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[b]Conjectures on Bianca Ojukwu, her alleged Fiance & Lover robert Okonkwo and the ailing Ikemba Odimegwu Ojukwu
[/b]সোমবার, মার্চ 14, 2011, 11:48অপরাহ্ন-এ সময়ে 9jabook :: Re-braining 9geria কর্তৃক

Questions questions , Has Bianca’s so called fiancé moved into Ojukwu’s home ?
“Being Ikemba’s wife is a job on its own. These are issues that are being constantly discussed. Right now my prerogative is my husband and my family. I have a very young family. I don’t want a situation that would have my attention divided. I would like to help determine the path that my children would take. I would like to be instrumental to raising and shaping their lives. I am not saying that I cannot do that and serve the people at the same time. These were offers that were made even before the elections but I just do not feel that the time was ripe for it” – stated an elated Mrs. Bianca Ojukwu, the latest and youngest wife of Ezigbo gburugburu, the Ikemba of Nnewi, Chief Chukwuemeka Odimegwu Ojukwu on Wednesday, April 14, 2010 in an interview with Alvan Ewuzie of Sun Newspapers – in response to the question “I understand that one or two political offers had come your way. You don’t want them or you just prefer being Ikemba’s wife?”-A disheartening crisis appears wickedly at the doorsteps of the number one citizen and contemporary hero of the modern Igbo society. For the family of the strongman and legend of Igbo land, Chief Odimegwu Ojukwu, a source confides, life appears brighter on the outside than it really is on the inside. Authoritative information available to gossip news confirms that the king of modern Igbo politics and the modern Igbo project, who has been on Intensive Care Unit [ICU] since February 8, 2011, may be on the last lap of his journey on Earth. His present health condition has continued to worsen near a point of no return.

His youngest and latest wife, Bianca Ojukwu’s sudden leap into the national political theater amidst her husband’s failing health has raised eyebrows among core Igbo traditionalists and has served symptomatic of what the marital relationship between the two may have dwindled to. Traditionalists who are of the belief that a wife of a dying man should be by the side of the husband to tend to him believe also that Bianca Ojukwu has erred in her abandonment of the Igbo legend.
Bianca’s quick action to pack her new fiancé, Honorable Commissioner Robert Okonkwo, into her marital home in Enugu has unsettled many within the Ojukwu family.

Robert Okonkwo is a 37year old blood relative to Odimegwu Ojukwu who serves under the Peter Obi administration as the commissioner for special duties and transport – a post previously held by Chukwuemeka Odimegwu Ojukwu [Jr]. Robert Okonkwo was Bianca Ojukwu’s choice for the post after Ojukwu [Jr] resigned. Robert Okonkwo presently commutes to work from Ojukwu’s home in Enugu. Knowledgeable folks who could no longer remain mute tell gossip news that Bianca Ojukwu’s actions are not without reason.

They say she has questions to answer.
On February 9, 2011, Mrs. Bianca Ojukwu signed her offer letter for the position of Special Advisor to the President on Diaspora Affairs following hotly contested debate within the Ojukwu nuclei family over whether to accept the offer by President Goodluck Jonathan. Family members tell gossip news that Ezigbo gburugburu, Chief Ojukwu did not assent to the offer when it was made by the President personally at the home of Ezigbo at Enugu, the capital of Enugu State.

[b]The President [Jonathan] had paid a personal visit to Ezigbo prior to the onset of his health crisis during the period leading up to the presidential primaries of the Peoples Democratic Party [PDP]. The purpose of the visit was to intimate Ezigbo of his desire to employ his wife as a Minister to replace the vacant slot left by the exit of Prof Dora Nkem Akunyili at the post of Minister of Information and Communication. [size=14pt]Ezigbo was said to have received the President well but rejected the idea of offering his wife a ministerial job. Ezigbo, who did not support the idea, found it a bit denigrating to have his wife serve the President. [/size]Ezeigbo noted that it would not serve the Igbo interest well. He also did not want his wife’s servitude to cage him and his utterances. Ezigbo made his concerns clear to the President. Bianca being unhappy continued her lobbying of the Presidency for the post.
The President’s men backed off the idea but the incident of December 1st 2010 at the Ojukwu home changed everything for the Presidency, for Bianca and for Ndigbo.[/b]

The early morning of December 1st 2010 greeted Ezigbo with a stroke.
Ezigbo gburugburu was struck by a massive stroke. At home at the time of the incident were Bianca, her new lover [Mr. Robert Okonkwo] and some housekeepers. Reacting, Bianca called on two of her personal medical Doctors [names withheld] to come to the house to attend to Ezigbo. Both medical doctors arrived almost immediately to the house and began administering treatment to Ezigbo. Ezigbo was not taken to the hospital.


