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Always speak/vow for yourself don't say he/she cannot do this or that so that you will not say had I known
Trust God and monitor people

Let them go for paternity test

Men like it when women are crowding them up.
@ Poster you are enjoying their company or else you would have been blunt and let them go

topcracker:
I want to know what you would do if you caught your husband in bed with another woman??

You did not tell us what you did or what you will do

whiteroses:
My mum is a friend to a couple that goes to our church, the Guy is Nigerian while the girl is Jamaican, they love each other and already have two kids, now the guy says he's planning to relocate to Nigeria becasue UK life doesn't appeal to him at all and he is making plans already to relocate permanently, on the other hand the Jamaican girl said there is absolutely no way she is relocating to Nigeria, when she doesnt have any family and friends there, she concluded they both stay but the guy said he finds in terrifying to know that he is going to grow old in this country that is the last thing on his mind and out of the option, the girl also said no way she is relocating to Africa for the rest of her life, my mum talked to her and convinced her Nigeria is good and enjoyable and she said my mum should put her daughter (me) in her shoes if a Jamaican guy wants me to live in Jamaica for life will she agree and that was when I realized her point, but they both agree they want to be with each other for life only difference is He is not ready to stay in UK and she is not relocating to Nigeria either. the girl doesnt know this but the guy told us in two-four years he'd be living in Nigeria and their oldest child is just 4. the guy is determined to go he said he had suffered and lived for too long in UK and the first day he got here he knew he was going back home.
I still see them looking happy at church every sunday but they need to solve their differences, but who do you think is wrong and what would you do. I hope this will not ruin their relationship, my mum thinks hes pressured because he has younger brothers and sisters investing and doing well in Nigeria and they have a rich family company as well, maybe he's just angry at that lol

It is good to marry anywhere but ideal to marry under your umbrella. I am not racist just keeping it real

ezinne1212:
lol, people are funny. You want people to be candid with u, but u're also dictating what shud be said, this is the real world and if your bro already knows the truth and can't handle it then i feel sorry for his spouse.

If he's that desperate, let him tell his wife he's lusting after another woman, and see if his 'soulmate' wants to leave her comfort zone and tell her hubby her feelins for another man. Since they both know thier bible and are so freaking down to earth they should be straight up with their partners, or are they simply cowards looking for some reasons to justify infidelity.

chaircover:
The reason they are both having problems with their current partners is because they are both not 100% committed to their marriages but are thinking that the grass is greener on the other side & they think that they have an escape route.

They are just both being very naive and very selfish. If they were meant to be married, they would have done so in the beginning. Some things are not meant to be in life.

Very few of us marry our first love or soul mates or whatever you want to call it due to hundreds of reasons; distance, immaturity on one or the others part, parental opposition, financial reasons, schooling etc etc.

What we do is to go on to marry the man/women we love at the appointed time its right to get married, we forget about the young man/woman soul mate or whatever they are called and we get on with making our current marriages happy & our houses a home.

Both of you nailed it

From heaven born in 9ja. Anyway from Imo and Abiastate

I love it with passion the best ghanian sauce ever but don't know how to prepare it. You can google it

@Poster you are taking me back to old memory. I miss bush meat chei!!

Neptunz:
There has been this belief by christains that Jesus christ their lord & so-called personal saviour is coming;when,no one knows just a hypothesis, They believe he will come down to earth & take to heaven.The whole thing about "RAPTURE",they are the only one that understand, Can anybody go to heaven without experiencing death.Just a few persons God granted that favour including Prophet Isa {peace be upon him} known as jesus christ by christ.He never died for anybody moreover God doesnt need human blood for atonement.He begets nor was He begotten, Thousands of years have passed by & this people are still expecting jesus christ.Will he ever come??

Jesus is coming back again this time as king of kings and lord of lords you better repent before raptue takes you unawares

Le kwa nu thread anyi no n'ala ala. maka gini? Ilu okoro onye obula?

ukukaegbu:
Onye ara nyuru ahu, onweghi onye huru ya, o si na nke ahu a gaala
A mad man farted, and when noone saw him he said that that one has passed.

The same onye ara atuo ulo oku si n'ihe abata la
A mad man set his house on fire and said let there be light and there was light

Uche ogbuagu my sweet comedian. Okwu gburu onwe ya

At least she was polite

xynerio:
This is no story or tabloid, this happened in my present. I went to ''MAKE ME BEAUTY SALON'' in surulere to see a friend who is working there and this actress entered. she wanted to do her hair. After everything, she brought out 2500 as bill but the 500 is a counterfeit, instead of her to change it she was arguing with the hairdresser that the money is ok, she should take it that she has no other but that. It was when other workers came out to know what was happening dat she brought another N500 to give her. Pele mercy.

