The directors and management of Lead British International School that trended online today due to the video on circulation concerning the girl being bullied, has taken a good step in the right direction. As promised by the school's management in this video, let us see what the outcome of this investigation will be. This will also serve as a deterrent to any other child our there that have the tendency of bullying another child.
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We await the result of the investigation. May God give all quarters involved the wisdom to handle the situation.
Please, what part of Abuja? I could recommend a Church probably close to you that I believe the Spirit of God will move you back to Him when you attend.
This is a very old story, I have viewed same video years back. Anyway, thanks for returning the video and making it news especially for those that haven't seen it before.
A lady was shouting here the other day that the husband has changed towards her cos he collected loan to pay a scandalous bride price in the name of "you only pay once"
Send me a PM I'll add you to the telegram group for students, gather information from there make an informed decision. it's a DIY group. No agents involved
A father SHOULD be a FATHER in ALL weather not waiting for an entitlement he doesn't deserve after period/years of negligence.
If he was barred at first, he should maintain the status and not come out to fight after what he didn't labor for. A lot needs to be changed in our dear continent.
MetaBroadband: Good morning mature men and women in the house. Please I need your help on this topic.
My Fiancee told me about how her biological dad abandoned her and her mum after getting her mum pregnant.
Her mum later married another man who adopted her as his child.
Now she's grown and I've proposed to her, I wanted to go for her official introduction and list collection.
Would it not be nice to hear the biological father's opinion? Should I just ignore the fact that the man is still alive and proceed with the marriage arrangement?
Although she said I should not bother about that, but this is Nigeria and as an Akwa Ibomite I don't think it's proper. Although she's against me trying to find out about the man's opinion. Should I care?
What can you say about this?
Note: she only told me that the man abandoned them, but what if it was her mum that actually took her away?
sidney22: In another thread, the topic is on the way forward after 50 years of the scheme.
I did my youth service when NYSC was 25 years old in Calabar , Cross River State. That was in 1998.
The orientation period was the shortest yet in the history of NYSC till date - 2 weeks that looked like one month.
The service year too was still the shortest - from February to December.
Leaving the camp then, we were given questionnaires to fill on the way forward for the scheme.
What I suggested then is what I am still going to suggest now on the way forward for this noble scheme.
Presently as it stands , NYSC has outlived its usefulness as originally planned.
A very laudable program that requires modification and twerking to suit the present day Nigeria.
It should not be scrapped but rather restructured.
The scheme should be reduced to six months.
But the mandatory one year (monthly) allowance must be maintained.
The scheme should be broken down into three phases.
Each phase should last just two months.
During this six months every corp member must enjoy his/her monthly allowance.
At the end of the six months every corp member should be disengaged and six months allowance paid in full to prepare them for live in the larger society.
Phase 1- Security Training
Every corp member should be made to undergo two months compulsory security/military training.
The most basic security/military training must be given to every Nigerian graduate.
This is what is obtainable in Israel and the Korea nations.
At the long run, the country will have a pool of youth already endowed with the basics in private and public defence mechanisms who can always and easily be called upon in terms of emergency.
Other nations have military reserves and these can serve the same purpose.
Phase 2 - Food security
For the purpose of food security , depending on the season of call up, all corp member should be engaged in one form of agriculture or the other for the next two months.
Every state as a matter of fact must provide land for farming, facilities for poultry, piggery, fishery etc.
Depending on the season, any batch that comes in, continues from where the last batch ended.
For example, if it is for cropping, if batch A does the planting , batch B or C does the tending, the harvesting and as well the marketing if need be.
Every state must provide silos for storage after harvesting.
The States should as well partner NYSC and NGOs with the procurement and provision of necessary preservation equipments like cold rooms, drying/heating equipments.
Mills should be built in areas where cereals and legumes are foremost.
Hatchery facilities should also be procured .
Phase 3 - National Orientation
This phase that will also last for two months, takes care of the inter cultural and inter religious relationships of the diverse tribes and religions that make up the country.
Here every corp member must be taught all they need to know about their host community, state and tribe.
