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Family › Re: Before Landlord Give You Quit Notice, Here Are 6 Laws About Quit Notice by Richy4(m): 6:31am On Oct 25, 2022
There's also need to enlighten them that they will have to pay within the duration of the notice...
Quit notice is not a licence to stay rent-free.. smiley
Family › Re: How Do I Forgive Him? by Richy4(m): 5:27am On Oct 25, 2022
That was breach of Trust...It might sound little to most people but It's not every one that can swallow it... when u trust your partner, the relationship lasts..

Probably, she feels she can never trust him again in anything and thinks that the right thing to do was to take a walk...
Politics › Re: Peter Obi's Son Acting - Example Of Failed Parental Influence by Richy4(m): 5:11am On Oct 25, 2022
Perfect example of narrow minded individual angry
Pets › Re: Would You Hug a Snake? Meet the 10 Friendliest Snakes in the World (Photos) by Richy4(m): 5:02am On Oct 25, 2022
Assuming you said meet the most colourful snakes, I would have understood perfectly... But friendly? Hmmm!!! smiley...
Family › Re: Seven Major Causes Of Divorce In Nigeria by Richy4(m): 6:11pm On Oct 24, 2022
Nigerians are blessed then.. Since they don't separate or divorce because of Financial issues smiley
Family › Re: Help: My Wife Is Asking To Sleep With Another Man. by Richy4(m): 6:00pm On Oct 24, 2022
Karleb:
I swear, I am landing her a hot slap for saying that.

You can take me to jail afterwards.
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Education › Re: See The Food Given to my daughter today in school by Government. by Richy4(m): 5:48pm On Oct 24, 2022
ahnie:
It's the truth.
Ahnie, That plate fine no be small.. was that ceramic or plastic?..
Crime › Re: Ex-Convict, Mercy Orija, Rapes 12-Year-Old Girl To Death In Ogun (Photo) by Richy4(m): 5:14pm On Oct 24, 2022
Even Lucifer himself will be disgusted at that animal sad
Family › Re: Can I Employ My Wife Without Appointment Letter? Need Advice by Richy4(m): 4:43pm On Oct 24, 2022
APC2:
I told my wife to write application letter and submit to me so that I can employ her to manage the business, she refused. She said she will not write any application letter

I have told her that I will employ another person if she did not want to pass through the process of formal employment

I am thinking of informing her brother that if her sister did not write application letter and pass through formal employment procedures, I will employ another lady

What do you think?
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Family › Re: GOD is Good by Richy4(m): 4:59am On Oct 24, 2022
advanceDNA:
Nigga..u talk too much....whats your point??

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I talk too much?... Dude, u have no idea how bored I was having this conversation with you..I was just doing it out of courtesy that's all...

I usually quote selected people that makes perfect sense and 100% clear in their opinion...U quoted me and out of respect I usually accord people online, I engaged you to know what you were driving at.... I don't know the polite way of saying that you don't know what you were talking about without coming out rude.. that was why it took longer than necessary... sorry about that...

To avoid this happening again in future, please check the name properly.. it's Richy4...if u can't answer my questions clearly and precisely, please don't quote me... of course you know I can never dream of quoting u... embarassed
Family › Re: GOD is Good by Richy4(m): 9:21pm On Oct 23, 2022
advanceDNA:
Proof is infallible, it doesnt look staged, cooked or doctored....proof is simple when a man forcefully fvcked a woman who doesnt want to be fvcked by the fvcker...nigga it not rocket science...its modeen day feminism that created alot of grey and complicated areas in this matter

Thank you for answering the (a ) part which was what you considered to be your definition of proof,I liked the fact that u went an extra mile to explain the characteristics of good evidence...

But you omitted the (b) part of the question that says what do you think was concrete enough as an evidence to be tendered before a judge...because I believe he/she (judge) is in a good position to know which evidence presented before him or her was doctored, staged or cooked...

As for your statement on red ink, u made it rocket science actually... You implied that proof would be made simple when a man forced a woman who doesn't want to have sex...
How will the woman proof that she doesn't want to have sex if the man that forcefully took her says that it was consented? Or do you think that the judge and juries should be present while the did was going on so that they can collaborate with the woman and said indeed it was rape because they were there huh
Family › Re: GOD is Good by Richy4(m): 7:28pm On Oct 23, 2022
advanceDNA:
U call that proof....??
The last time I checked,Proof is an evidence or argument establishing a fact or the truth of a statement...

A woman said she was raped which was her statement and she provided a recording audio device to substantiate her claim as a proof of what she said, and u asked if that was a proof?

