreign clients? have you thought about how messed up that could be for a deal worth millions?...Anyways, you will hire her because it was not your establishment as long as you got paid, no big deal...Even if the organization looses important clients, NO skin pain...(In Managerial Finance, what you said you will do is referred to as Agency Problem) The likelihood that managers(in this case hiring manager) may place personal goals ahead of corporate goal
Anyways, Have a good holidays smiley
Jobs/Vacancies › Re: Lady Loses Job Opportunity Due To Her Response To HR's Phonecall by Richy4(m):
ivolt:
No. It doesn't go both ways when calling strangers.


That isn't your default setting. It is either you are a marketer, grew up with one or have been trained to answer stranger's call that way. Regular people don't introduce themselves to stranger's first. It is even a bad idea with the scale of insecurity and fraud going on in the country.


She is mannerless because she wants to know who is speaking before responding. You know nothing about this lady, absolutely
nothing but you assumed everything about her behavior.
Who she is? what did she just finished doing? or if the HR with a god complex is the sixth tricky caller on that particular day.
But she is mannerless because she demands to know her caller before confirming her identity.
That HR with over-bloated ego


Your "experienced" HR didn't detect anything but his bruised ego just like many people with authority in this country, he decided to "deal" with her as they normally do. If your model HR was a banker and was to secure a new account with a customer, the call will be very much different. He will certainly introduce himself first before confirming the identity of the call recipient. That HR needs retraining!

I don't care who you are, if you call and can't introduce yourself and I give you a chance by asking once, we have nothing to talk about.
I want to ask you some questions and I will like you to humor me with some answers smiley

<<<@ Bold, Why did you think that the HR's ego was bruised?...

<<< Based on what you have written about bruised ego and so on, who was the looser here, The HR or the Jobseeker?

<<<You said I know nothing about the Jobseeker... That is 100% correct....Now If you were a hiring manager, how would you know the right candidate for a job within the space of 45mins interview? Does his or her actions counts?..or just her qualifications?

<<< The job in question was a customer service job (Bank)...She will be the face of that organization.... She will be dealing with various kinds of people...Logically, based on the story that you read from OP, If you were to judge this professionally, do you think the lady in question have a Customer service management skills?....Do you think she will be wonderful with customers?

I will be happy to see your response... all questions carries equal mark....

N.B: It's about time Nigerian HRs stop all pretense and start giving out customer based jobs on people that were capable in all ramifications not only on certificate.. Most of Nigerians were angry over the video making around about the Chairman of Code of Conduct who is obviously qualified but lack basic things his office represents... which was conducts, comportment etc.. I still maintain that that Experienced HR averted a big problem for his company and the customers...
Jobs/Vacancies › Re: Lady Loses Job Opportunity Due To Her Response To HR's Phonecall by Richy4(m): 3:34am On Apr 03, 2021
Cutie09:
The HR is at fault. Company do have their own standards operating procedure (s.o.p) now with what i know if am calling you i need to act professional which is

1) introduce myself
2) why am calling
3) am i speaking to mr xyz?
If the answer is yes then i will try to verify if is true or not

That could be any of the following
You full name, address next of kin

If HR cant do all of that then they have failed whole of hr professional.

Go and check youtube check cipd website or people management website. I am active cipd member
Please, I want you to read this interview conversations between 2 job seekers and their HRs and answer the following questions Below smiley

<<<<FIRST JOBSSEEKER WITH HR

HR: Good day! Am I Speaking with XYZ

Job Seeker: Speaking

HR: Hello XYZ, My name is EFG from Abc Bank how are you doing to day?

Job seeker: I'm fine.

HR: You recently had an interview with us 2 weeks ago...I just want to formally congratulate you because you were among the candidate that
was successful bla bla bla...

<<<<<SECOND JOBSEEK SCENE

HR : Good day!! can I speak with XYZ?

Job seeker: Who is this? What do you want? how did you even get my number?

HR: Can I confirm if I'm speaking with XYZ

Jobseeker: If you don't want to tell me who you are just get off my phone ****Cut the call***

Now I have to ask you and I want you to be honest with your answers
<<<<In the first scenario interview, was all professional protocol followed by the HR?
<<<< what did you make out of the two job seekers?
<<<<< Assuming the second job seeker had manners, do you think it would have been effortless like the first?

N.B: I want to let you know that professionally asking first if one can speak to XYZ before introduction is not a wrong move because a lot of job seekers have children, relative etc that might be in possession of the job seeker's phones at that moment...professionals in advanced countries know that..It's like an unwritten rules... You can research it if you like..
Besides, Introducing yourself one million times when you are speaking with the wrong individual could be tiring and exhausting.
By the way, I was not doubting your membership of cipd... Being a member of CIPD stops no professional from knowing phone manners/ professional conversation ethics..


