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BigYash:
My daughter won't marry a slave or fool .. You're the biggest Zuor here. Ewhobi. Odewhe!

Turn your daughter to wife wey no fit talk to her husband.

Radarada.

BigYash:
Mugu.. I pray your sons turn slaves and errand boys to their wives..

I pray your daughters don't marry a man that they can't tell to buy bread on his way home.

Uduozuor.

Gloriagee:
Na today. Once shes's exposed she'll do the most worst.

Some no dey fit talk o.

Gloriagee:
Half of them never marry, the others dey practice slave trade say na marriage....

Na why many of them dey find women wey dey ten years younger than them so them fit turn her to house geh.

Harddiskng:
If this were to be your elder brother whom you love so much would this still be your reply?

Yes. If you go through my replies, you'd understand why I stand by my words to stay out of married people's business.

Before my brother got married and we were all loving together, there was nothing that could make him do chores cause according to him, he has sisters to do it.

Guess what, my sisters found him washing toilet in his house after he got married. They were shocked to see it.

They came home and gisted us.

Was I spos to tie wrapper and carry guns and bazooka to his house to tell his wife not to ever try it?

Is it not what works for his household?

Why I go leave my own house, dey poke nose for another person marriage.

As long as she wasn't disrespectful in her tone, a wife can send her husband.

Call am on him way from work tell am make e buy bread or plantain as e dey come back.

BigYash:
If I say thunder fire you now,you go say j insult u. Is sending the man errand not disrespectful? Imagine, where his sibling was,she was sending him errand. He go dey wash menstral pant ,wash plates for the woman be that na..

Thunder fire your entire generation and the clowns wey born you.

So na only woman them dey send on errand.

Your wife no fit call you te you make you buy bread as you dey come.

I say thunder fire the clowns that raised you.

Gloriagee:
There's nothing wrong with asking your husband to help you out with stuff. That's the whole essence of marriage. I would only be concerned if her tone was disrespectful. Now, if you have a problem with a disrespectful manner of approach being adopted when sending errands, remember that what is good for the goose is good for the gander and apply same when speaking to your wife in future.

I even added that as long as she's not disrespectful to the husband but to these men, it's an abomination for a woman to send her husband on her errand.

The Umunna must hear it.

manofeverything:
You are a very wise woman.
People should learn to mind their business. And let this be a lesson to ppl who open up their homes to secret haters who will rally to bring dysfunction to them & this is coming from a man who is a first son and has seen both nuclear & extended family for the hateful snakes they are.

In this mad world, your home is your safe space. Ppl on the streets carry so much pain and hold it in till they get home, then those that cry cry, those that drink drink & those that transfer aggression transfer it. Your home is the only place your inner man feels free. It is a sacred duty to make it your safe space. No matter what this world does to me, my home will be peaceful & full of light.

I still remember how many ppl said I was doing too much to fly my own woman to texas to have our kids with my own money. Because her family doesn’t have money like that, if not me who dash her america? My immediate younger brother was soooooo pissed when he found out she’ll be flying business class not economy. A heavily pregnant woman o. With swollen feet & body pains traveling to america alone and I should squeeze her and my child into economy. If something happens now, they’ll tell me sorry but secretly be happy. THUNDER!

Ppl dont see value in what doesn’t concern them. To them, that money I for share am. My children are not investments in their opinion. They think ppl’s life is their entertainment ground, that’s why they love instablog so much. Now they’re worrying about the future of Nigeria and all my kids are immune to the rubbish.

However this man’s brother’s home is, it’s probably peaceful. Ppl never complain of miserable wives. And most men do not understand the badluck a bitter woman brings. Running helter-skelter, always disorganized with a router in their house that gives off negative energy instead of wifi that they call a wife. Always squeezing face like shtt and they want everyone to be like them.

Then they’ll say you’re simping while praying for your demise so they can show your children hell but God pass them. Topics like this are just irritating. Sending good vibes to the brother. I hope he’s man enough to protect the peace of his home. Whatever works for a couple works for them. I’m sure the OP doesn’t even have a woman that is grateful for him & trying to scatter his brother’s well-planned life. It is well.

My dear, every marriage and every couple is different.

I know of one of my Daddies in his 50s, his wife doesn't know the cost of anything or what the market looks like cause she hates going to the market.

Till today, na daddy dey go market once a month to buy all they need even to blending pepper, tomatoes and tatashe in the market. Meat, fish, etc.

My own husband nko, if I ask him to go to the market for me, he will tell me "let's outsource the market runs" cause he hates going to the market. He'd rather drive me there, wait on the car till I'm done.

I no dey put mouth for married couple life o.

Jerrick:
I don’t believe though buh if true, things truly dey occur

I swear. This na my hard man brother. Man done marry soft.

Ikpongiton:
if it is happening to your own brother, you will not stay away from that same married people business.

