₦airaland Forum

Karleb:
I see you have calmed down with your Liverpool hype unlike when season started.

I was embarrassed when ordinary arsenal defeated Us my brother... That was the last straw...

Everyone that knows Liverpool for a very long time can agree with me that even if we were playing with our 3rd 11, and it was Arsenal, we always win.. but since that defeat, I'm yet to recover from the shock

Even when we defeated man city, I only said that we are silent achievers.. I don't speak with confidence anymore..

Mindlog:
He is absolutely right as Dominatrix is real as it falls within sadomasochism, you don't want to hear stuffs nor have an inkling what some Psychiatrists deal with on a daily basis when it comes to sexuality.

Your profession must be really exciting... Listening to parental guidance is advised kind of stories and getting paid

PoliteActivist:
Well, the Times is regarded as the Newspaper of Record. They have A LOT to lose by publishing non-factual or incorrect info, unlike, say, the Nigerian Guardian!

You can google New York Times and fake news and publications.. you might just be surprised

PoliteActivist:
Well, the below is from New York Times, so you know it is true. Then their are those who worship feet, love smelling fart, even eating shit. Humans are complex

PoliteActivist:
Human psychology is complex indeed. Do you know that some big men in authority secretly pay a woman (called dominatrix) to whip them and humiliate them? Likewise there are women who PAY men to be treated as their slaves to the extent of leading them around on a hidden leach. If you see it you'd say the poor woman is being abused. So, things are not always what they seem!

You have been watching too much porn buddy...
Does that thing really exist? I mean I understand that sometimes partners do some bedroom role play like call 'me daddy'/ playing the stripper or a nurse/ cops in the bedroom to spice their sex life... but how can a real human in his/her right mind accept to be humiliated or abused?

PoliteActivist:
@bolded, the HUGE difference is that in a country like Nigeria you can happily get away with beating your wife, while in a place like France the mere allegation will have you locked up while things are investigated

budaatum:
He actually came across to me as someone who's concern is the welfare of the church goers.
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That might be another angle to look @ it...well done ....

oluwaseyi0:
He probably doesn't feel at home with you guys

Maybe any small thing you are shouting and reminding him he's not your child and will be deported soon

I feel this is more psychological

Let him stay with his father or mother if two of you can't establish connection with each other

I'm sure if he tell his own real side of the story we will all be shock

Thank YouOoo @ Bold...If I know how to give you 12 likes, I would have done that...
If I was in that kid's shoes, I would rather stay in the village than to stay in a palace were I wasn't needed....
or a place where a teacher will call and report that I was not taking notes and my lord and master tells them to kill me without approaching me first like a kind parent should to know what I was battling with...Why I was not writing notes, or ask if there was bullying and maltreatment going on @ home in the name of discipline or if it was happening in school...

Mindlog:
Is she expected to drop out because she got married?

Championxxx:
I will stick with her whether she support me or not .

Amen

Championxxx:
Yes she does support me she bought me my first iPhone ever from tecno to iPhone 12 pro I am not after her money tough but I love her for real

Championxxx:
I am dating a 34 years old single mother of two girls , she is a business woman and I am a bar tender. She support me financially I don't lack anything and I truly love her for real not because of what she is giving me but I love her for who she is .

NoToPile:
Read some comments of your fellow Nigerian gender, how they are already saying she's taking advantage of the man, how she will nag him, how she will choke him, how she will make him see her as a small God, how she will subconsciously abuse him, how she did not beg him for assiatnce all sorts then you will understand why the person you quoted stated that point.

They didn't even consider that she has asked a very valid question.

TooMuchJuice:
Make sure
1. He's not seeing anyone else in Nigeria.
2. He has no wife and/or kids in Nigeria.
3. He's of sound character/has no bad qualities (e.g. abusive, liar, lazy, sexist, narcissistic)
4. He will make an excellent husband & father

You would have to marry him in Nigeria before sponsoring him.
It's a risky and huge thing to do for a [Nigerian] man.
Only you will bear the consequences should things go haywire.
Thread carefully.

seunlayi:
You are right. I have never seen for once or heard about any law against skating in that campus and besides, that place is very close to the security office and the main gate. That prof has another motive, he knows the right thing to do in that situation rather than the display of shame he did. I wonder if it was a strong guy he challenged, blows would have be exchanged

Spray:
I won't change contact and movement. But I will avoid them for life. Dem Sabi me too well