Futuristica: My wife has been acting weird for some months now, like she doesn't apologize if she is wrong, doesnt try to seek avenues for us to reconcile if we have quarrels. Instead, I am the one that always put the foot forward. If I point out something, she shows no remorse. She often says things like 'this life na once' .
Just a background.
I stumbled on this message sent by her workplace close girl friend. This tiktok message talks about falling in love with a married man because the man makes her feel loved etc etc.
But the caption below by the friend says, we will miss you so much.
My mind has been wondering what it means. I woke her from sleep to confront her to explain what the message means (it's a message sent this January) ..she looked scared or maybe anxious as I asked her if she had cheated on me with anyone recently.. offcourse ,'no' is the normal answer.
I showed her the message for her to explain what it was about . She said she can't remember what it was about and that she doesn't know. When I pressed further, she started gaslighting that if I feel she cheated, I should give her a divorce .
Dear house, what are you views on this matter? I am more concerned about what this message might mean.
Please be fair in your judgement. Thank you.
Some of you men didn't grow up well, always disappointing manhood. A wife you married opened her mouth to say that to you despite seeing that evidence in her phone and you are here asking questions. No free yourself, dey dey find wetin another man don dey shag in the name of marriage.
ErebeOcoco: Yesterday in my community, a lady reported that her husband assaulted her.
Now in my community, slapping, attracts a fine of 50k.
Fighting attracts a fine of 100k, 24 stroke of the cane and 1 carton of beer.
Threats of any sort attracts 100k and 1carton of beer.
Back to my story, the husband was arrested and whipped 24 stroke, and was made to pay a fine of 50k and 1 carton of beer. And afterwards was sternly warned by the youths never to lay a finger on his woman again.
He was given a bottle of beer and told to take his wife home.
Men in the house, how would you live with your wife after such humiliation?
What amused me was the type of men and youths that came out to embarrass and advised the man on how to govern his home.
Sorry no pictured is allowed when there is public beating in the community otherwise I risk 150 strokes and 200k fine.
File photo used for illustration
Give her the silent treatment na she go use her hand pack her loads dey go her papa house
SmartPolician: Rotimi Amaechi was the best governor Rivers State has had since 1999
He's still the best till date.
Wike just loot Rivers State dry in the name of Flyovers that's not solving anything. Very arrogant and greedy fellow. Nothing work for Rivers state under Wike except politics, politics, politics, Wike will demolish your properties if you don't support him, Suspended RSSDA, no good employment for youths, nothing was working. Now, when Sim eye don dey clear small, Wike noticed it and wanted to bring both eyes.
Una go just wake up one morning dey post rubbish. UK is a system just like Nigeria, if you don't want to hustle rather they look for white colour jobs. Na your body go tell you. There are lots of young Nigerians and Africans making it in the UK. If you come UK come jonz na you sabi. Understand the system no just jump into am and then come online dey talk rubbish.
Tabithatim: Scenes from the popular Michael Okpara Square as Ndi Enugu turned out en masse to celebrate two years of unprecedented development under Governor Peter Mbah
guobe: I think this is quite impressive as the Ghanian currency cedis is in hot pursuit of the dollar as 1 dollar is equivalent to 9 Ghana cedis. I also heard Yahoo boys are now flooding Ghana to bomb 💣 too.
treesun: Jane Edidiong Ufot, the daughter of Akwa Ibom Governor Umo Eno, has posted a video on social media accusing him of sacrificing his deceased wife (her mother). Patience Oluwakemi Umo Eno died in September 2024 over an undisclosed illness.
Mrs Ufot, appointed as a senior special adviser to the governor on health, safety and environment, blasted her father, insisting that she would not be sacrificed the way her mother was, alleging a sinister threat to her life and that of her little daughter.
“I’m not a sacrifice, mummy was, but I’m not,” thundered the governor’s daughter.
Mrs Ufot handed the phone to her little daughter, who appeared to be on a video call with Mr Eno. Mrs Ufot told her daughter to ask the governor whether he wanted to kill her (his grandchild).
“So, Grandpa, do you want them to kill us?” the minor asked, repeating the question as instructed. “Do you want them to die like my baby brother died?”
There was no audible response from the governor during the exchange, and it remains unclear who the child was referring to when she mentioned “them.”
Mrs Ufot said her life was on the line due to undisclosed revelations that may soon come to light.
“If I die today or my daughter dies. If we die because God is exposing the truth, so be it. But my blood will not go scot-free,” the governor’s daughter cried out.
Efforts to get the governor’s comment on his daughter’s accusations were unsuccessful as the line of his media aide, Ekerete Udoh, was switched off.
Abagun Kole Omololu, National Organising Secretary, Afenifere Sociocultural Group has said Afenifere believes that President Tinubu has shown remarkable political will to address the entrenched issues in Nigeria. While it's a long-term process, we expect the benefits of this administration to become apparent within a few years.
odoemelamemmanu: 2027 Presidency: South West Should Produce All Presidential Candidates, South East in 2031 – Lamido
The leader of Arewa Summit International, Dr. Bashir Lamido, has called for the South West to produce all presidential candidates for the 2027 elections, while advocating that the South East should take the same opportunity in 2031.