This is where the seed of "ONE" Nigeria must be sowed.
Integration and assimilation should be the bed rock of this phase.
In my opinion , the era of one who read Literature in the the Higher Institution, having a god father in NNPC and consequently securing a job in NNPC will be a thing of the past.
A History graduate can no longer serve in CBN because he has an oga at top.
With this plan or restructure every corp member will be highly productive to the nation.
Prayerfully decide if you would want to come to Abuja or relocate outside the country.
Great advices have been given as regards places with decency and low cost life. You could consider Kubwa, Dutse, Gwarinpa/Dawaki, Lugbe if your focus is living in a place not far from the City Center.
Orozo (Navy Estate) is a nice option to consider as suggested.
With time, getting a land at Bwari is also in place. Land in Chukuku (Gwagwalada - Kuje Rd) is not also on a very high side, there is good electricity there as well.
For a start, after deciding, you could travel down to Abuja for a survey as advice and study the terrain. Don't be in a hurry to invest. Study, get confirmation and then invest according to your strength and what you are passionate about.
If you have someone you can temporarily put up with and connect with the nairalander that promised you a free ride, you can consider it as well.
For further information or assistance regards a temporary base, on permission, you can privately reach out to someone or two whom your spirit pushes you towards.
With God, Abuja is a nice place. Even in the furnace, the three men in the Holy Bible survived.
frank33: Hi guys. I really need some advice on this please.
We are a family of 6 and I want to relocate my family from Onitsha to Abuja in order to hopefully have a better life and expose to kids to more.
But I am bothered by the uncertainty of this move.
Is this this good idea?
If you live or have lived in Abuja can you please advice me on where we can live and afford an average life in Abuja in terms of accommodation, feeding and transport.
Also what kind of business can one start up in Abuja as a newcomer with about 10m to survive.
Shops adjacent Dutse Alhaji even Police Signboard axis. You would have just stopped at your question, rather than making such comments since kubwa village market is not the entire Kubwa as well.
Please, where in kubwa? We should not be commenting on issue we known nothing about. Most yellow delta garri is ₦700 in kubwa village market for almost two weeks now
Oh my God, this is the best and perfect country for me... If this is how it is, I should pursue UK fast fast... To hell with social life... To hell with gisting... Live and let others live...
I have compiled a list of the VERY BEST ever love songs to come out of our country in the past 20 years.
In no particular order, here you go. (Feel free to add the ones I missed)
Forever by Psquare Ololufe by Wande Coal African Queen by 2 face Fall in love by D banj Awelewa by Kunle Afolayan Strong Thing by Banky W Forever by Paul Play Roju by Chike Iyawo mi by Timi Dakolo Olomi by Tosin Martins Angel of my life by Paul Play Holla at your boy by Wizkid On the low by Burna Boy Aye by Davido Orente by Adekunle Gold I love you by P Square Ololufe by Flavour ft Chidinma Olufunmi by Style Plus True love by 2 Face Promise by Simi and Adekunle Gold
(These are the very best of the best love tracks to have come out of Nigeria in the past 20 years. Do you think there are some more?)
1. E dey pain me gangan by SAMPLE EKWE 2. Soapy by Naira Marley 3. All portable songs..... 4. Iya basira by Style Plus
My name is boredberry... I'm 19... And I need a boyfriend... He must reside in Abuja or be willing to travel to Abuja if he resides in other state... I don't discriminate but I would prefer a southerner, esp from these south-south states (Delta, Edo, Port Harcourt) or a south westerner excluding those from Ogun and Osun...
He must be tall... I'm 5.5 so he must be above 5.7...
I prefer dark men... Who doesn't love chocolate? But if he's fair and attractive I might consider...
He could be a Christian or a muslim... But I don't want someone who's too religious... I'm not really a believer but I'm very tolerant... I hate fanatics...
I need a man who's a lover of science! And mythology, astrology, history and so on...
A pan-African...
An avid reader...
He must be creative... Someone who sees things from many perspectives... Thinks outside the box...
