₦airaland Forum

chatinent:
Those types of men are irresponsible, and the women who often fall into this snare are less valued.

A woman should be a surprise to her husband till the wedding night.


Nice reasoning.

12large1:
Comments like these can have a negative impact of our players character. If you don't have clear evidence of age fraud, don't mention it

purplekayc:
Happy they won

crackhaus:
How did he know the amount they pay? From the school directly (perhaps during registration of his kids in the school), or does he only know it from what his wife tells him?

Sending money to his wife and letting her handle payments is not the issue, the problem is not knowing exactly what the school charges for fees.
Jeez, you can even get that information off the school website.

If a wife told the husband that their kid's school fees was #100 for example, Do you think there's need for a husband to doubt the wife's integrity by sniffing around looking for unnecessary things like receipt especially when he has limited time to spend with his family? .......

Has relationships become so bad that a man cannot trust the wife in terms of her doing the right thing?...
Speaking of school website, has Nigeria developed so much that all public and Private schools now have website?.. what about the school that doesn't have website, How will the man access the information? There's a reason a wife was popularly know as the helpmate.. the man cannot do/ be there at all times you know?

I still think that that generalization you made was not fair to some gentlemen.. especially those that were working away from a place they call home..

crackhaus:
First of all, a man who doesn't find time to get involved personally in his child's education no matter how busy he is, deserves having such a woman as a wife.

How could he not know the cost of his child's education?
What about receipts from payments?
What about the child's notebooks?
He doesn't bother to check these things?

The few times he is home, why doesn't he take the child to school himself?

So many questions...

definitelyCYRIL:
I am currently financially stable enough to pay my own rent...I have a small business that brings in some cash..but I can't afford to pay my rent and school fees at the same time... I plan on talking to him about it to know if he could be able to continue helping me with my school fees till I graduate. while I deal with the rent and feeding and co...what do you think?

I think you are good to go buddy best of luck...
Just be nice while talking about it and make sure the place you will be relocating to is closer to your institution.. that will strengthen your case... and it will eliminate Transport fare...

CsRockefeller:
Some guys dey enjoy sha


You made a man the centre of your world?

Sincerely, I wonder how you ladies do it, I'm not a lady but I have limits to what I do for females or the one I'm in love with. How could you just throw away all reasoning?

It's not just you sha, it's almost all women. Y'all are too easy to bed, I thought this was a myth but my experience has proved otherwise and that's why men don't wanna commit, no value anymore, why should he be a father now when there are dozens girls outside waiting to spread their legs and cook for him even with their own money

Women! Have sense, wisdom will save you, seek it.

smartapps:
Pursuing an MS degree does not count as being ambitious, especially in Nigeria. People do masters sometimes because they couldn't secure a good employment with their bachelor's degree. Try and get get that clear.

eduj:
seems you are a policeman or have a connection to one because ,in which democracy is it okay to handcuff someone in your room? common, am not even focusing on the fact that he claimed to be locked up for over 2 days -is that okay with you? that's a crime if you don't know- an abuse of power. As for your claim that he might have gotten physical with the policeman ,it still doesn't justify it that's the police brutality that brought about the Endsars movement and from the way you justify it, it seems you have been a part in dishing out justice yourself.
As for the woman, I don't recall saying she was abducted or even stolen. I have no pity for peeps like her - I just pointed out that she will loss in the end run

@ bold, It seems you cannot engage anyone in a debate without making insinuations .... I don't know how many times I have to tell you that I'm not a police man... And yes I agreed with you that it was wrong for anyone to handcuff someone and detain him/her in the room unlawfully.... But In law, there's something called Citizens arrest.. So a citizen can arrest someone in a democratic setting in their rooms and waits for as long as necessary for the law enforcements to shows up and take over...So handcuffing someone in a room is not new as long as it was lawfully done.

