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Family › Re: 21st Century Parenting Dos And Don'ts - Sure Home Seminar by Richy4(m): 6:38am On Aug 01, 2022
tobechi20:
Waiting patiently
Waiting patiently for a 2002 program?Abi u no check the conflicting dates? grin
Politics › Re: 'Politicians Above 60 Should Leave Stage For Younger Ones' - Fashola by Richy4(m):
In as much as I wanted to agree to this statement... But I will not... Ageism is not the way forward to Nigerian situation...A leader with group of upright team is what Nigeria needed at the moment...

If Obi whom we feel will lead us to the promised land wins the election, we all know he's a good man but if he surrounds himself with corrupt ministers, his leadership will be worse than that of Buhari...

In current Nigerian situation,age is not supposed to be the measurement of leadership but integrity, can do attitude and the ability to deliver..
Family › Re: Marriage Is Not A Scam, You Are The Who Shouldn't Take Ring From Mad Man. (PIX) by Richy4(m): 5:14pm On Jul 31, 2022
grin grin
Now this is why I visit Nairaland cheesy cheesy cheesy
Crime › Re: Gunmen Kidnap Opadele Racheal Abiola, LAUTECH Final Year Student by Richy4(m): 4:40pm On Jul 31, 2022
This is very sad...
I have a question though.. about headlines here...
Is there a difference between Gunmen and unknown Gunmen? Just asking because if such situations happened or occur in the eastern part, it's unknown Gunmen.. if it's in another part of the country, it's Gunmen so..
Sports › Re: Birmingham 2022: Rafiatu Claims Gold In Women's Weightlifting, Makes History by Richy4(m): 4:28pm On Jul 31, 2022
cheesy cheesy cheesy
It is so unfortunate that we don't have swimmers...
That's just one sports Nigerians doesn't wanna try or go to..
Celebrities › Re: Judy Austin: Yul Edochie Best Nollywood Director, Second Wife Boasts by Richy4(m): 4:18pm On Jul 31, 2022
cheesy cheesy cheesy embarassed embarassed embarassed
Crime › Re: Nigerians In Italy Protest The Killing Of Alika Ogorchukwu by Richy4(m): 6:13am On Jul 31, 2022
I was expecting that... Even going to Italian Embassy in Nigeria in a peaceful way is not a bad idea just to register their displeasure....

