₦airaland Forum

plappville:
To pick the pride u will have to travel all over the world oooo.
Point of correction, i never said that only Nigeria men are involved in beating wife, sure it's a world wide thing, but it's too frequent with some of our Nigeria men, if we see bad thing happening in our land, we had better try to condem it than to praise and make this men feel they are not the only men involved in this act. I know that in Nigeria a man can beat his wife without fear or favour, nothing will happen, but in the europe, like here in France where i live, u dare not beat ur wife except u want to go to jail and pay ur wife some sum of money. I think there could be more beatting wife thing here than in Niger if not for the law, Maybe Nigeria should try and apply a law against wife beaters

Most of the law makers are wife punchers .

You're now talking what i wanted to hear.

benincitys:
50% of Nigerian men are very good in punching their women, i have be in this situation before my ex almost Punch me to death when i was 3mouths pregnant for him.
in the end i lost the baby, thank God i left him if not maybe i will be death by now the fool still call me to tell me how much he miss me ever when he know i am marry with baby and all.
he is in Spain jobless and hopless one time he was asking me for money what a fool , so sister leave this man alone before is too late stay far away from these types of men
they can Punch you to death , balling him out is very wrong he will come home and beat you up again and again till he kill you a husband who beat his wife is not a men.

80% of German men are treating their women like shit according to a study by the German Institute of women affairs. Now that's a bigger margin.

You dated a low life.

benincitys:
be happy i said 50 % i know another Nigerian girl who lost her baby on the same case , in her case it was worst because she was 7months pregnant, so brother is not my bad luck that bring him to me,  is it not the same nigerian man  who  kill his wife for #40, another kill his wife for leaving him,
i was not marry to the idiot dating uncountable men is not my thing i am not  blaming all Nigerian men my father is a Nigeria i have 3brothers who are Nigerians too, my father is marry to my mother for 30 year  he never
punch my mother  ,  i m marry to my husband for 4year he never punch me, that your prayer will not come near me in Jesus name .

Wife beating is not a Nigerian thing alone. It's a thing happening all over th world. Spain gets almost 80 deaths per year stemming from domestic violence and please tell the number in your dear Germany before i go look that out.

Germany | 21.09.2004 | 14:00 UTC
German Women Often Victims of Domestic Violence

Every fourth woman in Germany has been sexually or physically assaulted by her partner, according to a government-sponsored study released Tuesday. Women who were planning to leave their partners were more likely to suffer abuse, according to German Family Minister Renate Schmidt. German women with Eastern European or Turkish parents or grandparents were among the most affected by violence, according to the study. Around half of the immigrant women said they had experienced sexual or physical violence at the hands of their partners. Germany's Integration Commissioner said the country needed to expand violence prevention services for immigrant women. The Women's Research Center at the University of Bielefeld surveyed 10,000 women between the ages of 16 and 85.

Source: Deutsche welle: http://www.dw-world.de/dw/article/0,,1334950,00.html

Will i say that all German men are wife beaters?

plappville:
Justgood, I don't thing benincity said anything wrong, she spoke out of experience, it is true that mejority of Nigeria men are good in using their hands in nothing but to hit their wife, how dare a man who cannot even surport in feeding his family have the gots to beat a woman that feed both him and his child?? Is it because she is white nonsence indeed, that is the last thing i would tolerate from a man.

95 persent of Nigeria men here in the europe are lossing their pride because of these beating thing, most Nigerian girls do not fancy dating them anymore, as some of them only know how to beg their wife or girlfriend for money and even beat them. If they don't wake up and live in the current world they will be left behind with shame, I know one Nigeria refugy that came to France and dated one white girl, when the girl got pregnant she dicided to abort the baby and the boy needed the baby to ve a regular situation as the law demands. so the girl removed the baby and the boy beat her up like sheet, she was rushed to the hospital immediatly and the boy was jailed. The bad blood still dey run for some of their body.

Do you even know what percentage is? 95 staggering percent of Naija men are losing their pride? Tell me where they lost that pride and i will go and pick them up, remove sand and hand them back to Naija men.

This shit is all over the world and not just a Naija thing.

