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As tragic as the incident may be, I have lost sympathy for women that go through such acts of violence. Why? Cos of their bad attitude, it's funny how the good guys here are pouring out sympathy towards the girl and threatening to deal with the rapists but yet the same girls they are fighting for will not show gratefulness to the good guys instead they will group all you men as rapists and they will lash out on any guy irrespective of whether or not he is a bad or a good person just because they have been hurt by a guy before.

Yet these girls know that there are still some good guys out there, but they deliberately lash out at all the men with their ungratefulness and bad attitude irrespective of whether or the guy is good or bad.

Since they have deliberately labelled all men as pervets then why should the good guys show sympathy? Let the good guys shut up and let these ungrateful girls fight the murderers, thieves and rapists on their own, the good guys should not intervene, don't lynch any rapist instead give her 100 naira recharge card, let her call the police, after all the police is your friend.

The disgust we the good guys feel towards a rape incident and our desire to punish the rapist is not acknowledged by these ungrateful girls, instead they are filled with a burning desire to retaliate against all the men irrespective of whether or not the guy is good or bad.

PrecisionFx:
Ogboni is a social club.

Jesus followers are shot to death too.

Who are the Jesus followers that get shot to death? is it all those prostitutes and false Christians in the church that shout "Jesus"?

You faeces eating occultist still end up getting shot up like a dog in the gutter despite all the supernatural powers that your faeces consumption is supposed to give. you are a fool

Christ is the only way, only Christ will save you, accept Christ and stay away from eating bread and faeces as they do in the occult, for it will offer you no protection again bullets.

She did the right thing by having other boyfriends because men have disappointed girls in the past. men have promised girls marriage only for them to dump the girls after years of dating.

She's not yours and she has the right to date other guys until you put a ring on her finger, therefore she did the right thing.

The only gullible one is you the man that places a girl that is not your wife on salary. The only money you should spend on a girl that is not your wife is money for meatpie, Sprite, doughnut, scotch egg and sausage roll. Even I have stopped buying fried rice, chicken and salad for these girls and I have stopped taking them to silver bird cinemas as well as cold stone creamery/dominos pizza. if I take a girl out, highest I will spend is 1500 and that will be on meatpie and coke. if she proves herself to be deserving, then I will upgrade her to fried rice, chicken and salad, then to dominos pizza and then to cinema. let them humble themselves first.

or once her parents give her to you as a wife and she proves herself worthy, humble and faithful; then you can start spending on her.

Jullima:
My dear you have described most Nigerian marriages. We see it here a lot on NL. Keeping malice and Nigerian husbands are 5&6. You are not allowed to express your feelings, it’s called talking back. You’re also supposed to apologise for something you were a victim of. If the husband is not 100% the breadwinner, even worse, any body language or words are interpreted as “you don’t respect me because you are contributing”

P.S our NL favourite matron will come in and blame you for not choosing right, even though he presented himself as a godly man or you must have done something to change a godly man.

Sis, it is well.

lol...you gullible girls still fall for that "I'm a pastor" scam, yes she chose wrong.

timesup234:
Oga you be mumu. Nigeria is the richest country on earth. Western countries are debt shitholes. Everything you see in America and Canada is a debt trap. The net worth of most Americans and Canadians are in the negative. The average Nigerian is richer than middle class Americans who will die and be buried with funeral loans

Nairalanders! The op is a new and upcoming comedian, he definitely has talent. One of his best jokes here on nairaland is that the average Nigerian is richer than middle class Americans.

Isn't he hilarious?

daddytime:
Nice one.

Just stay safe and away from any potential mass shooting site.

Our people say beauty no dey complete.

Their Government dey people-oriented, but you fit just say make you stroll go supermarket to buy some grocery the next thing one kolo oyibo wey half done and medium-rare meat don chop part of him brain go just enter there begin shoot everybody for no just cause.

In fact ehn, e no get anywhere wey e be 10/10.

Las las na only God perfect.

With this lockdown I just wished I was in my village aswear.

