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Mac2016:
Sex is mostly destructive... But lady pls suicide is not an option especially cause of hell fire also cause of your innocent children. I bet you I can't take a woman as wife ever again also so don't blame your spouse. Although, I can date you if you are interested so that you won't commit
suicide and still feel loved and being cared for.

Who is this one again?
Abeg shift jor

Marbella003:
I took some of the advice from my previous thread and told my husband what happened. Here is the thread:

https://www.nairaland.com/5162191/cheated-husband-guy-work-dont

I was genuine shedding tears as I relayed my shameful experience to him. I apologized and begged for him to forgive me and I promised to never repeat such again. I thought he'd understand and forgive me. But I was wrong. My husband now wants a divorce. Actually, he has sent me and the kids out of his house. I have a daughter who is 4 and a son who is 2. My husband said he doesn't think he is the father. I assured him that he is and that he should get a DNA test to confirm. But he refused.

I rented a 2 bedroom flat somewhere close to my office. This is where I currently stay. Since leaving my husband's house I have only received a phone call from him where he stated the date that he and I were going to visit my parents who are currently in my village. He told me that if I wasn't going to come, he'd go alone and tell them what happened and why he decided to divorce me.

I feel like my life is over. I can't face my parents and tell them what I've done. It's very shameful. I can't even face my friends and relations. I feel like I'm drowning a pool of shame and despair. I can't imagine being a single mother at this age. I love my husband and I enjoyed our marriage. I can't imagine it all being over.

I called my colleague and told him everything. He said that I shouldn't hold him responsible for anything since our rendezvous was based on mutual consent. He said he doesn't want to have anything to with me and we should keep our relationship at work very platonic so as not to raise eyebrows of those who might link him to what happened with me.

I'm utterly hopeless. I feel like taking my life. I almost took this action yesterday but I pitied my children. But with every passing day I feel like suicide is the only way to end my pain. I wish I had listened to those people who advised me to keep what I did a secret. I wanted to, but every time I was with my husband I felt I was constantly betraying him by hiding the truth from him. I just want to die. I can't bare this pain anymore.

Please check ur mail

Marbella003:
I took some of the advice from my previous thread and told my husband what happened. Here is the thread:

https://www.nairaland.com/5162191/cheated-husband-guy-work-dont

I was genuine shedding tears as I relayed my shameful experience to him. I apologized and begged for him to forgive me and I promised to never repeat such again. I thought he'd understand and forgive me. But I was wrong. My husband now wants a divorce. Actually, he has sent me and the kids out of his house. I have a daughter who is 4 and a son who is 2. My husband said he doesn't think he is the father. I assured him that he is and that he should get a DNA test to confirm. But he refused.

I rented a 2 bedroom flat somewhere close to my office. This is where I currently stay. Since leaving my husband's house I have only received a phone call from him where he stated the date that he and I were going to visit my parents who are currently in my village. He told me that if I wasn't going to come, he'd go alone and tell them what happened and why he decided to divorce me.

I feel like my life is over. I can't face my parents and tell them what I've done. It's very shameful. I can't even face my friends and relations. I feel like I'm drowning a pool of shame and despair. I can't imagine being a single mother at this age. I love my husband and I enjoyed our marriage. I can't imagine it all being over.

I called my colleague and told him everything. He said that I shouldn't hold him responsible for anything since our rendezvous was based on mutual consent. He said he doesn't want to have anything to with me and we should keep our relationship at work very platonic so as not to raise eyebrows of those who might link him to what happened with me.

I'm utterly hopeless. I feel like taking my life. I almost took this action yesterday but I pitied my children. But with every passing day I feel like suicide is the only way to end my pain. I wish I had listened to those people who advised me to keep what I did a secret. I wanted to, but every time I was with my husband I felt I was constantly betraying him by hiding the truth from him. I just want to die. I can't bare this pain anymore.

Oh my God, Oh my God.
Maa'm please don't do anything stupid I beg you. Please think of your kids I beg you. This is not the end of the road. It's normal for your husband to react this way. It's expected of him. Things are very hot now but trust me as times goes, it will be cold. You did well by telling him the truth. You will have to give it time to heal please. Please forget about your colleague. Focus more on your kids, yourself and God. This is the time to ask God for mercy. God alone is the one that can restore back your home not any man. I can feel your pains. Please where are you located? I want to see you. Let's talk the pains out if you don't mind. E-hug my dear...

iTearHerToto:
The last time i saw a lady with Charmed ropes waist beads I thought it was my grandmother that reincarnated. Different mixtures of anyhow ropes tied all over her waist. At a time I thought it was my village people that sent her to come strike me. Toto no hungry me again through out that month

Please I'm not well I can't laff abeg

I have a thing for waist beads right from small. Right now I have 12 on my waist. Different colours and designs. I can't do without them. Oh you need to see them glow in the dark. Just the way I have a thing for tattoos, I also have for waist beads. Don't buy me wrist beads or chains just give me waist beads I love love. Oh yes it's not linked to charms.

ainas247:
Thank you, sis, God bless you.

Amen

ainas247:
If you read the OP very well he said No cure to the disease
base on what man said... try Jesus bro.

I have seen a case that worst than that of OP if you must know HIV.
After its we have no hope then Jesus stepped in and He made away.

