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Family › Re: My Dad And I Aren't In Good Terms by Richy4(m): 9:30am On Nov 10, 2022

After trying to sympathize with you, you destroyed it at the end...
<< You are gainfully employed, u are earning an honest living yet the entitlement mentality still managed to find it's way in...

Parents are really damaging their Nigerian kids..
"It really painful that I had to work for 7-9hours everyday while standing for 1k per day.... shockedgrin cheesy
Family › Re: He Doesn’t Satisfy Me Sexually – Wife Tells Police by Richy4(m): 9:12am On Nov 10, 2022
irunoko:
because it's a woman that commited adultery it should become a crime.when men have been commiting adultery why didn't you propose that it should be a criminal offence?
I don't play race or gender cards..I am way too old for that.
Family › Re: He Doesn’t Satisfy Me Sexually – Wife Tells Police by Richy4(m): 1:44pm On Nov 09, 2022
The legal age of consent in Nigeria is 18....So it is believed that an 18yr old is capable of making an informed decision right?...

When she saw him for the first time, didn't it ever occur to her that they were not mates? or does any of her mates look like him? undecided

Sometimes I just wish that adultery be considered a crime angry
Family › Re: Can You Marry A Divorced Person by Richy4(m): 12:49pm On Nov 09, 2022
Mindlog:
She will not leave that relationship.
smiley smiley smiley smiley
Honestly, It's just her decision to make....Ours is to make her see reasons....
The guy has showed her that he is more experienced on mind game than her....
If she decides to stay, good for her and I am 97% sure that she will be fighting tooth and nail to measure up to an imaginary standard set for her till Jesus comes....The most disappointing thing is, she doesn't even know whom she was competing with.....
smiley
Family › Re: Do You Believe Witch Craft Exist by Richy4(m): 12:18pm On Nov 09, 2022
I believe witchcraft dey exist big time smiley

When a boss blocked your promotion for no reason because he doesn't just like u for reasons best known to him or her, no be witchcraft in human form be dat?

When someone sees how you will progress in a legitimate way and decides to block it, wetin you go call that one?

Abi you dey wait till Nigerian movies kind of witch go appear to you and begin gyrate in your presence before u go know say that fine man or fine woman way you sabi, way your progress dey pain pass Whitlow in your work place, in church or residential area na witch? smiley

If you are a sports lover, let us use this example... Ronaldo wants to leave Manchester United but they don't want to release him...even when it's obvious he's not performing well over there.. If u be Ronaldo, wetin u go call that one? cheesy
Family › Re: The Most Hilarious Wedding Picture In 2022 by Richy4(m): 10:26am On Nov 09, 2022
Una sabi read meanings into wetin no dey there.. Haba!!!So many gutter minded people around grin smiley
Family › Re: Can You Marry A Divorced Person by Richy4(m): 10:09am On Nov 09, 2022
Sisib15:
That's what he always say that do i know that out of 3 girls he has, he chose me because of something. Sometimes i do feel like i am doing the wrong thing
Do yourself a Favour and leave that relationship....
You can never measure up to his Ex.....even if you kill yourself for him you will still not measure up....even if you are better than the ex, he will always find something... that's a mind game dear...

The thing is he has gotten you where he wanted you by telling u that you were not good enough... and individuals like me and many out there who loves challenges will always rise to the occasion just to prove a point...It is better for u to turn the table on him now...so that he can ask himself questions like why can't I keep a woman...Is it me or what?

But in case you don't want to leave him, Just ask yourself some questions as well like.. Is he worth it? Is there a reason why I should die for this man that compares me with someone that I don't know?... If you think he is worth dying for...there's something unique about him that you can't let go....OR THAT YOU WILL CHANGE HIM AS SOON AS YOU GET MARRIED, then I wish you the best of luck..
Family › Re: Can You Marry A Divorced Person by Richy4(m): 12:12pm On Nov 07, 2022
<<If you are sharing room with him, pack out of that room...
<<Tell him that you have made a decision and you have come to a conclusion that it won't work between the two of you...
<< If he ask why, highlight all that you have said above without tears..
<<Be bold and tell him that you are staying here at the moment because it's closer to your work place... that you will leave as soon as you get a new place..That your agent is on it.... SIMPLE
<<< The way you narrated the story, it was as if he was doing you a favour dating you...
Family › Re: ..... by Richy4(m): 11:04am On Nov 07, 2022
You are the problem young man.... The first day you witnessed what you said that you saw was the day that the whole thing would have come to an end... You are busy keeping malice and marking your father's territory when he supposed to have woken everyone up because a big stick landed on his back...So that when next he wanted to do that and he remembered you, he will not..

