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I don't believe in divorce b/c bible says I hate divorce neither do I believe in dying ahead of my time

It is always godd and encouraging for any woman to be a satisfied woman before entering into marriage. Money, husband cannot occupy that vaccum it is only God that can fill it. Thereby he will guide you with all deligent and give you peace

I don't support cheating but a girl is not yours untill you marry her

^^^^ You keep saying you are in love with her that means your eyes have not cleared

ok go and have intimacy with her and tell your wife. let me know whether that devil that held you blind will leave you immediately or not

Your wife did not do well in cutting that girl again I think something else must have transpired which made her rage like that

I have a female boss with a great heart anytime I want off day she grants me maybe b/c she is a mother too and understands where I am coming from.

She doesn't stress anyone at all she says to us you are an adult and accountable of yourself just get your work done very well and submitt your monthly report

Ghana Gal:
i'll be at peace, n no 1 will b hurt. I'm loosin it, am looooosin it, hhhmmmmmm

Life and death are in the power of tougue

smooooooth:
i no believe your tory, but if na true. your wife and her best friend definately planned this one, just to check if you can be faithful. ladies are fond of games like this.

i mean why will she come in by 11pm, when she was supposed to be going for a vigil, and see the way the friend came at you. haba! na plan o, and too bad you f**ked up. try to keep your willy in your pants next time.

Exactly my mind

I have no problem with a woman earining more than a man but I have a problem when a man is stagnant refuses to improve himself in life b/c his wife brings home more money

Congratulation on your new born baby. Babies are little Gods own way of saying the world should go on

jenny9:
in addition, i pray that no one would have this kind of experience i had even my worst enemy. and my advice to all preparing to get married is this, please dont be carried away by the preparation rather dedicate more time in prayers for the sucess of the ceremony. i think i didnt do that much.

I love the highlighted. Amen

When a man treats a woman very well submission comes naturally

Most men do not like a woman who is yes sir master, yes sir master it bores them and they want a little challenge but in respectable manner to view issues from a woman angle

In marriage there should be some privacy and not secret

Fathers should start from onset and set boundaries b/w them and their daughter. I am not against fatherly love but leaving a situation to escalate to the extent of the daughter sleeping unclothed by besides his fathers

I weep for the death of her mother. Onwu Nne enweghi nche zoo

You only know the true color of a man when he is rich. Only a few poor guy who becomes rich and still remain cool headed. Money has a way of making one arrogant.

I will marry a poor guy with good morals and potential

I will not advice you to bring anyone from Nigeria as siena pointed out it will be fine if you can find Nigerian mothers with kids from where you reside to assist you that one you will have peace and stable marriage

I know alot of people who brought someone from home the rest is history. If you want you can go ahead and give it a trial experience is the best teacher

~Sissy~:
NO but one thing is for sure though, its not for everybody

well said

I know couples who do such but I will not do it there is nothing as healthy as couples receiving the same doctrine and message

It might not be call stealing but it is a bad habit b/c I know of some one who takes the mothers
meat from the cooking pot when she grew up and got married before she will finish cooking the whole meat in the pot has disappeared in her stomach

otukpo:
In-laws problems will not keep u from getting married.
So deal with it as it comes.
But always be urslf and if possible, [color=Black]spend less time with them.[/color]

The truth and nothing but the truth. I apply this highlighted method and it works for me. some people who don't know me very well mistake me as being too private but I am being diplomatic[color=Black][/color]

youngies:
^^Lol

Ugwu nwanyi bu di ya
The dignity of a woman is her husband


rubi ole ebe i gara since?

Mere nke a mere nke a ekweghi ngwere gba aji

Women/girls who don't  like good men but rather appreciate bad man have been mentally abused and conditioned that way so they see anything good as weak and boring. It will take alot of counseling and homework for them to come to reality.

@buzugee I sensed the same thing. I was watching one show too on tv and was sympathizing with the poor lady in that show only for them to show behind the scene of that show how it was acted since then I don't pay attension too much on those shows

Ike nwoke di na umunna ya
The strength of a man is in his kinsman
Igbo kwenu!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

Some men/women have potentials in them but circumstances are holding it which will manifest/come out later in life then think twice before you quit but if it is just I love you lets go and have dinner some where so as to cool off no prospect at all in life then count me out

@Casa
I think she is asking for assistance once in a while. For me cooking should be a hobby at least for the sake of health

hanzi:
I and my girlfriend has been into relationship for some years and it is heading towards marriage. But the problem is who do the cooking and the housework? [/b ]To her she believes that a caring man always cook for his woman. When I say “[b]always", I don't mean three times a week, I mean everyday i.e wake up in the morning and prepare breakfast for her and the children and also do some of the house work.At evening you should rush back to cook the dinner because the wife and children need to eat. The truth is, it is the way she was raised to understand. She is really a nice girl but I will be sincere with myself. I can't see myself doing housework at alone at the cookings.

As a man, I see it as bring myself so low. I need advice on how to make her understand this.

If you treat her very well unknowingly she will respond positive

The beauty of a woman is in money.

@Adaybola Thanks for your contribution and honesty

Your friend consulting his wife does not mean his wife is controlling him these are some of the reasons why if anything happens to the man while in the ball game the first suspect will be his wife so she has to know his movement it is really important

If you can assist him a little bit financially by working too he might work less and devote some quality time with you

Pweety4me:
[color=#550077]Have u ever found urself in a situation where u r dying 4 some1 so badly dat u would do anyfin 2 have dem? u feel like it's them or nobody else. . .do u give up on this person if they do not like yu?or do u use [/b[b]] tactics?how far r u willing 2 go 2 get this person 2 be urs?

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Save your tactic for something meaningful and guide your heart with all deligent

Anytime she talks to you again tell her about your new girl friend and how you spent quality time/good treatment from each other gradually she will feel jealous and withdraw from you. good luck