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Juliearth:
I understand how desperate some women can be but you messed up. Why didn't you threaten to call her boyfriend when she locked you up and said you must kiss her before leaving? When she was making advances at you in your own house, why didn't you lay down ground rules...something like "If you don't behave yourself, I would throw you out"? When she started sending you nudes and explicit chat, why didn't you save them up on your phone for posterity sake (such as this one). To be honest with you, if you had tamed this girl's excesses right from when you were serving, all these wouldn't have happened. You were a worthy target because she perceived you as being weak.



Do you still have the chats and nudes she sent to you? Forward them to her boyfriend for starts. Then let your lawyer handle the situation. Learn your lessons from this experience.

Best advice.. @OP heed to this.

Dailymice:
Its nice for a start but I am tired of Nigerian movies that focus on love, fake living, dry jokes and all.. Cant they invest money or partner with a movie producer abroad to make a movie that makes headlines worldwide..

No disrespect, we are actually trying but lets do better movies that cannot be predicted..
If you've watched the 2020 Action Thriller movie TENET one question you'll ask yourself is, How did a human being on earth sit down to think of such a movie.. Its pure genius! And you can never predict such movies.. That particular movie began at the end and gradually narrowed to the beginning!

That movie sha.

travelwaka:
Idanre Hills is one of the most underrated tourist attractions in Nigeria. It is a combination of history. sightseeing, Hiking and culture.
Idanre is a beautiful and gigantic mountain located in Akure, Ondo State. The views will leave you asking for more. The history, the story, the culture are real even though it is an abandoned city. The relics and ruins of this ancient city is still standing as proof of its ancient civilization for all to see.
It is located in a hilly and quiet town. This city is made up of so many mountains surrounding the city.
It should be nicknamed the city of mountains.


https://www.travelwaka.com/idanre-hills-beautiful-tourist-attraction-in-ondo/

You can say that again.. I'm visiting the hills once more by next month. But Idanre hills is not in Akure but Idanre LGA.

Ok

Ijawwomaninoyo:
And where did you read me justifying his action? Some men go out of their ways to sponsor a lady even on loan but the ladies are deceiving them unknowingly.
He said he should have simply walked away, it is not that easy.

Why is it so difficult?? Even marriages crash and both parties walk away. Everyone should understand that relationships are not a do or die affair, if you are giving anything don't expect anything in return so you won't be disappointed if it doesn't work out as planned.

There is a lot to life than committing murder and spending all your life in prison. There's always hope for the living. It might be difficult at the onset but time heals all wounds. Most ladies also suffer in the hands of men who they sacrificed alot for but gets jilted at the end, will you advice them to plot murder or hold on to the past??

There is light at the end of the tunnel, shit happens, you learn from your mistakes, take whatever is left of your dignity and move on, believing God for the best.

A child that some couples are looking for and someone has the mind to kill hers. What happened to dropping him off in a motherless babies home if she can't carter for him.. Really sad.

Ijawwomaninoyo:
Walk away just like that when someone is collecting your entire sweat with promise of marriage?

So killing the person is the solution right?? The way some people reason sha.

OscarJaden:
Over bleached bitch

Not every fair person bleached.. Stop the hatred.

ImmaculateJOE:
Op should do us more good by mentioning the name of Emmanuel Emenike's home town..

God Bless Emmanuel Emenike

Don't mind all those silly reporters. The hospital wasn't built in his hometown but in owerri, Imo state where he resides.

ike95:
Emenike is from umuaka njaba in IMO state, so we're is this hospital located in umuaka?

No. He is from Otuocha Aguleri in Anambra state, but he is based in owerri imo state,that's where he erected the hospital.

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chinavs9ja:
Ungrateful fellow! He connected you to the right people is still thesame that he helped you. Must you run mouth to clear the air on IG? Instead thank God for the right connection! Lord God I needed the right connection oo.

She did thank him if you watched the video and she even promised to give him bole for a week, free of charge.

Business ongoing, keep the calls coming.

AskProf:
Gbam.

Now, the money is gone forever, at a heavy cost.

Exactly.

There are other ways to make him pay back the money but killing him is just out of it.

Akwaibom state is a place to visit especially Uyo, Eket and Ikot Ekpene.. Many adventurous places. Nice one op.

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makydebbie:
Guys I saw this on Twitter and I want to cry at the accuracy.

Worst is an understatement.. They just sent him to his grave.. Lol

BeyondCertainty:
Congratulations Mrs St. Patrick, you’re officially unfucked, that part got me

I laughed so hard too.. Lol

This episode 10 was dope mehn... Tommy Fucking Egan is back..

bigcasava1:
I don't understand why is she bearing Aboki name?