JustGood:
If you only find yourself with those kind of men, it's because you also belong in their category. You can't speak about the majority of Nigerian men. You can only speak about the majority of men you are attracted to. Most of my friends have never had such problems and the girls I know in Europe are not likely to fall for such irresponsible men. They date Nigerian men without dating the idiots. If you decide to date and marry idiots because they have impressed you with their smoking habits, gangster lifestyles, worn out jeans, knee high jeans and their blings, you should not think that majority of men are like that.

You are in France as well. How many educated Nigerian men will go to France? Not a lot. . . so you are talking about all those who could not make anything and are probably hemp smokers in Nigeria. These are not real men by my own standards in Nigerian terms because I did not grow up seeing such riff raffs and I don't rate such them - men or women.
If a woman is always with such men, it shows that she is just like them.

I am with you that not all Naija men are into wife battering, but your point that only the un-educated ones do it holds no water. I'll blame ignorance on your part for that. Domestic violence knows no class or race. It's just like telling me that there is no educated criminals. LoL

What made you think educated Nigerians will not go to France? Are you ok dude? Where are you based? let me tell you why most people do not go there. People have choices when it comes to where to live and study. And some people like challenges that new languages bring and not cowards that hide under English language in English speaking countries, Making them believe they are educated and are staying in the right place.

So when people smoke Hemp they become Riff Raffs? You are a complete joke.

otele:
romanusu nwa spain, gini ka otele mere gi. esoghi m toshwoman achuga ice. soo no worry otele awughi ur rival. inugo? and yeeees, otele likiri gossip and threadia wu thread gossip di legal

by the way, romanus, is it true that u love prostitutes? agutara m ya na threadia. and i've read it in another thread too,
clarify. fast.

Hhahhahahhahahaha ohhh Lawd! Anywayz who will do the monumental job of keeping the married men entertained if not the prostitutes?

outlaws:
To:Romeo:Dumb idiot:
I didn’t say anything about white marriage. I don’t call it that. I don’t know why you call it white marriage. Do you have something against White people? If you do. That’s good
But that’s the point idiot. Look at this fool wanting to show me the difference between Ibo and Igbo. Savanaha, the fat ass bitch even agreed with him without stop thinking with
Her fat ass. Romeo let me teach you Ibo and Igbo lesson 101. Ibo means the people of Ibo land like in Imo Onitsha Anambra Enugu and states like that. Igbo is the language spoken by Ibos.
Get it dumb Zap.e.r.? Normally I would charge you for this lesson that every 1yr old Naija should have known but because you and Savanaha are dumb Zap.e.r.s I am going to let you have the lesson for free. And Savanaha you want some one to pay your birth price for your parents bringing you up very well without teaching you the difference between Ibo and Igbo. That’s a bag of rice out of your auctioning list when ever that happens.


Any ways people of Ibo, Hausa, and Yoruba [maybe White people too] that’s pretty much what nairaland means without White people though. The issue is Nigerians are known for their world class talent known as 419, is it okay for your tradition to continue to support it?

Ifere megbue gi anuofia!! onye gwara gi na Ibo bu ihe ejiri mara ndi Igbo? Ibo is a corrupt pronounciation of Igbo and i do not know where kids like you came about that ibo thing. How dare you teach me about Igbo people? I was born and raised in Enugu. I can write perfect Igbo and i can speak in many igbo dialects. What about you? Do you speak igbo?

Shut the hell up and listen to advice here. Traditional marriage is not crap but your brain is. Damn it!!

*Hauwa*:
romeo, na today you dey write ya own? christmas finished at 12midnight

Na when person wake person morning dey start Happy Christmas Hauwa

Buy one carton of Lux soap and let Rosy Palms and her 5 siblings(fingers) help you

Special Xmas greetings to my people!!

Agaba123456
Toshmann Crown prince of umumkpi
Ikomi
otele
Ifyalways Happy everything (even Febuary thing )
Presido
Nnenneigbo
Tpia
Osisi
ChinenyeN
Onyinye
Darfur
Elos

And many more friends and foes i can not remember right away, , Happy Xmas to all

otokx:
Some areas in Nigeria especially east of the Niger are notorious for extorting money from would be suitors in the name of marriage. Your bros for do in homework well well

You are Mad!! Fu cking bigot. Do you have a wife from East of the Niger? Doing homework is forgetting the girl you love because of money issues? Grow up dude.


