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I love Chichi's response to Bella.

This Rachel is stupid sha.

mysticwarrior:
have you heard the woman's side of the story?

There's no side of story that's enough to be verbally abusive to someone.

If the marriage isn't working, there's always an out option.

mysticwarrior:
when the man is financially down the woman will insults and bring hell upon the man, a woman cannot try that with a man who has money.

E go surprise you. Didn't you see that OP provides everything?

Slimm01:
I swear, you nor lie. I remembered that Lokoja flood in 2012. I was also going to a wedding from Lagos to Abuja...and mehnn, the abc transport bus had to halt movement and all we passengers were ferried by canoe across to dry land on Abuja expressway. Some passengers were even carried on the back to cross over for N100 charge. Lol

Na cargo luxurious bus I finally even enter reach Abuja and na 10pm I reach house. For journey wey I leave Okene around 8 am o.

minks:
A good starting point would be the full implementation of the Child Right Act in all the states of the federation, including the Northern States, where child marriage is still practiced, even by serving legislators.

Them go gree?

There's no day I go to the hospital that I don't see these small small children carrying pregnancies. You won't need a soothsayer to tell you they are under 18 carrying iPhones and looking miserable. My sister saw one probably I her third trimester with a catheter. She never even enter labour, na gynae she come see.

Very fragile looking girl. The older looking husband was now holding her hand everywhere.

It is well o.

How do you make money first?

Cause you can't just be misusing money that you suffered to make.

FreeStuffsNG:
Were those you alleged to have been silenced from your friends or family circle because no single family complained of losing any loved one? So if they were, please accept my condolences, I can help you get compensation for them

Asinwin.

2023 no far again.

The voices of the youths were silenced with bullets at the Lekki toll gate so they've decided to use the only weapon they have in 2023, the ballot.

ayoncox:
You don't know nothing, when I say toilet infection I am talking about infection transferred through public toilet, use your number 6.

I'm trying to teach you something that you don't know, you're telling me to use my number 6. Go and ask a doctor about toilet infection and then come back and edit this post.

When the "mistake" tells you not to vote in another mistake.

Enskynelson:
Staphylococcus aureus can be contacted via the toilet and shared among partners.

Read about what Staphylococcus aureus is here.

https://en.m.wikipedia.org/wiki/Staphylococcus_aureus

ayoncox:
Via toilet infection

There's nothing like toilet infection.

I remember the flood I witnessed in lokoja in 2012. I went for a wedding in Okene, the road was clear when we passed on Friday, by Sunday on our way back, na canoe we use cross to where car dey after hours of trekking due to the gridlocked traffic that day.

First time ever entering a canoe in my life, they charged 100 naira to cross that day. Cars were being ferried by bigger boats.

It's not a thing to experience o.

Rubbiish:
What are u even saying @bold?
Because some persons have subjected themselves to some form of abuse doesn't make it right! U shouldn't be advising anyone to become immune to verbal abuse! That is wrong! Be it man, woman or child!

If someone can take verbal abuse, that's up to them.

If they can't, they can do something about it like I advised OP.

Rubbiish:
U people are just funny
How can someone be immune to constant verbal abuse? Can u be immune to repeated verbal abuse from your husband? Why are u advising someone to become immune to verbal abuse?

There are women who have also made themselves immune to verbal abuse from their spouse and that's not the only advice I gave him.

Ehinjuola:
That one has been cure by astimine or wetin dem dey call ham

Okay. You need a targeted spots removal and continuous management of the acne.

You can get ambi fade and clear cream, it's a spots treatment.

But then, get a face wash that contains salicylic acid to help keep blemishes away.

The always wear sunscreen, never leave the house without one.

Do you still have reoccurring acne?

IgweBUIKE1:
I am considering separation

You're well within your rights to seek a separation.

Depends.

Some organization require two weeks, some a month, some three months.

Could be depression due to heartbreak.

I've seen heartbreak make some ladies lose it.

First take her to a tertiary level hospital to be examined by a doctor, she'd be referred to a psychologist or a psychiatrist depending on her symptoms.

The trees even plenty pass the "crowd".

IgweBUIKE1:
just three weeks ago... She poured pepper inside my bathing water... Just because I refuse to fetch water for you... I pay for everything in the house down to matches...her own is Twitter from morning till night... Guess is where she is learning her bad attitude from

Ah!

E be like say you marry your enemy o.

Cause I am not understanding.

Like I said, separate from her. If she's teachable and willing to learn, marriage can continue, if not, if you don't have kids yet, you might want to consider an annulment o.

NoToPile:
Loool them plenty, I used to believe people like these didn't exist until my experience with a lady, a sister in church for that matter. This lady ehn never met someone like her at all. When my youth president said she was the one, I said hian, this was around 2017, meanwhile she has insulted me my own back then. I was always worried for bro C.

Last year October we started going back to my branch asked him how far about marriage nau, I asked if it was still sister T, he said no oo, that he just couldn't cope that she had issues with himself, everybody, youth having problem with choir, women, usher, every damn group in a big church, even the pastor sef. Very domineering, insultive etc etc. This same character issue. I was so happy for him at least he didn't make that mistake. Mature lady oo. He also told me that but she can pray ooo but that character ehn. I was looling.

He got married to another lady this August.

she had issues with practically everybody, some people are naturally troublesome or (and) wicked its your responsibility not to fall into that trap.

Thank God his eyes were open to see thee flaws and not marry a headache.

IgweBUIKE1:
my own was nothing... Just because I ate the food in the pot... Men I collect insult like ogun will kill me... The same food I provided for... Her excuse was that I wasn't suppose to eat the rice since we have other food in the house

Ah. Just like that?

Where una dey see these kind women marry?

Did they marry her for you or did you not notice this trait when you both were dating?

There are two things you can do, one is to become immune to her verbal abuse. If you can't, then ask for a separation to see if her head go reset.

But then, let me not assume she's just verbally abusive for no reason. What issue(s) always leads to these insults and abuses?

Beckham14:
You know whether he sell him BITCOIN recently?

Na so.

No be today Crime done dey him body.

Beckham14:
Lol, 1phone got me.


But even if it's an iPhone14 he's using, there's nothing wrong with that.

With which salary?

That one fit be 1Phone and not iPhone. What china cannot do does not exist.

Marriage wey go still scatter.

Moniya4Real:
Don’t know if this can be regarded as a viable evidence though: She was observed goin to meet the person she was alleged to be cheating with on a daily basis for like a week (alone in an entire building used for movie location) People we’re like, what could a married woman be doing alone with another married actor? It’s a serious one bro

Trail her there o.

Make sure you catch her red handed if indeed she's cheating.

Just make sure you have proof before confronting her.