₦airaland Forum

Cheasystickylov:
You write so well, and obviously I can see you are very disciplined by refraining to get into abuse, despite provocative responses to your posts. However let us be more objective here. It is obvious something isn't quite right. The man said he does not even have his friend's number. Moreover for the fact that he discovered the funds that was sent to his wife by himself means everything but good. These could be
1. The woman and the man have a satanic and unclean agenda (why shouldn't either ot them informed the man ?)
2. The woman does not repect the man.
3. Many things between 1 and 2 which are also red flags.

If I may ask, are you married?. Turn the table around, if you were the OP and the scenario played out, so you will assume that it was fund for ice cream or similar frivolities and you will not think of cheating ?. Man and woman can hardly be just friends. Note that I used the word hardly, and not never

Karleb:
Pack your things and spend time with your dad and his wife.

Your mum is just manipulating you and the situation, funny enough, she's doing it out of love.

Yea,The excess love is extremely glaring... We can see ...
Singing:... Ohhh!!! U love me too muchOoo

Morphinne:
Your goodness turns into betrayal the very moment Sandra starts hiding the transaction from her husband. Remember that you also made the husband think you weren’t communicating with Sandra at all? That’s a bright red flag, my friend.

Templee333:
another thing is that children of today will prefer to watch over ur food while u go & call whoever u want to call.

You are correct.. I don't know if it's safe to say that they get really smart on conception..

The one that makes me feel bad for them especially the ones raised in the city.. if u asked them to go and play at the lawn, they feel so miserable like fishes out of water... Without those toys and games, they hardly knows what to do with themselves...

Imagine those days a parent asking kids to go out and play, they will return at 6pm

GboyegaD:
I am doing okay, thanks for asking.

Reading post here makes me wonder how we reason. I want to believe they just want to trend and sometimes, I am forced to think that things have really gone too bad with us that it has affected our reasoning so much.
How are you and the family doing?

confluence:
Are you on ajegunle ogogoro, Jonathan régime people were crying, crying that they could not eat or what, forget those rubbish you are spewing out, can you compare Jonathan regime to this monsters in power that has ruined every facet of life in Nigeria. Did you notice the rate of people begging even here on Nairaland to survive.

VULCAN:
Stop trying to absolve the woman.

Neither of them could explain what the money was for because neither of them expected him to find out.

That your fairytale is nothing like what happened cos if it was why did the woman not tell her husband that his friend dropped 30k for ice cream?

Then when Oga returned why could she not explain the circumstances surrounding the money.

No offence but you sound a bit gullible sha

Oh!! No offence but U sounds like you have a Gomorrah mindset Sha

GboyegaD:
Guess most are guilty of the same and so they can only see from that lense.

My brother, I taya,.. people just look at things in one parallel line as if that's just how life is... .. how do this guys brainstorm in their places of work? Or projects they were executing... Abi someone go suggest and they follow without looking at another possibility?

Bro, one even said I was the OP and was trying to keep the thread alive just imagine that stupid comment ...
And the op couldn't crawl out from wherever rat hole he is staying to say no, we are different people and have never seen or known each other... He just kept mute
Another said that I was that OP's friend... "So many wise people here".. no wonder the owner doesn't stay here but have a 'permanent resident visa' on twitter..

Make I no forget to ask, how are u man.. hope you are good

Komu1048:
Oga no b every body dey ask that kind question. I dated my wife for 6 years b4 tying the knot. Na 2wks ago we come talk about having kids

baralatie:
Equalizer loading

R Kelly sang a song that says
I wish!.. I wish!!.. I wish!!!

Phelixblaq:
I no get any reply for u aunty. You are only on Nairaland to seek help everytime and not contributing anything. When u need help u login and log out when u are done.
Which country u Dey and what can Nairaland benefit. We are interested

Smartdepotng:
I just added some disclaimers in the post because of people like you who will skip all the good things and focus on conjectures.
Let me answer some of your assumptions...

First, I am a proud Nigerian ��
I work hard every single day to do the right thing.
I teach people how to get the best out of Tech.

I have activated mine DSTV Now over 2 years ago did a video and did a giveaway of my own account just to help or put a smile on someone face out there. (You can check my YouTube channel for that)

I have activated for up to 10 persons and they all know that I have access to the account because I do so with their consent. Oh, the part you are very ignorant about is that DSTV NOW streaming comes with a lot of issues and errors too. Unfortunately, DSTV doesn't have support for the Streaming service like they do for decoders.
I help fix errors like PER, SNA, GEHF, and more errors. About a year ago, I made a video about it and till date, it is still the only video on YouTube that addresses Fix DSTV Now Streaming error codes. DSTV should be paying me for becoming their online technical support
but I do so because I love to teach and help.
I couldn't have been able to help that much if the people I helped activate their account didn't report some errors to me and asked if I could help fix them.

WHY I am saying all these? So you, , who opened your Nairaland account with a fake name do not go about accusing people who you don't know based on assumptions and asking them to swear.
And secondly, not all Nigerians are bad.
If you would like to know more about @smartdepotng, we use the same name everywhere - YouTube, Facebook, Instagram and Twitter.

chigoziri2403:
you are sensing defeat and can't keep up that's why you are running,I don't insult people I don't know, when did reasoning become an insult?
Well from your responses so far, you are the OP, and want to keep the thread alive by replying with opposing views
Now run along.....

chigoziri2403:
You are beginning to reason....
Why did his friend suddenly develop such interest only after he has traveled ?
An adage says " you don't pass someone on the way to his compound without greeting him and enter his compound
Unsolicited financial aid always have a sinister motive
Did the wife ask from her husband and he could not provide for her?
Most information are of the need to know basis, how is he privy to information about a family without the consent of the man
Like I said long distance relationship are very fragile,and should be encrypted with 100% trust
Both wife and friend are suspects

Toktee:
You sound like the cheating friend here.


I will not be surprised if you are the man in question.

Thank you.. I appreciate your contribution.