Easy jeje life...wetin concern you concern coro

I was shocked to notice there were no mosquitoes in my village the last time I visited. I slept with the netless windows open.

Yes you are right, no country is 10/10 but Canada is 9/10 and your own zoo is 1/10 and that's why you are jealous of the guy. You wish it was you that got that 600k. Yes they had a mass shooting where just 15 people died but your own police force not a criminal has killed more than 15 people during the lockdown. In Canada some people don't lock the door of their house because it is that safe. Why can't you copy the Canadians by telling your girlfriend not to lock the door of her house at night in your zoo country and let's find out if she will not be raped 3 times before dawn.

It's good that there are no mosquitoes in your village so that has been taken care of. But what of your poverty stricken girls that sell their body for money to buy indomie? Try to convince your female compatriots that are prostitutes not to attempt to relocate to Canada so that they can live with you in your village where there are no mosquitoes.

You are a toothless bulldog like your compatriots.

socialmediaman:
Let me break it down for you based on available statistics online. Take Florida for instance:

Let’s say you earn $12 per hour which is a little higher than the minim wage (which is around $9 or so). This means that you earn around $25,000 USD annually if you work full time. It could be less if you don’t work full time. So after tax which could be up to 35% depending, you will be seeing around $16,000 In your account. So you will be making your budget from this money:

1. Divide $16,000 by 12 months = $1,333. Let’s round it up and say $1,500 comes into your account monthly.

2. Subtract your monthly health insurance, let’s just say $50 - $100 based on government health insurance with subsidies. Private or work insurance could he higher, depending. Remaining $1,400

3. Subtract rent. Say $500 for 1 self contain, called Studio there, or maybe a room inside a house with shared bathroom and living room and laundry etc. remaining $900.

4. If you use public transport like buses and trains, subtract like $200 or less depending. If you use Uber or taxi it’s more. If you drive your own car then it could be even more because you have monthly car payment plus gas (petrol) which could be $200 + $100 depending on the car. Include car insurance as well if you have a car. I’ll just subtract $350 to be moderate. Remaining $650.

5. Now feeding. Let’s say you spend only $50 for food weekly, let’s subtract $200 monthly. Remaining $450.

6. Now we’ve come to utilities. Since you mentioned that the person needs some sort of decent life, they must have cable TV subscription plus internet, maybe $50 - $100 or less, then gas, electric and water would be another $150. We'll include phone bills here as well just to be conservative. Let’s give this $250 total. Remaining $200.

7. Now let’s factor in household supplies and other monthly expenses. Household supplies like bleach, soap, body cream, shoe polish, cologne, toilet paper, toothpaste etc. Other services like haircut. Let’s just be conservative and say these cost $100 monthly. Remaining $100.

So after all the moderation I used for the calculations, it looks like you’ll be having $100 or less as savings monthly. Multiply this by 12 and you get about $1,200 estimated savings from a $25,000 job.

If you have a dependent on this level of income, Goodluck with making any savings because I predict you’ll be living off your credit cards with a huge debt and high interest rates that you may never be able to pay back fully for a very long time.

With this salary, some people still try to send $50 a month to their families which is about N18,000 - N20,000 monthly, but their families may never understand!

I didn’t mention occasional or infrequent expenses like emissions test on your car which you’re required to do by law, oil change, personal items like clothing which I didn’t include in the calculation above

The difference between you and someone in Nigeria is, you have access to good roads so you have less visits to the auto mechanic, you have access to 24/7 electricity and high speed internet and online shopping etc. plus you’re living in an organized society with access to study loans, you’re able to change your destiny by getting a degree or better paying job etc with time. Also you can get a partner and easily split the bills and save more. Plus once a year, you may get some tax refund of up to $1,000 or more from government depending on how much tax they deducted from your income.

Hope this information helps

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First of all Europeans have better welfare than Americans. Of course most Africans believe that America is greater than Europe but that is wrong.
Europeans have better welfare like higher minimum wage, free healthcare and free university tuition fees.
But in America, you pay for hospital and you pay massively for university. So don't compare America with western Europe.