Ok based on your opinion;

<<(a) How do you define proof ?
<<(b) what is concrete enough to be an evidence that a woman was raped since you insinuated that audio recording that captured those voices were not good enough ..
Family › Re: GOD is Good by Richy4(m): 6:27pm On Oct 23, 2022
advanceDNA:
I never said rape isnt wrong...whether marital or not.....i'm asking women to show proof of the rape...and not just claim they were raped
... ask this op which proof she has....she gat nothing...she's just a scorned woman..

u talked about DNA....DNA isnt suppose to be convictable proof btw husband and wife cos his sperm is not a random stranger's sperm...

.why will anyone convict a man for having his semen in his wife's vagina when the sex could have been consetual and the woman lied it isnt since she knows the nigga sperm will be in her...
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I believe you got female fans here in Nairaland who are kin to know your thoughts and opinions... So my question is..Is the Manchester United Greenwood girlfriend's kind of evidence/ recording good enough for marital rape evidence? Since you are looking for proof..

Just say yes and the ladies will swing into action...and starts presenting that kind of proof to judges..and u know that collecting such evidence is simple right? And you know what that kind of evidence is capable of doing right? smiley
Family › Re: GOD is Good by Richy4(m):
advanceDNA:
U people are just trying too hard to sound politically correct....all these talk is western trash, mixed with feminism, giving women more power to deal with men....

.when u hear a rape case back in the day...the evidence is the body of the woman..very clear.... now ..women will just wake up and claim rape.. and its just the womans word against the man..

I even heard this new definition of rape covers when u are already fvcking with consent....and she suddenly decides its no longer consent...

This op claiming she was raped by her husband is still in the house eating food, using light, staying in the place where she claimed her attacker abused her, the same place where she's claiming what she ddnt want happened to her.....okay ooo....i'm not supporting rape..but lets know when someone is actually raped and when someone is just trying to be vindictive..
My brother, there's nothing.. absolute nothing like sounding politically correct... I am a firm believer that what is good for the Goose is equally good for the Gander...I don't play gender cards,I am way too old for that...

If a married man is stressed out and was not in the mood to play based on work related issues or other issues he was dealing and it was justified and accepted by the woman, why should it be an issue when a woman felt she was not in the mood due to work related stress as well for example and doesn't feel like having sex?...

Based on the idea of her staying put in her matrimonial home eating and drinking, I believe that u know very well that they were residing in Nigeria.. having that fact in mind, Do you think that there are organisation that offers temporary shelter to rape or domestic violence victims? Do they even have a help hotline for that purpose ? Do u know if she got relative in that city that can reasonably accommodate her until these whole mess is sorted out? We don't know all there.. so that argument for me doesn't count in my opinion...

Having said that, I will not want to wake up one morning and hear that someone forced my daughter against her will...no father will like to hear that...The idea that an individual should have the right to dominate, control and forcefully penetrates into another person because they were married is inhuman in my opinion...if that was the case, what was their vows again? Does it in anyway include force?

As for women waking up and claiming rape victims, I believe competent law courts do handle that...This is because the judge will ask for evidence and exhibits?... possibly a DNA and u know that....

There are lots of rape cases that were thrown out of court especially when the judge can see through them but it didn't make headlines... But when one person was convicted, it does.. it then look like power were given to women...
We might not be of the same view but I believe marital rape is wrong..
Family › Re: Does She Have A Right? by Richy4(m): 4:15pm On Oct 23, 2022
Tell your landlady that the electricity is prepaid... If she failed to understand what prepaid is, patiently explain the meaning of prepaid to her... grin

I didn't even know what Lawma is..
But security, u have to pay for it... assuming u came back and realised that your door was broken into, and some properties were missing... What will come to your mind..

If your came back within 5 months and there was an infestation of rodents and other things.. even snakes or creepy millipedes... What will be your reaction?
The payments are justified dear..
European Football (EPL, UEFA, La Liga) › Re: Southampton Vs Arsenal (1 - 1) On 23rd October 2022 by Richy4(m): 3:45pm On Oct 23, 2022
Aston villa and their new manager have started their initial gra-gra.. Haba!! cheesy
European Football (EPL, UEFA, La Liga) › Re: Southampton Vs Arsenal (1 - 1) On 23rd October 2022 by Richy4(m): 3:17pm On Oct 23, 2022
I am really proud of Arsenal.. I did not believe they will be holding on till now..
The very first time they climbed to the top, I thought it was a comic relief... It's like they meant business this season...

