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Family › Re: My Love Life Dilemma by Richy4(m): 9:35pm On Apr 27, 2021
Mariangeles:
You're most times fair and mature with your comments. You see things from aerial point of view.
I admire that.
Thank you smiley
Family › Re: My Love Life Dilemma by Richy4(m): 8:30pm On Apr 27, 2021
OP sorry you were feeling bad but you see, Relationship is something that goes with tolerance and endurance..... He has weighed it and feels that he cannot tolerate your anger issues....

Try and control your anger and outburst...He might not have the energy to separate fight in the market between you and someone whom you might think was wrong and you were right someday... he doesn't have the energy to separate fight between you and a neighbor when married. He has seen all these dear and thinks he can't cope... This is because in future, you might start insulting him for not sticking out for you...You got a red flag, he saw it on you and you were waving the flag too much for his liking

Please let him be.... I believe he can also like you and can go for an extra mile for u too as a friend... but u see, U are not compatible... please respect his wishes.. I believe someone will come soon for you.. who will like your no nonsense behavior which is good sometimes and worship the very ground you walked on... but let that guy be... he's just too honest in terms of his feelings... You guys were better off as friends only
Politics › Re: Oby Ezekwesili: "I Have Been Rejecting Ministerial Appointments Since 2007" by Richy4(m): 5:39pm On Apr 27, 2021
smiley smiley smiley smiley smiley smiley

It's good you know your worth and what you wanted.... maybe you can consider foreign/ international appointments like Madam Ngozi Okonjo ...
Family › Re: Help Me Defined My Career Path. by Richy4(m): 11:51am On Apr 27, 2021
pathfinder123:
Thanks so much.
No sweat buddy.. one thing before I run, Remember the decision is all yours... people can only point out the pros and cons of a career path but the choice is your... you know your strength and your weakness... Dwell more on your strength...Goodbye

Family › Re: Help Me Defined My Career Path. by Richy4(m): 11:32am On Apr 27, 2021
<<<<Identify the Course/ career paths that you were comfortable with...
<<<<Identify the career path/ courses that seems like a big chore.... The one that looks like you were studying to prove a point to someone?..
<<<<Identify the career path/ course you can study effortlessly even when you have a hangover/did not study it, you can write and get a C...
<<<< Weigh the options, Ask yourself some questions on why you were doing this? Is it for the future prospect/ because there there was no job in the country and I have to study it to survive or is it because it's what I like to do in future?
I will suggest while making this almighty important decision, go to a quiet place probably to a river side or stream or a park alone... Your heart will help and guide you... Good luck..
Politics › Re: Heavy Gun Battle Between UGM And Nigeria Military In Douglas, Owerri (Video) by Richy4(m): 8:20am On Apr 27, 2021
Though it's night but that street looks neater and well organized than the Douglas that I used to know...
Christianity Etc › Re: Father Mbaka: Hope Uzodinma No Longer Picks My Calls by Richy4(m): 8:12pm On Apr 26, 2021
That's the kind of thing they did to Oby Ezekwesili....That means He has been Oby -ed smiley

Family › Re: Help With Tips On Making My Room Look Nice by Richy4(m): 7:28am On Apr 26, 2021
@ LMS1.. How did you manage to remember/ put down all this?... Some people are just talented in various ways.... You will make a good material and cost controller if you put your heart to it.. cool
Family › Re: Married And Matured Minds Only by Richy4(m): 10:26pm On Apr 25, 2021
Truvel:
Na Only God Know Wetin D Guy Go Don Tell Him Friends Dem B4 Him Propose. At 1st, D Girl Should Av Accepted D Proposal 4 D Sake Of People Gathering There & Save D Guy 4rm Embarassment. Maybe Latter Open Up Her Intention To Him. If Only She Knows What It Means 4 A Guy To Kneel To Propose To A Girl In Public, She Wouldn't Av Done What She Did. Honestly, Someone Like Me, I Can't Propose To Any Girl Kneeling In D Public. I Would Advise Dat She Begs Him 4 D Embarassment She Caused Him & If He Accepts & Wants D Relationship With Her To Continue, Fine.
A lot of people both male and female won't understand @ bold....
Politics › Re: Imo State House Of Assembly Is On Fire (Photos, Video) by Richy4(m): 10:19pm On Apr 25, 2021
I just feel sorry for those ones at the background shouting God!! and Inhaling smoke......
Foreign Affairs › Re: Photos Of Missing Indonesia Submarine Lying At The Bottom Of Ocean by Richy4(m): 9:59pm On Apr 25, 2021
Thinking about the depth of the ocean sends shiver down my spine... May their soul rest in peace sad
Politics › Re: Families Of 6 Slain Soldiers By IPOB Accuse COAS. by Richy4(m):
Jashub:
Bros, before becoming a soldier, there is a form you will fill with the consent of your family. In that form, it is stated that by you signing, you are now the property of the Federal Government of Nigeria. And if anything should happen to you in the course of battle, the federal government has the right to release or not release your body.