@Outlawed anything Traditional hater

Why don't you change your Naija name or anything else linked to our traditional society? I can't believe that at 29 you can not reason like one. White wedding my ass! are you white?

Marriage is not a must and if you don't want to pay bride price go to the court. Ibo Ibo Ibo!! It's IGBO  and not Ibo.

Nnenne m!! Biko ano m na Enugu, I noo na ala igbo? hahahahaa presido ga enwekwa heart attack

Biko kedu ihe mere na anyi adighi afu eyes ebea? uche m di ya.

Please biko porfavor loghachi azu ohh nnenne anyi nile

Nnenne onweghi onye nwere ike inye m udi nsogbu inyere m na threadia

nnenneigbo:
Romeom, kedu? ahuru m na certain people nna e nye gi nsogbu ebea. Atupurukwala ha onu. Having said that. amam na i ga e facewu ha one by one lol.

@Ify, how have you been? ahurum na iheoma mere gi recently? LOVELY. Thought i'd pop in and say hello to all of you.

Presido, m na ekwuru gi every day, isi na awasim.

ka emesia!

Esto no es posible!! Mi amor Nnenne!!

nanano:
If west africans knew how habeshas think and[b] how much priority they have in european society[/b], they would not even consider
talking to them.

Can you explain the bolded part?

sartorius:
akwa ibom is in the south eastern part of nigeria

Where they truly belong

edoyad:
Dude are you drugs ?

Just because Barca go round demolishing la liga teams with those mediocres doesn't make them better than EPL strikers. Why couldn't they knock Mancs out of last seasons ECL ?

Must I respond every post in Nairaland? NOOO!!!

Uche2005:
romea(Romeo) you can't be igbo. No true son of igbo land would kill against igbo presidency agenda. don't you know if we are able to kick the yoruba out with our only son senator Ike in charge in the process, Ike may end up president after Yar Adua.

You are stupid. you don't know politics. You are really stupid. have you look at the merit involve. Look if we help Yar Adua to remove the igbeti igbeti people the north have no choice then trade with the igbo. And we would have more oil for ourself . How many igbo men are in the oil business tell me.

We would take over the oil business when we remove the yorubas from Nigeria. Oma ra what I am saying.

If Zik have been wise like wise and he support belewa to put the Yoruba out. where do you think all the develop would be. idiot, it would be in Obodo. You are really stupid. Stupid guy.  How can you claim you are an igbo guy. Idiot or you idiot have marry one of the igbeti igbeti people.

The above highlighted texts are beyond my comprehension!!

You just tookthe position of the dumbest Nairalander ever. Keep it up.

Uche2005:
Tpia, shut up. you stupid yoruba woman, we the igbos love hausa people and I am speaking on behalf of igbo worldwide and internation and continental, we the igbos love this map.

This map would allow us igbos to be president after Yar adu leaves office, So what are you talking about. Without the yorubas in the equate our people can be president. You stupid yoruba woman.

Cut the igbati igbati people from nigeria.

We the Igbos really love our Yoruba, Hausa, Efik, Ijaw, Uhrobo, Bini, Nupe, Fulani, (even that Gamine own going extinct, Uneme!!) Brothers

Igbo President or not, The day our people(Nigeria) will have steady power, enough food on the table, portable water from tap, good roads and adequate health care is the day tribalism and hate will diminish.

otele:
tufia
tufia, tufiakwa   aru, onye mebiri threadia

ihe a wu nso aruu . . . .

geenunti, romeo na chika, unu bukwanu umunne at the end of the day. threadia wu holy ground. ihe na eme ebe a wu, onye kpasuo gi iwe, gi agwa ya na omere gi ihe ojooo. onye ahu continue na akpasugi iwe, gi agwa umunna ka umunna mee something. 