In addition people in America can have 3 jobs. They can work as cleaners in the morning, then as security guard at night then as a steward on weekends. Therefore the fact that Europeans have higher welfare than Americans and the fact that Americans can have up to 3 jobs defeats your argument.

Your argument that the only difference with Nigeria and America is the presence of basic amenities is wrong. What is Nigeria's budget per year? It is 8.9 trillion naira per year. How much is America's budget? It is 4 trillion dollars per year.
The relationship between Nigeria and America is not a junior brother to senior brother relationship, it is an infant baby to great great great great grandfather relationship. Don't ever compare Nigeria and America again.

The western European unskilled worker makes good money, so let's put that aside. In America the skilled workers like pharmacist, doctors, engineers and lawyers can make up to 250,000 dollars per year.

The only issue with America is that they reward the skilled professionals like pharmacists, doctors, engineers and lawyers with hundred of thousands of dollars per year but they punish the unskilled workers like the cleaners with $10 per hour. But even with this punishment, toilet cleaners in America can work up to 3 jobs and that will make them have enough savings to travel for a holiday to Europe, Cuba or Australia in the summer. With one full-time job and two part time jobs the unskilled American cleaner can still make $50,000 per year.


If Americans are that poor as you claim and if the only advantage Americans have over Nigerians is the presence of good roads, Donald trump would not have called you shit hole countries.

Beosten:
Ask someone who is a citizen of England, lives and works in England to tell you the real story... They earn huge salary and pay heavy bills. Don't be deceived. An oyibo friend told me many things about living in England. She earns huge salary but can't afford a car because you will still pay for owning a car.

Don't you pay for owing a car in Nigeria? Don't you pay insurance, road worthiness and vehicle license. Over there, their documents are original and they perform MOT test on the cars, it's not like here where 15k bribe will cover your vehicle documents for a year.

Even with the high car insurance cost, they can still save 600 ponds a month

A toilet cleaner in the UK can make in a month: 1600 pounds

He pays rent: 400 pounds for a 3 bedroom house
Local government tax: 100 pounds
Utilities: 100 pounds
Feeding: 150 pounds
Bus ticket: 50 pounds

800 pounds will cover his basic needs.

He now has 800 pounds to save per month. Even if he has a car he will not pay more than 200 pounds for the car insurance, tax and petrol a month.

You can save 800 pounds a month as a toilet cleaner as long as you are moderate. And that's how all those Nigerian toilet cleaners in Europe built mansions in Nigeria.

If he is married and has 3 children, that are working as toilet cleaners , it means that 5 family members will be earning 8000 pounds but they will still pay the same 400 pounds rent and tax. They may pay more in utilities but it is a small amount.

There is a reason some people are queuing for a visa to Europe, it's because you can build mansions in Nigeria whilst working as a toilet cleaner in Europe.

But this is just a toilet cleaner, if he is a graduate, maybe a pharmacist, engineer, lawyer or banker, he can make as high as 6000 pounds a month

socialmediaman:
You can rent a room with 7k per month right? Maybe spend another 7k on transport, another 10k on feeding. That’s how someone who earns the minimum wage abroad lives. The difference is, transport could be much smaller with good public transportation, food could be cheaper if the government was distributing gas and electricity more effectively etc and you could save a little. But based on the cost of living abroad, what the minimum wage earners earn cannot get them so much from the system, just a decent means of livelihood compared to Naija

That your argument doesn't work.
those abroad pay higher bills only in the areas of rent and taxes not in food.

How much is a can of coke or sprite in Nigeria, is it not around 150 naira? How much is a can of coke in the UK, it is 40 pence (180 naira).
It more or less the same thing and the same goes for chicken, rice, tomato and the rest.

That argument that those abroad pay high bills is used by stingy relatives abroad to prevent them from sending money to their relatives back home.

