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@poster yes it is pride

LadyT:
Syren he lives in Peckham what do you expect?

CH3COO your dumping lines are awful LMAO No woman will take you serious she will either laugh in your face or try to strangle you

I have the same thought

CH3COO:
that's fine. anything to get rid of her in a sweet way.

baby, I'm happier when I think of you with another guy.

How do you know?

StephenP:
You mean I should spend six months not calling her, not picking up her calls, hiding in my house praying that she doesn't come by, praying I do not bump into her when I'm outside and if I do act like I don't know her, leaving a store or party because I spotted her or someone that looks like her there. Naw brother, I can't be living my life in fear like that, I'll rather break it up officially and have my sanity.

Preach it my brother

Hannibal:
I agree 100%.
A man has to be ruthless if he wants to make any headway.
All those crocodile tears don't SCORE with me. . . . . . .
Rants like. . . ."i love u", "how can u do this to me", "u cannot do this to me". . . . . They are all emotional blackmail.
That was the same thing she told Segun, Tunde, D'banj and 9ice. . . Sometimes they think men are STUPID.

It depends on the time frame, hombre!!!
A girl u have stopped speaking to for 6 months won't come back one day expecting miracles.
Are u supposed to ignore the incommunicado of half a year and just take her back in a stride??
StephenP, don't make me bash your nose with a sledgehammer.

It depend on what seperates them in the first place and how close they were before the seperation if she comes back after six months and issue are discussed rather than hanging then eachone will know their stand. A relationship separated in peace is better than in pieces

nice post

StephenP:
I'll set up a rendezvous with her and let her know that this thing isn't working at all and I think we should call it quits and end it. I don't have time for shit to be hanging.

If she hears nothing from you, she could think it's all good. Remember, "no news is good news"

nice input from a real man

CH3COO:
Dude you really need to leave this woman alone. The yoke of her egg is gone. Desperate times don't call for measures this desperate.

Kids come from God and him alone Amen

Hannibal:
Like all players do. . . . .

However, some chics are donkey stubborn . . . . You crink em good and they won't leave u be.
No matter what u do, they feign they don't see the EXIT sign.
To make matters worse, they use tears as emotional blackmail. . . . .

Not all chics of nowadays most of them are confident in themselves

agaba123:
Hahahahaha fromUK aka Pres , kedu ihe I na-ekwu? Lol mu na oney isi ndi Scotland yard ka kpachara nkata ugbua, Ogwarokwa m na a na-acho m acho,
Kwukwe eziokwu maka a ga m akpo ya ugbua, M kpoo ya m gwa ya aha gi, Kedu maka Nnene

Aru adiro Ify O di ka O di ime, ka any ka na-elegodu a ga am agwa unu,

Aha mu bu m rubi emisielem ify biko onye huru ya kwa ya na mu n'acho ya

Obu ezi okwu mana oburu ego akpatara n'uzo ziri ezi
n'abughi 419, ogwu ego, ma obu n'uzo arurala

Agwa bu nma nwanyi dika ndi igbo turu n'ilu

superstan:
ephesians 5:22-24

"wives, submit to your husbands as to the Lord. 23for the husband is the head of the wife as Christ is the head of the church, his body, of which he is the savior. 24now as the church submits to Christ, so also wives should submit to their husbands in everything.

SeanT21:
This was about Marriage. God did not say Women should be less than men in any other situation.

nice input from seanT21

@Poster if you can't tell her how you feel when she hurts you that is please rethink

Opposite of single is married

Lazzaro:
Can a woman actually take the amndate to turn things around in nigeria, ?

And if you are to make your choice who will you pick among the dominant ladies in politics

1 ABIKE DABIRI
2 NGOZI OKONJI IWEALA
3 DORA AKUNYILI
4 PATRICIA ETTEH
5 NGOZI EZEKWESSILI

The ego in men will not allow that to happen but nice idea

Memi:
I don't discount marriage at all it is very important, but when there is no food in your house, no lights, no gas in your car , I've been on the side of the fence where the man had no money and no job, the love quickly dwindled because I was taking care of me and him, It gets a little tiring , I'm not not a gold digger you want me to stick around you need to have some money and I don't care if you work at McDonalds or work in a big corporation , you need something in the pockets "I can do bad all by myself"

@Poster let her marry with time you will get over it with time.
I keep saying this when a man or woman walks away from your life do not hurry to get annoyed
because it may have been ultimately planned for your own good for after rain come shunshine

@Topic if you are not married you are single if you are single you are not married simple there is no confussion there

jkpretty:
You are only lucky when u marry the right person.

That is true but both must make up their mind that it will work

redeve17:
do you guys believe that marriage is all about being lucky.
some people date each other for years and end up getting married to different partners

I believe the reason is that a man/woman can give you his/her body during relationship and not their heart

amyg:
How best do u end relationships?I mean all my past relationships were never really called off.most times separated by distance or i would feel its just not working so i get on with my life until they come back and i tell them them they r 25mins 2 late.Same thing with my immediate ex,anything wrong with that?i just feel its stupid telling someone its over,better let him catch d signs himself

That is childish way of calling of any relationship. Have you watched break up movie between genevive and ramsey noah ie two can can play the game. I know alot of people who have hanged relationships by the time they come back to take what they hanged some other person have taken it. My advice/contribution is issues better discussed and remove pride is half solved until two people sit down and have a talk all you are doing is guess guess and most times guesses are wrong

@Topic Ponder, you lust after one and love the other
Slow down, don't through away what you have because of new catch
Time will tell

I keep saying this all the time if I am a man I will not marry a lady less than 25yrs because of maturity reason and at that time she must know what she wants in life

@ Topic society contributes a lot eg in Nigeria a lady that is 30yrs is considered too old and people label her because thats our culture but in america hmmmmmmmmmmmmmmm a woman @40yrs life is just begining to start bubbling no one cares so much about age as far as both of you understands each other

@ Islander the same date November 25

Interesting story it is not who you(women) love it is who loves you (men) for a relationship to work. Most men are domineering

Nice thread!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! just watch it won't be long another thread of Tribute to men in my life

Men like women who are confident of themselves, intelligent and wise they are attracted to them the more