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RomanceRe: Tracking Your Husband by rubi(f): 7:26pm On Jul 08, 2008
@ Topic, Life is meant to be enjoyed and not endured, tracking your husband will not change anything the only thing that will change is when the man decides to change for good.
CultureRe: Igbos come show your proverbs skills by rubi(f): 7:09pm On Jul 08, 2008
echelon:
ROTFLMAO grin grin grin

RUBI WETIN BE DAT ONE NAH?
Nothing spoil just fun!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

How body?
RomanceRe: Tracking Your Husband by rubi(f): 7:07pm On Jul 08, 2008
@ Topic, Men do not like any tracking after they must have gone through all the tracking for years with their mother from new born to adult. Most times that turns them off the same thing is applicable to wife.
RomanceRe: Should Women Keep Their Female Friends Away From Their Boyfriends/Husbands? by rubi(f): 6:56pm On Jul 08, 2008
@ Topic, Choose your friends deligently
CultureRe: Igbos come show your proverbs skills by rubi(f): 6:44pm On Jul 08, 2008
echelon:
more like "a tuoro ya nzuko?"
Efere m no n'ala ngwa nu onye o bula tuo utu gi ma obughi ya I will ban all of you
(Rubi smiled)
Christianity EtcRe: I Don't Feel Like Going To Church: What's Wrong? by rubi(f): 6:36pm On Jul 08, 2008
Gamine:
Mrs Rubi, you are way off.

i like what one of my pastors said,
Church is not a CLUB!!!!
You can be born in church, live in church, die in church, buried in church
and still never be saved!!
Yes I agree with you, but one thing is sure it is better to stay in touch with the church than out of church. An unbeliever that comes to the church regularly is better than a xtain that is not seen in the church at all and claims he loves God you know why? because the words that he hears are like seeds planted which will germinate good fruit one day.
Christianity EtcRe: I Don't Feel Like Going To Church: What's Wrong? by rubi(f): 6:19pm On Jul 08, 2008
KunleOshob:
That is churchianity and not christianity.
It is churchianity that brings christianity
CultureRe: Igbos come show your proverbs skills by rubi(f): 6:08pm On Jul 08, 2008
Onye koo mkpa ya atu ora ya miitin
If you say your problem igbo kwenu!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! nairaland will come @ your rescue
CultureRe: Igbos come show your proverbs skills by rubi(f): 6:05pm On Jul 08, 2008
Agadi nwanyi abughi agadi n'egwu oma agba
An old woman is not old when the song she used to dance start beating
Christianity EtcRe: I Don't Feel Like Going To Church: What's Wrong? by rubi(f): 5:58pm On Jul 08, 2008
Gamine:
Miss/Mrs Rubi

i never mentioned i was unsaved.

if i was unsaved why will i go to churchhuh
My point is there is a level you will reach with God you will long for sundays to come quickly because you can't wait to be in church
Christianity EtcRe: I Don't Feel Like Going To Church: What's Wrong? by rubi(f): 5:54pm On Jul 08, 2008
@ Kunle, The bible says forsake not the assembly of brethren
Christianity EtcRe: I Don't Feel Like Going To Church: What's Wrong? by rubi(f): 5:35pm On Jul 08, 2008
@ Topic become saved first if you are not, then you will be more eager and willing to go to church every sunday.
RomanceRe: Possibility Of Falling In Love With Someone Overseas by rubi(f): 4:26pm On Jul 08, 2008
@ Topic I personally will not encourage you to develop too much interest in someone who you found on line because excitement on line is different from when you meet the person if you want you can just relate with the person as normal Gods creature, until you meet the person face to face because eye contact never lie
RomanceRe: Help With A Long Distance Relationship by rubi(f): 2:54pm On Jul 07, 2008
@ Topic My question is the way you hold him in high esteem does he hold you in high esteem like that if the answer is yes, then follow your heart because
RomanceRe: Do You Really Love Someone If You Cheat On Them? by rubi(f): 2:47pm On Jul 07, 2008
smooooooth:
well women and men don't see cheating from the same angle, so i don't think i can ever win this one, expecially when most of the commentators are women. women, when in love can't touch another man with a 10ft pole, but men can be in love and cheat, doesnt mean they don't love you.
thats just the way nature has made it,anyway lets just appreciate when we are love and learn to forgive when one goes astray due to temptation, because by not forgiving, women sometimes throw away something really special. thats my point sha.
Nice word
Christianity EtcRe: Sunday Morning: How Was Church? by rubi(f): 2:42pm On Jul 07, 2008
@Topic church was fine, My bishops wife told us sometime ago that since she became a xtain for over fourthy years she can count on how many times she was absent from church not up to five times. That statement never left me so every sunday I make sure I am in the church. How can I stay home will church is going on? impossible
CultureRe: Mbediọgụ: The Controversial Tortoise And Other Folklores by rubi(f): 2:32pm On Jul 07, 2008
@Ifyalways that was a nice story keep the light shinning

