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Ezendimmuo:
Take her back??
Someone I wanna hurt??
No way boss
Thanks!

Don't hurt her....leave that for Karma
Let life deal with her and live your own life..
Don't do something stupid you might regret...

Ezendimmuo:
I feel like hurting my ex
I wanna hurt her so bad
I wanna hurt her for everything she made me go through while we were together...
She's older than me by a year...
She's 26 and I am 25..
She's in her final year...
I noticed she found it difficult talking about how many people she has been with...
I noticed she was always on calls even when I was present demanding things from guys..even when I gave her everything I had
I had to go through her phone..
She was flirting with other guys... denying she had a boyfriend...
I also there was this married guy she was always going to see then...
Whenever I objected...
She'd turn it into a huge fight..
I'd just have to finally let her go see him...
I found out that she has been fucking him and even had an abortion for him 3 times(according to the chat she had with the guy)
This is someone that refuses my own advances because she is either tired or has headache o..
I went through her browser and also saw she has been researching about abortions as well
She was complaining about serious stomach pain saying it's ulcer..it all started making sense
When I confronted her..
She wasn't sorry...
She was angry I went through her phone...
The next morning....
She came and apologized..
I stupidly accepted her back...
There is a particular guy I always see around her in her lodge..
I became suspicious and confided in people I trust in her lodge...
One told me she was always sleeping over in the guys room..
The other stupid person I told when to tell her about it and she got angry??
Do you blame me??
She came into my life and made me insecure...
I was having high bp anytime she doesn't pick her calls (most times, she will tell me she was with "a friend"
I just had to end it all...
For my mental health..
I still love her... that's the annoying part...
I stalk her status...
Today...she posted a picture with a tag "I need a hug"...
That's how cheap she can get...
I hate her for making me love her!!!!
I know I'll get over her soon sha

Guys..
Don't ever let any lady take you for granted...
You are the prize!!

Let her go...forget any revenge you plan to do to her..you won't get any fulfilment from that trust me...the best Revenge is to live a successful life...you will get over her in time.
Let her go and never take her back no matter what...

Tranquility2345:
Go to through my posts and you will be a very big idiot to think I am a female. I am a male and I repeat y’all are a bunch of never do wells just upset cos you are broke and being rejected by beautiful women. That’s why you soapy and watch porn to try to at least nut to beautiful women.

You better leave woman matter and go and hustle. If not, I guarantee you that the pain of rejection will be worse in your 30s, 40s and 50s. And many of you will die broke, depressed and lonely fools. I repeat all you broke kids should leave woman matter and go hustle!!!

Kk

heartofcity12:
It is a big shame supposed Redpillers can’t even maintain frame on here. That shows some of you aren’t learning anything here and I’m highly disappointed, you keep engaging the troll and you expect her to stop? you’re making it too easy for her by rubbing yourselves in the muds with her. I wonder how some of you deal with women in real life when you can not maintain frame here and simply ignore that monicker, what a pity. It’s why girls keep dealing with some of you mercilessly even after going through Redpill contents on here daily, you’ll continuously keep crying and getting dealt with, it’s not a curse, it’s a fact, since you don’t learn. Just simply practice what you read or preach here.. Avoid trolls and bluepilled guys on here, is that too much to do? Smh

Man to Man talk and I feel it's directed towards me....
Never had problem with the monickers troll but going to bring back people's old posts is bleeped up....
Never knew it was an F monicker till I read the reply and saw the emotions and insecurity behind it...Actually tot it was a M.
Well we all make mistakes

Tranquility2345:
I keep proving that this thread is full of losers..rejected ugly men, broke men, porn addicts, chronic masturbators, beggars, gamblers, etc.

These folks should be using their time wisely to chase a brighter future. Not coming here to hate on women or learn ‘game’ to attract worldly women. It is this lust for worldly women that drives you to all the vices listed above (soapy, olosho, alcoholism, drugs,porn, gambling, etc). Then after una go complain of depression and suicidal thoughts..What a wasted generation of youths. Tueh!!!!

No attractive high value man will join a gang of never do wells to be hating on women or learning game tactics. Believe that. He’s too busy running away from all the numerous women chasing him…

Lol...if you say we are...
Then what's your purpose here then??

Tranquility2345:
No be your alt moniker be this?

