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There's also need to enlighten them that they will have to pay within the duration of the notice... Quit notice is not a licence to stay rent-free.. ![]() |
That was breach of Trust...It might sound little to most people but It's not every one that can swallow it... when u trust your partner, the relationship lasts.. Probably, she feels she can never trust him again in anything and thinks that the right thing to do was to take a walk... |
Perfect example of narrow minded individual ![]() |
Assuming you said meet the most colourful snakes, I would have understood perfectly... But friendly? Hmmm!!! ... |
Nigerians are blessed then.. Since they don't separate or divorce because of Financial issues ![]() |
ahnie:Ahnie, That plate fine no be small.. was that ceramic or plastic?.. |
Even Lucifer himself will be disgusted at that animal ![]() |
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advanceDNA: I talk too much?... Dude, u have no idea how bored I was having this conversation with you..I was just doing it out of courtesy that's all... I usually quote selected people that makes perfect sense and 100% clear in their opinion...U quoted me and out of respect I usually accord people online, I engaged you to know what you were driving at.... I don't know the polite way of saying that you don't know what you were talking about without coming out rude.. that was why it took longer than necessary... sorry about that... To avoid this happening again in future, please check the name properly.. it's Richy4...if u can't answer my questions clearly and precisely, please don't quote me... of course you know I can never dream of quoting u... ![]() |
advanceDNA: Thank you for answering the (a ) part which was what you considered to be your definition of proof,I liked the fact that u went an extra mile to explain the characteristics of good evidence... But you omitted the (b) part of the question that says what do you think was concrete enough as an evidence to be tendered before a judge...because I believe he/she (judge) is in a good position to know which evidence presented before him or her was doctored, staged or cooked... As for your statement on red ink, u made it rocket science actually... You implied that proof would be made simple when a man forced a woman who doesn't want to have sex... How will the woman proof that she doesn't want to have sex if the man that forcefully took her says that it was consented? Or do you think that the judge and juries should be present while the did was going on so that they can collaborate with the woman and said indeed it was rape because they were there ![]() |
advanceDNA:The last time I checked,Proof is an evidence or argument establishing a fact or the truth of a statement... A woman said she was raped which was her statement and she provided a recording audio device to substantiate her claim as a proof of what she said, and u asked if that was a proof? Ok based on your opinion; <<(a) How do you define proof ? <<(b) what is concrete enough to be an evidence that a woman was raped since you insinuated that audio recording that captured those voices were not good enough .. |
advanceDNA: ![]() I believe you got female fans here in Nairaland who are kin to know your thoughts and opinions... So my question is..Is the Manchester United Greenwood girlfriend's kind of evidence/ recording good enough for marital rape evidence? Since you are looking for proof.. Just say yes and the ladies will swing into action...and starts presenting that kind of proof to judges..and u know that collecting such evidence is simple right? And you know what that kind of evidence is capable of doing right? ![]() |
advanceDNA:My brother, there's nothing.. absolute nothing like sounding politically correct... I am a firm believer that what is good for the Goose is equally good for the Gander...I don't play gender cards,I am way too old for that... If a married man is stressed out and was not in the mood to play based on work related issues or other issues he was dealing and it was justified and accepted by the woman, why should it be an issue when a woman felt she was not in the mood due to work related stress as well for example and doesn't feel like having sex?... Based on the idea of her staying put in her matrimonial home eating and drinking, I believe that u know very well that they were residing in Nigeria.. having that fact in mind, Do you think that there are organisation that offers temporary shelter to rape or domestic violence victims? Do they even have a help hotline for that purpose ? Do u know if she got relative in that city that can reasonably accommodate her until these whole mess is sorted out? We don't know all there.. so that argument for me doesn't count in my opinion... Having said that, I will not want to wake up one morning and hear that someone forced my daughter against her will...no father will like to hear that...The idea that an individual should have the right to dominate, control and forcefully penetrates into another person because they were married is inhuman in my opinion...if that was the case, what was their vows again? Does it in anyway include force? As for women waking up and claiming rape victims, I believe competent law courts do handle that...This is because the judge will ask for evidence and exhibits?... possibly a DNA and u know that.... There are lots of rape cases that were thrown out of court especially when the judge can see through them but it didn't make headlines... But when one person was convicted, it does.. it then look like power were given to women... We might not be of the same view but I believe marital rape is wrong.. |
Tell your landlady that the electricity is prepaid... If she failed to understand what prepaid is, patiently explain the meaning of prepaid to her... ![]() I didn't even know what Lawma is.. But security, u have to pay for it... assuming u came back and realised that your door was broken into, and some properties were missing... What will come to your mind.. If your came back within 5 months and there was an infestation of rodents and other things.. even snakes or creepy millipedes... What will be your reaction? The payments are justified dear.. |
Aston villa and their new manager have started their initial gra-gra.. Haba!! ![]() |
I am really proud of Arsenal.. I did not believe they will be holding on till now.. The very first time they climbed to the top, I thought it was a comic relief... It's like they meant business this season... I am also happy that Leicester are gradually coming out of the pit... Since the owner died, no one knows how they were managing financial wise ![]() |