Speaking during a high-level political dialogue on zoning and national cohesion held in Abuja on Friday , Dr. Lamido emphasised that this rotational approach would promote unity, fairness, and long-term political stability across Nigeria.
“For the sake of equity, national integration, and the stability of our democracy, we believe the South West should present all presidential candidates in 2027. Then, come 2031, the South East – which has long awaited its turn – should be given the full platform to produce the next president,” Lamido stated.
Arewa Summit International, under Dr. Lamido’s leadership, has become a leading northern-based political think tank known for its pan-Nigerian vision and commitment to bridging regional divides.
He further stressed that the proposal is not about excluding any group, but rather about setting a national precedent for justice and inclusion.
“This is not just about politics. It’s about healing, trust-building, and showing every Nigerian that they belong to the same nation. People may ask, what about the north? It should be the turn of the north in 2031. They forget that the North has spent more years leading the country than any other region.
“It is just right to balance the leadership across the regions. We are only hoping that in 2031, the South East should be extended same national compliments as we are hopeful to do for South West in 2027.” he said.
They should allow Tinubu to finish his 8years so he won't say because he didn't complete 8years that's why he couldn't bring the desired change he promised. They should leave him same way they left Buhari for 8years. No be later person go dey use 4years as excuse.
shortgun: The divider of the Atlantic Ocean has collapsed the Nigerian economy with balablu policies
His mentees are always blind people that's why I don't blame them at all Jonathan is clueless, Jonathan is clueless now we have seen the real clueless one. All they keep surviving on is propaganda here and there.
allthingsgood: When it comes to Marriage, it’s common for men (and pretty much everyone) to mess up at some point. Whether it’s a lack of communication or a lapse in judgment, navigating a relationship requires a certain level of self-awareness. Here are some prevalent mistakes men make in marriage: 1. It is a woman's duty to love, it is a man's duty to provide A man who continuously shows affection, without anything concrete is just sitting on time bomb and wasting his time. If she is not already cheating, she will eventually leave u in frustration. Women are complex, they are to be chased before marriage. After marriage, allow her to do the chasing. Focus on providing and protecting, that is your job as a man.
2. Letting your appearance suffer When you first started dating her, you were probably extremely aware of how you looked, smelled, and presented yourself. But now? You walk around donning your dirty boxers upandan. Okay na, she will soon get tired and leave. A woman needs to see her husband as her god. So dont get too comfortable, or she will disconnect from you.
3. Take charge You are the lord. Allow your wife to have her say, but you must have your way. She will secretly love you even more. No woman likes an indecisive man. Be a problem solver, not weak slub.
4. Expecting your partner to be a mind-reader Bros, women arent prophets or psychics. Sometimes even if she has an idea what you mean, she just needs to hear the words. Dont just send money to your wife without giving specific instructions/information. You will have done nothing! Tell her exactly what you mean and what you want.
5. Avoiding conflict like the plague We get it, no one likes fighting. It’s stressful and just all around not a good time. But conflict is pretty much a given in any relationship, besides it’s how you handle it that matters. So if you find yourself leaving whenever an argument starts to brew or just nodding to appease your partner, you’re being avoidant. Your partner wants to know how you feel and you should want to know how they feel, too! Also sometimes, women like conflict for no apparent reason, they can be that ridiculous. But its there way of seeking attention.
6. Prepare for the rainy day Dont count on your wife to rescue you when things go bad, especially financially. You may be lucky that she does, but dont count on it. The only person who will probably accept you no matter what is your mother, so treat her well. You wife will begin to show signs when things get tough, and may eventually dump you. The biggest disaster is allow a woman become your breadwinner. My brother you are done for!
7. Your wife is not your best friend Bro get it together. She is your wife and partner, not your best friend. Forget mumu woke generation
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E get some Oluku wey dey call themselves men but na their wives dey operate their bank account, their pin and current account balance na their wives dey in charge.
Wakatumbit: I've made some previous posts about how my wife threatens me with leaving our marriage everytime we have small issues (I didn't post it with this account). She always threaten to leave anytime we have misunderstandings, not even only misunderstandings, even when we are having normal conversations and someone refers to maybe a bad marriage experience, she always says if it's her she will leave. I've spoken to her about it several times, I have even spoken to her family about the issue but it keeps repeating itself.
She has this kind of mentality that she can leave the marriage at any time I do something to her and she repeats it every time, the last one was during an outing when we had a misunderstanding, even before hearing my own side of the story, she said she already tired of the marriage and wants to leave, so I told her to go if she wants. The next morning, she came to wake me up and told me she doesn't want to do again that she wants to leave, she said she'll call her people and I should call my people. I said fine.
I told my family about it, and they supported me because a woman can't threaten me with marriage after one child.
Another thing my wife does is that she constantly compares me to other men, telling people I don't provide for my family, I don't take care of her, to the extent her friends are telling her that if a man doesn't provide for his woman, then he's pushing her out to meet other men.