Deny make I open your yansh…

Yes it was...
We all have our pasts now...
If you were wise....you will see my old Post stating that was my former account and I was a regular..
As I said..we ain't perfect and we have our issues..
I post at the masturbation thread very well boss...so don't think you can use the past to haunt me...
Masturbation is a thing of the past for me (Thank God) and am willing to do everything to help others in that trap...
Keep on displaying your insecurity tho...it helps prevent depression So i heard

Tranquility2345:
If you had sense, you wouldn’t call me a troll. If you had sense, you will understand the point I’m trying to make. If you had sense, you would be supporting me in calling out these broke depressed and suicidal small boys that are addicted to porn, betting and masturbation that are here seeking advice on how to chase women and hate women that have rejected them when they should be chasing bright futures. Please learn to use your God given brain. I won’t be surprised that you are also a broke teenager….

K

Tranquility2345:
Okay boss….

I will like to understand what you tend to achieve when you bring old Post of people here while trolling them?... You do this time without number but you still don't prove a single point from doing that...
Nobody here claims to be perfect....We all have our own share of issues while some believing in dealing with it silently,some also require advice therefore bringing their issues here....
All we do here is try to help our fellow men see the clear truth of life even tho some take it too far concerning the redpill....
Troll in peace but that action of yours is irrelevant so to speak...
You are free to bring mine here also when replying me...expecting that

The moment you forced her to come back to you,you killed all form of respect and attraction she had for you.....as in every damn feeling is dead.
Now you are the one in love while she is with another guy she has feelings for....she is keeping you as a backup plan in case the other guy disappoint so she doesn't loose in both side...
If you continue,it will only get worse as she will keep on pushing your limit till you get the gist and do the needful to get by leaving her and moving on
I will advice you Ghost her totally,as in act as if she is dead and move on with your life and never even dare to take her back even if she cries, NEVER....
If your instinct tell you she is cheating,then 100% she is ....
You are tolerating disrespect from her and you think she won't cheat on you...Block her from your life and move on...Dont let her manipulate your head as you have enough worries already.
Once a girl be start disrespecting you,she won't take time before she changes ship(Start cheating) and she has done day already....
But I know some other will tell you otherwise and say you should talk to her blah blah blah....and you in your emotions will do that thinking she will change...but the result will not change trust me kos I am speaking from experience....
Free her and move on bro

Tonnyray:
Wrong.
You have simply put the burden of reaching out next on her.
It has nothing to do with waiting forever.
Is it that your life revolves around every new bitch you meet?

Tho I don't understand the motive behind your last question and how it relates to what I said...
Furthermore,that technique is an old one...and speaking from experience I got the worst replies from ladies saying that....
For you to say that means you are ever ready so you wait patiently till when she is ready and when that time comes,she should contact you,you will do your best to please her.....
That's my own take on it but yours could be different and I accept that..but to me,not a good strategy

Tonnyray:
Reply her but keep it short and clear.
"Ok,
holla me when you're ready" will be just fine.
Never appear desperate is the principle here. If she rates you she will holla back without you having to remind her which I advise you don't. Do not remind her.
You are still mere acquaintances. She don't owe you sh!t and vice versa. She won't walk through lava for you cos you are yet to prove to her you're worth it. Same way she doesn't deserve any special treatment from you cos she's yet to prove to you she deserves it.
Deal with women like human beings. She reached out to you to reschedule. Some b1tches won't even bother. Things actually do happen. I for one can't count the number of times I've canceled appointments with babes. Allow her to fvck up before you cancel her.
Peace.

There is nothing more desperate than "Holla me when you are ready".…..it means you await a particular outcome and you are willing to wait for it even if it takes years....
The best way to show detachment is just a simple "owk" and nothing else should be said afterwords.....

monerozi5590:
There is one fine chocolate banny i met last week. We are suppose to see today but she just texted me this morning that she will be very busy at work today that we should fix another day.

Now the issue is should i reply the message or i should just ignore?

Before I advice you on what to do..just know this
"If a girl's truely likes you,she would walk through LAVA just to be with you"
Her interest level is low so just leave it like that till she bring up the topic again by herself....let her be the one to ask for a visit...
Ignore her till she comes to you herself.

[quote author=Colephbreed hipost=113588416]Hello guys good day hope y'all are doing great.

Am writing this with so much grief in my heart as I feel depressed, sometimes love can come with somuch pains and joy at same time.

So recently I agreed with my fiance to relocate to a different city since she got a job over there, we agreed a scheduled time we wil have to see each other within a specific period of time. This is someone we share everything in common the love was great, she's an awesome soul to be sincere.

I got so much attached to her, that it made me felt lonely and empty when she left, due to that reason I always want to call and check up frequently, This has been going on For about 4 weeks consistently, the first red flag I noticed was that she asked me not to be calling her frequently that sometimes it's not really cool with her, I respected that fact and reduced the way I call but I was beginning to loose the trust I had for her.