This something the family members signed up for, so I cannot pity them.
What I believe that the family of the Fallen Heroes were accusing the Government was their inabilities to provide better weapon to help the military when in battle... They were of the opinion that if they were better equipped, their family members/ loved ones would have been alive.. that's their Bone of Contention..

Yes the families may have signed consent forms that they were in support of their wards/ relatives defending the nation... But they did not sign that they should die even though there's always casualties in war...just imagine a nation without the presence of military personnel...

Yes most of us might not be fans of the army but they are still human.... I guess the numerous killings in Nigeria has made a lot of people feel
unemotional, unfeeling, dispassionate even unexpressive when there were lose of precious lives... And that is perilous for any nation.
Politics › Re: Families Of 6 Slain Soldiers By IPOB Accuse COAS. by Richy4(m): 7:29pm On Apr 25, 2021
Jashub:
I do not understand. Is that not what the family members of the deceased sign up for? Please let us be guided
Yes Indeed, you don't understand... A Nigerian army officer signed to support and defend the Constitution of the Federal Republic of Nigeria against all enemies, foreign and domestic....None of them signed to die..
Politics › Re: Families Of 6 Slain Soldiers By IPOB Accuse COAS. by Richy4(m): 6:34pm On Apr 25, 2021
Jashub:
They signed up for the job knowing the cost. So why should the family members be grieving? Anyway, RIP to the dead.
Wow!!!! you have a heart buddy shocked
Crime › Re: Police Dismiss Cop For Killing Jelili Bakare, Hands Him To CID For Prosecution by Richy4(m): 6:29pm On Apr 25, 2021
When they removed their shirts and badge, they look so vulnerable.. looking at Derek Chauvin during the trial, one won't even know that he was the super hero that was kneeling on someone's neck sad
Family › Re: Married And Matured Minds Only by Richy4(m): 5:12pm On Apr 25, 2021
GboyegaD:
Ok, that's what you feel and I can't dispute it however, for me she saved herself an unnecessary and avoidable headache.

smiley@ bold but she still feels that the relationship has not ended after saving herself from the avoidable headache
Family › Re: Married And Matured Minds Only by Richy4(m): 4:15pm On Apr 25, 2021
GboyegaD:
Are you saying she should have accepted the proposal because it was made in public as that is what I'm inferring from your post?
Yes..
Family › Re: Married And Matured Minds Only by Richy4(m): 3:57pm On Apr 25, 2021
GboyegaD:
She did well. What was there to accept? Who will she be deceiving? No need to create a situation she can't control.
In your opinion, she did the right thing.......In my own opinion, I think she did not handle the situation well... before she started dating that guy or should I say agreed seeing him, she saw some potential in him... she hoped for a long term...

Yes her reason for rejecting the proposal was valid...Her fears well taken but her actions in public like that will cost something that could have been a good relationship assuming she was clever...The ability to think on your feet when pressured is a skill.... even the employers needed people like that...

Yes she has the right to decline the proposal in public but reasonable ladies can do that only when they don't see a future with the man in question...how can she decline marriage proposal in front of everyone including the camera and still want to stick with the same man after the humiliation... is that not insane?

If you like, carry out a random sampling of men here on this forum and ask them how many can still look at that lady the same way after the embarrassment if such were to happen to them and see their answers
Politics › Re: Soyinka To Buhari: Stop Improvising With Human Lives by Richy4(m): 9:03am On Apr 25, 2021
That's if he understands the word " improvising"....next time, just come down to his level

Politics › Re: Festus Keyamo Exposes Eedris Abdulkareem For Disparaging Him In His New Song by Richy4(m): 8:14am On Apr 25, 2021
EgunMogaji2:
I never delete emails, text messages. I have a spare hard drive for that.