I am also happy that Leicester are gradually coming out of the pit... Since the owner died, no one knows how they were managing financial wise smiley
Family › Re: GOD is Good by Richy4(m):
Afodot0022:
All this stupid women that are suppose to remain single for thier life will mistakenly get married and be misbehaving. madam which one is your husband rape you, if you know you have already start cheating cos that what most of you do when you come up with this act, its best you leave the marriage. For you saying your husband rape you is just stupid to my hearings. No matter the conflict you both have together, so far you are still married, sex should never be denied.


I guess u think rape is something that happens only between strangers... What the man did is Nonconsensual.. I believe u as an individual have the right to make your own decisions so also what happens to your body...

if for example u were not in the mood to have sex and your wife brought a knife or a gun and ordered u to pull your underwear, with all seriousness that she can muster,I guess u might understand that part better....

In marriage, forced sex is still sexual violence,
Spousal or marital rape is still rape...
The ideas of forcing or manipulating another person into unwanted sexual intercourse is referred to as rape. even if it’s done by someone you’re dating or married to..

It's wrong in all ramifications..Sex should be enjoyed by both parties involved..
Christianity Etc › Re: Is There Any Difference Between A Christian And A Born Again Christian. by Richy4(m):
excel101:
No difference, because they're both Christian's, as the word implies.

I think there are differences...
Some are Christians by association... Which means they were born into a Christian home and they became Christians.. some have never been to a church for decades, some may or may not believe all the things written in the Bible.... Some may not know what the Bible was even talking about but when asked if they were Christians, they will say yes because their parents were Christians automatically it gives them that right...

A born again Christian is that individual who has accepted Jesus Christ as his Lord and saviour based on this quotes:

Romans 10:9-10
Because, if you confess with your mouth that Jesus is Lord and believe in your heart that God raised him from the dead, you will be saved. For with the heart one believes and is justified, and with the mouth one confesses and is saved.

John 1:12
But to all who did receive him, who believed in his name, he gave the right to become children of God,

You see, someone cannot be a born again on another person's behalf... It's just a personal choice one have to make...
Culture › Re: Pictures From Ofala Festival In Anambra State by Richy4(m): 10:34am On Oct 23, 2022
Ceska:
No. It is featherweight. I used to wear my Dad’s when I was a kid
Thanks for clarifying that... I thought as much,..no one will agree to wear heavy duty stuffs for hours.. just like that smiley
Culture › Re: Pictures From Ofala Festival In Anambra State by Richy4(m): 5:12am On Oct 23, 2022
I guess Obi of Onitsha is not here on Nairaland, I would have asked him if the head costume he's wearing is heavy huh
Education › Re: Share Your Secondary School Experience In The 90’s by Richy4(m): 4:47am On Oct 23, 2022
MARSONE:
Oh men that school do you gbasgbos I won’t lie. �
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The bullying was out of this world... A senior will want someone to go and fetch him water to take a bath or go for any errand, he will just scream from his corner.." any raw material? Or RAW material!!!... Every JS1 boy without school father will just rush to go and answer to know what the senior wanted...If u have a school father he will protect you by saying he asked you to do something for him that's why the raw material didn't answer..

U know say those days, mostly, Northerners dey old before they enter school... Though the school was mixed with different cultures..
U go see seniors with hairy chest.. it was intimidating enough to obey...It was sickening smiley
Family › Re: GOD is Good by Richy4(m):
GboyegaD:
A lawyer friend once told me that under the Nigerian constitution, there is nothing like rape in a marriage.
That's very sad then... It could be as a result of our numerous culture and traditions that sees women as property hence nothing like marital rape...
Just thinking what was expected of the woman when she was selfishly subdued... just lie down there and think about the weather conditions in Europe while the whole process was going on? embarassed
Family › Re: Help, I Am About To Marry A Good Girl Naricisssit. by Richy4(m): 7:48pm On Oct 22, 2022
henrimoto:
pls, must you marry this lady ? You talk as if you owe this lady a compulsory marriage, despite the unhappiness she is giving you.
She is a virgin cheesy grin
Education › Re: Share Your Secondary School Experience In The 90’s by Richy4(m):

My secondary school days was in the late 90's
In Abuja...The majority of the Students were living as boarding students...

It was like a culture shock for me because there were certain food that I have never set my eyes on as a kid..

I can never forget that faithful day that I arrived at that school, I declined eating afternoon meal because I did not feel like it.. when the evening came, I joined my fellow JS1 ( 'raw material' which was our degrading name as JS1) to the dinning... I saw Some blackish thing (Gabza it was called by the students) made from back of yam and a watery substance that looked like erosion water ( dry Okro soup)...

