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Deliverance is 50% Repentance.... Repentance starts the moment we come to terms with our wrongs and acknowledge the sin, then we go ahead and confess the said sin to God and Man where man is involved, then ask for forgiveness. We are clean as Christ the moment this is done genuinely..... However repentance is not real if we make a habit of the same sin, there should be discipline to desist and live Holy unto God.

She has confessed, sought forgiveness, repented and I believe has also cut ties with the said cousin. Apart from the fact that she may need to consciously break any covenant that illicit sex, incest in this case has got her into because sexual sins open people up to demons, she is free and good to be married


However, OP... I am a man, I am born again, I am human, I have emotions, if you can't bear it, please back out peacefully but protect her image. After the "I do's " are said, you are bound by God and His word to stay married. You are free to express your emotions which include sadness, anger, worry, etc now and take your decisions without duress or pity. If you want to go ahead and Marry, do so because you love her and have forgiven her and not because Nairalanders urged you to.
Take time out, postpone the wedding, nobody will die, go and seek God's Face on the matter, ask Him to help you, talk to Him like your " GUY " tell Him how you feel and how you are confused, don't act Macho for Him.

Call wife to be and ask her to go spend some time alone with God too and tell Him her heart and please ask her to tell you any other secret she thinks you should know otherwise let it remain buried till death.

By the way, I hope you guys have not been having sex....


God help you my brother..... It will end in praise!

Majikals:
You are right though but if she had stomached that secret like most people naturally would have done, and you heard it from a different source when you are already miles into the marriage, you will feel a 1000 times worse than how you are feeling now.
The ball is in your court chief.

Kai.... Shebi if we beg people to give their lives to Christ and stay Holy them no good gree.

Thank God for the reverential fear of God our parents put in us.


Forgive her, pray for her and Marry her. ...Relocate far away from that cousin if you can, it will help the memories obliterate.

Majikals:
You are a lucky man finding such an honest spouse... She has confessed her errors before her maker and even you. Go ahead with your marriage with her cos she's a good woman. We have all made terrible errors at some point in life. Only a scarce few are bold enough to confess his /her deepest errors the way ur fiancee just did.
About the spiritual implications u are kinda worried about, if truly you are a Christian as u rightly said, I believe the Bible says he /she that confesses and believe is redeemed..You have nothing to fear

I wish she said it earlier... . Time has a way of helping one forget ills. This is one freaking month to the wedding. I would be visibly shaken

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The child has learnt the wrong way to pray. I feel sorry for a large percentage of the Church engaged in this form of prayers.

At least she isn't learning to sing Phyno or shakira.... Which ever way she has learnt Prayer. Let's pick the good in what she is doing, God will open her eyes when she is of age. Compare her with kids her age and see the evil already in their young minds because of spiritually insensitive parents!!!

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Great Post.... It's sad that a lot of young people won't take this advice with all keenness. SEX before marriage blinds you and robs you of common sense .

It's funny some people are making fun of the post asking for summary.... I weep for out youths. You have been given what would help your marriage and you treat it with disdain? No wonder the white man hides solution in print.

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It is normal for somebody recovering from sickness to look that way. By God's grace he will get better and look very healthy. I have a dad of almost his age. If I can wish my Dad death, so will I not wish my President death. He is someone else husband, father, grand father, uncle, nephewetc. I wish him speedy recovery.

He is 10 years older than your Dad sha... I think he should resign, he is weak..... He doesn't deserve the stress

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Lies from the pit of hell. God designed marriage to be beautiful and people have been enjoying beautiful marriages devoid of unfaithfulness. Stop coming here to tell us what you have planned to do in your own marriage OP. I will not cheat on my wife and every cheat is hell bound.
Just shut up if you don't have worthy examples of marriage to give us.

Go and find a real godly marriage where Christ is at the center and bring for case study.

My parents are 35years in marriage and not one day of scandal or suspicion.

Go and find the Bible model and follow.

There is no excuse for unfaithfulness in marriage.

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Am a very practical christian, and I only recommend what I have tested and proven to work. I have gone through your post. Things may be going wrong for you for alot of reasons unrelated to religion. But for depression, you don't seem to have found inner peace, and the only cure i know for inner peace is the scripture verse that says "come unto me all ye that are heavy laden and I will give you rest".. Atheism no dey pay. Not to insult anyone but I do know up to 5 atheists personally, some are wealthy but all are very miserable. A common characteristics is lack of inner peace.

For your jobs dear, try repackaging yourself. Prayer has helped me countless times, I mean I have been rejected countless times on some bids i submit but each time i get frustrated and pray about it in faith, the next time i always get favoured. There's no such thing as luck. Of course you need to have a skill, have a great degree but without favour it's almost impossible to be found in a pool of intellectuals equally qualified for same job. Life is no coincidence nor luck. It has been working for me. there are other special experiences i have had that convinces me beyond doubt that there's God.

As an atheist, what do you really gain? What do you lose believing in God? Seun comment above asked if your mum is financially stable seeing she's religious. But my question and reply to him is this "she may not be so wealthy to help you, but does she lack inner peace? That's more important than the wealth.. Well I pray for you to experience a personal encounter. I will give you a sign. If you can genuinely believe for a week that Jesus is Lord, read your Bible and pray to him with faith and then go ahead to submit your cv to as many places as you want, then you will get your job that same week, aside that, you will find inner peace. Are you taking my challenge? Just 1 week. Quote me when you get your job.

I wish you success.

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