@Echelon that was great too keep it up
CultureRe: Igbos come show your proverbs skills by rubi(f): 2:29pm On Jul 07, 2008
@ Topic, Anaghi ama uru nkirika akwa bara rue ubochi aga atufu ya
You don't know the value of a rag until the day it will be thrown away.

Aluta agbohobia achupu agadi
When a man marries a young woman the old wife is abandoned
RomanceRe: Why Do Ladies Always Want Their Partners To Say "I Love You" by rubi(f): 2:41am On Jul 05, 2008
@ Topic, ladies wants to be reassured and feel loved
FamilyRe: How Do You Know Your Husband Is Not Cheating On You? by rubi(f): 8:08pm On Jul 03, 2008
mohawkchic:
~"What You Dont KNow Wont Kill You" is Not an Attitude IMHO to take on if one suspects a partner of being Unfaithful!!!!


~KNowing,suspecting Or pretending not to know doesnt make the Individual any Happier!!


~That will be living a life of "Fake Happiness" wondering all the time if Your Partner IS with the other Woman/Man!!
I know that people react and treat issues differently based on understanding and maturity
FamilyRe: How Do You Know Your Husband Is Not Cheating On You? by rubi(f): 8:07pm On Jul 03, 2008
mohawkchic:
~"What You Dont KNow Wont Kill You" is Not an Attitude IMHO to take on if one suspects a partner of being Unfaithful!!!!


~KNowing,suspecting Or pretending not to know doesnt make the Individual any Happier!!


~That will be living a life of "Fake Happiness" wondering all the time if Your Partner IS with the other Woman/Man!!

I know that people react and treat issues differently based on understanding and maturity
FamilyRe: How Do You Know Your Husband Is Not Cheating On You? by rubi(f): 7:32pm On Jul 03, 2008
@ Topic what you don't know will not kill you
FamilyRe: Moving To Separate Rooms After Many Years Of Marriage by rubi(f): 7:27pm On Jul 03, 2008
@ Topic, It creates a lot of suspicions to have separate rooms some people think it is cute but it is not
CultureRe: Mbediọgụ: The Controversial Tortoise And Other Folklores by rubi(f): 7:11pm On Jul 03, 2008
Once upon a time, Totorise and other animal went out again because they have no choice than to hang out with the great MBE. This time they went to an old woman's who like to eat pepper a lot so this woman prepared a delicious meal with a lot of hot hot pepper in it Mbe told other animals that no one should complain to the woman that the food is spicy so that next time the woman will prepare another one for them.

When they all started to eat some started to shed tears because there is too much pepper and the woman that cooked the food saw those tears and thought it was tears of joy and they are enjoying her meal.