It has saved me on a few occasions legally and romantically.
I think I should cultivate that habit of keeping personal messages... though I don't usually see why.... I think it usually happened when I feel bored, I just delete everything so I can start afresh.... I think I should stop that...
Politics › Re: Festus Keyamo Exposes Eedris Abdulkareem For Disparaging Him In His New Song by Richy4(m): 6:44am On Apr 25, 2021
cheiii!!!!! how will Eedris deny this one now? will he claim that it was Photoshopped?..... But this man nawao... how did he manage to keep 2018 messages....I don't even have my 2020 messages smiley
Family › Re: Masturbation Is Killing My Cousin,pls Help by Richy4(m): 12:58am On Apr 25, 2021
The guy said that it was his cousin... Can't some of you just accept what he said and move on if you have nothing to say to him? what if it was truly his cousin?...
Celebrities › Re: Watch The Moment Monster Truck Carries DMX Casket As Thousands Of Bikers Escort by Richy4(m): 12:35am On Apr 25, 2021
DMX...I wish this was done when you were alive.... Assuming something like this was designed that can accommodate you and your 15kids...You cruise on it just for one day like this eating popcorn...with your fans surrounding you like this as an honour ...I guess you would have been overwhelmed...RIP man ...
Family › Re: Married And Matured Minds Only by Richy4(m): 11:05pm On Apr 24, 2021
Billionsclub:
I told her the same thing that she should have accepted the guy in public and later say no in Private. according to her she didn't want to repeat her past mistake. I advise her not to take that guy serious because humanly speaking that guy would want to react in the near future because of the embarrassment. I don't know if I gave the right advice
Stop beating yourself up. you have said what was on your mind as a friend... that friend of yours is insane if it even occur to her to continue with that guy again after the public display... it was even captured on camera...Assuming it was done privately the way Joseph in the Bible was intending to call off the engagement with Mary, then it would have been OK..
Anyways, let me remove my mind from the gutters and honestly hope the EX boyfriend fall on the extremely forgiving category...
Family › Re: I Need Matured Advice by Richy4(m): 10:42pm On Apr 24, 2021
OP...You said that your mom was a petty trader before she stopped....So it's not as if she haven't seen some cash before.. So what changed? what has she seen now that she hasn't seen before?...Did you care to ask/know?
Family › Re: Married And Matured Minds Only by Richy4(m): 10:28pm On Apr 24, 2021
she should have applied wisdom.... What she should have done was to agree in front of everyone and disagree privately just to save face...My opinion though...
She should have told him all her worries in private that they should give each other sometime to get to know each other that the four time of being together is not enough... he would have understand that part... To be honest, If I'm the guy I will not like to see her again even though her worries were valid...Some times it's not really nice to propose in public, because that person might be surprised with the outcome...
Family › Re: What Gift Can I Get My 3 Year Old Nephew?? by Richy4(m): 8:44pm On Apr 24, 2021
Kids native wear..not the expensive ones .. I guess u won't go wrong in that except u got the wrong size...
Politics › Re: Pantami: Ya’u-Gital Counters Achi, Says "Your Son Was Killed By Student Union" by Richy4(m): 3:08pm On Apr 24, 2021
Dear Nairalanders..... As I was reading, I was just swallowing it nicely because I have no choice until I get to this statement...."....as the DSS does not in any way play or joke with anything that claimed life of a citizen." I got confused....Is he( the prof) still talking about Nigeria or another country?.. Can someone please clarify if he was still talking about Nigeria...... did he imply that human lives matters so much to the government?... I did not get it... embarassed
Politics › Re: Garba Shehu: People Are Reporting Killings As If It Had Never Happened Before by Richy4(m): 12:02pm On Apr 24, 2021
rontolo:
Nigerians deserve the leaders they get. How did Buhari end up there? How do we tolerate this abuse, incompetence and insensitivity?. Why are we so docile?

Unless we rise up and chase these id1ots out, Nigeria is doomed!
My dear even if there's a possibility for 4more tenure, a lot of people will vote for him and he will win ...because immediate solution of cash and other minor food parcel is in circulation.. when it got finished, they will start insulting the man just like how they are doing now as if he brought himself there... The rich people knows this.. so they are not shaken by social media rantings. .. during elections, the process will repeat itself again... they have the poor in their palms
Family › Re: Sad Day, Tribute To My Elder Brother by Richy4(m):
My condolence buddy... Since you are a Christian, just keep the faith and the believe say una go gam body for resurrection on the last day... I smile anytime I remembered that.. it gives me 8% of happiness...it's not enough though but it's better than nothing...
Family › Re: New Kidnappers Tactics Used Around Bank Premises by Richy4(m): 2:18pm On Apr 23, 2021
fatymore:
The PoS of a thing has been misused by Nigerians
I understand but that stuff is just what makes payment easy...... The POS credited into someone's account? what about finding out who's account was being credited....It's just too easy...I strongly believe that no one can use POS to defraud anyone in any sane country because it's just elementary.. within few mins, the police will be knocking at the door...Because it has a link with Business address, Name of Account.. Phone numbers etc
Family › Re: New Kidnappers Tactics Used Around Bank Premises by Richy4(m): 11:46am On Apr 23, 2021
So POS machine cannot be traced to any account by the bank?.....Make una no dey tell me this kind story e dey sound backwardish sad ...Is there no Business name, address.. phone number attached to the POS stuff while it was being activated?...
If Nigerian banks is not sophisticated enough to combat cybercrime then they should stop all kinds of online transaction

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