He is 14, is he as tall and Huge Bigshow?...Even if he is a giant, can't you hit him so hard that he starts looking for a way to his mother's house?
I wish I did not read this nonsense..
angry
Family › Re: Nigeria Is Gone, The Country Is In Deep Mess by Richy4(m): 8:46am On Nov 06, 2022
People should just vote for the right party.. Based on my experience PDP is just like an abusive partner.. when she/ he wants to go, the partner comes begging and bearing gifts for u to stay...as soon as the spouse decides to stay, the abuse continues...

APC, is not any better... Based on what I have heard, read and seen, they are worse...

But if u think PDP has changed, and there are candidate that are good, please vote for them...I mentioned them because I witnessed them ruling first hand...

At least by now you may have known that the bag of Rice they will offer will never last... The abuse will continue after accepting those gifts..

Vote wisely people so that you wouldn't have any reason to open a thread like this...
Family › Re: What Should I Do? by Richy4(m): 1:45pm On Nov 04, 2022
You can't count 2 before 1 buddy...

But this one that u are driving into a family with unnecessary spiritual drama... hope your car got headlamp smiley
Politics › Re: South African Newspaper, IOL, Knocks Buhari Over Frequent Foreign Medical Trips by Richy4(m): 1:20pm On Nov 04, 2022
Theunbothered:
Other African countries have finally started speaking up about Buhari's excesses. Imagine a man who wants to block access to foreign products but will never trust Nigerians with his health.

It's really disheartening honestly ....South Africans are angry over what we Nigerians could tag "not their business".....

Now Just imagine that it was their president that travels abroad all the time to seek medical help...what do you think their citizens would have done or said to their president? smiley...
Family › Re: . by Richy4(m): 12:45pm On Nov 04, 2022
It's just a decreased blood flow, typically because vessels that supply blood to the penis have narrowed which causes erectile dysfunction..

For younger men, emotional issues like relationship or work related stress,...

what to do,
If you smoke, stop. Get your blood pressure, cholesterol, and blood sugar levels under control...
Counseling from a professional or religious bodies can help you work through any relationship or emotional troubles you may be facing....
if it happens to you more than half the time you have sex, talk to your doctor.
Crime › Re: Widow in Enugu Stripped And Paraded For Picking Snails In 'sacred Forest' by Richy4(m): 12:05pm On Nov 04, 2022
Assuming she begged those youths for money to feed her family, none of them would have given her....
Besides, does it mean that there were no elders or chiefs in that community to speak up when the youths were doing all these?
Family › Re: My Wife Want To No My ATM Pin... I Refused Tell Her by Richy4(m):
I believe that she is working and she got her own separate account... the question is do u know her ATM pin?... We have to look at this both ways...

It is logical to assume that you are earning more than her OP..., would she have requested for you to know her ATM pin assuming she was earning more than you?...OP, I will never judge you if you are not comfortable with it.. U know whom you were living with...

That also goes to any wife who is uncomfortable disclosing that should not do it out of compulsion.. especially when you know whom u were living with...
Crime › Re: 64-Year-Old Nigerian Woman Stabbed To Death By Her Son In London by Richy4(m): 10:08am On Nov 04, 2022
femmoy:
Do you have issues understanding simple English? He said 99% which means 1% are in exception to the claims

Now find one percentage of the number of kids raised by single parent and see. It's a simple reasoning.
Do I have issues understanding English? Hmmmm!!!!
Assuming that you knew how this whole thing works, u would have seen where he wrote edited...when someone wrote edited or modified, what does that mean to you? .... Anyways I won't explain because I don't have the time to teach u...
Crime › Re: 64-Year-Old Nigerian Woman Stabbed To Death By Her Son In London by Richy4(m): 1:56pm On Nov 03, 2022
GboyegaD:
Unfortunately, you failed on this. It shows you lack reasoning if you think whoever questions your shallow thoughts were raised by single parents.

That said, there are enough kids raised by single parents that are doing great things and many raised by both parents whose lives are an eyesore.

So being myopic and if you need to put statistics, put one that is dependable and has a source and not just what your brain alone processes.
Some times it's difficult to be a Nigerian... A lot of them were programmed to be judgemental and myopic...