Education › Re: "Crying Is Allowed But Do So Quietly": Unususal Instruction On Examination Paper by Richy4(m): 9:17pm On Apr 02, 2021
Oh!! I thought it was a Nigerian institution because the name sound extremely strange...Uganda
Crime › Re: The Mighty Has Fallen, Police Inspectors On Their Knees Begging For Forgiveness by Richy4(m): 6:46pm On Apr 02, 2021
Was it #70,000 or $70,000..the currency is conflicting.... huh

According to the write up, The inspectors were known for that kind of heinous crime, I mean they got a history....and they were still putting on police uniform...OK

Family › Re: Could this be a family admonition or undue pressure? by Richy4(m): 5:55pm On Apr 02, 2021
Sorry dear... It's stuffs that happens when someone is trained by a community or extended family raised to power 4.. grin

there will be so much expectation...You are like a community property.. But One of the better side of it is that when you starts doing well, They will make sure u approve and indorse any thing that goes around the family....Anyone that wants to marry must seek for your approval..You will be like an uncle for all.. I have watched it on Nigerian movies wayback cheesy ..
Family › Re: My Mother Thought I Was Possessed Because I Have Alopecia by Richy4(m): 4:19pm On Apr 02, 2021
Some people are just making a mockrey of Christianity I swear... I'm just desperately trying to imagine what the prayer point of the pastor was embarassed

Education › Re: Is Sociology A Nice Course To Study In Nigeria? by Richy4(m): 3:29pm On Apr 02, 2021
TheSupleemLeada:
One mugu listed Economics as part of one the useless courses in Nigeria...... nairaland and it's clowns. undecided
I was shocked too.... His boldness was nerve-wracking...that was a sinful statement...almost a blasphemy...
Sports › Re: Kelechi Iheanacho Wins Premier League Player of the Month for March by Richy4(m): 2:24pm On Apr 02, 2021
robosky02:
My only worry now is Nigeria don't have a coach to blend a team that will easily take us to world cup finals with the embarrassing talent we have now

Iheanacho
Ndidi
Osimhen
Onuachu
Chukwezez


Kai.....
I don't understand, Are u saying the ones you mentioned are not good enough? can you explain more please
Jobs/Vacancies › Re: Lady Loses Job Opportunity Due To Her Response To HR's Phonecall by Richy4(m):
firstworld:
The HR person is at fault I am in HR and because of these kinds of reactions, I usually start my calls by introducing myself first so the other person knows who is calling and is at ease. He could have simply said "I am John D calling from bank. That wouldnt hurt. That said, the lady should have been cautious as a job seeker that was just interviewed and expecting phone calls. Lets call a spade a spade please.
I beg to differ with you sir.... The HR is not at fault.... The fact that you started by introducing yourself does not mean it only work that way... It goes both ways..

If you call me for example and I don't know your number, What will it take me to say Hello richy4 speaking.. it's just like a default setting for me.... Then U will say hi to me by calling my name, then introduce yourself to me.... If due to certain reasons you forget to introduce yourself, thinking I know you and might recognize your voice... I will say may I know who is speaking please.... It's just common etiquette and manners.. she is mannerless.

when u said she should have been cautious as a job seeker, were you indirectly implying that she should pretend to be nice while speaking to You as a HR then later unleash the stuff she was made of while working with customers?...No wonder mannerless people occupy customer service positions if U as someone working with HR couldn't see what the other HR saw.... I'm glad that the experienced HR dictated it early.. there were lot of mannerless people in the bank those days especially in First Bank.. Imagine adding this one to their statistics... though I don't know if they were still like that.. .
Family › Re: Husband Cries Out:from 84kg To 69kg,is This Marriage Hellfire Or Heaven? by Richy4(m): 5:54pm On Apr 01, 2021
Without anyone jumping to Conclusions... OP, What is giving your friend a sleepless night? what was his concern that was causing the Emaciation?
Family › Re: 9 Different Types Of Sex In Marriage!!!!! by Richy4(m):
O'Boy!! Let me just stay very very far and observe this.....The thread got some Gomorrah flavor grin

Family › Re: Starting a small business by Richy4(m): 11:37am On Apr 01, 2021
What about saving for at least 3-5 months, than relocate someplace cheaper and closer to your work place and still make use of house help.. with that, it won't be much of a distance to cover....
Family › Re: My Pot Of Soup by Richy4(m): 10:00pm On Mar 31, 2021
I like the write up and I'm glad u shared it... though emotional but thank you for sharing embarassed
Celebrities › Re: Waiter At Yahoo Boy Birthday Party Where Over 30 Attendees Died Finally Speaks by Richy4(m): 6:05pm On Mar 31, 2021
So up till now, he doesn't have a name but yahoo boy....? So what about CCTV, possibly credit/ debit card numbers that can link to a bank so that his true ID can be investigated...
Family › Re: If A Police Officer Beat Up Your Lovely Mother Like This, What Would You Do? by Richy4(m): 3:15pm On Mar 31, 2021
Apart from the fact that he was wearing a police uniform, he is human right?... If beaten so hard, there will be blood flowing through his veins correct? He doesn't enjoy any immunity right?.. he can sue and be sued too right?, in a democratic setting, Equality before the law right? ..So that is it. grin..
Family › Re: Guys, Marry An Educated, Intelligent Lady. E Get Why. by Richy4(m):
Is your advice only for Nigerian Citizens or everyone in the world?....How many observations have you made..? How did you get your statistical data before you arrived at your conclusion?...just asking because as you said this is 21st century, People can't just take anything thrown at them without inquiry..
Politics › Re: Justice Umar Kicks A Security Guard At Abuja Plaza (Video) by Richy4(m): 9:28pm On Mar 30, 2021
Injustice system in 9Ja... First to file a complaint gets justice.... the security man has already been arrested.... So assuming there was no camera, he would have been in jail..... one can now wonder how many innocent ones have passed through this kinda injustice before the inception of technology....

