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chigoziri2403:
The question is a yes or no one

Check your question properly and see if it was a yes or no question..

Osama2478:
It appears that you still don't understand my narration here. I am not saying that a friend should not call my wife or give them gifts. What's the business of my friend having the special number of my wife? What's the point in my friend having a private conversation as well as getting access to my family's classified information and still acting in pretence with me? What could make him transfer money to my wife and was hidden until I found out? Like I said before, if it has not started, there is a plan underway.

chigoziri2403:
If as a married man,your wealthy friends always fraternize with your wife without your notice, what will be your reaction?

crackhaus:
And when her husband asked her about the transaction, why wouldn't she just say "ohh I forgot to inform ya, it was for ice-cream" instead of acting all dodgy and secretive?

<<U are making me the devil's advocate and it's not nice

<<When there are trust issues in a relationship, even if u like, explain how heaven was made with good evidence, someone who doesn't trust you will never trust you..

<< I believe that Sandra gave an explanation on how the Icecream money came about but due to trust issues, John wasn't buying what she was selling to him...and Sandra knowing the kind of man she married cannot kill herself just because the John refused to believe her because of his difficulties in trusting...

If there's no trust in a relationship, it's as good as dead... Some people naturally have trust issues and it's the worst set of people any sane individual can encounter because they will drive the person insane..

Sometimes though I ask myself, is online world different from offline world? Because I know lots of people who can help friends genuinely... If they get here online, do they act differently? It seems I am the only one who doesn't see anything wrong with giving loosed change to a friend's family whom Everyone knows traveled out.. it's weird

Baronthecelebri:
the wife should have inform be him that his friend send money for ice-cream

udede:
if you read my responses you will notice that i have had a heart tp heart talk with her many times , that was when she permitted me to marry a second wife

udede:
thanks for this angle you are coming from. She was a student when I married her and when i raise the issue of having children, her excuss then was that dhe can't combine schooling with having kids, we did not have long courtship actually and i think it contributed to all these, she was able to hide her disdem for kids, and it never crossed my mind that a lady could marry without wanting kids

@ red highlights, It never crossed my mind too until I was exposed to the reality of life... I never even knew that a man might decide not to get married in this world except the Reverend fathers but yeah..it happens...

Maybe an open and honest conversation could be the solutions this time around... Put all cards on the table while discussing...At least she should meet you half way.. is she opened to surrogacy,.. is she gonna be ok for you to have a baby Mama, or is she opened for a second wife options...

Both of you loved each other... she doesn't want kids, u want kids.. so there should be compromise... meeting each other half way is the deal... 50:50

udede:
there was no agreement with her not to have kids, i also noticed that she is hiding things from me especially reasons why she couldn't have kids.

NuclearWinter:
No be so dem kill that DJ in the same Lekki Ajah claiming he and his friends were robbers?

Don't ever believe the mob.

You are indeed correct... false alarm is still real as well... Someone might decide not to pay the stipulated agreed transport fare price and decides to raise a one chance alarm....
Leaving the mob to do what they do best

jclassiq:
I guess some people never use common sense. Or perhaps he was thinking "it's just a woman, and I'm a man, what can she do to me?"
Now he is dead and gone.

Frigga13:
Bridge head to Enugu is a federal road .. Ngige put in effort on that road .. before Obi fixed it and was balanced by the federal government under Jonathan

Federal paid for that road

So what’s the big deal about it .. Na state government money he use build..


Even at that very year and time .. any government in power would have fix it ...

Nothing special

Ngige did part of it .. Obi used Ngige template ..
Without Ngige ... nothing like Obi..

We anamabrains know how e go sup.. no be internet noise


Power to the people
North 2023

sweetonugbu:
The old men in the house and senate will not allow this to happen here.

nairalanderr:
they for don already give am wotowoto first .