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oluplus:
Why exactly did you build a separate room for your wife?
Did you not enjoy your stay together while you were in a rented apartment?
I use the same room with my wife but I have a room I go to sometimes when I have some things to do that need concentration.
I also do not support separate rooms for couples.

When one partner snores, separate room is advisable for one's sanity

Abujaexpress:
This is superb expository. thank you

U are welcome buddy but remember, I have nothing against your decision...
If it's convenient for both of you, cool... The most important thing is that you both are happy

Abujaexpress:
Adjoining room and wife prefers it because it allows her to sleep to her comfort. Be I be sex type and she frowns at doing it everytime

I can now see why your mother in-law was complaining.. connecting room would have been the best in this case...

It mustn't be sex all the time YES but that warmth, the cuddling at night before sleep claims u guys is still something...The little pillow talk while in bed and settling little misunderstanding in the bedroom would be missing..

Besides, as the kids starts growing up, anytime their mother goes to your room or u sneak into her room at an ungodly hour they will know what you came for at that hour of the night but if it's a connecting room, u both would just use the connecting door..

GboyegaD:
He is just that he needs learn this side of him. I don't know why some people have very bad anger issues and why some too don't know/understand self worth.

Yea..I believe the woman here is not an angel... She was basically provoking him to anger... No two ways about it...it could be her actions or inactions..

But that's not the reason why decent and classy individuals would do a show of shame infront of the neighbours...No matter how angry any one who values his self worth and dignity is, u can't do such in public...

The most amusing part is...The woman left the most important aspect of the issue at hand which is "I will kill you " and was busy talking about trivial issue of his statement "leave my house"...
She passed out and he stood there without doing anything.. if she dies, he might not mourn her for 2 weeks before..... I no wan complete the sentence because I taya

GboyegaD:
I keep wondering when I read some stories how some humans connect to aliens.

My brother I taya... People are indeed wired differently...I'm just trying to imagine myself in such situations...

I will just pack out of that premises because of embarrassment and shame... Fighting to the extent of attracting neighbours who came out to intervene.. and she said he is wonderful

JoviaIjune1:
OP please disregarded this my earlier comment.
I was drunk while typing this rubbish

marksburg:
Pls what's the correct home treatment for it? Am thinking it's not a serious thing to go spend money in an hospital. But I just don't like seeing themnon my boy's body

Finchmgh:
The corpses are properly preserved through a process called deep bio-enigma frying.

The process involve the use of synthetic G-nut oil or P-oil with additives such as synthetic chilli paper.

Born2winnx:
it seems your also an advid patronizer to know so much about them, This can't just be From reading
no shame in it bro

I am a curious person... I read a lot...Also, my circle of friends, no discussion is off limit as well apart from bedroom matters with our spouses....
So no, I do not patronize them but I respect them a lot for being involved with the oldest profession in the world....So no judgement .

Born2winnx:
you get sense and very matured response..

not some lowlife scumbag when won try show person sense..
like say their sisters nor dey do runs.... people like DriverX

and no be people go marry them

Actually they are human and they pay taxes in some countries...
I have read that they removed emotions while dealing with their clients and have special affection to only people they share emotional bond with... I also heard that some of them got heart broken some times by a cheating spouse....I don't know how that works but yea

MALIGNANTGuest:
That's one of the reasons you should travel out.
U can acquire Education by just traveling!

DoveXlover:
I am more concerned how a snake got into a school environment where children are.
So many things are wrong in Nigeria.
Schools ain't supposed to be built close to a forest or thick bushes.
Schools are supposed to be built in the middle of the town or City or in a developed area not prone to snakes and wide animals.

Especially schools for kids and secondary schools.
Like i said so many things are wrong in Nigeria.
Imagine hearing that a snake bites a student in a school environment.
This country is a joke.

I don't think it's a Nigerian factor...Even the best of countries, animals might decide to pay a surprised visit...just to keep people on their toes ...
Those living in remote areas are humans and they deserved basic education as well...if they should locate schools in town and cities, what will then happen to those kids living rural areas?...

Have u considered the unfair advantage of the rural kid waking up by 4:30am and journeyed to school because of the distance.... while the other kids in town wakes up by 7:00am and strolled down to school which is a stone throw?

The question should be can the school authority do something about it like clearing playgrounds, putting snake repellents etc.. so that the kids can be safe?...

Remembers, there are city snakes as well but not too common.. the ones in the drainages... they can crawl in the night into a city school and possess their possession in a classroom ceiling...

Humans are gradually encroaching on their habitat.. they have no hiding place anymore... All the development we see around...Hospitals, schools, estates Sprouting here and there ....what happened to those animal living in that place originally? what happens if there are no more bushes?

ncheochiagha:
You don't know if I'm even abroad right now talking to you, so don't make yourself look stupid.

ncheochiagha:
Then why do we have a political system? Everytime people talk about problems I just ask myself are problems not solvable. The people in those western countries don't they have problems? Even used to have the same issues we're having now, but they solved them. Why not build your own country. Why are going to disturb other people? It's like if your house is dirty then instead of cleaning it you go and sleep in a stranger's house.

Look, you people have to be more proactive. Focus on your Houses of Assembly primarily. Vote. If there are no good parties, you and wealthy friends can come together to make a new party to solve the problems you're complaining about.

Also, people that grew up here like me didn't die. The only reason the white countries allow you guys to emigrate there is that it helps their economy. The amount of money leaving Nigeria and going there from immigrants is even more than what politicians loot. You're enriching them. Outside of that, they don't bloody like you. How many white guys in Canada or UK are sitting down right now saying "We love nigerians. I want to be friends with them". They're even crying because they are seeing your face in their country "What are these third world people doing here". But they'll tolerate it because it's making their land richer. Now, imagine your child growing up in that environment. Imagine what it does to their brains. Being called monkey day in day out. All that'll be in their head will be "black", "white", "white privilege", "people of color", "police brutality". Why do want that for your child you claim to love?

If you're rich enough to comfortably move abroad, why are you moving abroad for education or healthcare? You can purchase quality education right here and get good health insurance. If unfortunately you need special operation they only perform in Turkey; fine, you go there if you have the funds. I'll even donate to you if you don't have enough. But moving to one strange land when you can maintain reasonable living standards here, participate in solving the issues, and enjoy good food is something I'm finding a hard time understanding.

Honestly I just want you to relax and reread what u have typed up there... It looks like a tantrum to me
I liked the fact that u are a patriotic Nigerian..(I don't know if it was because the chances to travel out have not presented itself...but whatever it is, if u have the chance, do not miss it)

I would have answered your question...But your argument sounds like an everyday thing people see on political section...And I won't bore anyone in Family section with it...But I will not ignore the question u asked on why we should not purchase good health care in Nigeria instead of going abroad...
Just direct that question to the president of Nigeria... He is number one citizen...Just ask him why he is traveling abroad for medical checkup every three weeks when there's Aso General hospital that is big enough to cover a suburb .. Or is he undergoing any surgery abroad? can't he afford good medical insurance

Juliet751:
Perfect

Thanks dear.. that was why platform like this was created so that we can share our different opinion... No matter how good or bad

bhella10:
Teaching is actually fun if you are intelligent. I don't see reasons why anyone would hate to impact knowledge in other people's head. I thought briefly it was nice. Try it!