She goes out with her friend frequently and they love partying, even when I consistently warn her about the late nights they keep most times in clubs and partying she keeps telling me she's not a kid and she can handle things herself. Lately the relationship have been filled with lots of argument, misunderstanding, and the trust is beginning to reduce drastically.

Yesterday she uploaded a nasty picture as her display pics on WhatsApp, she was just putting on a top without bra, though she's busty and all that, I asked her take it down and upload something more appealing and decent that am not comfortable with such pics, she began to rant and start saying all manner of things like it's her privacy,her phone, her body,and she decides what to do with it, am an African man and I don't welcome this woke mentality of women nowadays, feeling they need to be half naked to feel sexy I can't cope with such indecent dressing, I told her am not trying to tell her what to do but atleast you should respect my opinion sometimes, I got angry and sent her a very long message about my displeasure. since then she has refused to pick my calls nor reply my messages.

She tried calling earlier today but I didn't pick, I couldn't sleep through out the night the whole drama was just playing in my Head.

Guys is this enough reason to call of a relationship or are my just being too self centered? have actually made up my mind just need to hear from different and more matured people in the house.
Thanks for reading and enjoy the rest of your day.[/quote]She is in her Hoe stage...let her be....

TMTR:

Simping chairman, you stil no wan gree get sense

This you

The Internet never forgets

Carcholce:
It’s said not to quote females on this thread but your question is an interesting one.

Redpill grew out of love. In the beginning it was love, and the love was pure and innocent with little to no redpill knowledge. Then the Eve’s amongst them took the love for weakness and exploited it. This same love you are talking about does not exist to them but the material things that sustains it. In all this, the redpill isn’t preaching against love but the understanding of “how to love safely” and get same and equal amount of energy in return.

Some post you’ll read here actually goes out of line but it’s still a work in progress.

You my friend are the Redpill Socrates of our time.....nice explanation

dhiqson:
So apparently yea
The Canadian male football team called off a friendly an hour to the time, reason being that?















They wanted their female counterparts to have equal pay as they have
Sigh

This equal pay argument holds no water to me Kos even in men football, there is no equal pay....
Let's look at it,you decided to play football today and luckily an European team signs you then you demand to be paid as much as Ronaldo or Messi ....Those two are the highest paid bkos of how much income it brings in....or you just started going to studio n you demand to be paid the same amount with the likes of Wizkid n davido for a show just bkos you are a singer like them
The 2018 world cup alone generated more than 1 billion dollars in revenue for FIFA,while the female world cup generated about 150 million dollars in revenue...in some female world cups I have seen FIFA making a loss as they didn't generate enough income..and sometimes use proceeds from male football to cover up the losses...
Male football took time(since the 1860s) before it became a global sport generating large income for clubs...but women football started barely 30 years ago and they expect equal pay when in term of popularity n demand,there are no equal to men's football....
The real Madrid female team was created two years ago,n I heard it's from the men's team income that the womens salaries are being paid....
An average Nigerian teenager can list several players from different clubs around Europe but can't barely tell you three female players of the super Falcons...that's to tell you their popularity and demand is still low so they can't be paid equal to the men...
F**k it I can't even remember the last female football match I watched but tonight am chilling with a bottle of Malt and so other Edibles for Croatia vs France definitely

Hintona:
Mtchewww

Women do not seek to be equal to men physically, feminists are not olodos they know that physically a woman cannot be equal to a man.

In situations where they cry for equality is when for example a man and a woman are doing the same job in a company or organization but the man is paid higher simply because he's a man. Any one with half a brain will know that this is not fair at all.

If a woman can do the the same job as a man but are less paid....then companies would employ only women since most companies are looking for how to cut cost including high wages....
If you could get two similar products that can do the same work but one is cheaper...which would you buy??

Boogyman557:
Holly Gram Na better THUNDER go fire dat MAN!


U de SPONSOR woman for school still de provide for her family!


girl wey no de RESPONSIBLE, see as the girl de cast the useless man online..


I say it again... Na better THUNDER go fire dat MAN!


If I JAM dat useless MAN face to face


I SWEAR DOWN


Na my old KALA I go take BLAST BLAST em left leg DROP 4 GROUND b4 people go begin ask us waiting happen!


LITE UP my WEED in


WTF MAN!