Her dad is from Sokoto, mum Imo state.

freshvine:
Keisha house in the heat of igboland? Sounds awkward! They better move to sokoto

How?? Her mum is Igbo

Friday20:
I don't undrstand you mean:

*Kaisha Umaru* and In Imo state or you want to say Kano state or Borno state?

I guess im missing something here.

Kaisha's mother is from Imo state.. Hope you understand now.

Don't even know what to say

Hammergirl:
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I was about saying this.. Abeg help me ask oh
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greymiles:
This girl too dey lie jare
Today she be billionaire pikin
Tomorrow she started from nothing

She never said she was from a rich home even back in BBN.

squad03:
I have been pondering on this for several years and I'll appreciate the inputs of good people on this forum.

Way before I got married,I had considered that should I encounter any delay in childbearing,I would be open to 'unconventional' means like IVF, Surrogacy or adoption.
Thankfully,I didn't encounter any delay and my husband and I have had 2 kids.I am not keen to have any more kids but my husband is open to more so we are keeping our fingers for a few more years.

Despite having completed my family (maybe temporarily), I have always kept on my mind the urge to volunteer to be a surrogate for another family.Why not since pregnancy treats me really well,my body snaps right back and I hardly experience that postpartum drag, it's a superpower I feel bad about going to waste since I probably won't be having anymore kids for myself.
Over the years,I have encountered couples I would gladly have engaged in this conversation but every time I run it past my husband (before I get their hopes up) he shoots the idea down.

I found it quite odd at first until I read about a woman who after 2 kids died during childbirth as a surrogate for another couple. That was scary for me but it didn't quite dampen the desire.

The first couple I spoke to him about are friends of ours who have been making efforts and he said he appreciates my kindness but that this is Nigeria where nothing is black and white and he wouldn't want any troubles as a result of it.
I paused for a bit.
We have all been friends for a while since we were all single and there's an adage in Yoruba that translates to 'Communual eating isn't sweet if one person doesn't contribute' and there has been that silent wedge even though it's often ignored.

For me, I can hardly see the downside to this,granted I will have to pause my career for just a few months during the advanced stage or early postpartum phase but that pales in comparison to going on the journey with a friend who can be a part of it every step of the way,can come to Antenatal and ultrasound scans..it's exciting to me.They will be rest assured that I will be taking all the right steps to ensure perfectly healthy babies.Please bear in mind that the baby(ies) will be 100% theirs (husband's sperm and his wife's eggs),I will just be a happy incubator.

There are legal aspects I am happy to follow through as they please and this is no quest for financial gains as my family is more than comfortable.

I also have a cousin who has been trying for a baby but has medical conditions which have hindered this so far and I will do this for her in a heartbeat but I have to convince my husband to allow me.
I have been having sleepless nights about it and I'm hoping that since it's family this time,he won't hesitate to give me his blessings considering it's a sacrifice for him as well.This is the only time I can take this break in my career and I want it to be meaningful.
God answers prayers in diverse ways,maybe this is it for my cousin.

Husbands in the house,how will you react to such a request from your spouse?

Wives,can you volunteer to be a surrogate?

Parents-to-be,will you allow known persons to be surrogates for you or have you considered any downsides to it?

I come in peace and for the love of babies,may the joy go round.

Your kind is rare though, you sound like one with a good heart. My dear this is Africa and most men won't allow that. If your husband is not in support please let it slide.
Also think about it in two different ways, what if something goes wrong or a problem emerges in the future can you handle it. I will advice you to continue to pray for them, depending on how long they have been married you can advice them to try adoption while believing God to bless them with their own children.

mrblessed:
It worries me that you are the one who intends to embark on a journey of tens of hundreds of kilometres to meet someone you barely know. Let the guy take the risk if he values and the friendship. You appear like someone in need of love and attention and therefore vulnerable to be manipulated. Believe me, agreeing to visit him in Lagos was a poor decision, since you don't know him very well. Let him come to Abuja first, then you can reciprocate the visit after you have taken a good account of who is.

The unplanned event/work that scuttled your visit, in my view, is a warning signal to you. It is just that you feel you have to win this guy, no matter the cost -- despite some of the red flags you noticed and which you dismissed with a wave of hand. In this way, you have successfully made him the prize, and yourself, the chaser. Remember that you are supposed to be the prize, and not the other way round.

@op..take this advice..

BusinessCity:
If I hug you dia.


Life balance, na persin go stand well

OK oh.. All mallam and em own kettle.

ChangedMan1999:
Seems she is an product of inter state marriage.

Yes going by the name.. Igbo Vs Ibibio