In regards to the issue of providing, when we met, things were going very well, it was just the two of us and I had money at the time, I took her on vacation, booked flights for her, bought her hairs, a new phone and all. But now we have a child, added responsibilities, and money isn't as it used to be before but one thing I never do is to starve my family.
Last year I made close to 20m but I didn't see the money, not because I'm an extravagant spender but because of family expenses, I can't even explained what happened to the money aside the fact that I bought a car.
I opened a business for her with almost 3 million, the business crumbled, she doesn't want to do anything, she stays home all day just pressing phone. If I don't have any money at all she can't support me, she calls me for everything, even to as little as salt in the house.
She started comparing our marriage to when she was single, that she used to wear the lastest clothes and buy the lastest hair, and now she's married she doesn't get those things forgetting those where the thing I used to do for her when there was enough money.
This whole thing has made me tired of the marriage and I don't feel like continuing it any more, I've told her to call her people since she doesn't want to continue the marriage so they can return the bride price. I just want to focus on my life
You better leave that marriage before you go die for nothing. No need for long epistle, file for divorce and make arrangements on how to take care of your child. No dey there dey waste time till you kpai. The red flags are more than can be imagined.
CreativeOrbit: Let us confront a pressing question that many in power—timid elites, silent journalists, and so-called patriotic citizens—are avoiding:
When did a personal disagreement between two elected Senators transform into a federal case, with the full weight of the Nigerian government seemingly aimed at a sitting female Senator defending her life, integrity, and truth?
Since when did the Federal Government begin to prosecute personal vendettas on behalf of individual senators? Is this the mandate of the Federal Executive Council? Was it elected to settle private political grievances?
This matter is fundamentally legislative—a dispute between Senator Natasha Akpoti-Uduaghan and Senate President Godswill Akpabio. Both are colleagues in the same red chamber, both sworn to serve the nation under the same Constitution. Why, then, has the executive arm of government inserted itself, seemingly taking sides?
Why is the Federal Government suddenly acting as a political bodyguard for Senator Akpabio? Where is the impartiality expected of the state? Who authorized this deployment of legal and security institutions in what appears to be a one-sided defense?
Let’s be honest with ourselves: this is how institutions collapse—not through war, but through selective justice, politically motivated witch-hunts, and state-sponsored silence.
Is this why Senator Akpabio withdrew from the presidential panel? Was it to create space to pursue a personal agenda against Senator Natasha behind closed doors? If a Senate President is at the center of such serious allegations, shouldn’t he step aside from leadership entirely—at least pending a credible investigation?
Or did he exit the panel with one objective: to orchestrate a media narrative, complete with a suspiciously “cloned” voice note allegedly crafted by known propagandists? Was it all designed to manipulate public perception and cast Senator Natasha as a national threat?
If this isn’t a politically engineered ambush, then why does it appear that the state is targeting one senator while the other enjoys unfettered power?
They may cloak this campaign in the legal language of Penal Code Section 391 and stage it in courtrooms, but strip away the formalities and what remains? A vindictive assault on a woman who refused to apologize for telling the truth.
So, once again, we must ask: Who is the Federal Government truly fighting for—God, or Godswill?
Benue people, look at what you people voted for. People are being killed on a daily basis and this so called Rev Father is busy organising dinner party in honour of Tuface
Great100000: FULL LIST: Qualified EPL teams for 2025–26 Champions League, Europa League, Conference.
After an intense final day in the English Premier League, EPL, here’s how the dust settled with teams securing their places in European competitions for the 2025–26 season.
The 2024–25 EPL season concluded dramatically, with last-minute goals, stunning upsets, and emotional scenes across stadiums.
Now that the curtain has closed, the EPL final league standings and cup results have determined which English teams will fly the flag in Europe next season.
Champions League
Six Premier League teams will compete in the UEFA Champions League next season, with five qualifying via league positions and one securing a spot by winning a European trophy.
Liverpool – Arne Slot’s men capped off a spectacular campaign by lifting the Premier League trophy, finishing top of the table and booking a return to Europe’s elite competition.
Arsenal – Mikel Arteta’s side secured second place after a strong finish to the season.
Manchester City – Despite a turbulent season by their lofty standards, Pep Guardiola’s side beat Fulham on the final day to seal third place.
Chelsea – A turnaround in form under Enzo Maresca saw the Blues defeat Nottingham Forest to leap into fourth, sealing a Champions League return.
Newcastle United – Although they lost on the final day, the Magpies edged Aston Villa to fifth place thanks to a superior goal difference.
Tottenham Hotspur – Ange Postecoglou’s men triumphed in the UEFA Europa League final, and as a result, secured an automatic Champions League berth despite finishing outside the top five domestically.
Europa League
Crystal Palace – The Eagles stunned many by lifting the FA Cup, thereby securing a place in the Europa League. It marks a historic achievement for the South London club.
Aston Villa – After their Champions League campaign this season, Unai Emery’s side couldn’t repeat the feat domestically. They finished sixth in the league and will now aim to make a deep run in the Europa League.
Conference League
Nottingham Forest – A ‘questionably’ remarkable season for Forest ended as they clinched a place in the UEFA Conference League. They marked a return to European football even though what they would have wished for was a Champions League.
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