@chika na romeo
achoghi m ima onye di at foult taa. ihe m ga ekwu wu, nke merenu emeela, owuzi ozo emela

unu biko mee peace. oge m biara ohuru, emere m ihe ojoo even though owughi na threadia, ometara ndi no na threadia, ma ify, ma nnenneigbo, mana ify gbaghara m, chefuo ya, since then ify na mu buzi one in the spirit, i.e tupu presido atuwa ya ime.
please please please biko, ejooo, abeg, meenu udo, esezina. anyi hukwara n unu abuo n'anya and romeo, jiri nwayo. biko, chika jiri nwayo. biko biko bikooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooo

Mu na mmadu adighi ese okwu ebea Mana kosi na we di, ihe ikwuru bu ezigbo ihe.

@Icy He wanted peace inside here. But because Otele loves gossiping it took him long to say "let there be peace"

~icecold~~:
"presido


like d sound of that
just tell me when u are ready
and lets go private

Ice please pleaseeeeeee don't fall prey to this boys antics You'll be pregnant lady Number 3.

Que chica mas guapa!!

i_laugh:
some Nigerians deserve nothing but stone as breakfast, lunch and dinner - in summary, they deserve nothing good in life, because if you give them anything good, they will curse you in return, so why bother?

Lagos state needs money!! Way too many of it. And 5 days without collecting returns from BRT is not good bizness. Why not 25th and 1st? at least for a stipulated number of hours. Damn it.

deor03:
, Well I think, if they have met their projected profit margin for the year, this act of goodwill is NOT too much for Lagosians.

Besides, how many people will be on the road this festive season?

What  about "profit above predictions". Shouldn't that be a good thing? or must we waste money that should've been spent on other things to buy fame. BRT fares are cheap and the impact will not be felt by the commuters but in the other hand Lagos revenue will incure a huge loss.

bracelet:
@romeo

Nigerians are so used to suffering that any act of thoughtfulness is misunderstood.

Warped mentality.
Revenue my foot

Can you elaborate more?

Is the man Fame crazy? 5 days of less revenue for Lagos state all for him to show off.

hahaha @IfyP

Life changes my friend and may the good things continue coming your way all your life.

ifyalways:
O gini na eme ebea
which kain rubbish bu ihea?
Onye O bula mara na o di allergic to any and all types of joke,biko ya kwusi ibia nga ako onu ka ndi na ere ose na ahia Ochanja Onitsha.
Onye obula kwanyere onwe ya ugwu hia oooo ma ndi na ako akukuo na bekee sotay Ozu can beer dika Bigmodo biara nwe onu na threadia
Here its for fun,everyone trying to join us should please read through some pages back,see how we have fun in our own way and decide if he/she can sail with us else biko remain a reader.onye e butekwala katakata hia.
Icecold,don't get discouraged jare.All my brothers hia are good and rich men except Presido/Fromuk.Hes an iRresponsible father of 4 from 2 different women and . . . . .still counting.
@mmadu nile,Jah di egwu to me.Tata ka m gbara afo Iri abou na ano na elu uwa nke
seen alot,done alot,experienced alot,laughed alot,cried alot but all in all,Jehovah has been good to me.
Unu soro m too Jah.
@agaba,i mere ozo?o gbara oso?teheheheee,laters
erhm rice and stew di very plentiful na Arogod

Yes Aunty

But Nne i na aka zikwa nka Happy birthday IfyP, hahaa and many more kids and years

Stay out of it. But let her know that it will destroy her marriage if she keeps that secret from him, Talk to her like a friend and make her see reasons. Good men are scarce to get but very easy to lose.

Which Nigerian girl would want to lose a guy that took her overseas for her wedding shopping? None!! She has insecurity but telling the truth will make her a stronger woman in life.

~icecold~~:
people it tot we were all havin fun here
but i have been seeing insults flyin all over d place
abeg u guys shld stop it

Yes ohh! But one girl was jealous that you stole our hearts

GettysBurg:
So then Romeo, what point are you trying to make ?

I thought you confined the religious institutions and ministers to irrelevance as far as university education is concerned.

At least, you said they should be confined to theological institutions.

So, what exactly is your line of thought?  Well, the issue here is about whether or not one would vote for the Pastor.