It is not my business.

I don't care for how my brother runs his home.

I'm busy with mine.

Josephkabila12:
You mean disrespectful. So what do you call this " go check the provision woman" like errand boy

So it's not "disrespectful" if he's the one that sends the wife.

Abi?

See, you can't judge what respect is base on what you think it is.

Jerrick:
Yes it’s their business and he should stay out of their business. But hey! If sending a man an errand like that is not disrespectful then you don’t know what respect is

Let me give you a gist about my own brother.

When we were all.living together, my brother refused to do any house chores. He'd say he can't have sisters at home and be doing chores.

Guess what?

Mans got married and one day, my sisters went to visit him, they met my brother washing toilet. Shock catch them.

They came home and gave us there gist.

My mum and I rolled with laughter ehn.

Midas01:
Jesus did that really happen Lmao

Yes. It did.

Omihanifa:
E be like say EME record label don broke see the office sef

I very much doubt that they are broke.

SoftChordz:
I glance at it while skipped channels.

Toh. If you don't watch it, you won't understand why others watch it.

SoftChordz:
Wow how many pages... I'm amazed this number of people take this programme this serious. A programme with no reasonable content... Pheew

You don't watch the show?

Order that they won't follow.

essienasuquo:
....what if i quote 10k and price changes in few days.which is what we have been experiencing for the past few months?.it's better you call and find out the current price,thank you.

Nope. If price changes, you edit the price and state that price has changed.

You should take a survey, you'd see many of your customers would rather you state the price than to reach you for the price.

The reason I hate to reach out is cause these sellers will have your contact and start spamming you with messages or adverts.

Then some sellers quote different prices for different buyers according to what they think the person is worth.

I've NEVER bought anything from anyone who do "DM for price" and I'm an ardent online shopper.

Price change is inevitable but you can also update pricelist as prices change.

Na advice I dey give you o, you fit take am or leave am, no be quarrel.

I'm interested in buying one, knowing the price won't hurt, if I can't afford it now, I can work hard towards making up the money.

But if you insist on this business model, I wish you well o.

imagrg:
Is this law applicable in the North?

I'm asking because one 62 years old Alhaji is keeping a 15 years old girl in the house as wife right now.

If he's in the north, Sharia law shields pedophiles.

A house divided against itself.

macho44:
This your advice no follow at all!
No wonder cases of Paternity Fraud dey on the rise.

If you know me on this forum, I don't encourage premarital sex so miss me on that BS.

Nemesis0147:
will you be comfortable seeing your elder brother in such situation?
Let’s be logical and unsentimental when contributing to issues like this please.

Have a nice day XX

What is my business with how my brother chooses to be with his wife?

If I'm happy in my own house, why I go dey pokenose for matter wey them no call me?

SocialJustice:
You have very pretty skin, it even spills into your finger nails.

Thank you.

madridguy:
As if you will be cool seeing your son roaming about for a woman.

What goes on in my son's house will be non of my business as long as he is happy.

Reminds me of the lady who said her MIL walked in on her husband giving her head and went and called village meeting that she has spoiled her son and that's not how she raised him.

People should learn to mind their business.

anonimi:
Nice and wise comment, but how you want take see your husband for front if you dey cover face for picture?

I done see my own husband o.

Coolguy34:
you talk true

EOD.

StilmaVsBorn2w:
This is so embarrassing to say, I would never advise a man to be so sluggish in life. It pains my heart having to experience this several times but since he is an elderly bro that senior me very far I can't put my mouth in his family affair because of this.
I went to visit my brother yesterday was surprised while we were sitted in the parlour... the wife told his husband to go check if the woman selling provision is back. This wasn't the first time, my brother stood up and went..I was looking at her the whole time, she was looking at me..the anger was so deep but theys nothing I can do.
They are different instances I can give but no need for that...All I just want to say it's not good to be that calm type of guy.

Nlfpmod

Stay out of their business. If your brother ever complains to you that his wife treats him badly and he's not happy, then you can give him advice.

If not, stay out of married people's business.

As long as she's not disrespectful to the man, stay out of their business.


Them go soon settle their issue turn am for your head.

Coolguy34:
no be my post ooo
I just comment as I see the way you enter the guy wea needs advice

Okay.

No vex.

But I lie?

Coolguy34:
calm down nau, no be fight na
Fine girl

I just say make I tell you true ni.

If your girl knows things like that happen in your mini brothel, I'm not surprised she has decided she doesn't want to be part of it anymore.

Sex is sacred and should only be had within the confines of marriage.

If you wish to fornicate, at least, recognize it's sacred and be respectful to each other about it.

Any girl with self respect won't keep sleeping with a guy whose house is a makeshift brothel.

You are immature and your friends are too.

Birds of a feather, stick together.

This should be between River park and Dunamis, e get some small bush around there.

Died because of a community prick.