Yes they may pay higher rent but that's only because the accommodation they are paying for is of high quality like the ones you have in lekki phase one. So how much is rent in lekki phase 1? Is it 7k per month.

Yes Europeans have higher bills but they make even higher money.

It's like you living in lekki phase 1 or on bourdillon, ikoyi and be paying 3 million naira rent per year but you're making 1.8 million naira a month.

That's how it is for the Europeans, even toilet cleaners can still afford to go on holiday to Spain, Greece or Australia each summer, that's why they are called developed countries, they are rich.

domack99:
They don't have huge money in their account oo, but their government have reserve that can take care of their needs by giving them weekly or monthly stipend, have control over price of things and subsidize where necessary.

Yes they have money. Your own minimum wage is 30k per month, how much can you save from that little amount.
But in the UK, the minimum wage is close to 10 pounds an hour/ 1600 pounds per month (700, 000 naira) for the low skilled workers like toilet cleaners.
If you're a graduate you can make as high as 4000 pounds per month (1.8 million naira a month)

Even if all the Europeans are toilet cleaners they can still save 400 pounds a month after paying their bills. And they could have been saving for years.

The reason there is high compliance to the lockdown in Europe and the west is because of the fact that Europeans and westerners have money; they could have huge savings of $10,000 each in their bank accounts.

But Africa and Africans in general are not rich and most live based on what they make per day; if the African market woman doesn't go to the market, she doesn't eat; if the African carpenter, bricklayer or mechanic doesn't work, he doesn't eat; if the marwa driver and the bus conductor don't work, they don't eat.

The Europeans due to their huge savings account can afford to go on lockdown for 6 months or more.

But the hungry African may start burning tyres, looting, robbing, raping and killing after a few weeks of hunger due to the lockdown. People are already defying the lockdown in Angola.

I predict that if the lockdown in Africa is not called off soon, there will be anarchy in Africa which will make the international leaders to end the lockdown. Either that or they will claim to have found a vaccine.

Africans will not fight you if embezzle government funds, but if you deny them their opportunity to hustle inside the hot sun for their garri and groundnut, they will fight you.

From Africa, the lockdown will end.

What a powerful government! Let's find out out how the government will use its power to arrest all those starving thugs, agberos and bus drivers that may violently defy the lockdown if it's not called off soon.

All the government is doing with it's high handedness is calling for a revolution.

The bible states in 1 John 2:15-16

15 Love not the world, neither the things that are in the world. If any man love the world, the love of the Father is not in him.

16 For all that is in the world, the lust of the flesh, and the lust of the eyes, and the pride of life, is not of the Father, but is of the world.

It's not only loving money, cars and houses that makes you sinful and worldly, even loving your health to the point of wishing and praying for a Coronavirus vaccine is sinful and worldly.

Matthew 16:25 states that:For whosoever will save his life shall lose it.

Therefore don't fall into the trap by wishing for a vaccine. That's exactly what the ungodly wants, they want to harness all the spiritual energy that comes from you wishing for a vaccine so that they can use it to award glory to their humanist scientists after they have would have allegedly found a vaccine.

Instead of wishing for a vaccine, you need to realize that you could have been struck down by a bus and died last week; your house could have collapsed and killed you last year; a stray bullet could have killed you yesterday; a reckless driver could have broken the red light and bashed into your car killing you. But none of these happened because it's not your time yet. Only God determines the time you will leave the world.
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A government lockdown or curfew should not affect you the modest Christian because you have already been on lockdown years before the Coronavirus, you didn't attend their immoral parties, night clubs or their immoral cinema even before they came up with their own lockdown. You did not drink wine or alcohol and neither did you overindulge in gluttony, instead you fasted for days, therefore a food shortage which a lockdown may create is not your concern because you didn't indulge in gluttony in the first place.

The only losers from a lockdown and the total destruction of the world are the ungodly.


