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SalisuJasper:
thats true, what other activities can i use to replace this deadly act, like people that dnt do any of this, what are the things they replace it with

like me...I drink and smoke before...not to an addictive level though...but I stopped...I don't even do soft drinks...I drink wine occasionally...but I do go out to the bar..drink water and chat...bro don't try this o...you Neva overcome reach that stage...I left smoking about 13years now.

bro...just pick a hob...and avoid some Friends...pick what you love...I do football,movies, cooking (yeah..I cook,I love it),board games..read...music...bro just pick something that you do and love to reolace that hours you spent on drinking and smoking...


AND BE VERY VERY STRONG WILLED

SalisuJasper:
thats true, what other activities can i use to replace this deadly act, like people that dnt do any of this, what are the things they replace it with

like me...I drink and smoke before...not to an addictive level though...but I stopped...I don't even do soft drinks...I drink wine occasionally...but I do go out to the bar..drink water and chat...bro don't try this o...you Neva overcome reach that stage...I left smoking about 13years now.

bro...just pick a hob...and avoid some Friends...pick what you love...I do football,movies, cooking (yeah..I cook,I love it),board games..read...music...bro just pick something that you do and love to reolace that hours you spent on drinking and smoking...

Mercychen:
Like seriously, it doesn't even cross my mind to start tasking for Tfare. In fact, if she didn't mention it, I never saw it as a thing.
I just regard it as a normal thing I'm doing for myself.

200 naira? Lol.. waaaw.. even when I was going to sango ( that year) that it'll almost look like you're traveling, I don't ask. Talk more around the corner.

If I don't have, I'll rather postpone the date but I won't let you know it's because I don't have Tfare.

trust me...some ladies never use their transport..even bike fare....

now please permit to focus on you for a second..

see girl,as long as your personality doesn't permit you to ask for transport fare from a guy when going for a date with him...please continue that way,be yourself...the most important thing is yourself satisfaction...cus you might change and it may not work out good for you...your idea and personality of cancelling a date cus of transport fare has been working for you... continue...it has been keeping your pride and sanity in intact...so keep it up... canceling a date doesn't mean the date won't come back another day...pride matters alot in things like this

Africa teams in trouble


African teams don't have good record AGAINST South America and Asian teams....Africa beats Europe team more at the world...

good luck to them though

if he pays the transport,it's cool...but if he doesn't... please don't ask...for your pride sake(some ladies even ask even when the transport is 200naira)


if it's a long distance...like those in Lagos for example... mainland to island...you could ask if you can't afford it....

but all in all...don't judge a man cus he didn't give you transport fee...this new Norm is really misleading so many young ladies..


finally..do what your heart tells you and what works for you... remember what works for B may sink C...so good men might be turned off by your asking for transport fee especially when the money is very small...

my opinion

SalisuJasper:
Thanks, i feel its like a spirit or something, if i dnt smoke for a week and i pass through a bunk where they smoke, i must surely go there, even drinking, if i go to a bar, that is when i will remember i need to drink, concerning womanizing, i think its my masturbation addict which i am trying to stop by all means

you have to take it very slowly..you know you built up these habits over time...so you cant just stop at once....start with the easy ones...let's take drinking first...try to stay away from spots that would make you want to drink...like the bar...same with the smoking..if you can avoid the spots...over time you might build up immunity to go to a bar and don't drink...so for now avoid those spots...let's see.. discover new spots for fun...it could be movies... football matches...etc... anything that keeps you away from those spots

SalisuJasper:
another thing is, i am very normal, like i am currently doing my nysc and i am very neat, infact you cant even knw self, but deep down i know what i am passing through, don't know what push me into this, i thought this is the real life

bro...I feel you...it's more like not satisfied in those three habits that use to give you joy before...you really need someone you can relate this too... bro I'm happy for you...cus the first step is recognizing the problem...second step is talking about it...you will conquer this...trust me...just get a professional you can confide in

a shrink (psychologist)..a very good one...no one can help you here...your as addiction is too much...a three way combo...bro get a psychologist..plus a rehab

SMH

LoL

VladimirPutiin:
You made so much sense.

thank you brotherly

Eddysilver:
Bros Una welcome
Rickpat Nd superintendents how Una see e get how Una for do am better.

it's okay...but you can make the cartoons more much...and use funny pictures to match up with funny write ups

guobe:
don't worry if they don't resign ,nemesis will certainly catch up with them

surely

you can go for drilling courses...but M.eng in petroleum engineering?..I don't think it's possible cus you didn't do a a related engineering course in your first degree....even civil engineering can't do m.eng in petroleum engineering or any engineering outside the civil engineering scope...civil engineering can only do masters in transport and highway engineering, structural engineering, geotechnical engineering,water resources engineering....that's how it works

guobe:
so so correct and they still resigned,please can someone tell pinick and Eguavoen to resign and go home and stop disgracing themselves.They have failed,go home honourably

they will not...this is NIGERIA... shame doesn't exist here

NIGERIA!!!!!!

