₦airaland Forum

Tamee:
Hehehe Someone's been boinking

Well, my holiday's been fantastic I am somewhere, North of your location. Guess?

Deejavuu:
Why didn't the guy stand his ground about her taking the test before sèx.

Let's always try to condemn wrong doing. What this op and his friend did is very very bad. It's not like the girl threatened him with a gun to his that he must have raw sex. Some people are even calling her a terrorist. Really?

For someone that says he's in the medical field the guy goofed big time. Let's always try to call a spade a spade. People always do shiit because they know they're not in a sane clime where they can't be dragged to court of law for their wrongs.

Tamee:
No! You don't know anything at all, except you are the Ops alternate. What if the story was garnished huh.
See, this could be SuperStory but I will use the opportunity to decry violation of Human rights and the use of drugs to subdue people(esp women).

I insist the easiest way is walking out of the relationship and insisting on non-reconciliation except the test is taken(by valid clinical tests) not some wacky kit

Do NOT drug your girlfriends!
Do NOT engage in Pre-marital sex, unprotected!
Do Not get in a relationship if you don't have common sense!

I'm done.

Cc Ronald4 lif ..How have you been? Your holidays? Hope you ain't shacking with some babes heh

Ryder306:
@op.....nice job. You have saved a soul n thousands more. Bro what's the name of the TEST KIT u used, I will like to keep one at home too.

Tamee:
So what if she reacts violently to the administered drug, what if she died in her sleep?

Is it not more sensible for Op's spineless friend to have asked the lady to take the home test and on her refusal, walk away from the relationship!

Why are y'all looking at this from one angle? God, what if the drug killed her? Does that matter at all to you all?

morganacanta:
That is if you are not infected already .

Tamee:
I dunno really. Also I find the Op extremely disgusting.

Tamee:
Hey dearie
Pls what's gbensh raw?

blublahd:
It's been over 6 years since I heard that slang.
Vintage pidgin right there.

iAmCharis:
Hmmmm thanks.

Ronald4 lif, hope you heard? H.I.V test result before diving.

MRBrownJ:
i mean, you were clueless about why men did that so i gave you a possible reason... which makes a lot of sense. dont you women do things in your lives that are positive (aka win-win) solely for y'all? read again what you wrote earlier on, and tell me how this is beneficial to us men. women dont act any differently here.



BWAAAAAAAAAH!!! so developping a r/ship OR getting a free vacation (and some "good time" ) is wrong for women?! would you rather developping a r/ship OR getting free gifts and money (as you string the guy along)? at least women get something great from the male deal, what do men get from the female deal, if it doesnt work out?!

we must live on a different planet, a man flies you out to some fancy city, he wine and dine you, flirts with you, maybe even takes you shopping (thats the mumus out there) takes you to watch some movies, maybe dancing, treats you like the princess that you are, and in return he expects some warm affection that should come naturally that you will BOTH enjoy... and you see something wrong here?! if feelings aint mutual then fair enough, dont waste any time and excuse yourself 30mins into the date, et voila case closed.



bro, there are a few issues:
the rape/ritualist/kidnapping thingy in Nigeria is a big deal.... before a woman can decide to meet a guy she has to be very clear about her intentions. with the way many Nigerian men think, i dont think it is advisable for a lady to visit a guy at his home (that she aint feeling sexually like that). in the mind of many Nigerians, a gal that come to said guy's home is a confirmation that she wants sex... which is a completely wrong way of thinking imho. thats why women should stay away from men's place if they aint ready, and instead they should stay in hotels if they coming from other cities.

whoever has the means and desire to make the visit happen, should do so. but if a man spends money to bring a gal to his city, he expects to get closer (emotionally and physically) to that woman, to score some valuable points for their possible union, or just have some good time together. 1st visitation should happen when/where both are the most comfy to do so, but one thing is certain, they have to evolve (emotionally or physically) after that visit if not then thats a bad investment for the both of them.

also, there has to be a clear understanding between these two people before embarking on such journey as to what the purpose of the travel is. we men want to burn bridges and we have no problems having some bedroom acrobatics on the 1st weekend together... is that wrong really? it isnt to most, and it is all about being honest with what you desire. if the lady can afford it, she can pay for the hotel of her choice so that she is in control, at all time, as to where she stays and how things goes. furthermore, if she isnt down for any hanky panky then she should excuse herself from dinner/movies etc and go back to her hotel (or better yet, not come to visit at all). but we have to be clear on one thing: a man is not gonna fly a gal out just to watch her eat 10plates of amala and then kiss her good night.

so beforehand, women have to be realistic and ask themselves (and these men) the RIGHT questions... and these men have to be honest about their intentions from the get go.

tosyne2much:
Then you will have no choice other than stand the sight of blood

Oliviaarims:
What I mean here is that before consider going out of their way to see each other, both parties should have discussed the end purpose to the meet up and should have agreed to be on the same page.

It's not enough for the guy to start making moves on the assumption that the girl wants sth with him, judging by the way she chats. It's necessary to confirm.

If she puts him straight and says that she wants no such relationship or that she harbours no romantic feelings towards him, then I see no further need for an invitation.

tosyne2much:
Mind you, you never could tell what would happen.


I see you taking a virgin down the aisle bro

Oliviaarims:
Well, to an extent that's true. A casual regular chat can easily be mistaken for sth more serious. But before he thinks about inviting her over or himself coming over, the purpose must be stated and well
understood.

aflyingbird:
they ?? how many have u slept with ? maybe u met 1 , but u want to say " they?" . if u've slept with more than 1 , enuff for u to say "they" ... then u must be a man- hohoho . see, dis is a problem , some of u men will say there're no virgins but it's u men who're sleeping around taking their virginity

Oliviaarims:
The only time he can be deemed worthy is if they're in a relationship or both are intending to consciously start one.

Oliviaarims:



That's why it's all the more ridiculous that some guys would even think of asking a girl to take the risk, when there's no real bond between them.


And some girls really do that.

Oliviaarims:
It's most definitely not t-fare issue. Safety in so many ramifications is more of a major concern.

TaiKuun:
haba, i agree with your conclusion, but regarding the blood issue, you might barely even notice it at all. Sometimes, just a stain on the bedsheet. Unless Na sword you take disvirgin an

MRBrownJ:
i think you are the one who doesnt understand us men... you see, since there is some sort of connection here (however small/formal it may be), that man wants to try his luck and stop wasting time with this back and forth long distance BS.... so he invites the gal over. if she comes and they get along like a glove then they can continue making sense out of this thing (and possibly have a great r/ship), if they dont get along then at least he would have possibly gotten some "free" coochie.

so as you can see, it is a win-win situation here for men, and certainly not unnecessary invites..... it becomes unnecessary when the gal dont give a damn about the guy but keep stringing him along for online chit chat that goes nowhere, and where everyone can pretend to be who they are not, since they never met in real life.

now if that gal doesnt want to meet, then fair enough, and let that guy not waste any more time with you... but sadly we all know that many of these women CRAVE for men's attention.

It's our prayer that God will locate every one of our single ladies in the house Next year, 2016. Amen!

KingTom:
Best oldie? I just dey look Una dey laugh so because Una meet me here Una automatically assume say I old Smh it is well at least its better than the last one. Now where is that Alienstar of a girl
Ronald4liff I heard that your team is topping La Liga with 99 points, na true?

cherryice:
na popularity contest dem dey do jare..Lol im good. Can u imagine a whole 'me' ddnt win 'most humble"??