She is my girl even in her mistake

maritalman:
I personally dont think a woman have a right to her earnings to her husband.

However, the jews instituted that since the husband is obligated to feed, clothe and provide housing for his wife it is only fitting that he should be the beneficiary of her earnings.

It should be noted that even after the JEWS established this rule, if a woman wishes, she has the right to tell her husband, "I will support myself and I will keep my earnings."


but it is advice able to say that a wife should give her husband all she have since the Bible verify it that

"THE WIFE AND THE HUSBAND ARE ONE FLESH"

so it is a capital YES to the post above

HOPE THIS IS CLEAR

I disagree

Ndi Igbo unu ari kpuo la. onye sha ala owerri arighi ya nma ya kwara li
If owerri land no sweet you commot for road make better people see road pass

maritalman:
Are Women Intimidated By Attractive Men?

We all know that attractive women can scare off guys. You know, the whole rejection thing and all.

But are women like that with men they think are really cute? Do they think, "I can't talk to him. He'd never want me"?

please let open up

There is no attraction in a man who cannot pay bills, take care of his responsibilities.

davidylan:
This is primarily why i dont even bother when women complain of rape or harrassment . . . a man may have a right to physically assault you shld you psychologically assault his senses.

This is summer more are yet to come. Just try and cross your mind I know it might be hard

davidylan:
if you're going to go half-naked at least have a decent cleavage! Like some of the chics on this thread . . .

You are talking from a xtain point of view. Untill they are raped then they will start calling the police and devil

Echiche echere gbuo nmadu abughi otu ubochi
The meditation to kill someone wasn't done in a day
The thinking in considering marrying a man/woman is not considered in a day

Nwa ada n'agba egwu  ma n'uzo di anya
Babe is dancing still the journey is too long
You trying to solve your problem still it looks like you've not started yet

Ify ndewoo

fayahsoul:
igbo si na onye nwe ego ọ nwe umunna.

Trans: If one becomes wealthy one owns his kinsmen/clan .

Eche m ma ana asi onye nwere nmadu ka onye nwere ego

bluespice:
rubi how can u say its hard not to fall inlove at the first time,
dont get it twisted, there's nothing like love at first sight
its fascination, infatuation, like
whatever, just not love

Re-read my post we are saying the same thing.

when you meet someone the first time don't fall neck deep although it is hard to control. Just keep it on hello hi till the real person envelope itself

Fhemmmy:
Well said.
But if your husband work in same office with you, who will u respect more at the office?

Bussiness and pleasure don't mix. I cannot work in the same office with my hubby.

big father:
[b]This will definitely discourage good samaritans and some of us might be lynched trying or offering to help

read on,


On 27th June, 2009 one woman, a widow (named withheld) was returning from her church after a fellowship when she was hit by car at Nkwo Ala, Ekwerazu Mbaise.

According to eye witnesses, the driver sped off abandoning the victim with slight injuries. Within minutes, a jeep pulled by and the driver and his cohorts (wicked Samaritans) offered to assist the accident victim and carried her into their vehicle. The people who gathered at the scene believed she was taking to a nearby hospital not knowing that they were working with the driver that knocked her down. In a hurry they left her bicycle and one of her wrappers.

The victim's relations on getting the accident news visited various hospitals within the LGA and beyond in order to locate their mother, sister, wife, cousin, sister, daughter, etc to no avail. They quickly reported the matter to the police who after inquiries and search discovered on Sunday, 28/06/2009 that the widow was killed and her dead body dumped along Umuahia/Owerri road. Her body was found without her eyes, tongue, brain, breast, and other vital parts. The bad Samaritans happened to be ritual murderers!

Beware of this new approach by ritualists and make sure that you know the identity of those offering help to you or your relations (in case you fall victim of accident). The first driver will hit the victim and run away. Within seconds, the driver of a second vehicle (behind the hit-and-run-driver) carrying the bad Samaritans will appear to offer unsolicited assistance to the victim.

God will continue to save us from the wickedness of evil men. Amen ![/b]

He can run but he can't hide from God

@ Poster you love her but the problem with you is you don't value her until another man will take her away from you and brush/polish her then you will regret her for the rest of your life.

Now that thing you love and cherish in other woman when you see them reverse it on her.

If she is not dressing good shop for her
If it is education it is not too late to enroll back to school all over

You said she loves you and you should thank your God for that part
When you where pregnanting her it was love now it is no longer love

You can bring out the best in someone although it might take time but be patience Good luck

Read under Lines Example start

Look good and help when she wants to but situatiion has changed this days

she wants attension