Since the boy has the tendencies of lying, his claim might not be true.. and might be dismissed for lack of merit .. Just the way you were trying to use a different thing like Endsars to judge a different thing,...That boy also knows that, and was capitalizing on the fact that people detests those in uniform to gain sympathy..
Just an afterthought, It's safe to say that the apartment was one bedroom.. If the mother wants to use the toilet, I guess he wants us to believe that he will be pushed out.. After she finished, he will be pushed right back inside the toilet right? except there were multiple toilets in the said apartment..

It's nice chatting with you.... Cheers and have a goodday

jondon11:
Thanks for this. We're sorta compatible but her lazy approach to life is an issue and it spills into the way she approaches other issues.

She's doing her MSc but she has no ideas what she'd do with the degree once she's done, she's suggested opening a corner shop and a beauty parlour (she expects I brankroll whatever venture she decides upon). I know she's an adult and I've made this about me like you noted but if I leave this girl she's content sitting at home all day watching Zee world or if she does open the corner shop would further destabilize the life of the child and mine cause she won't be able to cope with the expanded responsibilities....I just want her to woman up

Yea, nothing wrong in cleaning my apartment but when we're in a live in situation I expect the person I'm living with to help with chores at least.

Although I'm slightly partial to career women, I don't mind marrying a full-time house wife, as long as they know they're in a partnership and would perform their role effectively. My girl is neither the career woman nor the house-wife...she postures like the house-wife type but unwilling to take on the responsibilities that come with it.

eduj:
Oga,
1) if the policeman had a basis for arrest, he would have taken the guy to a police cell

2) the son came to visit the mum not knowing that she was the concubine of a man know by him to be an enemy of his family. The guy obviously called the mum,who now informed her lover so, I guess the policeman was already prepared with his colleagues

3) taking the lady was part of the feud as further punishment to the family not what caused it- understand that. And once this battle is over ,that lady will get small sense

Faber:
Na lie you must marry that girl. I just dey laugh at you. when you dey comot her bra up and down...dey turn her for bed like barber chair...360 degrees...you no reason she dey lazy. Ogbeni no leave no transfer...you must marry that girl.

When she born pikin get a house help. When your first child grows to like 4 to 5 years. Pay off the house help and train your kids to be hard working unlike their mom. let them learn how to do the house chores from their early days. Allow them to cook if she can't cook. Anyhow they cook am all man will eat it like that. Train them your own way. In my home we were trained without a house help. I cooked my first jollof rice at Nursery 3. The food no make sense. But my parents commended me and all man ate the food.

Marry her. But don't be quick to get her pregnant again. Ensure that this one whether boy or girl reach like 3 to 4 yrs, then you must have found some footing in your plans for your life.

She will be quick to double the kids, that's their way. Once they get married and have a baby...it's uhuru for them na to multiply the babies be their next ambition...so be in charge of the birth. Control the birth rate yourself.

Peace man...marry her

true2god:
It is either you are the evil policeman in question or a naturally evil soul.

eduj:
Don't you read ? He was locked up in the apartment and not taken to a police station- what does that tell you?
As for his mum, this can only end up in her disgrace because that police man is obviously using her to get back at her ex-husband. Women na mumu sha

Karleb:
Because the thing dey itch.

Stephjeff:
you saying trash shee I get money to feed man? Read again and comment

HisSexcellency:
Please, how do you define incoherent

9jaRealist:
Bros, the story read like TALES BY THE MOONLIGHT throughout...
Dude didn’t eat or drink water for 4 days, but on the 4th day he “summoned courage” to escape.
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Can you imagine those lies.... I don't like anything that has to do with Police.. I detest them a lot... but that does not mean when we see blue we call it black ...I thought I was the only one that feels the whole thing did not add up... I'm glad you saw through that writeup too.. The moderator just changed the headline by adding the three words " For challenging him" at the last minute to make it look sweet before pushing it to front page...But if u read the write ups. there was no place the son admitted challenging the police officer

Karlosorji:
Youve never been bullied by a Nigerian Police before that’s why you are sounding this way