Imagine code of conduct... what an irony of an office/position he was occupying...

Politics › Re: South Africans Are Surprised That Buhari Is Going UK Hospital by Richy4(m): 9:14pm On Mar 30, 2021
I feel sorry that he has gone to one of the Covid-19 headquarters in the world in the name of checkup.. At his age, They should have advised him to minimize going to the hospital because that's where the aged contacts this deadly virus...
I have heard cases of people that went to the hospital for something else and ended up having Corona...His age bracket are the most vulnerable .. I just hope his case is different sad....
Education › Re: The Dirty State Of Federal University Of Agriculture, Makurdi Boys' Hostel by Richy4(m): 7:41pm On Mar 30, 2021
Was that a pit toilet or what?....... in this 21 century huh
Family › Re: Is My Fear Of Raising Kids In Nigeria Irrational? by Richy4(m): 4:53am On Mar 30, 2021
But I guess you were born and raised in Nigeria, and u turned out the way u are... or don't u like the personality/ whom you have become?..... Please explain it to me in 25 words
Politics › Re: President Buhari To Travel For A Medical Check-Up In London by Richy4(m): 9:56pm On Mar 29, 2021
It would have been cheaper assuming there are Hospitals in Nigeria... But since there was no single hospital in Nigeria, And there are no land to build any, he can go.. I wish him safe trip sad
Crime › Re: Man jailed over Dud Cheque In Akure, Two Others Convicted In Abeokuta by Richy4(m): 9:04pm On Mar 29, 2021
The head line/ content and the sign on the picture were two conflicting things...

Dude was jailed for issuing a worthless cheque over a Business transaction.. so why was it written internet fraud or was it two to three counts charges..
Crime › Re: U.S Pastor Shot Dead By Wife & Boyfriend After Having 3Some(Pics) by Richy4(m): 6:20pm On Mar 29, 2021
The story line would be nice for an Adult movie especially when a black man is involved.... Embellish it here and there and boom!!! A True live Adult 18+ movie is born
Family › Re: Woman Marries Her Late Husband’s Corpse So They Will Remain One Again by Richy4(m): 5:43pm On Mar 29, 2021
And she allowed them to lower the groom to the ground on their wedding day..How could she do a thing like that?.....
Family › Re: I Don't Know If I Have Made Mistake In Marriage by Richy4(m):
Did she study Theatre Art?... Assuming this was a movie, I would have loved to see how she was performing this great 'Wayo" on you...I can just imagine her laughing and telling her friends as a single lady her acting skills while the famous courtship was going on smiley..

I will not be surprised if you guys met on dating site.... where u mentioned your likes and dislike and she capitalized on it...Did she also said she like bush walking as a hobby too grin grin grin ..
Family › Re: Should I Tell The Boss? Nairalanders Pls Help by Richy4(m):
There are so many loopholes on this story

<<<How did she get your number since you were not working with her but your Boss?
<<< How did she get to trust you so much to the extent of throwing Dollars at you to hide?
<<<when she called you, what was the conversation? did she tell you where she got the money from? did you even asked?

Now, Speaking of Running away, Are you seriously thinking/ considering running away with money you knew next to nothing about?.. Do it dear and she will do to you Jezebel's style of judgement or Potiphar’s Wife style of Judgement...Your integrity is questionable at the moment because you have already started dipping your hands on the cookie jar by siphoning what was not yours....If 8 people tells you to run, u will definitely run..U just wanted confirmation...

But incase you don't want to run, Then do not tell your boss..,. Give her back her money... It might even be a test to know if you can be trusted around the house/ with businesses...
Family › Re: 3 Scenarios I Have Not Forgotten But Have Actually Forgiven. by Richy4(m): 5:50pm On Mar 28, 2021
Honestly the only thing I see on your write up that affects you directly was # 1.............. Which you have forgiven and I have to applaud you for that.

The others, I have no idea what you were talking about in terms of forgiveness... If you think #2 and 3 were owing you any thing sir, to the extend of entertaining forgiveness on your head, I beg to differ...They were not owing u anything... what would you even say that they owing you exactly?.....that they refused to help you in time of need was that it?...They were not your parent.. They have the right to help you or not to..

I see it as lessons learnt as one grows old that you don't bank on/ trust/ depend on anyone...Putting much expectation on someone that is not your immediate family member (father/mother) is the easiest way to have HBP...

I could qualify your 2 and 3 as someone that needed a job desperately, went for an interview, showcased his best and was not taken... and he said I have forgiven u guys for not hiring me in your company.....Now how many people do you think has done that?..

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