Afodot0022: I guess u think rape is something that happens only between strangers... What the man did is Nonconsensual.. I believe u as an individual have the right to make your own decisions so also what happens to your body... if for example u were not in the mood to have sex and your wife brought a knife or a gun and ordered u to pull your underwear, with all seriousness that she can muster,I guess u might understand that part better.... In marriage, forced sex is still sexual violence, Spousal or marital rape is still rape... The ideas of forcing or manipulating another person into unwanted sexual intercourse is referred to as rape. even if it’s done by someone you’re dating or married to.. It's wrong in all ramifications..Sex should be enjoyed by both parties involved.. |
excel101: I think there are differences... Some are Christians by association... Which means they were born into a Christian home and they became Christians.. some have never been to a church for decades, some may or may not believe all the things written in the Bible.... Some may not know what the Bible was even talking about but when asked if they were Christians, they will say yes because their parents were Christians automatically it gives them that right... A born again Christian is that individual who has accepted Jesus Christ as his Lord and saviour based on this quotes: Romans 10:9-10 Because, if you confess with your mouth that Jesus is Lord and believe in your heart that God raised him from the dead, you will be saved. For with the heart one believes and is justified, and with the mouth one confesses and is saved. John 1:12 But to all who did receive him, who believed in his name, he gave the right to become children of God, You see, someone cannot be a born again on another person's behalf... It's just a personal choice one have to make... |
Ceska:Thanks for clarifying that... I thought as much,..no one will agree to wear heavy duty stuffs for hours.. just like that ![]() |
I guess Obi of Onitsha is not here on Nairaland, I would have asked him if the head costume he's wearing is heavy |
MARSONE: ![]() The bullying was out of this world... A senior will want someone to go and fetch him water to take a bath or go for any errand, he will just scream from his corner.." any raw material? Or RAW material!!!... Every JS1 boy without school father will just rush to go and answer to know what the senior wanted...If u have a school father he will protect you by saying he asked you to do something for him that's why the raw material didn't answer.. U know say those days, mostly, Northerners dey old before they enter school... Though the school was mixed with different cultures.. U go see seniors with hairy chest.. it was intimidating enough to obey...It was sickening ![]() |
GboyegaD:That's very sad then... It could be as a result of our numerous culture and traditions that sees women as property hence nothing like marital rape... Just thinking what was expected of the woman when she was selfishly subdued... just lie down there and think about the weather conditions in Europe while the whole process was going on? ![]() |
henrimoto:She is a virgin ![]() |
My secondary school days was in the late 90's In Abuja...The majority of the Students were living as boarding students... It was like a culture shock for me because there were certain food that I have never set my eyes on as a kid.. I can never forget that faithful day that I arrived at that school, I declined eating afternoon meal because I did not feel like it.. when the evening came, I joined my fellow JS1 ( 'raw material' which was our degrading name as JS1) to the dinning... I saw Some blackish thing (Gabza it was called by the students) made from back of yam and a watery substance that looked like erosion water ( dry Okro soup)... I could not believe my eyes..I left in anger...went back to the hostel, grab cornflakes mixed it with cabin biscuits and powdered milk soaked it with water... And started eating.. as I was eating I was crying because I was thinking what my elder sister and other siblings were eating... My school those days would have been given the award for bad cooking if they ever went for a competition.. Abi Na the rice full of stones or the fried yam that tastes like paper.. Chai!! As I was in that horrible mood, I met the guy who later became my friend Vincent was his real name... He acted matured than his age because I was expecting him to laugh at me for crying like any 11yr old would but be didn't.. he didn't say anything either but sat with me.. I asked him his name, age and state of origin, he told me.. that was what gave me courage after his response.. I was 3 months older than him and he was not crying like me or laughing at me for crying... I survived for 2 weeks before my School father surfaced... Senior Christian was what we all call him... He was mischievous... Likes to break rules...he taught me how to survive in that school... How to buy and smuggle little kerosene stove into the hostel, buy small pot and start cooking... We were allowed outside every 4 days because that's the day the market takes place, students were allowed to go and restock their provision... We use the opportunity to buy rice, beans, yam, tomatoes etc and cook.. The guy told me to buy iron bucket instead of plastic bucket for showering because I broke my plastic bucket within 2 weeks... if we wanna cook, we will put the stove inside the iron bucket, no one will see the flame..it will also prevent breeze from affecting the flame while cooking...He taught me how to hide the yam, stove and every incriminating things (food items) inside the ceiling during every Saturday compulsory students inspection... We clicked Just because he heard I shared the same state and local govt with him.. dude taught me how to cook..I was the last in my family, Wetin I Sabi?.. He just took me like his kid bro.. Though I felt bad when he was flogged and suspended in front of the Assembly with his friends for smoking...I remembered how I felt when he finished his WAEC.. Chai!!! Even in my old age, when I hear someone said messiah, that guy comes to mind.... funny enough,I will never mention the name of that school even at gun point... they have reputation to protect I guess.. |
PlayMaker14: ![]() Just calm down buddy... U win some and u loose some. Life goes on |
TonyBby:Thanks but I am not talking about loosing or winning.. just how the computation arrived at the fact that Northingham have only 26%.. during first half.. and they have been playing really well.. |
How do they calculate all this ball possession self... After all Northingham forest played, 26%? |
Honestly this Northingham guys are really playing ![]() |
Zambia is ranked 81in the world, how they gonna tackle those that are ranked 1st and all that Is gonna be a mistry.. |
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