How people stood and watched a life go out of an individual while they film, makes me wonder in the next 20 or so years, what the world would be like.. angry
Business › Re: Pictures of PUBLIC LAUNDRY services In The U.S. by Richy4(m): 9:28pm On Jul 30, 2022
RikudoSennin:
This is nothing na. I have never been to a Laundromat. I have my washer and dryer in my house. Only those who live in apartments use Laundromats.
That's not entirely correct.. there are some big blankets that owners of 6-8kg washing machine finds difficult to fit into the machine... I do go sometimes because it requires 10 or 13kg.
European Football (EPL, UEFA, La Liga) › Re: Liverpool Vs Manchester City: Community Shield (3 - 1) On 30th July 2022 by Richy4(m): 8:00pm On Jul 30, 2022
Liverpool will do great this coming season as always... I kind of feel that Newcastle will also do great cool
Crime › Re: Alika Ogorchukwu Killed In Italy - Nigerian Embassy Reacts by Richy4(m): 7:16pm On Jul 30, 2022
ChrystoNwafo:
Am not sure that guy is a Nigerian. How can he allow a white man kill him like a fowl.
We heard that he was crippled and uses crutches angry
Food › Re: See The Nsala (White) Soup That Will Make You Keep Asking For More (Photos,Video by Richy4(m): 6:10pm On Jul 30, 2022
That looks really nice... Apart from that catfish.. every thing is in order.. grin
Food › Re: How I Urgently Made a Combination of Crayfish Stew With Eggs. by Richy4(m): 4:16pm On Jul 30, 2022
U did well man... U have done your best... But I find the sliced size of your onion and tomatoes interesting.. more like barbecue size cool
Celebrities › Re: Brazilian Hulk Dies In Ribeirao Preto On The Day He Turns 55(photos) by Richy4(m): 2:40pm On Jul 30, 2022
shocked shocked shocked
Family › Re: I Want To Divorce My Husband As Soon As Possible by Richy4(m):
<< Nigeria is indeed breaking a lot of homes...
<< If taxes are utilised and channelled to the right direction and corrupt practices are not in place, op will not be here talking about leaving her home..
<< Many countries with vision are the ones taking care of special need children with tax payers money...
<< We see them all the time looking nice in their special Van and their care givers taking good care of them because they are paid to do so..
<< The most annoying thing is that most of the law makers in Nigeria have been abroad... Most of them had their education there... They have seen how the government of those nations alleviate the problems of their citizens... They have seen how it works but when they get to Nigeria, they turned blind eyes.. they act like they have never seen or heard things like it.. embarassed
Family › Re: I Want To Divorce My Husband As Soon As Possible by Richy4(m): 12:43pm On Jul 30, 2022
H0711:
Yes I have made up my mind because it has not been easy for me because i take care of her everyday from morning until hubby get home at 7-8pm . It's been a week only and my head want to explode and my body want to give up. I am tired and the level of stress is too much for me in this my condition I need rest not all of this burden . I can't do it anymore. I am not leaving him because of his poor condition it is because I can't take care of his special need child , his financial state hasn't been a problem to me because no condition is permanent I know one day everything will be fine but i can't take care of his special need child in this my condition.
I understand.. trust me, I do.. all the best..
Family › Re: I Want To Divorce My Husband As Soon As Possible by Richy4(m): 12:30pm On Jul 30, 2022
H0711:
I don't know where she is , the first time I set my eyes on her was the day she dropped the child and I don't think I have any business with her. I am a woman like her she has her reason for dropping her off because taking care of such a child requires a lot of money too. My hubby is not financially stable he couldn't provide for her needs while she couldn't too so her only option was to drop her off with us and I can't also do it. The only option I have is to leave too she is his child he will find a way to take care of her. I don't think nigerian government provides care for such people. The only place he went they said they are happy to keep her in and they will provide all her care but he must pay 200k every month which he can't afford.
Ok.. it seems your mind is made up already... U are the one wearing the shoes and u alone knows where it hurts...

But let me ask you again..
<<Is leaving him and the marriage really what you want?...
<<You don't think it's a hasty decision that you are making at the moment?...
<<Are you 100% certain that you are leaving without a backward glance/ no coming back when things becomes Rosey and better for your husband?..

If all the answers are yea then I really wish U the best dear..and take care of your unborn baby..
Family › Re: I Want To Divorce My Husband As Soon As Possible by Richy4(m): 11:55am On Jul 30, 2022

Where is the real mother of the baby OP.. do you have an idea?

If u do, maybe u can pay her a visit to guilt-trip her for abandoning her kid.. I didn't say it's the right thing to do,But it's like your last hail Mary pass..

The husband should have told you from the beginning though... not just surprise you with a big responsibility...

Finally do U know if Nigerian government takes care of people/ individuals with such problems?
Health › Re: Please Help, My Kid Sister Is In Pains (pics) by Richy4(m): 11:43am On Jul 30, 2022
That looks like something Aloe Vera gel skin care products can handle sad
Family › Re: Unsure If I Am The Father Of My Fourth Child by Richy4(m): 9:07am On Jul 30, 2022
ImaIma1:
Do the test for your peace of mind.
I'm just trying to imagine his feelings if the child happens to be his and he spent 80K+ to know... Considering his financial status at the moment. smiley
Crime › Re: Bayelsa Police Arrests Man Who Killed And Buried His Girlfriend In His Room by Richy4(m): 7:22am On Jul 30, 2022
I'm guessing that the room does not have a tiled flooring....

The stress of removing the tiles, digging into the earth just to conceal a crime...
Wickedness!!!! angry
Celebrities › Re: Will Smith Finally Apologizes To Chris Rock, Reaches Out To His Brother & Mother by Richy4(m): 6:56am On Jul 30, 2022
He apologized because there was a backlash based on what he did...

Assuming a lot of people backed him up, he won't have... Even the wife he was saving the honour distanced herself from it...

The way Chris handled that was commendable till tomorrow... A lot of black guys or even whites would have forgotten where they were and slapped him back on that very stage...