guobe:
its pathetic,those guys have killed Nigerian football

very very disgusting...under pinnick we have missed out on Olympics both male and female,under 20 world cup for male...just forget our administrators...it's annoying...and pinnick is planning his third term along side his disciples...shehu dikko and seyi akinwummi

the only parameter that Nigeria edges Algeria is in number of afcon titles... NIGERIA has 3.. Algeria 2..

in terms of football organization.. Algeria is far ahead... standard league,very professional league...pay their players well...good pitches...good travel logistics....they have more caf champions league and confederation cup titles than Nigeria...

NIGERIA has always been a joke... eugaveon resigned cus he has a dual role,so he went back as technical director.


cus in Nigeria no one resigns....pinnick will never resign...he is planning for his third term(NFF election is in September or October this year)... shameless NFF BOARD

Lol...na wa

your husband is either cheating on you or very close to cheating on you...he acts like someone not ready for a marriage journey..I would advise you stop looking at his chat for your sanity sake....but I will assure you..you will catch him sexually cheating soon....I know you will get advise from people telling you to report to his family or pastor...but trust me..NO ONE CAN STOP ANYONE THAT WANTS TO CHEAT...just be on the watch,save more money incase o...cus he is really disrespecting you in front of other women...no one disrespects his wife if he doesn't have another woman he respects...just be calm...stop looking at his chat for now for your sanity sake... your baby needs you...wish you the best

Boyhood:
sorry Boyhood doesn't have fantasies.
I still don't understand why you had to mention me in your comment.

Lol...this got me laughing...sorry bro...it's your moniker..no too vex... Lol...may boyish fantasies then...winks

why should you allow things you see here bother you?...some people are here to fulfill their girl/boyhood fantasies

i think it's the specie of the cashew....go for a new specie possibly the rapid yielding species...

okay...she is a drug addict...noted...she is using you..noted.

dear elder brother,why not stop depending on her or feeling entitled...if you were in your house managing your life...will you be treated the way you claim?

you took her car?...she refused giving you money to pay your wife's bride price...in my opinion Bros get small shame na ....if you focus on building your finances,you won't even be this dependent on people...na wa

tammie24:
I'm sorry if you have dumb kids but my kids read very well and can answer most of the questions even tho I don't think the questions are appropriate for their age

i really wanted to ignore your pathetic lying soul seeking relevance on a face forum...but let me just tell you....ride on in displaying your fantasy here if your four year old reads four and five syllable words well..lol..remembers and know the meaning and tenses of the words...words like educational,firm etc...4years is primary 1,some kg3...keep dreaming with your smart kids...you are very shallow minded for bringing insults to other people's kids...no child is dumb...learn that...myopic brat!

I really pity your kids for having you... ciao

Lol...na wa

Elmander1983:
Nna meen! Got me here too.. guess God has answers to everything.. will pass before tears drop

just pass bro,instead spilling emotions

tammie24:
my 4 year old can read very very well

so he/she can read, understand and answer the questions on that paper?...I hear you


sign him/her up on nairaland as well

this is what catching too much cruise on social media brings... everything is seen as a joke... people say things they can't do or say in real world...want to comment on everything,no productive comments...just type trash cus nobody sees you ..toxic comments are now normal,weird and silly jokes,quick to insult etc....this didn't start today and it's unfortunate it got to the point someone is dying and people think it's a cruise as usual... SMH....RIP LADY!!

hello candidlady,

it's been a while,trust you are doing great?

how are sessions going?

please keep pushing it,one day at a time,it's not easy but trust me,I appreciate you efforts towards this... your bravery is second to none..

please maintain an open mind towards EVERYONE and everything,yeah less I forget I sent you a message on your last topic(ladies can be simp) don't know if you missed it.

so please just keep following the guidelines from the shrink, it's for the best and I so much believe so you will have your life all to yourself (no shrink or any form of monitoring)...remain blessed,wear a smile( I once saw a kid wearing a T-shirt with the inscription "smile keeps me away from trouble)...I know you will look cute when you smile...so smile on and shine on.

hope your folks are doing great too...trust your mum is loving your progress,kabiru is good,yeah?...dad and everyone.

stay blessed,may peace of mind,body and soul always follow you ...have a fulfilled day.


cheers!!...take care