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rumenase:
I sorry for the simp wey go end up with you.

I sorry for the slave wey go marry you.

Mention me again and thunder will fire you archaic and retarded brain.

rumenase:
evil lady

Monster of a man.

Side chic isonu, no e only "nice to meet you".

No send am back o, we dey find how to decongest the country as we dey so.

trutht828:
That's what peeps like you say. Let's wait until your son gets married to a controlling wifd. Then we'll see where you truly stand

May God keep us all.

Kelvin581:
so how will I follow this...I ask her the reason he ask she said nothing....

She has already gotten her answer.

Mark is just living the soft life.

Exceed15:
Was that the case?

Nope. Any body can send anybody when you're married. Abeg, help me go market, abeg buy bread when you dey come, abeg help me bring my phone from parlor.

There's no big deal in it. If you both of have pretend cause there are visitors, then your marriage ain't healthy.

Anyone who can't take or stand the way you run your home should go and baff and hug transformer.

Kelvin581:
no for now...

Well, maybe there someone else who is ready to marry her and she's checking to see if you'd be hurt.

Prepare yourself sha.

Babe is ready to marry and you're not.

Any married person, man or woman who guards their phone from their spouse has skeletons in the cupboard.

Kelvin581:
she iss my gf ..don't get u

Are you ready to marry her?

Are you ready to marry her?

If she's your sister, what advice will you give her?

potland:
are you a feminist?

God forbid.

Kollins11:
Even you sef is shocked on how stupid your gender could be.

E shock you? Shockn't it?

Nope I'm not shocked.

Many women have stayed with abusive men because of material gains.

After he kill her, na that car them go bury her.

You done do the work wey God send you.

If she likes, she should do better with her hygiene, if not, na she sabi.

Exceed15:
If it was true she asked her husband to do that in the presence of his younger brother.. bro it is disrespectful.

So is it also disrespectful if he sends his wife in the presence of her younger sibling?

Revolution2022:
as long as na woman you be na lie you dey talk.you go confront your son wife.maybe na so you dey do men sef.domineering

The holy spirit that you are.

worksmart:
It could be considered disrespectful for her to make such a request unless there is a very good reason why she couldn't do such errand herself. e.g. It's urgent and she is tied up doing a very essential or important task that she couldn't abandon.

No one knows their arrangement prior to when mr. Amebo came.

It's best to just stay off married people's business.

Fearyourcreator:
Forget you no fit gree ... Na wetin i know well...

You sabi me pass myself?

benqo01:
You contradicted yourself the truth is you just wrote rubbish,Do you know that sending her husband on an errand is a sign of disrespect

Just cause you think it's disrespectful, does it mean the husband sees it as disrespect?

To some men, it's disrespectful for their wives to touch their beard, to some, they keep their beards for their wife to touch.

Do you get my point.

reddingtonblack:
I doubt if you read what i wrote, maybe the my english is not legible enough

If you don't under my previous comment there is no way we can move forward.

I believe in friendship and patnership ..however i staunchly maintain whatever private arrangement i have with my babe must stay private ... don't ask me have you wash the tiolet/bathroom in front of friends/family or neighbour.

Married or not a real man should know what he wants and above all be the one charge, i can discern when why woman needs around the house, sometimes i do house chores buh thats on my own accord not on her command.

I am an africa man, proud of my heritage abeg

It shouldn't be anyone's business what your arrangements with your woman is.

You should own it and not be ashamed of it. If you're ashamed of it, maybe you shouldn't agree to such terms.

I so rest sir.

OSUigboFlatHead:
Don't be cynical.
There's no big deal in couples running errands for eachother, but the way op described this situation, it was rude. Sending him such errand in the presence of his brother.
You wouldn't tolerate that if it were you ..

Is it not possible that what OP thinks to be rude might not be rude to the husband?

In comment, I said "as long as she's not disrespectful".

2elliot:
How about when you see your husband's family members continuously disrespect your him in your presence. Do you also maintain "not my business"?

Na that one be the biggest "it's not my business". Let him sort it out with his family members of he feels disrespected. My business is with him, not his family.

Elsueno:
No, dat kind of errand is very disrespectful, even if d husband no mind, she should be smart enough to know dat, Haba
In front of his little bros too, this ain't cool at all

See ehn, the hubby might not see it as anything but na the younger brother carry am for head.

Marriage na between two people, if the man thinks it's disrespectful to hm, I believe he'd sort it out with his wife.

E get why I dey say make people dey mind their business.

2elliot:
It is disrespectful if she was engaged with a quest especially an adult sibling. Such show of power in the disguise called love is wrong. Excuse the person and discuss it in private.

I still maintain that you can't judge based on what you think respect is.

BigYash:
Ozuor just listen to yourself. Slaves dey live happy life?

Wetin you see as slavery na peace of mind to some people.

And na peace of mind matter pass for this life.

So run your barracks make other people run their civil home.

Adios master.

macho44:
Based On Who You Be

Exactly.

reddingtonblack:
Calling a man to buying bread on his way home is not the same as giving a tray of beans to pick in front of his friends ... get the fuss right,
When we are alone anything goes but when 3rd party or visitors are around i don't expect my woman to tell me to go n check beans on fire ... this is naija, americans are living the only lifestyle they know, our story is different.

Ah. So what if the guy carries the tray of beans to pick in front of his friends?

Or he decides to help his wife cut vegetables while she's cooking for his friends, there's nothing wrong with that one cause she's not "sending him on an errand" abi?

Even in this same naija, I've seen very very unconventional happy marriages.

What is killing us in this country is thinking same rule works for everyone.

I've seen a home where a woman is the bread winner and she's humble and you'd never know. I've seen a home where the man goes to the market cause his wife hates it.

I've seen a home where the man washes and irons both his clothes and his wife's cause she hates laundry.

I've seen a marriage where the mother cannot cook, the father does the cooking while the mother goes to the market. This people are now grand parents.

This same "respect" wey una dey drag, e dey some marriage wey scatter las las.

If I marry man wey be my friend, why I no go fit send am, why e no go fit send me, e get wetin I no go fit do for am, e get wetin e no spos fit do for me?

A lot of men saying nonsense here are not married.

Ten years from now, many of them go dey there second or third marriage.

No be dictatorship, na partnership.

BigYash:
Still better than your sons that are slaves to their wives.. Errand boys in their homes. Ozuor giving birth to Ozuors is not a surprising thing anyways.

The go still happy pass your own children.

macho44:
Who you be ?

I be who I be.

noble2faith:
Stop dodging simple question. People like you can use words of mouth to drive truck but when asked to put it in practice, you will not be able to do so.

He asked you a very simple question, a yes or no question to be precise, and you answered the question socratically.

Lemme rephrase the question: if you just pay your brother a visit and you witness what the OP witness, how will you feel?

Please, be sincere.

Like I said, I won't feel nada, zilch, nothing. Cause respect to me is not by "not sending husband on errand".

It's crazy what you people call respect.

See no go affect me o.

No be my same brother wey dey wash toilet for him house after e marry? Guy wey no gree dey do house chores for him family house before e marry.

Respect is different to me.