Seems the boogyman chose vawulence today and not peace....
You are now officially a Comrade

CAPSLOCKED:
OVER A DECADE AGO THEY TOLD ME I'D OUTGROW IT WHILE I MATURE. TO DATE I STILL WONDER WHY ANYONE WOULD LEAVE ALL THERE IS TO DO IN THIS LIFE AND DM RANDOM WOMEN ONLINE, INCLUDING ABSOLUTE SKANKS, ASKING FOR ROMANCE AND AFFECTION, SOMETIMES SPENDING WEEKS BEGGING FOR ATTENTION, WHEN THERE'S A WHOLE BIG WORLD OUT THERE WAITING TO BE CONQUERED. YOU DON'T EVEN NEED TRP TO HAVE BASIC SELF-WORTH AS A MAN. BUT THE LACK OF IT IS SHOWING IN MANY MEN.

THIS LACK, PROBABLY INSPIRED BY THE SONGS AND FILMS OF A BLUE-PILLED SOCIETY, IS THE REASON WHY A HARDWORKING ACCOMPLISHED MILLIONAIRE MAN LOOKS AT A LOW-LEVEL CAREER-LESS UNATTRACTIVE WOMAN AND SINGS PRAISES TO HER TELLING HER HE'S LUCKY TO HAVE HER AND DOESN'T DESERVE A GODDESS/QUEEN LIKE HER.

QUEEN OF WHAT EXACTLY? OF POVERTY AND USELESSNESS? .

I use to be like this....I would send message to every online girl on my ex FB accounts...I would spend time adding up every cute girl among my friends suggestions...staying up late at night to keep them company.... competing with other guys for their attention...I would be among the first to like and comment on her pics calling her beautiful n others...
I had to cut it short here Kos the more I type,the more angry I get at old self..
Simping is a fucking disorder.....
I only operate WhatsApp now just for a few reasons best known to me

Few days ago I spoke to my Grandmum on phone (she was sick)...so after a while of just talking she asked "Why arent you yet ready to marry?...You are a good man"....
I just smiled Kos she has already answered the question herself.

Ilamina:
Someone that looks like Brad Pitt

And educated and rich like bill gates

But I realized that's not the reality

Sometimes u just have to end up with any guy that asks you out first

Just like how I need to accept my gateman

Such Is life

Thanks once said
" Reality is often dissapointing"

Ilamina:
Someone that looks like Brad Pitt

And educated and rich like bill gates

But I realized that's not the reality

Sometimes u just have to end up with any guy that asks you out first

Just like how I need to accept my gateman

Such Is life

Thanos once said
" Reality is often dissapointing"

Skepticus:
Simple shit test online, they can't pass, how would they pass the test when dealing with the same women in the real world?

A reason some trolls and female monikers are encouraged to continue being a nuisance here.

I agree with CAPSLOCKED. Some men here (and probably a lot of them), dey jonze big time.

Shout out to the legit dude who hold their own here and the real world.

They are still in the rage phase as someone said......let's just hope they come out of it...
Seeing some guys give those trolls the attention they seek is wat baffles me....
Some guys still don't know that giving some women attention is like giving them a Gun to shoot with.....just ignore them n you hold all the power Kos it's makes them feel irrelevant....
Practice Redpill to be better and not bitter....

Phillyboi:
. I got your advice and I'll do as you say bro .. yeah i admit , I'm also in my emotions and it's what's fvcking me up .. and i hate it .. wish i could/want to kill it ..

You can do it tho it will take time depending on how long you have invested with her...but nonetheless Time heals...live her alone and act as if she is dead to you
In a year from now you will thank God for the decision you made.. Trust me

JESHAL:
Forget her and move on
Simple as ABC
Na you dey feel say she like you, baba dumb that bitch and move how that girl go dey toil with your feelings, you sure say you be man, you sure say you get sense, you sure say you get balls,you sure say you get testerones, how you go be emotional tampon for a bitch that's not fully invested in you, is it konji( lust) that's doing you or you are in love, I don't get how woman go make you her side bitchh, what the fffuck is wrong with you, don't you have respect and honor for yourself, you dey share woman which kind scarcity be dat and you dey comfortable

Mtchewwww

I personally don't use it this kind advice na wetin we need sometimes....use of Harsh words to make us think straight and act right.....I hope he acts as you advices tho Kos dude is also in his emotions tho....

Phillyboi:
You guys , pls i need your honest opinion on an issue of mine -. I've got tis girl i really like , we're around the same age (22yrs) - while she was dating , i was there and we developed a bond, like we became really close .. she broke up with her boyfriend later on due to some issues and i tried to move in .. she kept on saying she wasn't ready for another relationship and i was chilled ... later on , her ex started coming back for her and she started developing feelings for him again and wanting to go back .. i told her that I'd have to cut my relationship with her if it happens and she started crying , saying she doesn't want to lose me n all that .. says she loves me ..