I could not believe my eyes..I left in anger...went back to the hostel, grab cornflakes mixed it with cabin biscuits and powdered milk soaked it with water... And started eating.. as I was eating I was crying because I was thinking what my elder sister and other siblings were eating...

My school those days would have been given the award for bad cooking if they ever went for a competition.. Abi Na the rice full of stones or the fried yam that tastes like paper.. Chai!!

As I was in that horrible mood, I met the guy who later became my friend Vincent was his real name... He acted matured than his age because I was expecting him to laugh at me for crying like any 11yr old would but be didn't.. he didn't say anything either but sat with me.. I asked him his name, age and state of origin, he told me.. that was what gave me courage after his response.. I was 3 months older than him and he was not crying like me or laughing at me for crying... I survived for 2 weeks before my School father surfaced...

Senior Christian was what we all call him... He was mischievous... Likes to break rules...he taught me how to survive in that school... How to buy and smuggle little kerosene stove into the hostel, buy small pot and start cooking...

We were allowed outside every 4 days because that's the day the market takes place, students were allowed to go and restock their provision... We use the opportunity to buy rice, beans, yam, tomatoes etc and cook..

The guy told me to buy iron bucket instead of plastic bucket for showering because I broke my plastic bucket within 2 weeks... if we wanna cook, we will put the stove inside the iron bucket, no one will see the flame..it will also prevent breeze from affecting the flame while cooking...He taught me how to hide the yam, stove and every incriminating things (food items) inside the ceiling during every Saturday compulsory students inspection...

We clicked Just because he heard I shared the same state and local govt with him.. dude taught me how to cook..I was the last in my family, Wetin I Sabi?.. He just took me like his kid bro.. Though I felt bad when he was flogged and suspended in front of the Assembly with his friends for smoking...I remembered how I felt when he finished his WAEC.. Chai!!! Even in my old age, when I hear someone said messiah, that guy comes to mind.... funny enough,I will never mention the name of that school even at gun point... they have reputation to protect I guess..
European Football (EPL, UEFA, La Liga) › Re: Nottingham Forest Vs Liverpool (1 - 0) On 22nd October 2022 by Richy4(m): 2:51pm On Oct 22, 2022
European Football (EPL, UEFA, La Liga) › Re: Nottingham Forest Vs Liverpool (1 - 0) On 22nd October 2022 by Richy4(m): 2:21pm On Oct 22, 2022
PlayMaker14:
God abeg na.... Don't let my enemies laff at me.
cheesy cheesy
Just calm down buddy... U win some and u loose some. Life goes on
European Football (EPL, UEFA, La Liga) › Re: Nottingham Forest Vs Liverpool (1 - 0) On 22nd October 2022 by Richy4(m): 2:12pm On Oct 22, 2022
TonyBby:
It's simple, if the betting site placed over 67.5%
possession for Liverpool before the gane against Nottingham, and eventually at the end of the game they have 26%, you've won.
In other instance's of handicap ball possession, if Nottingham was given 17 before the kick off of the game and they managed to have 35% possession at the end of the game you've lost, cause Liverpool will have 65% and Nottingham with the added 17 will be 52%.
Just simple maths.
Thanks but I am not talking about loosing or winning.. just how the computation arrived at the fact that Northingham have only 26%.. during first half.. and they have been playing really well..
Sports › Re: Draw For The FIFA Women's World Cup 2023 (full Fixtures) by Richy4(m): 1:39pm On Oct 22, 2022
Goalnaldo:
Zambia will collect at least one 7-0. E sure for me grin
cheesy cheesy grin
They might surprise the world smiley
European Football (EPL, UEFA, La Liga) › Re: Nottingham Forest Vs Liverpool (1 - 0) On 22nd October 2022 by Richy4(m): 1:25pm On Oct 22, 2022
How do they calculate all this ball possession self... After all Northingham forest played, 26%?
European Football (EPL, UEFA, La Liga) › Re: Nottingham Forest Vs Liverpool (1 - 0) On 22nd October 2022 by Richy4(m): 1:03pm On Oct 22, 2022
Honestly this Northingham guys are really playing embarassed
Sports › Re: Draw For The FIFA Women's World Cup 2023 (full Fixtures) by Richy4(m): 11:53am On Oct 22, 2022
Zambia is ranked 81in the world, how they gonna tackle those that are ranked 1st and all that Is gonna be a mistry..

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