While the medical duo administered treatment, Bianca who was with her lover, Mr. Okonkwo did not inform the immediate relatives of Ezigbo – of Ezigbo’s deteriorated condition. The immediate family did not become aware till December 6, 2010 – 5 days after Ezigbo was struck. And when the family became aware, they immediately raised an alarm over the choice of Doctor – citing that the same Doctor had treated one of Ezigbo’s cousins – resulting to a wrongful death and litigation between the Ojukwu family and the Doctor. They also raised alarm over the “home treatment” being administered. In their take, a stroke victim/patient ought to be treated at the hospital. [Dr. Ojukwu, the elder brother to Ezigbo, who is a well respected medical doctor in the area, was not made aware of Ezigbo’s health crisis.] The mismanagement of Ezigbo’s medical upkeep, at this point became open to the Ojukwu family. And in retort, Bianca took a stand and banned many of the family members from visiting or having a say in quelling the unfolding saga. She insisted on having Ezigbo remain at the house and for her personal Doctor to continue making daily house visits. And so, no cat-scan or other required medical procedures were performed on Ezigbo.

On December 19, 2010, it happened.
Ezeigbo’s system shutdown and he stopped breathing. Panic took the ambiance. The immediate family took over the mantle from Bianca and immediately began to make arraignments to transport Ezigbo to University Teaching Hospital, [UNTH] Enugu. Lifting of Ezigbo from the top floor of his home down to the lower floor – where the entrance and exits were – was not an easy or happy task due to the nonexistent medical supplies or equipment at the home. Ezigbo had to be carried on a mattress down the stairs and onto the ambulance. His physical state told a story that was vividly horrid... hygienically. His nails were badly overgrown and his body reeked of a toxic stench.


The trip to UNTH told another saddening saga. The elder brother to Ezigbo who up till December 19, 2010 was not aware that his younger brother was having a life threatening crisis, had coincidentally arrived at UNTH for another purpose – only to be surprised by his colleagues who told him of his brother’s condition.


Political juggernauts cash in…
It was also at this point that the political juggernauts seized the opportunity to cash-in what available currencies they found in Ezigbo gburugburu. Top on the list was the Governor of Anambra and the “political godson” of Ezigbo, Mr. Peter Obi. Gov. Obi immediately became “publicly concerned” over the health of Ezigbo. He started to guarantee airlift to a European country for treatment. But Bianca refused him entry into the house following an earlier misunderstanding. Governor Peter Obi was halted at the gate by security men as he tried to gain entry into the Ojukwu’s home. Bianca and Peter Obi had been on a tussle on how to pay for the airlifting. Peter Obi is reported to have been reluctant to release the required funds to facilitate for the airlift because he already disburses N15million monthly of Anambra State funds to Bianca for the upkeep of Ezigbo.

Arrangements for the airlift was said to have begun on the 6th of December 2010 [the day the family became aware], but Peter Obi, who had told the President [Jonathan] that he will carry the cost - was not as forthcoming. The family opted for an alternate means. And so, an air-ambulance from South Africa was dispatched to Enugu via the assistance of some South East philanthropists. However upon the Jet’s arrival, Peter Obi gave orders that Ezigbo should not be flown on that aircraft because he has already made arrangements. Ezigbo was now kept at the hospital till December 23, 2010 [additional four days] when Peter Obi’s arrangement arrived.
On the day of the airlift, the saddening display of greed and selfishness continued its odorous fermentation. As the airbus arrived and began to taxis into the marked area. Peter Obi, Bianca Ojukwu, Robert Okonkwo and others were in their respective corners inside the airport lounge being entertained. As Ezeigbo was wheeled to meet the air-flight medical team, Peter Obi, Bianca Ojukwu, Robert Okonkwo remained inside the lounged. The naked body of Ezeigbo which was only partially covered by the bedspread given to him from UNTH Enugu was handed over to the foreign medical team without Peter Obi or Bianca Ojukwu present. None of the political juggernauts assembled at the lounge made efforts at covering up Ezigbo gburugburu. When the air-ambulance was ready for takeoff, Bianca Ojukwu pleaded for her lover to be allowed onto the air ambulance. She was shunned.

Enugu UNTH Doctors uncover the cause…
An unpleasant twist to the sad tale comes through an interesting medical check from the physicians at the Enugu Hospital that point to a possible neglect and probably mischief on the part of both Bianca and her personal doctor. The medical examination conducted on Chief Chukwuemeka Odimegwu Ojukwu indicated that high levels of heavy metals were introduced in his system. In particular, Sodium [Na+] levels in Ezeigbo’s system were reported to be 10 times its toxic limit. The medical examiners pointed to the Medical Drips administered to Ezigbo at home by Bianca’s personal doctor – as containing abnormal levels of Sodium. The high level of Sodium was found the cause of Ezeigbo’s coma of December 19, 2010.