So true bro.
I've heard and seen people with worst sicknesses. Jesus stepped in and they got healed permanently.

OlawaleBammie:
Good morning to you as well, stil in anticipation anyway.. thanks in advance.

Ok

OlawaleBammie:
i never knew u are stil awake thou, am nt expecting it tonight either, am just anticipating ur inspiring story at ur convenient tym, but make it earliest ma
am sorry for being rude anyway

Ok

[quote author=OlawaleBammie post=78511956]i never knew u are stil awake thou, am nt expecting it tonight either, am just anticipating ur inspiring story at ur convenient tym, but make it earliest ma
am sorry for being rude anyway[/quote



Yes I was listening to messages.
Oh common, you were not rude.
Good morning

OlawaleBammie:
do u mind

Not tonight

SageMK:
I can't believe it. After the drop kick I think the assailant was screaming “Help me! I need a Lamborghini!!”


Wow. What a polite way to ask for a car.

That request gat me
Shocked though

OlawaleBammie:
whao, there must be an inspiring story behind ur conversion, i dont knw if it can light up my dented faith.

Sure...

Theboss100:
U Mean Asin Afonja? Wow, Cone Head Thats Nice. Lol Maybe Ur Mum Is Ibo Woman.
Is That Ur Number? On Ur Siggy

Smile Yes

Benbelor:
We are on the same page, I just wanted to hear your views. But really they are many goods girls who arent virgins; same way they are badt girls who are virgins out there. Vamos!

It's well

Don't confuse the holy spirit with familiar spirit my dear

Theboss100:
Ur Location Is Saudi Arabia. U Speak Ibo Too. Pls Tell Me Something I Dnt Kw
Biko

I Am Not Igbo But I Just Like Them

I am confirm omo Yoruba but a lot of people call me Igbo lol

Theboss100:
I Dey Suspect U

It's OK to suspect

OlawaleBammie:
Ahh see u, litu faith ok oo, i tell u a b peter before?? even peter self sink in front of Jesus while walking on water, how much more me wey no waka with Jesus physically?
ahh, me no dey play gamble in d name of faith oo. afterall faith cometh by hearing, hearing thru the word if God himself.


btw, i tot u re Muslim...

It's well.
Yes before

Jesus Deputies will soon gather here

Theboss100:
Why Naa? Open One Then

I don't need it

OlawaleBammie:
amin oo, but God did not send us to hire an armless as a pilot oo, anyway, God is able but not wen sense is nt applied, armless piloting is like tempting God as i sees it thou.

Lol oh ye of little faith. It's well

Theboss100:
Let Av More Private Discussion On Facebook. U Wnt Regret It I Promise

Smile. I'm not on FB

OlawaleBammie:
u re right dou, its easier said dan done, but hearing dat ur pilot is armless is as equal as death sentence na

ahh, a never marry, never born pikin, na hin b say a never secure my immortality na, come hear midway tru d air dat my pilot is armless, habaa kuku slaughter me naa

Lol pissing on your body is allowed. Sweating is allowed, crying is allowed but above all, stay calm and commit it to God. The God who piloted the plane through mid way is able to complete the journey and land the plane successfully

JasonScoolari:
Dear God,

Is this another sign you're showing your favorite son Jason to avoid marriage?

Few minutes ago, I typed about my fears of getting married and some of my friends here encouraged me to cast out the fears in this thread;
https://www.nairaland.com/5194072/best-friend-impregnates-corpers-wife#78487484


NOW, here's another reason for me to be economical with my heart.


Now, the useless woman is dead, and the randy he-goat is accusing Ojukwu's wife of poisoning the promiscuous dog.

Arghhhhhh Jason stop it. I already told you what to do. Follow my instructions and thank me later. You as a person must honor God too.

OlawaleBammie:
ok, stay on board with dem oo, u no go say a no tell u but for me oo, byebye, awo looo

Be careful, many people has jumped into death where there was none

Theboss100:
Abeg Mention Those Women That Are Polling Down Stronghold And Will Go To Heaven? So That I Can Put All Of U In Ur Place In God's Order Of Things

It's well

Richmondofficia:
na die be that one o! Na me go fly the plane Las Las

Lol do you fly planes?

Benbelor:
What about good girls before marriage?

Sex before marriage is a sin. God will personally monitor this sin himself because our body is the temple of God we are meant to keep it holy

skukimania:
Ja pa!

Lol.

OlawaleBammie:
na to jump off tru d window na

Lol jump off even before death comes?
It's not wise o

[quote author=Theboss100 post=78496976]Is Fornication Not A Criteria To Go To Oblivion? Abi U Don 4get Rev. 21vs8? My Sister Think Abt The End And Be Sober. May God Help Us ALL. AMEN
HAVE A NICE DAY MA'AM[/quote



There's what is called Remission of Sins.
Sins committed before accepting Christ when confessed are forgiven. Such person will be welcomed in heaven.
You can't live in sin and expect God's grace to abound. Fornication is a sin that will prevent a person from going to heaven but the person confess and repents of it and then live a holy life, my dear the person will be welcomed in heaven.
Read and understand well bro.
God didn't say only virgins will go to heaven lol
Lot's of great women of God never married as a virgin yet today they are pulling down strongholds, they are moving mountains etc.
He is a merciful God...