Tortoise was eating and was singing cunningly
since mu riwara mu emela si!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
mu emela si, mu emela si!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
Since mu riwara mu emela si!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
mu emela si!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
Mbe was trickily getting fresh air into his mouth and at the same time cunning other animals not to say anything so that hot pepper will roast their mouth.
FamilyRe: Is Your Partner Cheap by rubi(f): 6:31pm On Jul 02, 2008
@ Topic A man that will sincerely marry you will not throw away money like that I know what I am talking about also I know your expections as a lady it is normal but to me what counts most is his dedication and quality of attention he gives you he may have the money and decide to be quiet.

As our faces are different so are our relationships. Most men show a woman so much affection after marriage some show immediately it depends on individuals and the experience they had before, so I will encourage and advise you to relax, be happy and enjoy the little he has. Rome wasn't built in a day Good luck!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
CultureRe: Igbos come show your proverbs skills by rubi(f): 8:38pm On Jul 01, 2008
@Topic Ahu nwoke ahu ogologo imi ya
If you see a man you see what he worth
CultureRe: The Pains In Romance And Marriage Among Igbos. by rubi(f): 8:08pm On Jul 01, 2008
@ Topic where one grew up contributes a lot when one is getting married if someone from Anambara grew up among the Imo people it is likely that the person will marry from that place, why? because he /she associates with them alot either in business, church activities or work and somehow develop bond or used to the person.

Although some people still have that mentality of not going too far especially the first born. Love breaks every boundary
CultureRe: Mbediọgụ: The Controversial Tortoise And Other Folklores by rubi(f): 4:27pm On Jul 01, 2008
Once upon a time time!!! time!!!! tortoise and other animals were invited for a party. So they all gathered together and decided that everyone of them must choose a name to avoid confusion and to be identified properly when they got to the party, so tortoise been smart enough waited for them to choose a name and he was the last to choose, do you know the name he chose (UNU DUM) and he made each one to swear to stick by their names they all agreed and thanked him for such initialization.

When they got to the party hall lo and behold it was a big occasion and different variety of food was prepared so when the programme reached item NO SIX (6) and since the animals are very plenty the people serving the food decided that they will put the food in one big bowl for the animals to eat together. When they brought out the food the only name they could mention is (UNU DUM) which means all of you should come and eat the great tortoise stood up as per his name and grab the food finish the whole of it without given any to his friends the second food came he did the same thing, the third food came he repeated the same thing until at a point the other animal got upset and wanted to kill the tortoise by then it was too late and the party was over also the whole food has finished they vowed never to go out with MBE but MBE WILL ALWAYS BE MBE
CultureRe: Igbos come show your proverbs skills by rubi(f): 4:01pm On Jul 01, 2008
rubi:
I gahie uzo bu icho ta uzo

Missing road is knowing road
@echelon Ihe m miniri bu madu fuo uzo oga ahu uzo ahu ama ya mere mgbe ozo ogawara ebe ahu oga ama n' ofugo uzo na mgbe mbu wee mara zie nke bu ezi uzo.

@ifyalways ndi ebe m di fine and healthy.
CultureRe: Mbediọgụ: The Controversial Tortoise And Other Folklores by rubi(f): 6:31pm On Jun 30, 2008
This thread reminds me when I was a kid my parents told us a lot about tortoise
Do you know that I went to the market one day while I was in Nigeria and I happened to see tortoise
I called the tortoise (MBE ONYE AGHUGHO) and immediately dam tortoise went back to his shell and never came out till I left. That made me to believe all the story been told about the tortoise.

I will still type my own story later
CultureRe: Mbediọgụ: The Controversial Tortoise And Other Folklores by rubi(f): 6:23pm On Jun 30, 2008
I will tell mine soon smiley
CultureRe: Igbo Kwenu ! Kwenu Kwezo Nu ! Join Us If You Proud To Be An Igbo Guy/lady by rubi(f): 6:22pm On Jun 30, 2008
echelon:
@rubi

I bu nwoke ka I bu nwanyi?
Abu m nwanyi akowalam owe m before

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