One of the primary Doctors who attended to Ezeigbo at the Enugu UNTH told gossip news Bianca’s refusal to admit her husband to a facility for full medical and comprehensive care – primarily, laid the grounds to Ojukwu’s latest crisis. He explains that the high dose of Sodium in Ezeigbo’s system was because of the wrong medicines administered by Bianca’s personal Doctor. In particular, he marked the type of DRIPs used by Bianca’s Doctor on Ezeigbo as being highly suspect…especially for a stroke victim. “In a more advanced country, Bianca would be a person of interest to the investigative authorities by now”, added the Doctor.

The President’s reaction…
Interesting also is the Presidency’s reaction towards Ezeigbo’s illness. Without delay, the Presidency, fully aware of Ezeigbo’s rejection of President Jonathan’s job offer of a ministerial post to Bianca, reoffered Bianca a post in the Presidency - the position of a Special Advisor to the President on Diaspora Matters – a position lower than the original offer.
Bianca jumped on the offer.

She signed the offer letter on February 9, 2011, one day [February 8, 2011] after Chief Chukwuemeka Odimegwu Ojukwu; Ezeigbo Gburu Gburu fell into the present coma. Now, 16days and counting. . .

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All right. I am seeking more discussions on salah.

Very bizzare video. Read comments.


https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=X8H_HyFW6PM

slimyem: [size=20pt]seun,since i can add friends,i should be able to delete them too but there's no option of that.could you please provide one?[/size]

somebody pissed you off already? hehehehe. friends!

r231: age ain't nothing but a number

even if he is 15-20 yrs younger. . . . . samu ni

lol. let's not get crazy now. if he was 15-20 years OLDER, maybe. but no way a 15 years younger guy.

that's just me o. whatever works for you. that's why i said its a personal decision. i certainly wouldn't base it on others, especially strangers opinions. joan collins husband is about 40 years younger i think.

There's no username yet, because according to the new format, an email address must be submitted before we can setup username. But I sent you a private message with the e-mail address and preferred username. Thanks.

Also think about a little box to the left of the screen containing user info and profile plus avatar or picture for those who want to do that. Similar to the kind found on hundreds of forums such as this: http://www.chelseafcforums.com/viewtopic.php?f=4&t=4753

Good Luck.

kemmeye: and the i.d.i.o.t.s killed it and are taking pictures of the poor thing why.

Why are they idiots? It was probably dead after it became entangled at the bottom of the ocean as described. It's sad, but they didn't set out to kill the poor thing.

Sorry to have to open another thread regarding the same 'ol thing. . .but this is important since it concerns Seun's pocket.

A friend has tried on 4 separate occasions in the last 24 hours to register as a new user on Nairaland. The new process involves submitting your e-mail and then waiting for a response from Nairaland, abi? Well, no reply yet o.

I would think, at this time when many are abandoning ship, you would want to pay attention to new posters wanting to come onboard. Maybe that's just me sha.

Seun, are you hearing me? Lotsa luck, buddy.

1luvkipsus: My dear,ask ur true frnds &family members their feelings abt this affair.all those asking u 2go ahead here will be the first to call u a ‘desperado‘.as for me,d gap btw u &him is too much...some ladies don‘t even date their age mates talk more of a much younger person.just think well...

OP 5 years is not a big deal, especially with a mature person who is confident about what he wants! you dont need to talk to anyone but the groom. the most important decision you will ever make in your life is, who to marry. i certainly wouldnt make it based on what strangers say.

mama-gee:
[color=deeppink]Who are the legends of nairaland?[/color]

1. Fstranger = pure genius brain wrapped in an impenetrable shell of "craaaazzzyyyy."

More to come.

ITbomb: 3 days later , the new NL is getting better , the poster column is a bit organise but I need to know when exactly a post was made and not how long it has been here
The background color methink has improve

Let your cursor hover over the title in a specific post, and you will see date and time the post was made.

I think some people are competing to see who has the most friends. You can tell who those people are.

What happens if someone asks to friend you, and you say no? ROTLMAO. If it happens, one of you should please start a thread about it, I beg you. NL is getting boring.

Everyone likes you, sister Nayah. Friend them back. Ignore Beaf. He's bad news.

olawalebab: If there is a difference in the way Men and Women pray, share it with us (With a strong proof), we are all here to learn.