Their kind of narrow mindedness can only be equalled to that of the Pharisees according to the good book sad
Crime › Re: 64-Year-Old Nigerian Woman Stabbed To Death By Her Son In London by Richy4(m): 11:09am On Nov 03, 2022
KingOfTheDamned:
When they tell you women not to try to raise children on your own, you won't listen.

Single parent homes is a disaster . Such kids are never normal
<<I don't mean to quote you but what you said is not fair to so many ladies and gentlemen who are single parent doing the right thing to bring up their kids the right way...

<<There are so many people that turned out right who were raised by single parent;

<<Ramsey Noah to me is a great guy.. he was raised by a single parent...and he is normal to me ...

<< There's nothing wrong with Omotola jalada..

<< Like it or not, Prince William and Harry are ok. Their mother died when they were kids... They are as normal as humans can be..

<< There are so many people who are stamping their authority in and outside Nigeria and in the world at large who were raised by single parent...

<< Besides,there are lot of people raised by both parents that turned out extremely bad...

Family › Re: My 20-year-old Niece Chose To Sleep In My Room With Me, Is That Normal? by Richy4(m): 10:18am On Nov 03, 2022
galaxy2020:
What is the title of this movie?
WHEN LEG COST NOTHING smiley

To be directed by Zeb Ejiro
Family › Re: Pls Help. I Don't Satisfy My Husband by Richy4(m): 11:59am On Nov 02, 2022
Saintmary:
1. He's blaming you
2. He doesn't enjoy sex with you

My conclusion: he's cheating.



Even if a man hates you, once he gets in bed with you, he must release unless there is nothing to release or he can't even get it up.


Stop believing everything a man tells you.
He might not be cheating....What if he is inexperienced and was covering his inadequacies up....
It's not as if once a man is married, he automatically knows everything that needed to be known based on bedroom matters...
Family › Re: Twin Brothers Celebrate Their 80th Birthday (pictures) by Richy4(m): 11:31am On Nov 02, 2022
Very Nice....Twins and uniforms hmmm!!...That culture their parent instill in them is still being practiced smiley...

Celebrities › Re: Ifa Priestess Suggests Cause Of Death Of Davido, Chioma’s Son by Richy4(m):

<<<the deceased MIGHT BE a spiritual child who is against a loud celebration....

<<< IT COULD BE that Chioma vowed that she would not reap from Ifeanyi if she returned to Davido when they separated....

<<<Thirdly, Davido is about to clock 30, and WE DON'T KNOW what spiritual vow he made to attain fame.....

I quoted those directly from the source... So based on my little knowledge in English...
<<Might,
<<it could and
<<we don't know...

An individual cannot use these words or phrases when he or she is certain...

So it's safe to say that she was guessing just like any other individual in a beer parlour sad
Celebrities › Re: Rapper Takeoff Last Photo Before He Was Shot Dead by Richy4(m): 7:36pm On Nov 01, 2022
It seems like they don't search for weapons before admitting people inside certain places like clubs in US...
Family › Re: Pls Help. I Don't Satisfy My Husband by Richy4(m): 6:58pm On Nov 01, 2022
pstemma1990:
red oil or groundnut oil?

smiley
Groundnut oil of course...How can you use red oil cheesy

I hope I am speaking to an adult no offence intended... you are above 18 sha... I no get power for parental guidance is advised cheesy
Politics › Re: Orji Uzor Kalu Mourns Davido's Son, Cancels Official Engagements by Richy4(m): 2:48pm On Nov 01, 2022
OPICANTO2223:
Poor parenting is a crime. Taking a child to swim in a pool is senility. In some countries, the custody will be taken away. David and Chioma should be tried
I don't mean to quote you... But maybe you should check on unintentional drowning death statistics in US per year, and around the world. U will know it has nothing to do with parenting... It's just there Google it..
Politics › Re: Orji Uzor Kalu Mourns Davido's Son, Cancels Official Engagements by Richy4(m): 2:34pm On Nov 01, 2022
sacajawea:
Lol
grin cheesy
Deep down they don't care...
Politics › Re: Orji Uzor Kalu Mourns Davido's Son, Cancels Official Engagements by Richy4(m): 2:22pm On Nov 01, 2022
Did he cancel eating?
It would have been better if he said he couldn't eat due to how he was feeling embarassed...
The guy should take heart.. especially the Mother of the baby.. it's not easy
Family › Re: Pls Help. I Don't Satisfy My Husband by Richy4(m):
Haba!!! If u are not wet, what stopped your man from lubricating you manually?

