₦airaland Forum

Aloy.Emeka:
Isn't that what illiteracy can cause?. Great many of them are uneducated and that is why they get treated like that by their husbands.

It has got nothing to do with illitreracy even the educated ones are being cheated too

O bere nkwu kwu ba aka obere ura ogbenye abata
Little sleep little slumber poverty here I come

Don't attempt vomitting in darkness

TOUCH

gen2genius:
I beg to disagree, ma'am Why would you submit to someone you don't respect? Is the submission out of fear?

I respect my hubby at home and respect my boss in the office how about that?
A woman respect her boss in the office b/c the attribute is deposited in her already.

Fhemmmy:
Wrong reason to respect your boss more than your husband.
If my woman respect boss more than me, na iraq against america part II be that oh

Disrespect your boss in the office and see how your bills will be paid. You disrespect all the boss that you work with every where you go. There is a big difference b/w respect and submission. A Woman respect her boss and submit to her husband

Women in spain earn respect

CLOCK

Bad Omen on keyinde side

WISE

Is mother theresa not worth emulating?

and it was adorable

choose her or choose kella

SNOW

Develop tough skin and self confidence you will see her coming back singing like a bird

paycheck

korexes:
mum expects u 2 take care of d younger ones even when u need attention

some parents do that alot but I hate it. Most times the person gets drained

first son becomes mums favorite
first daughter becomes dads favorite vice versa it's natural

Inferiority complex. Some men beat a woman through psychological intimidation

amosexy:
Jackson stated that he was physically and emotionally abused by his father from a young age, enduring incessant rehearsals, whippings and name-calling. However, he also credited his father's strict discipline as playing a large part in his success.[6][7] In one altercation—later recalled by Marlon Jackson—Joseph held Michael upside down by one leg and "pummeled him over and over again with his hand, hitting him on his back and buttocks".[8] Joseph would also trip or push his male children into walls. One night while Jackson was asleep, Joseph climbed into his room through the bedroom window. Wearing a fright mask, he entered the room screaming and shouting. Joseph said he wanted to teach his children not to leave the window open when they went to sleep. For years afterwards, Jackson said he suffered nightmares about being kidnapped from his bedroom.[8] In 2003, Joseph admitted to the BBC that he had whipped Jackson as a child.[9]

Jackson first spoke openly about his childhood abuse in a 1993 interview with Oprah Winfrey. He said that during his childhood he often cried from loneliness and would sometimes start to vomit upon seeing his father.[10][11][12][13] In Jackson's other high profile interview, Living with Michael Jackson (2003), the singer covered his face with his hand and began crying when talking about his childhood abuse.[8] Jackson recalled that Joseph sat in a chair with a belt in his hand as he and his siblings rehearsed and that "if you didn't do it the right way, he would tear you up, really get you".


I grew up with parent who are even more stricter than micheal' father,while I was growing ,i sometime have to convince myself that my parents were not my biological parent cos they never fails to whip and yab me when need be and i must confess i hate them then.When i grew up i realized they were the best thing that has ever happened to me because looking back,if they had not been so strict,i wonder what my life would have been like or what would have become of me.

My nigerian friends,neighbours ,sisters and brothers abroad believes by whippin your kids and callin them names e.g (COCONUNT HEAD), you are abusing them.I think it so absurd for Nigerians to think that way cos most of us abroad are arisen by parent who will never spare the rod on their children.



WAS THE BOLDED REALLY AN ABUSE ?