Fast forward to tis moment - she's currently at her ex's place - she goes to work from there , he's not around tho .. i recently voiced my displeasure about it and also the fact that i was somewhat jealous about how other men were hovering around her - told her all tis but she literally did nothing to allay my fears or calm me . She instead told me to go sort myself and my overly jealous nature out .. rn , we're not on talking terms cos i was hurt by what she said ..
P:S -- we've had sex since she broke up .. but she's also had sex with her ex too since they broke up . pls what do i do cos I'm emotionally exhausted with the whole thing .. i need your honest opinions pls ..

Trying to understand a girl's emotions will make you go pycho...let her be as she is still in her Ho phase definitely....Your complaints will always fall on deaf ears but personal experience will teach her a lesson later on....
My advice: Let her be..no chat or call excepts she initiate but keep it short......start communicating with other girls to remove your mind from that onetitis mindset....
I repeat again LET HER BE or you will suffer emotionally..
Go to where you are celebrated and not tolerated

I have been away from nairaland for a while,but came back recently to see the latest news and updates...and sometimes I check on this thread and I can say the movement is growing...But everything that has its advantages must surely have disadvantages...
The disadvantage now goes to the people who read messages of Redpill being passed across but are never ready to apply it...even some that do apply it ,do so for the Wrong reasons...
I have gone through some threads, and all I see is "As a REDPILLER,how can I handle the situation"...like Redpill is some form of club, organisation or a cult group that someone belongs to...They think with the little knowledge of Redpill they have,that women will chase them or pussy will always be available for them....
Some even go as far as applying the Redpill for wrong reasons....for example, Redpill states Ignoring women and they will chase you....yes it's true but it's not all women as some won't even care and that just it...You ignore women not because you want them to chase you but because you have goals and hobbies you place above them and they are just distractions to achieving something in your life...it's not a manipulative technique to get women...that's why when some rules do not work for some girl they like,they create fake accounts to complain here looking for advice....
I recently also commented on a thread when the OP stated he was a REDPILLER but needs advice on how to attract a girl that he just collected her number....indirectly he is looking for a manipulative technique just to bed her...by doing so he has placed her on a pedestal as bedding her becomes his Goal therefore he is ready to alter his behaviour just to get her chasing him....now tell me if that is not the Simping we have been preaching against since page 1 of this thread....
Sometimes I don't blame the Females here calling us " Alpha online,SIMP offline" or something like that...
Don't just listen to the message of Redpill,Apply it correctly

CaveAdullam:
Ronnnie bobo...how's you?

Boss am good.....you?

RedpillAnalyst:
The Alleged picture of the Chrisland Bhadgurl4k elder sister.

Thotteriness 'errwher

The mother failed as a woman if this true...
Imagine the video never came out..before she got to 18,her body count will be up to 50....Now imagine the body count of the elder sister...
She copied everything right the eye glasses to the skimpy wears,the beads for her elder sibling it's obvious.....
Dear men pay alot of attention into training your first child Kos they have more influence on your other kids than you..as the kids spend more time with their siblings than their parents....
But seriously...Sodom and Gomorah deserves an apology looking at the kind of attrocities been committed today..

As for the 13 years old girl..I doubt she can change except with divine intervention Kos I know a girl like that who started bleeping from a young age and all effort to change her failed woefully...

Goldbw122:
The guy like to slap everyone that goes wrong with him, that is one attitude that he just had..

And Chris rock made a very bad, impression joke, yeah she should not have made any joke about smith's wife it is not proper at least you should have encourage the family and there would have been a emotional up praise not the fight they are having now..

She is just bald...stop talking as if she has Cancer or HIV...
The rock is bald and is always mocked for it...he never made a fuss about it

HARDESTNIGGAINT:
BLUE PILLED

So baldness that men have been suffering for decades is now being sugar coated as a Disease just because a woman is affected also...
Bruce wilis, Dwane "THE ROCK" Johnson, and even Jason Statham are bald but yet media never came up to say they have a disease and they are also mocked by the same comedians and they never made a fuss about it..
Calling it a Disease when a woman is involved just to make her look like a Victim and also to arouse pity for her just explains the kind of society we are in...Not like its Cancer or HIV that she is suffering from...just Hair loss and people acting like she has few months to live....
What a funny world