If it happened next time, get him to use pears baby oil... He should apply it on you generously..and apply it on himself...

If pears baby oil is not available then any petroleum jelly product is fine like Vaseline ...

If it not available then cooking oil...I have never used it but I heard It serves emergency purposes embarassed
Family › Re: Lesson to Learn On Davido's Son, Ifeanyi's Death by Richy4(m): 11:42am On Nov 01, 2022
Mindlog:
Yes, alongside enlightenment around childproofing our homes as many take the safety of their children in their homes for granted.

They say with toddlers, one second is too long a time to take eyes off them because of their exploratory nature.
I honestly feel sorry for the Guy... Considering the fact that it happened in Nigeria, the haters will say he used his kids for rituals...

Any contract and endorsement he gets now will be ritualistic in nature... My country men and women hates research a lot... They will never check the most common unintentional cause of death among kids and where drowning is placed according to WHO around the world
Family › Re: Lesson to Learn On Davido's Son, Ifeanyi's Death by Richy4(m): 11:23am On Nov 01, 2022
Mindlog:
We just have to make effort to be extremely observant. When I worked in a children residential setting that had kids between 9 and 15 (about 4 of them), upon resuming shift, part of the handing over procedure was to count and record the number of knives and other Sharp objects, have it locked up in a safe and if one needs it in the kitchen, you collect key of the office and take it out of the safe and
have it recorded and signed, they must be placed back immediately after use and signed again.

The windows of their rooms are checked frequently, to make sure the window stopper have not been breached.

Bleach must NEVER be in the house, else.... shocked

UK government no dey play with child safety, reason one MUST undergo several trainings in so many child related safety courses before one can be employed to work with children, so when gbege happen, you can't claim ignorance
That was a very good and cool measure...

I can't really blame the parent or domestic staffs on this because it can happen within seconds...

The domestic staff can keep the child in the sitting room to make food in the kitchen, within that little space of 3 mins, something might happen if the kid is the hyper type...

The only fault is not having a barrier to protect the kid from the pool... And I believe in Nigeria, U can basically count households that got barrier around their pool area...

maybe Nigerian government should make that law that mandates swimming pool owner to make a child barrier or fence... it doesn't matter if a kid is in that property or not... This could reduce unbearable losses like this one...
Family › Re: Lesson to Learn On Davido's Son, Ifeanyi's Death by Richy4(m): 10:29am On Nov 01, 2022
Mindlog:
Risk assessments in the home is very important especially when children are around, I brought up that when I saw the video of Davido in the pool with the son and saw no noticeable barrier around it as children are naturally drawn to water because of its sensory stimulations. Many tend to ignore childproofing.

I discouraged a couple from having a swimming pool in their home because they have 3 under 9 children and one happens to be autistic. Autistic children are more drawn to water and likely to drown, so it made sense not to even have one at all, no matter the "supervision" one thinks would be put in place
What happened to the musician's family actually brought a memory I will never forget for the rest of my life.....

I went to South Africa in 2016 to visit my elder brother and his family...I remembered that it was a winter period... They got a pool at home...

That Saturday morning around 10am, I heard a splash around the pool, I came out to know who has the abnormal body condition to jump inside a pool in a freezing weather condition...

I saw the youngest (6yrs then) and asked him who was inside the pool...He did not answer and was just looking at me,.. then l approached the pool...

My dear sister, it wasn't a good sight to see... My nephew (8yrs then) was struggling inside the deepest part of the pool, consuming all the chlorine inside the pool..I didn't wait to remove clothe or shoes, I jumped in...

It turned out that both of them were playing around the pool he pushed him inside the pool...Since that day, If I hear stories like this, the memory of my nephew fighting inside that pool came back....I have tried to wipe out that look I saw from my head but it couldn't just go..

Though he is a big boy now representing his school on lawn tennis, he's still afraid of swimming according to his father...
Family › Re: Lesson to Learn On Davido's Son, Ifeanyi's Death by Richy4(m): 9:23am On Nov 01, 2022
It's a serious law in some country like Australia to put child resistance barrier in all pools whether a child is living in that property or not.... No one jokes with that law...And that has saved a lot of kids from drowning...
Noone can be sure when those little bundle of joy can crawl out or walk out just to make a splash... But that can prevent them from entering...

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