Instead of wishing for a Coronavirus vaccine, come closer to God, read your bible, be modest, love your neighbor and flee from sin as you should.
Thank you

Paul stated in the Bible:

1 Corinthians 6:18-19
18Flee from sexual immorality. Every other sin a man can commit is outside his body, but he who sins sexual sinsagainst his own body.
 19Do you not know that your body is a temple of the Holy Spirit who is in you, whom you have received from God? You are not your own.

Jesus Christ stated in the Bible:
Matthew 5:28
But I tell you that anyone who looks at a woman lustfully has already committed adultery with her in his heart.


*Pornoraphy is from hell and leads to hell.

*Immoral night and strip clubs is also a creation of Satan and leads to hell.

*Afro-hiphop artist have diabolical pacts with Satan to spread sexual immorality through their music videos. Flee from afro-hiphop and it's nudity, trace naija, hip tv and the rest. If you are in a restaurant where trace naija is being played, it is advised that you leave.

*Staring lustfully at a person, image, video, poster or flyer is sexually immoral and leads to hell.

Testimony of the first chamber of hell describes how the souls of newly dead people arrive in hell and how they are judged by the demons based on the major sin that brought them to hell. The demons then send the souls to the particular section of hell that is befitting of the sin committed.


YouTube link:
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=bMqp43hstSU

The bible states in 1 John 2:15-16

15 Love not the world, neither the things that are in the world. If any man love the world, the love of the Father is not in him.

16 For all that is in the world, the lust of the flesh, and the lust of the eyes, and the pride of life, is not of the Father, but is of the world.

It's not only loving money, cars and houses that makes you sinful and worldly, even loving your health to the point of wishing and praying for a Coronavirus vaccine is sinful and worldly.

Matthew 16:25 states that:For whosoever will save his life shall lose it.

Therefore don't fall into the trap by wishing for a vaccine. That's exactly what the ungodly wants, they want to harness all the spiritual energy that comes from you wishing for a vaccine so that they can use it to award glory to their humanist scientists after they have would have allegedly found a vaccine.

Instead of wishing for a vaccine, you need to realize that you could have been struck down by a bus and died last week; your house could have collapsed and killed you last year; a stray bullet could have killed you yesterday; a reckless driver could have broken the red light and bashed into your car killing you. But none of these happened because it's not your time yet. Only God determines the time you will leave the world.
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A government lockdown or curfew should not affect you the modest Christian because you have already been on lockdown years before the Coronavirus, you didn't attend their immoral parties, night clubs or their immoral cinema even before they came up with their own lockdown. You did not drink wine or alcohol and neither did you overindulge in gluttony, instead you fasted for days, therefore a food shortage which a lockdown may create is not your concern because you didn't indulge in gluttony in the first place.

The only losers from a lockdown and the total destruction of the world are the ungodly.


Instead of wishing for a Coronavirus vaccine, come closer to God, read your bible, be modest, love your neighbor and flee from sin as you should.
Thank you

It is advised that world leaders should quickly put an end to this Coronavirus of a thing.

You cannot order your citizens around like goats and shutdown the country anyhow if you don't want them to starve to death.

In Africa, the people are already poor and most cannot feed unless they go out to hustle for that day.
Yes people are poor but they can still make enough to buy de rica of garri and cheap noodles in the market. But If you dare shutdown down the market for a disease which none of us, our friends or our families seem to have and you deny the already hungry and angry man access to his garri and indomie, what will happen?

Or do you believe that shutting down a country and denying children to their indomie is as mild as banning okada and marwa?

Please world leaders, prevent, widespread looting, rape, destruction of property, robberies, killings and anarchy which a prolonged shutdown may create. In Rwanda, 800, 000 people were massacred in just 6 weeks due to the anarchy.
You world leaders should realize that it's not your army or police but LACK OF SCARCITY that is keeping you in power and preventing anarchy.

That's why you have to quickly find a solution to this Coronavirus of a thing. Thank you.

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Stephenmoka4:
So does applies to men but, I do not intend in doing such and will never do that.
I can have all levels of intimacy only with my partner and nobody else, that's me; so do some women out there.

That's a fat lie....

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