He must be funny! And polite enough to laugh at my lame jokes...
Be considerate and kind... I need someone with a heart... Emphatic and with a vision to change the world in his own little way...
I need a man who is a lover of life! Drinks, smokes, enjoys going out and meeting new people...
Someone who takes risks... Loves adventures... Anything but common...
He must enjoy travelling... Excited by foreign cultures, esp those that are African...
Be a foodie...
I love public display of affection! So he should love holding me and being held... Kissed... Etc...
Be a dog person... Love the idea of having pets... I grew up with dogs and cats even chickens! So I love animals!
Someone who's childish and fun to be with... Silly and cute... I love men who are boyish...
He shouldn't be an alpha... He should love himself and all that... But I like men who are sensitive... So he shouldn't think feeling sad or even crying is a sign of weakness...
The game of love is mysterious. You tend to love someone who doesn't feel as much as you feel towards them. She lost another good person. Thank God this came to limelight prior to your marriage with her. However,she might not have been made for you. Move on. You will get someone better than her. Focus on your new lifestyle, expand on your knowledge, passion and career. Work towards a better you. Laugh hard and love freely. Don't just fall in love, first love yourself.
Please, I am interested in learning Cryptocurrency. Thanks.
RickSanchez: I'd like to start by saying I'm serving, Sorry if the story is all messed up as my mind is F'ed up right now.
I got into a corpers lodge which used to be a lounge. I didn't want to date anyone but this hoe kept disturbing me to. Gave in.
Usually I'm a crypto investor, I have money, I look good, I dress good. I'm not saying all these things to hype myself up but I'm okay.
Sexually I can last hours, I made her cum consistently. The only problem I have is delayed ejaculation. Which she complains about.
Now, I'm not the type to love hard as I'm already used to heartbreaks. So we dated and broke up after 4 months or so. I was okay with the breakup.
Only to find out she's been fucking around the whole time I was loving up, as she(in my mind) opened up to me about the guys that played her and broke her heart.
She goes to church frequently and if you see this girl outside you'd think she's a saint, she doesn't party, she doesn't usually drink and no smoking.
Anyway I found out that she'd be fucking her our fellow corper guys and was getting passed around, while still pretending she still loved me(after the breakup).
When I knew and she came to my side and I told her to go Bleep the guy she usually goes to she said she doesn't care.
This person who I thought had a conscience was probably a covert narcissist who wants male attention from anywhere she'll get it.
To be honest it pains me to say this but I felt foolish for actually loving the girl and started to doubt myself as a man.
I'm usually the one girls cheat on their guys with(when I was in uni) but this time around I got my share(after I became a good guy), it hit hard and it disgusted me how I got to know she was being pounded by other niggas.
Funny thing is now she doesn't hide it, she blows kisses to the nigga openly in everyone's presence.
Don't want to bitch all day about this but honestly it feels evil how someone can switch like the devil cause I had nothing but good intentions for her. And she not only did all that but boldly told people I was the one disturbing her life. Lol. It is well. I know it's the times we shared that's causing me to feel undeserved.
The one thing on my mind I Sha know is that at the end of the day I'm still an awesome dude, no matter how a hoe wants to pay me back I'll still make bank and get back out there. Thanks for reading and if you have things to add, both good or bad I'm willing to read through.
Addition ; wanted to marry her as I had enough money to and we shared(to my understanding) the same values and dreams. I doubt I'll ever fall for words or even actions of love again as I was genuinely convinced she was good.
I checked my NASIM portal, it is asking me to capture my fingerprints (also recorded APPLICANT under my name, rather than BENEFICIARY) but message from the code i dial says "You have not been chosen or so". I wonder the one that is right.
Please, i followed the instructions above and was told by 2442 (network) that I have been placed on broadcasting partial DND. I am kinda loss..... #30 has been collected.
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Education / Lead British International School, Abuja. A Good Step In The Right Direction by Ruuchiinaa: 10:10pm On Apr 23
I will run to mars to see if my adulthood over there will be real, not the scam of childhood 