Maybe this is one of the reasons he did not include his father in his WILL

Do not despise your early/little beginnings. I don't think it has anything to do with level

youngies:
Ify, o di m ka aha akidi na bekee abu 'black beans'

'Ajasin' bu aha ndi ofe mmanu
Echeghi m na ndi nna nna diokpa a bu ndi igbo. . . i leezie anya ka osi api akpa amu ya aka. . .hmmmm

rubi
Biko mara amara na ihe n'ile i na eme ngaa di very appreciated by moi

Nsogbu adighi obu ihe anyi n'emere onwe anyi. Ya mere ndi igbo jiri tuo ILu si aja onye akidi ogwu ta ozo

vegetarian is good it makes one look health and loose weight too. I am FAN OF VEGE

Mgbe madu kwusiri igu egwu egwu nke oguru ka aga eji cheta ya (micheal jackson)
when a man stop carving the ones he carved will be used to be remembered

just waiting for wedding bell

just heard it now

Tbaby12:
I have read a lot on NL and felt its a place to to get a little help. i am 26 female doctor currently in the US on a graduate program. Before comming to the States , I had boyfriend who incidently wanted to marry me before leaving , but because i was bent on furthering my career, i had to go. Although he is nice, good looking , had a good job in the bank, he is older than me by 15yrs.

Before that guy , I had a boyfriend in the university that was in medical school with me, we broke up but still kept in touch even after he left for the states for the same program which i am now. Though not in the same city. some where northeast USA. He loves me ( But i dont think he is the way i do for him), and had done so much for me too, like helping with admission process and all the info needed to come in.

Then, here comes the third guy whom i never in my wildest dream will ever meet. He is nice, good looking and very caring. infact he can go extra lenght to do anything for me. This guy in question is married and currrently seperating from his wife for reasons thats medically related on the wife not able to concieve. The pressure has been on him by his parents, that i never believed him until one day he got a call from home while having dinner in a resturant. He was so terified that for once i knew the situation was getting serious.


Let me say that my boyfriend in North east has finally finished the program and has move down to metro Atlanta and decided to move in with me instead of staying with his relation. The situation was such that i couldnt say no to his moving in because of the relationship i have with him. But considering that the guy i met here is thinking of settling down and have what i actually needed, I am in a confused state. To prove to me how serious he was he called my snr sister about it and want me to give a go ahead to conclude things back home.


I am loosing him cos he cant stand the fact that i have a man at home with me. I do love and care for him but my northeasterner is on me too. I dont know what to do. He is getting tired of waiting and dont want to hurt him either. he has not done any wrong to me and the guy i have at home dont wanna see it happen either.

What do i do?. I want to get married , settle, file for my papers and live a good life with someone that will love me unconditionally. I doubt if after knowing that i am still seeing the third guy, he will marry me. i know this because he is already making me scared, threat, almost beating me few weeks ago. If he gets on his feet, will he dump me?

Please help.

I think it is natural. A times comes in a womans life she becomes very confuse which man to choose all I can say is the one that that gives you peace and smile when you remember him is the one

@ Topic if that is what life has brought to you accept it in good fate and move on

Winnergal:
How do you like your pork: Roasted, grilled, fried, steamed or baked . . .?

I don't think pork is all that healthy

Housemates of yabaleft found sesman

she is well groomed

Dislike her for not using her real name

sagitarius:
Hi guys, i've always wondered if it is wrong to always show ur spouse that u really love them. u see, my friend loves his girlfriend so much that he can miss anythin just to make her happy. However, she always treats him like a fool even when his friends are there. she treats him with so much disrespect,even when she does somethin wrong, she turns it around and makes it look like his fault. She makes him apologise and then laughs at him with her friends. She calls on him to drive her places and calls him her driver (imagine), well, he's madly in love with her and doesn't hide it (but i'm very sure its not juju, )
so dear friends, i just wonder, Is it wrong to show that kind of feelin

You don't know the value of what you have untill you loose it then your eye go clear well well.

Doctors cares but God heals. It is well with you

ifyalways:
"Enyi m, a gaara m agwa gi" a bughi ya; "Enyi m a gwakwara m gi" bu ezi enyi.
Translation:"My friend, I should have told you" is not it; "my friend, I told you so," is true friendship.
Meaning: True friendship demands that we speak bluntly and truthfully to our friends at all times.

I love this one very insightful