Crime › Re: Fulani Herdsmen Caught At Point Of Entry Into Lagos State by Richy4(m): 11:32pm On Jul 29, 2022
It's just so sad to see a day like this when some citizens of our dearest country were restricted entrance into another state within the country....

The fear of what they can do is valid but it's sad and heart-wrenching to see.. sad
Education › Re: Most People Don't Know That These Words Exist. by Richy4(m): 11:07pm On Jul 29, 2022
Emmamay10:
People, what is the vocabulary for 'when food gone the wrong way when someone is eating'.
I guess u were talking about Aspiration.
Family › Re: Widow Beats Up Side Chick Who Shows Up At Her Husband’s Funeral by Richy4(m):
She came to pay her last respect...
It's not as if she was sitting at the lawyer's chambers waiting for the man's Will to be read smiley..
Politics › Re: Breaking: 102 Guards Battalion Are Currently Under Attack By Terrorists. by Richy4(m): 5:48pm On Jul 29, 2022
The successful operation at the kuje prison has given them the guts that FCT security is simply porous... It's not what they think before... Hence Abuja has become a playground or amusement park for terrorist angry
Family › Re: Should I Arrange With Her? by Richy4(m): 4:43pm On Jul 29, 2022
Jennyclay:
You're jobless and you wanna dive into marrige? Then start giving birth to kids you can't take care of like rats. Please How do you want your poverty to look like?

We haven't even cleared those hoodlums that lack home training off the street... And you wanna add yours.

Please respect yourself.
grin grin cheesy
And In a situation the doctor mentioned that the wife will be delivering by caesarean section.. he will be sweating like he crossed Sahara desert
Family › Re: Should You Rinse Your Mouth After Brushing With Toothpaste? by Richy4(m): 3:58pm On Jul 29, 2022
socialmediaman:
It's actually easy to do. You just need to see it as something valuable to your teeth health, then add it to your routine without giving up much. For instance, if you brush your teeth first thing after you wake up, then workout for 30mins, then rinse your teeth. See? You have time to fit it in perfectly.
I might forget and start going about thinking subconsciously that I forgot something...I understand you man..It will be difficult for someone like me smiley
Family › Re: Unsure If I Am The Father Of My Fourth Child by Richy4(m): 3:51pm On Jul 29, 2022
tonicyril:
do u have sense at all.. so if u re the wife u can be happy and take it lightly if ur husband question ur faithfulness and paternity of a child u have for him.

And i think u re an elder ooh. Shior
There are smart phrases used when politely disagreeing with someone in a public forum or offline...Eg
<<I beg to disagree with you..
<<I’m sorry but I disagree with you about this...
<<I understand where you’re coming from, but...
<<That’s a valid point, but..

It depict a well raised gentleman and lady with class.. embarassed
Family › Re: Should You Rinse Your Mouth After Brushing With Toothpaste? by Richy4(m): 2:00pm On Jul 29, 2022
socialmediaman:
It’s a habit and a mindset thing. We wait 20mins for our food to get done so we can also wait a similar time to rinse
Nice habit you got there man.. I guess you don't live in a traffic prone city/area...Maybe, you would have happily relinquished that habit. ..
Family › Re: Unsure If I Am The Father Of My Fourth Child by Richy4(m):
crackhaus:
Whatever kind of separation it is, as long as it was a decision/agreement both couples came to with their full senses intact, I do not consider having sex with other people during such a time as cheating/infidelity.

Perhaps it's just me, but I do know a few people personally who hold same thoughts.
@ Bold, Below is what decision/ agreement looks like when it was mutual separation by couples.. They set ground rule and decide ;

<<If they can date other people while separated
<<if they have joint account, they will decide to continue having the joint account or not..
<<budget/ spending matters will be discussed..
<<who will stay in the family home will be agreed on...
<<if they have kids, how and when each of them will spend time with them. etc.

In this case such communication was not there... It was not a mutual agreement per say ...The OP left because verbal abuse was involved and there was no ground rules set aside while they were separated.. So one party cannot wake up one morning and jump into the arms of another man/woman while still legally married...For me, It's absurd and eccentric.

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