My take here is, people that have excelled in their chosen fields should be in the shortlist.  Then, applying other criteria, we can  exclude even more from such list.
I don't see why a man listed as one of the top 50 world influencers in a noted magazine, shouldn't be considered for high office(except he is alredy bigger than the office).

What's your take here?

Universities can be started by the churches but the professionals should be allowed to Run them like normal institutions without Soldier-like restrictions. They can monitor school activities without stepping on individual rights of students under the guise of maintaining morality.

I do not need newsweek to tell me who is going to rule my country. Dangote can as well be the leader because he's successful. Forbes listed him too!!

We have millions of Soludos, Okonjos and Co. walking the streets of Nigeria as unknowns. Why do we like to look up to people with dubious characters and wealth to lead us?

Kobojunkie:
Little minds resort to throwing insults when cornered!!

Can you at least make a meaningful contribution without throwing cheap shots?

chika98:
I have told you to have a good day. Now do just that and buzz off!

If somebody is going to buzz off here it's going to be you, useless akwuna.

GettysBurg:
I didn't know i was that dumb. Probably the fault of one British Alma Mata.

On a more serious note, it will be nice if you check out the Origins of ALL the IVY LEAGUES.  You probably never knew that Harvard, Princeton, Yale, Cornell, Dartmouth, Pennsylvania, Columbia and Brown all had their founders as Gospel Ministers, or had deep church affiliations.

Let's ride:

Harvard -         founded by the Rev. John Harvard, 1636.
Yale-                founded by colonial clergy men, 1701
Dartmouth-      founded by Reverend Eleazar Wheelock, a Congregational minister, 1769
Brown-             A purely Baptist University, founded in 1762
Columbia-        With Anglican affiliations, 1754
Pennsylvania - First provost was Rev William Smith
Princeton -       with pure Presbyterian roots.

Same goes with Cambridge and Oxford.

And these are the worlds best and most prestigious university. In fact, the 5 of the 8 ivy leagues, had strong puritan(like deeper life today) beginnings. They started as either theological colleges or colleges led by gospel ministers.  You can verify these facts immediately.

Back to your 'freedoms'.  I don't know what university you attended, either Nigeria or abroad, but you come out as one that has either just entered uni., or didn't finish, or went to a 'bottom-range' one. Honestly, while i don't mean to be rude, i need to be forthright.  If you've been to a high quality school in Europe, you'll know it's not fun passing through such.  The newer, easier schools could be fun, but check out their ratings compared with the top schools. 

Even in the USA, there are schools that can give you a PhD in 1 month. I have a friend that got one such, it was fun for him.

On a lighter note,  I've had a Mai guard who was looked upon as the hero of his tiny village in northern Nigeria, because he sent way so much money to them (10,000 a month could be a fortune, u know!). He used to go home with our old clothes, some 'good' English, and some new skills as starting a generator, etc etc.  Well, we always saw him as the Mai guard. 'Washing plates', and stuff like that don't earn you no dignity, man. You could get some change($$$), but the Mai guard is always the Mai guard.

It seems you still don't get it with your mai guard and British alma meta!! This is 21st century and not 17th century!! Like we don't know that most schools in Nigeria where started by the missionaries.

I don't know what you understand fun to be! But i think people can do their academic works and still hang out with friends without restrictions from the school authority. I don't think you'll still get this one.

You are telling me about your Mai guard and the little $$$ you make for a living LoL , Don't boast on the net my friend, it's stupid. People make their living the best way they can.

Don't even mention my name again Idiot!!

chika98:
Jara gi eze ka onye akpotara akpota gawa. Atakwanum gi. . . okwa maka anyi nile no na internet owu ihe mere iji nwe the guts ikwu iyo. uduri gi wu ndi ana abu asu n'ihu ma ha tupuru gi onu. Have a good day!

Okwa nna gi gwara gi ga gbawa akwuna! exactly o maka na anyi ncha noo na internet, Fool. Maybe you want me to start talking about money with you Umunwanyi nile gafere na ndu m onweghi nke iruru na ukwu idiot. Ebe ka umu akwuna na abu mmadu aso n'iru? Have a bad day if you like.