I know that some Hanafi (not me) school instruct different body posture for women. I just wanted to know how common this is. What other posters think, or if any believe it at all.

See below videos. The participants are Asians, but the issues discussed is relevant to all Muslims. I didn't have time to search for local ones.

Video showing different way for women:
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=f1hJLKEIGXU&noredirect=1

Speech, It should not be different:
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=QdiwGVoVazs

Long Speech, It should be different:
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=rA3mDDbAtRo&feature=relmfu

deols: Salam alaykum.

It is Important to note that there is no difference in the manner of performance between a man and a woman as the prophet said- 'Pray as you see me pray''

There is not a consensus on the above. The quoted statement has been explained by some that it was addressed to men. Hence, there are many schools of thought where women are instructed to pray "differently" from men. You might want to back up your declarative statements. Maybe cite the hadith?

I am interested to know if everyone agrees that there should be no difference.

Perspectives, bro, perspectives. You don't know how old I am, do you, old man? Better? If you love her, I hope it works out. That's all I got, old man.

A thread like that should never be on the front page. It makes no sense. But, OP, you can't blame the moderators for that o. Sorry.

freshcvv:
@rosefleurs

  Asking her to take the driver's seat once in 5 years now makes me a TYRANT? wonders shall never end, what do you women really want? first i was doing it alone, i was told i act too bossy, now i said please do it while i support, i am now being called a tyrant? how did you arrive at that?

Don't take it to heart o.  I am just saying, be the same guy she knows and don't impose too quick a change.  You said you told her she had to take the reins in the relationship.  For what? 

Take it easy o.  No one here knows the answer.  Least of all the angry men telling you there's another man on the side.   I hope it workd out for you two kids. 

I thought she's not married to the guy yet. If this doesn't prove she's not marriage material, I don't know what will. A man marries that one and takes her home and he will never know peace. But, I am glad she did not obtain acid to pour on the banker.

leader

OP,
She is not cheating on you. Things were going great until you started being a TYRANT. Now she's wondering if she's going to be happy and fulfilled with a controlling guy for a husband. You caused it with your putting your foot down about how she needs to start initiating activities in the relationship. How do you expect a n introverted laid back person to all of a sudden change personality and switch roles with you? You better return to being the nice fiance you were or she'll panic and run away from from you. Who needs a bloody tyrant for a husband!

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What kind of smileys are those? Six Degrees of STDs?

Only the brilliant ones. Submit your I.Q. test results.

Not right to post picture and family name on Nairaland to disgrace his family. Are you he/she?

I was talking to the guy and used his own words to make a point. I have no interest in you o. Go with God.

*Washing my hands off of this one*

Any right thinking SANE parent knows that children come first. Biology supports it. You brought them into the world, hence you are responsible for them, more so than the person with whom you mated.

coogar:
by the same token, what's to say if the woman gives up to allow the child live, the child won't die of tuberculosis in the coming year?

Who's to say the ceiling fan you're sitting under won't fall down in the middle of the night while you sleep and cut you to shreds? Should we kill you now and save you from a joyful union with Tpia?

deols:
it is a tough situation and the husband isnt making it any better. The boy is twenty. if you got married some nine months ago, u'r most probably in ur early/mid twenties.

You're a simpleton.  Almost all your posts are idiotic.  "Hey, is this picture crying?"  "This tree looks like a praying monkey, bless us." 


OP, why is your husband shushing you? Were you screaming at the top of your voice? You're in a bad situation; use your own money for downpayment for new lodging for that overgrown boy and save your marriage.

I don't like any objects that's supposed to remind you of what you should feel inside. Who cares about a ring that's not even our culture. Wearing it isn't going to make him love you any more than he already doesn't.

There is nothing wrong with you. Drop her and let her find the right person for her. And so will you. The bad guys are the ones who keep a girl around to use her even though they have no real interest in her. Live your life. Try to understand yourself and don't waste time seeking advice from just anyone. They don't have the answer for your life.

You'll be fine, good boy.

Davidylan the self-righteous dude is supporting foetus-killing.  Jesus wept.   Is abortion even legal in Naija now? 

OP, well done. You hear?

slimyem:
phones are such personal stuff that i dont know why any boyfriend would want to go through  mine the instant we are together.
There are other ways to confirm infidelity IMO.
Op,you were too hasty to judge her.feels like you actually want to catch her at something.
LDR are such headaches and seriously i dunno!
You just have to learn to trust you girlfriend until something SOLID tells you otherwise.

Why was it okay for her to go through his phone and wrong for him to look through hers?

abey2:
and as always,she made for my phone with her curious eyes but to my suprise,she refuse to allow me check tru her phone [size=14pt]in return.[/size]