₦airaland Forum

EngrMcDon:
I dont understand what she meant by "not anymore", is she saying that they were married before?

Enemyofpeace:
It's time for Nigerians to rice up against the Nigeria police

kestolove95:
Dix guy don dey fine pass some gehs sha

JasonScoolari:
Buhari prayer warrior? Lmfao! What the kunù guzzling drunkard need is a sound adviser and REST not a long bearded he-goat that tag himself "Prayer Warrior"

JasonScoolari:
I don’t owe any girl orgasm, once i cum i cum. We both started the same time.
I’ll leave the dick for you sha, if you like ride it, bend on it, jump on it, it’s your problem, hustle for your orgasm.

I can't come and kill myself because I want to go 2hrs on top of a pussy.

femmoy:
Luciferchristi ur presence is needed here

Duru009:
I THOUGHT THY SAID SHE IS PREGNANT

careytommy37:
Baby don't look him or the mother

kidap:
So Sunkanmi Bolanle is PA Aluwe son

kingemzy5:
Is shoes are dirty

DukeNija:
She has never posted his picture. Never ever posted his picture. Not even once. He has never posted her picture online.
You think this is normal? Your own wife? Then you are not a smart person. That woman has a game plan. She’s going to dump this man.

andyanders:
Now, why is she posting her own pictures on social media and even showing love to her friends on social media, inclusive of her parents and siblings?
Something is wrong somewhere. If she is the type that does not love showing off on social media, then her posting her pictures and that of her parents goes to show that she has a hidden agenda. Why show off herself on social media alone?

The husband is only trying to buy love with the gifts he is getting for her but from her attitude as said by op, she does not appreciate those things because her heart is for someone somewhere. It could be a married man someone outside. She could be buying time and one day, she will be off.

Pkingman:
HELP! My Wife Is Abnormal

Hello house, Pls I need mature advice on this issue.
I had to create this account as to remain anonymous.

I've been married for 2 years plus, with a son and expecting another.
The problem is that my wife is not proud of me, not proud to be associated with me and does not show excitement concerning me or gifts that I buy for her.. She is just too plain, too emotionless.

It started from our dating days.. We dated for a year plus.. She never wanted people to know about us. Always hiding me. As if the relationship was a secret. She never asked me for a pin.. I was happy she wasn't the demanding type.
When I proposed to her, I expected her to go over the moon, show excitement and flood social media with pictures.. But no way.
She was just mute and calm about it. She didn't even accept the idea of pre-wedding pictures when I suggested it.. Said it wasn't compulsory, she doesn't have time and energy for that..Few weeks later, she uploaded very beautiful studio pictures of herself alone in nice clothing, shoes, accessories on her facebook timeline without any caption about getting married or love.. Nothing about me at all.

Wedding came... She opted for a small quiet wedding.. Although we could afford a big wedding.. I was surprised.. So unfeminine... Women always prefer loud crowded weddings to show off.. She was supposed to be extremely excited as she was getting married esp at over 30 years when a woman is considered by societal standards to be hopeless and too old for marriage but no! She went about the whole festivities like nothing special was happening to her.

After the wedding, she didn't upload our wedding pictures on social media like normal women do. I then uploaded few pictures of us and tagged her. She immediately untagged herself and told me I could post whatever I wanted without necessarily tagging her.
Months after, she uploaded 2 pictures of herself alone in wedding gown and traditional attire.. None of mine till date.
She doesn't have any picture of me or us together on her facebook profile, she doesn't upload any picture of me or us on her whatsapp. It's always her picture alone or with our baby or her parents and siblings.
She hardly even takes pictures with me at social functions. She prefers personal pictures. Sometimes, she will even crop me out of her pictures and post only herself. She just keeps going on as if I don't exist. When I ask her why, she says she doesn't need to display me online to know she is married to me.
On my birthday, she didn't wish me HBD on any social media platform but she uploaded pictures of her 2 male colleagues at work(she is a medical doctor, a surgeon in training and planning to relocate abroad soon) and wished them HBD, wrote nice things about them.
Back home, all I got was a small get together, cake, drinks and gifts but I would have preferred to be acknowledged online as well. On her birthday, I dare not show her off or say anything on social media, she won't find it funny.. She prefers everything we do is private.
The part that breaks my heart is her attitude towards gifts.. When I met her, she was working, earning big, lived alone and had a car.I was happy she wasn't demanding or greedy... But I noticed if I buy her something, she just coldly thanks me and that's all. I am an Architect, working in a firm and also into private jobs.. I recently completed a project and was paid in millions.. I thought I should surprise my wife so I bought her a new car(an SUV).... She acted so plain.. Just said thank you and that was all.. Instead of displaying it all over social media platforms, write lovey dovey epistles about me and celebrate me like other women do.

By all standards, I am handsome, tall, dark, educated, nice guy, well to do, so why is she not proud to show me off?
Why does she not want me to show her off?

In all fairness, she has been a very nice partner so far but why this cold abnormal attitude ?This is not how women ought to behave.
I am getting tired already,i have discussed this with her but she doesn't wish to change.
What could be wrong with her?

Righteousness89:
There is No Big Deal in Death... The Big Deal is His Next Destination...

Our Life here is Nothing but a Rehearsal for Eternity which is the Main Deal..


IF Pastor Died Having JESUS CHRIST, He is Right now in Joyous Bliss and Happiness...

Let Those of Us Alive Do all we can to Have JESUS! HE is the only way to Life..

realoscar84:
This gay stuff never ceases to amaze wallahi. The mere thought of it usually irritates me. How can I mate with a fellow guy with strong body like myself? What happen to the succulents bodies of women? How can i be Kissing the rubbish mouth of my fello man? Whenever I'm watching a movie and later find out my favorite artiste in the story turned out to be gay, the way I will suddenly hate him eh? I used to like Jamal in the empire series but the way I later hate him and in Greenleaf I hated Kevin so much simply because he was gay. I just thank God how he made me. Because it's only men that are sick could like their fellow men.

Ebubeokoro:
What's this gay thing with yorubas?...pls bisi aluminum,bobrisky etc follow ur brother Davido to east and lash better puna...but bear in mind that puna for east is costly,not free like in the west

JBoss25:
wtf, so people are getting away with it in UAE?